I've already posted 2 stories on Facebook, but would like to share my thoughts and words here as well.
I am so saddened and shocked by this tragedy....that I am still searching for the right words to descibe Russell Trounce's impact on my life, even during the 2 short years that I worked with him. He had this way of bringing out the best in people and I was no exception as I learned during the interview and hiring processes. At the time of my interview, I was a little over 4 months pregnant, coudn't really button my interview pants anymore and was surprised I could hide how nauseous I was feeling. Russ hired me! I was so excited when he offered me the job of working on the East Coast with Sheila.
I agonized and worried for days over having to tell him that I was pregnant and prayed that it would be okay. His response to me was something like this: "Congratulations, Elizabeth! A child is one of life's most precious and wonderful gifts. I am so very happy for you!" I was relieved yet surprised by his reaction. And, he was right, except that he failed to warn me that there are times when children don't always behave like precious gifts! He probably would have reminded me that those times may not seem precious, but they still are in one way or another. I think I must have spent a good part of my time with BGS pregnant! I remember that he had planned a team-building activity during one of our quarterly meetings: an ATV excursion. So, I said to him: "Russ, I am almost 6 months pregnant now. I don't think I should be participating in this activity." He replied with confidence: "Don't worry, Elizabeth, I called them to ask and they said it was perfectly fine." After I finished smiling to myself, I said to him: "Russ, please go home and ask your wife how she would feel about it." I don't know if he did but he arranged an alternate activity for the girls, as he did the 2nd time I was pregnant (spa day was my favorite). I still smile to myself when I think of or tell that story, and I think of him.
A handful of people come to mind whenever I am asked about previous employers and supervisors, but he is always at the top of my list. During interviews, I speak of the leadership and personal qualities which made him such an effective boss.13 years later, I still think of Russ often and tell stories to friends about my tme with BGS. He was also an amazing person. That was clear. Russ was among the most encouraging and compassionate bosses for whom I have had the pleasure of working, This is so rare. When my heart was breaking to have to leave William in the care of someone other than myself, Russ found a way for me to continue to be a part of his team in every way, but gave me the flexibility to be home with William at the same time. Tears roll down my cheeks (even 13 years later) as I think back to his understanding and support as my two beautiful children came into this world during my time at BGS.
I am confident that God has already entrusted him with a very special job up in heaven. I am blessed to have crossed paths with Russ, even for such a short period of time, and to have been a part of that wonderful team of people led by him. The impact he had on so many people is evident as I read through the messages being posted by his family, friends and colleagues, both past and present, near and far.
I am sending prayers and strength to his family today and in the months to come. I knew instantly that his family was the most important thing in the world him from the moment I read that email I spoke of above. I know that he will be missed by so very many people all over the world. I will miss him all over again every time I think of him.
A Sister friend of mine often reminds me to think this simple thought whenever I feel blessed: "Thank you, God."
