Wes, I know you are wishing you could take away all the grief from your family. You lived your life to the fullest, and I know you want them to do the same. God knows we all make mistakes, and I really made a big one when I pushed you and Delma out of my life. Thank you for forgiving me and thank you for the reminiscing we did afterwards. See you when it's time. I know you're in a good place.

Dad,
I was wondering if you might have some words of wisdom or advice that you might leave me with? I know that's a lot to ask under the circumstances but life hasn't gotten any easier down here, not that I thought or ever expected that it would. Been thinking about you quite a bit these days. I miss your voice. As I get older I feel closer and at the same time further away from you than ever.. because I can't hear you and yet I know your there.. waiting. We're all waiting for that day when we can see you and hear you. Meanwhile, I feel your presence within me like a memory of who I tried not to be but now yearn to become more like. I know now that being a Dad is often hard and heartbreaking and I've had it so easy compared to you. Miss you Dad. Still thinking of you and always love you! Your Son, Jeffrey

Thinking of you yesterday and today. I remember the promise I made you - I will do my best to follow through. Keep looking down on us, and give us a sign once in awhile ok?

Hey Dad, Wondering what your up to these days as your watching down over us all. Mom is quiet every now and then and then sometimes she's not at all. You how drama seems to always find it's way into our lives. I know much of it is created in our minds and amplified. Rosie says Hi! I miss you and our late nite talks.. Hope you can give me a hand with these coming holidays.. Love You

My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time,
I have beautiful memories of of a wonderful man, who was so kind and loving .I love you

My thoughts are with all of you at this difficult time.