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Vera Ruth Benne was born April 7, 1930, to Henry and Alma (Hinze) Zieg at Neligh Nebraska.  She was baptized May 11, 1930, at Grace Lutheran Church, Neligh, by Rev. F. W. Rex.  Vera was confirmed April 18, 1943, at St. Peters Lutheran Church, Scribner, NE by Rev. O. W Wehrmann.  Her confirmation verse was Psalm 37:4. Vera graduated from Scribner High School in 1948 and was united in marriage to Don Benne, July 3, 1949 at St. Peters, Scribner, by Rev. Wehrmann.

In 1949, Vera transferred from St. Peter’s Lutheran Church, Scribner, to St. Paul Lutheran Church in West Point where she taught Sunday School and was a member of LWML. Sh was also a charter member of the West Point Fireman's Auxiliary.

Vera loved her family and being a homemaker, sewing and making holidays special. She made quilts for each of her grandchildren, loved doing crafts, ceramics, jigsaw puzzles, and playing cards.  Most of all she loved her Savior, Jesus.



Donald Ralph Benne was born January 31, 1928 in West Point to Ralph Frederich and Martha Gesine (Wiechmann) Benne. He was baptized into the faith on February 26, 1928 and confirmed on April 6, 1941 by Rev. A. R. Ed Oelschlaeger at St. Paul Lutheran Church in West Point. While in high school, Don worked at Ortmeier’s Feeds, then at age 16 started work with Omaha Cold Storage in West Point where he traveled to farms to collect eggs. In 1946, Don graduated from West Point Public School. He worked for a time at a West Point gas station, then at Farmer’s Union Store for three years. On July 3, 1949, he was united in marriage to Vera Ruth Zieg at St. Peter's Lutheran Church in Scribner. They had met at the roller skating rink and loved to waltz on skates. In 1951, he began his 40 year career with Norco Feeds in West Point, the last 23 years as manager, retiring in 1991.  Don and Vera moved to Colonial Courts in Beemer in January 2012 and then moved to Colonial Haven in January 2015. 

In retirement he enjoyed driving vehicles for Paus Motors for several years.  Don was an avid baseball fan.  He caught for the West Point Legion team, West Point town team, played semi-pro baseball in the late 40’s & 50’s and umpired until the early 60’s. In the late 40’s he had an offer to play for the St. Louis Cardinal’s farm team, but declined. 

From 1949 to 1974 he served on the West Point Volunteer Fire Department, serving the entire 25 years on Company 2. He served as fire chief from 1962-1966.  He was a lifetime member of St. Paul Lutheran Church where he served several terms as Elder and President of St. Paul Lutheran Church. He sang in the church choir for 50 years, and was a charter member of the Cuming Choraliers.

July 13, 2015
July 13, 2015
I am so sorry to learn of Vera's passing. I know that she was so greatly loved by her family and friends. She will be greatly missed. 
My love and condolences to her husband Don, her children, grand children, great grandchildren and her brothers. May the wonderful memories you carry of Vera soften your grief in the days ahead.
March 5, 2015
March 5, 2015
Vera will be greatly missed by all who knew her. Her smile seemed to always be present. Prayers of comfort for the family.
March 3, 2015
We are so sorry for your loss. We know she was loved by her family and friends. Vera was a gentle soul that displayed her strong Christian faith throughout her entire life. May God comfort your entire family as you grieve her passing.
March 3, 2015
March 3, 2015
Vera was a wonderful caring person. She was loved by many. She will be greatly missed. We all love you Aunt Vera. Prayers for the Family.

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July 13, 2015
July 13, 2015
I am so sorry to learn of Vera's passing. I know that she was so greatly loved by her family and friends. She will be greatly missed. 
My love and condolences to her husband Don, her children, grand children, great grandchildren and her brothers. May the wonderful memories you carry of Vera soften your grief in the days ahead.
March 5, 2015
March 5, 2015
Vera will be greatly missed by all who knew her. Her smile seemed to always be present. Prayers of comfort for the family.
March 3, 2015
We are so sorry for your loss. We know she was loved by her family and friends. Vera was a gentle soul that displayed her strong Christian faith throughout her entire life. May God comfort your entire family as you grieve her passing.
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Written for the 40th wedding anniversary celebration of Don and Vera Benne.

July 10, 2018

In the beginning…the beginning being 1948…God created…

Two teenagers, starry-eyed, full of hopes and dreams, but both wearing roller skates. And God said, “Let there be love”, and behold, it was so.

In 1949, Don & Vera hung up their roller skates in exchange for a wedding gown and a new double breasted suit, and they stood before the altar of God, and promised to love and cherish ‘til death do us part. And behold, it was good.

And they set up house; well, it wasn’t a house. It wasn’t an apartment either. It was an upstairs flat without a private bathroom, but they called it home. And they furnished it with love.

In August, 1950, God blessed them with a child. And Vera brought forth her firstborn son, while Don was out playing baseball. And they named him Russell. And God said, “Let there be love”, and behold, it was so.

They rented a house, and furnished it with early attic, hand-me-downs, and love.

In 1952, a daughter was born, and they named her Debbie. And God said, “Let there be love”, and behold, it was so.

And they moved again; bought a house. Not three bedroom, just three room. With fruit trees, and a huge garden, and bridal wreath bushes for playing hide-and-seek, a chicken coop behind the garage, and a dog named Trixie. And they furnished their new home…with love.

In 1956 another daughter was born. They named her Joyce. And God said “Let there be love”, and behold, it was so. And the doctor said “Don you’ll never get a baseball team this way”!

In 1959, a son was born. They named him Mark. And God said. “Let there be love”, and behold, it was so.

In 1960 the floods came and filled the house, and the water receded, and the mud stayed. And they replaced the waterlogged furniture, and cleaned and scrubbed and scoured and moved back in. And they refurnished their home … with love.

And there were chicken pox, and measles, a few broken bones and stitches along the way. And catching fireflies at night, and fishing at the lake with mom always catching the most fish with her bamboo pole, and raking huge piles of leaves in the fall, and a rose bush in the front yard in the spring. And the years were lean, but rich in love.

And the kids grew, and filled the house to overflowing, and Don and Vera said “We need to move”. So they built a house, their dream house, with three bedrooms and lots of closets. And on a cold winter day in 1963 they filled their new home with all their earthly possessions, and four noisy kids, and furnished their home … with love.

And the Lord said “Look at that room! I’ll bless them once again!” And He sent them a son; they named him Bruce. And God said, “Let there be love”, and behold it was so.

And there was another dog, named Traveler, and two calves to raise each spring, a horse named King, rabbits and chickens, and even some baby ducks one year. The ducks were Bruce’s. He cried when dad had them butchered.

And mom cried too. For Bruce.

And we went sledding in the winter, and played family baseball in the summer. And Grandpa and Grandma lived next door. We had our family picnics under the big shade trees.

And in their spare time, dad fought fires, and mom taught Sunday school.

And in 1969 Russell graduated from High School, packed his bags, and went to school in Milford.

And Bruce packed his schoolbag, and went to kindergarten.

And the first 20 years were over… overflowing… with love.

 In 1971 Russell graduated from school in Milford, joined the navy, and left for California.

And Debbie graduated from high school, and left to attend college in Kansas.

The following year Russ returned home to marry Kathy Ortmeier. And God said, “Let there be love for the in-laws too”, and behold, it was so. Then Russ took his Navy duffel bag, and his new bride, and left for Okinawa.

In 1974 Joyce graduated from high school and went to work and Debbie graduated from college and went to Michigan.

1976 was the year we broke Dad’s bank account. In April, Joyce married Dennis Suhr and set up  house across the street. And God said, “Let there be love”, and behold, it was so.

The same year Debbie brought home a bearded stranger from Michigan. And in September she and Jim Kirsch were married: then returned to Michigan to live. And God said, “Another in-law? Let there be love”, and behold, it was so.

1976 also brought the first grandchild. And mom was about to start a new hobby… making baby quilts!

And in 1977, Mark graduated from high school and started school in Milford.

In 1978 Mom and Dad flew to Spain to visit Russ & Kathy, and do some sight-seeing. While back home, Mark wrecked the family car.

In 1979 Debbie and Jim gave up the city life and moved back to Nebraska… Mark graduated from Milford, and two weeks later married Karen Throener. And God said, “Another? Let there be love”, and behold, it was so.

In 1982 Bruce graduated from high school and attended college in Seward. Finally, an empty nest! But there were also, already, 7 grandchildren!

In 1983 Russ and Kathy were living in London, England. Mom and Dad took a trip to see them, along with Buckingham Palace, Parliment, and Westminster Abbey.

1986, Bruce graduated from college and moved to California. Dad once told us, “move far enough away so we have somewhere to go on vacation”. Dad, we tried. From Michigan, to Spain, to Texas, to England, and this year, to California.

Well Dad, Mom, 40 years ago, did you dream it would be like this. 40 years of living in West Point?

38 years with Norco Feeds?

There are five kids,

And four in-laws,

And 12 grandchildren.

The kids are all gone, but all the closets are still full.

Dad never did get his ball team.

But we did get a wonderful home to grow up in.

A home full of love.

Thanks, Mom and Dad, for behold, it was very good.

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