I (Bob's daughter, Kira Tomlin), created this memorial website to make a space for those who knew my father (family, friends, neighbors, coworkers, students, acquaintances) to share their own memory or message of love. For short messages, please leave a tribute below. If you have a longer message or remembrance to share, please write in the "Stories" area. Note 5/13: Thanks to all who have been submitting tributes, stories, and pictures! It's so good to see this and remember and appreciate Dad.
Tributes
Leave a tributeThinking of you on your birthday and how much knowing you meant to me.
I have immense gratitude for our unique connection! It let me see important things that I would have otherwise missed.
When I think of you now, I feel love and deep respect for your mind and your being.
I also think of Holly and Christopher and Leslie, sometimes, and wonder how their lives are. I hope that they are well and thriving!
I always wondered if Holly had been able to get you "the bread crumb trail" to my app Tree Builder (https://frameworker.wordpress.com/2008/08/01/treebuilder/) so that you could see your name in the About... box. But I guess that will have to be one of life's mysteries.
You remain in my thoughts and in my heart...always.
Much love,
Joel Norvell
frameworker at fastmail dot com
Love you always
Jani
Carol Olson on behalf of staff and students of Blue Ridge Educational Center.
-I have met so many students who grow up without a father, but your Dad, Mr. Robert Tomlin will be remembered in a world today showing his dedication as a loving husband and a father as I remember Mr. Tomlin would drop you off at St. John's Church Kira and say "I know she's in good hands" and then he would smile- love, CHBrogan
He was a very sharp, fun, loving, and energetic person. I have and always will associate him with shrimp - my favorite seafood, even after finding out about the "secret"! Not to mention photography, which I tried talking to him about even though I knew nothing! I hope that when I get to be as old as him, I will be as active as he was.
A man with an immense love of family and nature!
I loved you Daddy from the second I was born, and I'll love you forever! My sweet sweet Daddy you will be missed dearly in life, but you'll remain in my heart always! Love, Jani
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Remembering you on your birthday
This whole past week has been vibrant with autumn color. Unbelievable color actually! I wish you were here to share it with me!
During this week I remembered you so many times when driving through areas with golden trees lining the road, roads and woods filled with wet leaves, and passing by beautiful cemeteries with colorful old trees in them.
I miss you as always Daddy!
Love Jani
Thinking of you on your birthday Daddy!
So many scenes from both NY and PA in the last few days made me remember you and our drives throughmany forests, and mountains in New England as a child. Those are such happy memories for me. Thank you for giving me my love of nature, all things autumn, the mountains, and life!
I know we drove down many a road covered with wet leaves during a fall rain. I love the feel, the earthy scent, and the memories it gives me.
This photo is a day just like that.
I want to share it with you, as we shared it in our time together on this earth.
I love you Daddy!
Third anniversary of Daddy's passing
I have been thinking about this third anniversary of a Daddy passing away, for quite a while now. I wanted to do something that he would have done in spring to remember him and feel closer to him on this day.
I decided to go out to a local farm, and a local garden. As I looked at, walked through, and smelled the fresh green grass, saw the abundance of dandelions, and the newly bloomed Apple blossoms, I remembered Daddy and his love for all things beautiful in nature. The freshness, newness, and rebirth.
I remembered the beautiful gathering we all had in the mountains the day after he died, with our picnic and family service to celebrate his life.
It's funny, but for some reason, so many times recently I have felt like I wanted to call Daddy. Tell him some news, get his advice, or just remember the old times, forgetting for a fraction of a second that he isn't within reach of a phone call anymore.
I really miss Daddy, and I know you all do too!
I surely hope that we can all go to his favorite mountain overlook again sometime to be together as family, and to remember him!
I posted two photos of my walk on the farm, remembering Daddy. One of the green grass, dandelions, and apple trees. The other of Apple blossoms, which when he was alive, he liked to smell and sometimes even eat! :)
I miss you Daddy!