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 I (Bob's daughter, Kira Tomlin), created this memorial website to make a space for those who knew my father (family, friends, neighbors, coworkers, students, acquaintances) to share their own memory or message of love.  For short messages, please leave a tribute below.  If you have a longer message or remembrance to share, please write in the "Stories" area.  Note 5/13: Thanks to all who have been submitting tributes, stories, and pictures!   It's so good to see this and remember and appreciate Dad.

May 4, 2023
May 4, 2023
Missing you today Daddy. It’s such a beautiful spring day here, the kind you would have loved. Green grass, blue skies with puffy white clouds. The kind of day you would loved to go out in and do something out in nature. Love you always!
May 4, 2023
May 4, 2023
Bob, you came up in a conservation recently. I was talking with a friend about something that had occurred to her that was oddly unexplainable, I referenced you, and we concluded with the phrase you used to use: "Ahhh, one of the varied mysteries of God."
October 17, 2022
October 17, 2022
Happy Earth Birthday, Bob! To keep the tradition, the family went apple picking recently, and I thought of you. You would have enjoyed the gorgeous day and view of the mountains, lots of good crunchy apples! It felt good to remember you!
October 17, 2022
October 17, 2022
Remembering you on your birthday Daddy! It’s a very cold autumn day here, which makes me think of our Thanksgivings when I was young. I miss you still!
May 4, 2022
May 4, 2022
Dearest Bob, Glad to have this point of contact with you in virtual space. You remain in my heart and in my thoughts, always. Much love, Joel
October 17, 2021
October 17, 2021
Hey Bob,

Thinking of you on your birthday and how much knowing you meant to me.

I have immense gratitude for our unique connection! It let me see important things that I would have otherwise missed.

When I think of you now, I feel love and deep respect for your mind and your being.

I also think of Holly and Christopher and Leslie, sometimes, and wonder how their lives are. I hope that they are well and thriving!

I always wondered if Holly had been able to get you "the bread crumb trail" to my app Tree Builder (https://frameworker.wordpress.com/2008/08/01/treebuilder/) so that you could see your name in the About... box. But I guess that will have to be one of life's mysteries.

You remain in my thoughts and in my heart...always.

Much love,
Joel Norvell
frameworker at fastmail dot com
October 17, 2021
October 17, 2021
Happy Earth Birthday, Bob! Thinking of you on this super crisp, very windy, sunny autumn day -- a day you would really appreciate! ~Leslie~
May 6, 2021
May 6, 2021
Hi Daddy, I’ve been thinking about you for the last several days and came upon pictures of the Blue Ridge Mountains that were taken just after you passed away and at times since. I wish you were still here to enjoy your special place there. Spring is beautiful right now, the redbud trees are blooming. They make me think of you.
May 5, 2021
May 5, 2021
Hi Bob, I guess you know your family is expanding! I'm rooting for the next expansion to come on the day of the 17th next month in honor of you-know-who! And btw, how is you-know-who? :-)
May 5, 2020
May 5, 2020
Daddy, this time of year has rolled around again and I haven’t forgotten you at all, and oh how I wish you were still here with us. Times right now in the world are very difficult and I wish I had you here to talk to. Spring has sprung and so many of the usual beautiful flowers and sights are all around us. But also a strange new time that none of us has ever experienced. I know you predicted how times would change. I think things are happening and I miss your wisdom. I miss you!
Love you always
Jani
May 4, 2020
May 4, 2020
Oh, Bob, you would be loving our glorious spring with its splendid show of flowers, bright blue skies, and all the clear clean freshness blowing through today. Know that we think of you often, wishing you well on your journey, and are grateful for the time we spent with you. ~Leslie~
October 17, 2019
October 17, 2019
Bob, I looked at the calendar this morning and realized it was your Earth Birthday! I wondered what you were up to, hoping you were enjoying some grand new adventure! Take care and drop us a line sometime! Or maybe you do, when we notice 17 or 37's all the time! :-) ~Leslie~
October 17, 2017
October 17, 2017
Since the start of October this year, I've been thinking about you Daddy. Thinking about your birthday, and now it's here. You would have been 80 years old today. Today is starting off chilly with blue skies and bright sun. I plan to go out in search of colorful fall leaves and I'll be remembering you and how much you would have loved a day like today! I miss you Daddy! ❤️
October 17, 2017
October 17, 2017
Bob, as I was flying back from CA today, I had to watch a little of "Young Frankenstein" in your honor and also to hear you laugh during parts of it just as you did years ago. And I did -- it was a warm remembrance of your laugh that I liked so much! I hope your laughing wherever you are!
October 17, 2016
October 17, 2016
I'm thinking about you on your birthday, Daddy! I went to one of your favorite types of peaceful places today and sat under a big tree with bright yellow leaves! I miss you so much and love you forever!
October 19, 2015
October 19, 2015
We're remembering Mr. Tomlin on his birthday, and continue to miss him.

Carol Olson on behalf of staff and students of Blue Ridge Educational Center.
June 21, 2013
June 21, 2013
Dear Kira and Family-
-I have met so many students who grow up without a father, but your Dad, Mr. Robert Tomlin will be remembered in a world today showing his dedication as a loving husband and a father as I remember Mr. Tomlin would drop you off at St. John's Church Kira and say "I know she's in good hands" and then he would smile- love, CHBrogan
May 11, 2013
May 11, 2013
The staff and students at Blue Ridge Educational Center sorely miss Mr. Tomlin. We strongly feel both his absence and his presence as a colleague, teacher, tutor and friend. A gentle and brilliant man who touched many lives in our little corner of his world. His picture will be displayed at the school as a constant reminder of what he meant to us.
May 11, 2013
May 11, 2013
Daddy was always just one phone call away. We used to talk for an hour or more every time we got on the phone. We never really ended a conversation fully finished. So much more to be said. I miss talking with him so much! He always understood me, and I him! As each days passes I miss him more and more!
May 10, 2013
May 10, 2013
Mr. Tomlin was my algebra/geometry tutor. I saw him every Wednesday at Samuels Public Library. It was from his help that I can pass the class, and he was always able to make this subject a little easier for me. I am grateful for being able to work with him. He was a great teacher, and I will miss him greatly.
May 10, 2013
May 10, 2013
Nice work Kira!
He was a very sharp, fun, loving, and energetic person. I have and always will associate him with shrimp - my favorite seafood, even after finding out about the "secret"! Not to mention photography, which I tried talking to him about even though I knew nothing! I hope that when I get to be as old as him, I will be as active as he was.
May 9, 2013
May 9, 2013
I'll always remember the semester that you were my physics tutor. Our mutual love for the subject perpetuated our excitement to work together - not that it felt much like work. It has been a blessing to know you, and I'll carry your influence forever.
May 9, 2013
May 9, 2013
Daddy was an intense man with intense love for all around him. He was in touch with nature and found peace in being alone among the mountains. Thank you for passing that on to me Daddy!He never judged us when we made mistakes in life, instead he allowed us to grow and learn from our troubles. I will miss you Daddy, but will never forget the memories and lessons learned. Love,Cathy
May 9, 2013
May 9, 2013
Mr. Tomlin was a great guy and a great friend. he was always like a best friend from school and i am going to miss him. for all the times we, at B.R.E.C care about him so much and we will always treasure the moments we had together as a teacher and a great friend.- Dalton
May 8, 2013
May 8, 2013
Bob, you endeared all to you with your wonderfully gentle nature, your quiet intelligence, your grateful heart, & your easy laugh. We are so thankful to have had you as part of our family. To use an expression that you yourself were very fond of using, “Bless your heart.” May you rest in eternal peace.
May 8, 2013
May 8, 2013
A man known by his quiet strength and his dedication to his daughters; always making their goals and dreams available to them through his resources and time. Cielle, Kira, Carmelita .... I a praying for you and the transition of grieving, changes and adjustments you will go through. I love you, and you'll be continually in my thoughts.
May 7, 2013
May 7, 2013
Thank you Kira for creating such a special place for Daddy! As I watch the pictures of Daddy go by on the slide show it brings back so many memories and feelings of the truly wonderful man that he was!
A man with an immense love of family and nature!
May 7, 2013
May 7, 2013
This year I had the exquisite delight of two conversations with a new friend, Bob. Occasionally men listen well, and sometimes they speak well, but it a special delight for me to encounter a man that was accomplished at both. Our eyes quickly found each other and I am grateful for him.
May 7, 2013
May 7, 2013
A man with such deep emotions and strong heart that we all knew how much he loved us, as he showed us each in special ways!
I loved you Daddy from the second I was born, and I'll love you forever! My sweet sweet Daddy you will be missed dearly in life, but you'll remain in my heart always! Love, Jani

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May 4, 2023
May 4, 2023
Missing you today Daddy. It’s such a beautiful spring day here, the kind you would have loved. Green grass, blue skies with puffy white clouds. The kind of day you would loved to go out in and do something out in nature. Love you always!
May 4, 2023
May 4, 2023
Bob, you came up in a conservation recently. I was talking with a friend about something that had occurred to her that was oddly unexplainable, I referenced you, and we concluded with the phrase you used to use: "Ahhh, one of the varied mysteries of God."
October 17, 2022
October 17, 2022
Happy Earth Birthday, Bob! To keep the tradition, the family went apple picking recently, and I thought of you. You would have enjoyed the gorgeous day and view of the mountains, lots of good crunchy apples! It felt good to remember you!
Recent stories

Remembering you on your birthday

October 17, 2020
When I woke up this morning one of the first things I remembered was your birthday, Daddy.

This whole past week has been vibrant with autumn color. Unbelievable color actually!  I wish you were here to share it with me! 

During this week I remembered you so many times when driving through areas with golden trees lining the road, roads and woods filled with wet leaves, and passing by beautiful cemeteries with colorful old trees in them.

I miss you as always Daddy!

Love Jani

Thinking of you on your birthday Daddy!

October 18, 2019
I was thinking about you on your birthday Daddy, and I wanted to share with you and all of the family a photo from a drive in Allegany State Park in NY that I took yesterday on your birthday. 
So many scenes from both NY and PA in the last few days made me remember you and our drives throughmany forests, and mountains in New England as a child. Those are such happy memories for me. Thank you for giving me my love of nature, all things autumn, the mountains, and life! 
I know we drove down many a road covered with wet leaves during a fall rain. I love the feel, the earthy scent, and the memories it gives me. 
This photo is a day just like that. 
I want to share it with you, as we shared it in our time together on this earth. 
I love you Daddy!

Third anniversary of Daddy's passing

May 4, 2016

I have been thinking about this third anniversary of a Daddy passing away, for quite a while now. I wanted to do something that he would have done in spring to remember him and feel closer to him on this day.

I decided to go out to a local farm, and a local garden. As I looked at, walked through, and smelled the fresh green grass, saw the abundance of dandelions, and the newly bloomed Apple blossoms, I remembered Daddy and his love for all things beautiful in nature. The freshness, newness, and rebirth. 

I remembered the beautiful gathering we all had in the mountains the day after he died, with our picnic and family service to celebrate his life.

It's funny, but for some reason, so many times recently I have felt like I wanted to call Daddy. Tell him some news, get his advice, or just remember the old times, forgetting for a fraction of a second that he isn't within reach of a phone call anymore. 

I really miss Daddy, and I know you all do too!

I surely hope that we can all go to his favorite mountain overlook again sometime to be together as family, and to remember him! 

I posted two photos of my walk on the farm, remembering Daddy. One of the green grass, dandelions, and apple trees. The other of Apple blossoms, which when he was alive, he liked to smell and sometimes even eat! :)

I miss you Daddy! 



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