Wow! Again we are here. I am so thankful to you. I wonder about all the dreams you had. All you talked about you wanted to REALLY do. We remember the loving kind mother you were and always will be but I realize how easy it is to be taken for granted. We had Many talks about your disappointments . I get it. Many times you wished you were not that strong. Everyone leaned on you but you had your dreams too. You fought for ours but…. Did you get yours? In an unbelievably selfish world where you try to be there for everyone but realize the ones you do nothing for are your real ride or die. They Stand with you through the storms of life. Ask how your kid is doing. Really want to know how you are. Show up when they don’t hear from you. But The ones you’d take a limb out for … well just expect you to do so. An Entitlement that never ceases to amaze. People remember you for what you did for them. And then they forget.
Your sacrifices have taught me two things.
Not what you’d expect. But I learned anyways. And that is what I thank you for. My life has taken a whole new dimension because of that. I now surround myself with people who will be there for me too. I methodically pick and choose. Vet, then keep permanently. It is a two way thing now.. Has to be. Never again seek out those who don’t seek me. It is intentional. Now I get it. It was a hard turn around for me. But well worth the lessons God had been trying to teach me from the get go. I Ignored the people God sent into my life because I felt I wasn’t obligated . But now I turn to them. And I almost missed Gods providence. The tribe He sent to hold my hands up. . It feels good to be treated as I should. Took a while. But I finally learnt. All you said makes sense now. Your tears are not in vain. I learnt.
Ever loving you.
Vivian

I will always LOVE you even as you're in HEAVEN smiling at US you were a Grandmother And A QUEEN from HEAVEN to Us all

GOD Bless Your Good Heart ❤️ Forever In Our Hearts Mind And Soul
I Know You're In Heaven Smiling Down On Us And Praying For Us
GOD Bless You My MOTHER

22 years just like yesterday.
We miss you fondly.
Rest on Queen of Hearts.!!!

Happy birthday on the other side mommy!!!
Love you and miss you. Funny, but now I see and understand so much more.
Always indebted to you for your fierce love for your children. Only thing is you put yourself last. That shouldn't have been so.

Mummy, I can't forget your calm posture. You were always ready to listen. You are one in a million. I have not eaten any chocolate cake that taste better than yours. You will always be in my heart. Continue to rest at the bosom of our Lord. Adieu mummy.

This is so very touching!

Tom has told me what a great and kind woman mum Theressa was. A strong and an amazing woman who loved and cared so much for her family. Rest in perfect peace ma, and may your memories endure forever through the gift of your children and family.

To a gentle soul, God bless you!

Rest on mama Tessy , You remain ever in our hearts our Love for you will remain aglow . We will meet at the feet of our saviour nd never to path no more . Sweet mum

She was a mother an aunty a helper an Angel and a family and now she has become a saint in heaven in JESUS CHRIST Name Amen

We shared the same birthday. Continue to rest in peace ma.

Bless you mom

The best Mum ever...!!
I love you to the moon and back Mum.

Lighting a candle today to let you know that 20 years later, you are still very much in our thoughts and hearts with much love.

Love you ma!!!!

Wow - what a day spent in your loving memory. Vivian, Chine, Nane and Tom - you are so blessed to have a mum that loved and still loves you all so very dearly. What an honour!
Stay blessed as we continue to remember you in the most delightful way.
Love and blessings always.

I can't believe it's already 15 years! Oh my! That's what I kept mumbling to myself and to all those around me.
What a blessing to have known you and felt like an extended member of your family every time I visited Vivian during our young adult years. I have some wonderful memories of those times but I must say that the one that stands out the most was the mega-wedding we ALL attended in Jos. I remember the concern you showed when I did not arrive until the very next day, especially when I thought no one would notice. I also remember how good Vivs, Juanny and myself felt throughout the day in the matching outfit you made for us. We may not wear it today but back then, we felt like 3 super-stars indeed :) 
With strong thoughts of you and a deep feeling of your presence all of a sudden these past few weeks, I know for sure that you are very much in the present, here and now... and nothing can ever take that away.
You are so lovingly remembered. God bless.

Aunty Tessy Oh:

You did happen to be my favorite Aunty because of your ever smiling and can't say NO to anything we ask for........I feel blessed to have had you in my life as i have actual recollection of the first time i met you, your wedding day and many other fantastic fond memories. 

I miss visiting you in your Festac Restaurant with the name "Take One; Take Two" which fascinated me. I could go on and on with endless fond memories....but its Best to say how much i miss you so......

REST IN PEACE DEAREST AUNTY T'

Auntie, I remember how you encourage me when we met for the first time ,your warm welcome to the family, your kind gesture, always full of life ,you always called me Omo Yoruba,that I really missed , you were a rare gem, a true mother that gave all for what she believed ,you did great and your sacrifice for your children are not in vain, you are greatly missed by all and your memories lingers on ,continue to rest in the bosom of your maker.

Mummy2, u n i shared something special that even ur real children never knew. I shared with u things I couldn't share with my own mum and when u left, heavy hearts and tear-filled eyes was all that remained to mourn ur departure. Remembering u today is even more painful as my own mother has left me too and now there's no one to call mother. I miss u dearly and luv u, but God luvs u more. May u continue to rest in d bossom of d Lord.

Though I never met you, I heard the story of your passing from my precious friend Vivian. I know that these momentary troubles and pain are nothing compared to the glory that awaits us above. So I draw comfort from knowing that you now dwell in an all-surpassing glory that cannot compare with the grief of your departure. Rest on in His loving arms. You are warmly remembered.

Aunty Theressa you are greatly missed by your loved once. My everlasting memories of you is your beautiful smile and how lucky Uncle George is to have found such a kind and beautiful woman. Your children and grand children miss you. Vivian thank you for this tribute to Aunty. God bless.

I was almost in tears yesterday. I had no idea why. It wasn't until night time that it dawned on me that another anniversary was round the corner. It will be15 years, mommy. Just like yesterday. It is well. I love you and miss you. Your sacrifices for your children and prayers are not in vain. You ARE (not were) the greatest mother ever!!!