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*** PLEASE CLICK ON THE "HIS LIFE" TAB (above) FOR INFORMATION ON DONATING TO THE GRENADA HOSPITAL FACELIFT PROJECT**      (please scroll down, the information and letters are below on the page)


Dear Family and Friends,

A 'Celebration of Life' Memorial Mass for Alec is scheduled in Grenada as follows:

SUNDAY, 8th SEPTEMBER 2013 (his actual birthday)  at  4:00 PM
Blessed Sacrament R.C. Church
Grand Anse, St. George's - GRENADA
Parish Priest:  Fr. Clifton Harris, O.P.

I urge you to share these details with those you know in Grenada who may wish to attend.

I received a letter  from the Ministry of Health sanctioning the proposed project to be funded in memory of Alec.  Next month I will be meeting with Mrs. Ann David-Antoine, Advisor to the Minister of Health, to see how best the funds collected to-date can be put to use.

Following various enquiries regarding donations to fund this facelift project at the General Hospital in St. George's, Grenada, and given that this is a one-time funded project and not an on-going memorial fund, it is too intricate (and not necessary) to set up a foundation specific to this.

The easiest way was to open a separate United Nations Federal Credit Union (UNFCU) account where deposits can be made directly (see the "his life" tab of this site regarding banking info for direct deposit).  Alternatively, checks can be made to my name for deposit to that specific account, indicating in the memo "In memory of Alec Telesford".

Please feel free to share with others you believe may be interested in supporting this project in commemoration of Alec, and to the benefit of a cause in his beloved homeland. 

Thank you for the continuing outpouring of love, caring and support that you have shown to our family during this difficult time, and I so look forward to seeing those of you who can make it to the service on September 8th.

With thanks and one love,
Debbie

 

 

NY SERVICE DETAILS:

Monday, June 24th, 2013 

St. Augustines Episcopal Church -
4301 Avenue D, Brooklyn, NY 11203  

Viewing -  4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. 

Tribute - 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m.

Service - 7:00 p.m. - 8:30 p.m. 

 

Tuesday, June 25th, 2013 

St. Augustines Episcopal Church - 
4301 Avenue D, Brooklyn, NY 11203 

Viewing -  9:00 a.m. - 10:00 a.m. 

Committal Service - 10:00 a.m. 

Burial - immediately following at Canarsie Cementary

 

The family requests that, in lieu of flowers, donations to be given in aid of St. George’s General Hospital, Grenada.


September 8, 2022
September 8, 2022
Happy Heavenly Birthday dear Alec ~ on what would have been your 76th birthday. May you continue to Rest in Heavenly Peace. 
June 17, 2022
June 17, 2022
It's 9 years and I always remember your joy of living and dedication as a father and a friend. May you continue to Rest in Heavenly Peace my dear Alec.
June 17, 2021
June 17, 2021
Thinking of you on this 8th Anniversary of your passing and praying for your continued eternal rest and peace ~Debbie
September 8, 2020
September 8, 2020
Happy Heavenly Birthday. May you continue to R.I.P
July 1, 2020
July 1, 2020
My dear Alec,
Words are not enough to express how much you are missed.
Those we love don't go away, they walk beside us every day.
Unseen, unheard, but always nearby. So loved, so missed, so very dear.
With much love and appreciation for your true friendship.
Mo
June 17, 2020
June 17, 2020
In memory and celebration of someone who made this world a brighter and better place. Alec, on this 7th Anniversary of your passing, may you continue to rest in Heavenly peace.
September 8, 2019
September 8, 2019
Happy Birthday in Heaven Alec.  Continue to Rest In Peace.  ❤️. 09/08/2019. 
June 17, 2019
June 17, 2019
A Life that touches others goes on forever. May you continue to RIP dear Alec ~ Debbie
June 17, 2018
June 17, 2018
Can’t believe five years have gone by. Today ~ Father’s Day 2018 ~ we honor the truly devoted, loving father, husband, brother and friend you were, and will forever cherish the beautiful memories and fun times your vibrant personality exemplified.
R.I.P. dear Alec ‘T’.
June 17, 2017
June 17, 2017
Honoring an angel today - a devoted and loving husband, father and friend. Four years have passed and we cherish the beautiful memories. Eternal rest be yours ~ Debbie
June 17, 2017
June 17, 2017
Uncle ALEC, what wonderful cherished memories I have of your big love and generosity. An angel now with Gary
September 8, 2016
September 8, 2016
Thinking about you today on your Birthday. 09/08/2016.  The party is getting bigger and bigger up there, May your Soul continue to Rest in Peace, and may Our Blessed Mother Mary, whose Birthday you share, take your cares and worries of this world, to her son Jesus Christ. God Bless you forever.
September 7, 2016
September 7, 2016
You are thought of in silence and often we speak your name, all I have now are memories and your picture in a frame, but God has you in His arms and you are without pain.
When someone you love becomes a memory, the memory becomes a treasure. In loving memory of your 70th Birthday – May the Angels sing to you the most joyous chorus of “Happy Birthday” - (8 Sept. 1946).
Rest peacefully,
Always, Debbie
June 16, 2016
June 16, 2016
Remembering the good times and sweet memories that we shared together. Alec, you’ll always hold a special place in my heart.
I know that you and Gary will always be my angels looking over me.
May you have eternal rest and may the perpetual light shine upon you.
Forever missed, Debbie
June 18, 2015
June 18, 2015
You have RISEN IN PEACE My Brother-in-law.... chatting with Mama and your own Mom...now.... laughing your infectious laugh.

I know you're smiling down at us...understanding more than folks know you understand.   SMILING  on all the WELL-DESERVED love and affection Debbie is now receiving,  "My Boobie in whom I am well pleased" :)  because she was a devoted Wife,  kept your Dignity in tact, right down to the end, taking GOOD care of you, at your bedside.
What strength, what courage.

You were/are Blessed. Keep looking down on us and Blessing us..  Forever loved and missed.
June 17, 2015
June 17, 2015
Dearest Alec: Your face we shall always remember, your voice we shall always recall -- to us they're very precious, because they are of you. Our hearts are filled with memories of happy years spent together and shall remain as treasured souvenirs. These memories keep you close to me and memories last forever.
From pain to peace, from home to heaven -- May God grant you eternal rest.
~~~ Love in death lets us see,
    What love in life should really be! ~~~
June 17, 2015
June 17, 2015
Those we love can never be more than a thought away.......
for as long as there's a MEMORY, they live in our hearts to stay.
Until we meet again my dear Alec.... With much love! Mo & Roy Rinc
June 17, 2015
June 17, 2015
Alec,

Missing you daily dear Friend, Copley Avenue hasn't been the same without you. May you continue to rest in peace.

"DOC" & Armetta McQueen
June 17, 2015
June 17, 2015
Still can't believe that Two years ago today, My father was called back up to heaven!
Daddy, you were everything a girl could ever want in a father, a best friend, a role model and an example to follow! I miss everything about you: your infectious smile, your words of wisdom, your sayings, your dancing, your Djing in the basement, I even miss the shape of your hands! I miss the strong sense of family, morality, honesty and integrity that you lived by and raised our family with!
I can't believe it's been two years since you left us, as your absence still hurts like it happened yesterday! 
Time is supposed to be kind and help ease the sense of loss & emptiness .....but i think he has (in daddy's words) "fallen down on the job", because today I miss you more than ever!!!! And time has not been able to ease or fill the hole left by your departure! 
I know you look down and protect us everyday! It's like I can feel you around your munchkins whenever they are about to get hurt! I hear you in my head when I'm trying to make decisions, and I feel you in my heart when I'm happy or sad! Daddy... I miss you so very much.....love you always and forever! Your daughter Chantal
September 8, 2014
September 8, 2014
Today I am reminded again that one of our Virgo is missing, but never far from our thoughts.
June 17, 2014
June 17, 2014
One year today -- the hardest journey I have yet experienced!

My darling Alec: May you always walk in sunshine and God's love around you flow, for the happiness and laughter you gave, and the many lives you touched in your own special way. Although we are apart, your spirit lives within me, forever in my heart. It broke my heart to lose you, but you did not go alone -- a part of me went with you the day God called you home. A million times I've needed you, a million times I've cried. If love could only have saved you, you never would have died. You left so many memories, your love is still my guide -- I know you'll always be at my side.

          "Death leaves a heartache difficult to heal;
        Love leaves sweet memories no one can steal".

                                         Always and Forever.
March 9, 2014
March 9, 2014
While sitting on my balcony tonight, a bright star stood out among the thousands, and a warm feeling came over me and I knew it was you Alec, shining so bright and sending all of us some love.
Miss you so much.
Mo Rinc
March 8, 2014
March 8, 2014
Mrs. Debbie Telesford: What a great tribute to an honorable man and my friend and partner at the Waterfront Commission from 1973-1978. I will always remember Alec's smile and wonderful accent. We shared memorable times with Cpt. Stockey and of course Alec's brother Eric.
September 29, 2013
September 29, 2013
Today, I was reflecting and admiring you and Debbie in my wedding photo and wanted to say how much I miss you and also thought
"IF LOVE COULD HAVE SAVED YOU, YOU WOULD HAVE LIVED
FOREVER"
Until we meet again, With much Mo.
September 15, 2013
September 15, 2013
What a lovely tribute to Alec at his memorial service last Sunday at Grand Anse, Grenada. Debbie and children - you did him proud. May God continue to bless and strengthen you in the days and years ahead.
September 4, 2013
September 4, 2013
Dear Debbie and Family.
Sorry very sorry to hear of Alec's passing. He was a wonderful and honorable man. i truly enjoyed my time with him on the waterfornt and after. His warmth and humor were contagious. May he rest in peace in the hands of the Almighty.
June 30, 2013
June 30, 2013
My Sincere Condolences to Alec Telesford's Family: Sad to hear of his passing .Thanking him for his Military Service to the U.S ,New York P.D ,GBSS,As the former National Security advisor for Grenada and many more I'm not aware of.Gone too soon but never would he be forgotten.Remain Strong
June 28, 2013
June 28, 2013
My dear Alec. I was so sadden when I heard of your passing, you will be missed. May your soul rest in Peace. My sincere condolences to your wife and children also to Eric and Gorden.
Rest in Peace my friend
June 27, 2013
June 27, 2013
Dear Debbie, My sincere condolences. May you be comforted by the outpouring of love surrounding you and may the soul of Alec rest in peace. Marvin
June 27, 2013
June 27, 2013
To The Family,Of quiet birds in circled flight,I am The soft stars that shine at night,Do not stand at my grave side and cry; I am not there.I did not die.
love always. Ingrid Hulse
June 25, 2013
June 25, 2013
Although, I did not get very many chances to talk to him, I'm glad for the times that I did have to benefit from his wisdom and experience. It's something I really appreciated and I was glad to be able to express my gratitude before his passing. I'll always remember him.
June 25, 2013
June 25, 2013
You will be dearly missed. Your smile, your laughter, your golden voice,your "always being there" will never be forgotten.
Rest in Peace Alec T.
Our prayers and thoughts are with you and your family, Debbie.
Mark & Cheche
June 25, 2013
June 25, 2013
May the good Lord comfort you in his arms and keep you safe till we meet again. A big brother you were to me and an everlasting family friend. I remember the cherished moments I spent with you in your studio and the first Grenadian press conference you took me to in NY. There were so many memorable moments spent through your life's journey. Thank you for your wonderful spirit. RIP
June 25, 2013
June 25, 2013
Dear Debbie and Family,

Please accept our condolences on the passing of Alec. His love for his homeland and his contribution to Culture and Tourism is well known over the years. I pray that his positive memories will give you the strength to cope during this difficult time.
June 25, 2013
June 25, 2013
Dear Debbie and Family, 
Please accept my most heartfelt sympathy for the loss of your beloved Alec. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.  Alec was a kind, well admired and wonderful man, and he will remain in our hearts forever. God's Grace, peace and blessings. Love, Gloria
June 25, 2013
June 25, 2013
Dear Debbie and Family, We are Praying for you. God shall wipe away all tears from your eyes. May his soul rest in peace. He will be greatly missed.
Love Treasure & Andre & the girls.
June 25, 2013
June 25, 2013
My deepest sympathy to the Telesford family on the passing on Mr. Alec. He will be missed. Please know that you are in my prayers
June 25, 2013
June 25, 2013
Uncle Alec was truly a wonderful human being - generous, caring, thoughtful and oh what a sense of humour! His love for family and friends was simply inspiring. Thank you for being such a wonderful example to me and so many others. Our love and deepest sympathy go out to you aunty Debbie and family. Love you always.
June 24, 2013
June 24, 2013
So saddened to learn of Alec's passing - he will be greatly missed. His contribution to his country and fellowmen will forever remain in our hearts and in the memories of his family. To Debbie and the entire family, my deepest condolences. Friends in the UK have asked that I convey their condolences and God's richest blessings.
June 24, 2013
June 24, 2013
Dear Debbie, I am very saddened for the loss of your beloved Alec. My deepest condolences for you and your family. I will always be there to console you when you need me. Alec will live in your heart forever. Love, Terry
June 24, 2013
June 24, 2013
Let us take solace as Alec sails in the heavenly waters bringing laughter and keeping his companeros in stitches.
Let us celebrate a life and time well spent.
The void created if we had not crossed paths would be immeasurable.
George and Margaret
June 24, 2013
June 24, 2013
Farewell dear friend. Those of us who were privileged to have known you up close and personal know that the lights of this life shine less brightly because you, a true friend, loving son, brother, father and above all dedicated husband no longer smiles or laughs with us. However a new powerful voice is added to the team of announcers at the "Pearly Gates". Again farewell. Preston & Yvonne.
June 24, 2013
June 24, 2013
My sincere condolences to the family. Alec was a great person and friend. He will be dearly missed. He is at peace now. Special prayers go out to you Debbie during this time of sorrow.
Love,
Paula
June 24, 2013
June 24, 2013
It's just a matter of time, till we meet again. Until then.... I will miss you with fond memories of all the great moments we shared as family. Love you and all. Giselle Trujillo
June 24, 2013
June 24, 2013
to a man whose love and enjoyment of life we truly admired.           Now enjoy the best of your journey, john and kathleen
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A Letter to Daddy…

July 2, 2013

DADDY….

There is nothing I'm going to say today that you didn't already know to be true, but it seems fitting to tell you one last time out loud.

Alec Telesford, my father, was nothing short of the most amazing dad a girl could ask for, and when we walked into a room together...it wasn't uncommon for there to be a feeling that conveyed “That girl got the last daddy in the world”… and thats because it was true...i did in fact get the last daddy in the world!

The pride I feel when I think about you overwhelms me with joy and happiness every morning I open my eyes.  And I am forever blessed to have had you for a father.  A man of honor and respect that has thought me so many things simply by example.
Always honorable, truthful, unpretentious, giving, kind and full of unconditional love.  You showed me the example of what a man should be, so when it was time to pick a life partner, id know what that looked like….( and I think I did pretty good, as Keith mirrors what I saw in you in so many ways).  You set an example for how I should raise my sons, leaving behind so many lessons I can pass on to them to make them men of righteousness.  My favorite being...”Daughter...You cannot be Wrong and Strong”  as you'd often say to me when I being was being stubborn about something I had done wrong…. Cant count the amount of times I say that to your munchkins...and they are only 2!
I will miss every little thing about you… to name a few... the way you would say, “ya ya ya” when you had had enough of whatever it is was going on or when you were being harassed by one of us! When I would say something smart and you'd say “ Ja, nice to see my college money at work!” or “yes Chubs...Yuh moved to the head of the Class!
Your infectious laugh, especially when you had just heard a super corny joke you couldn't wait to retell us! And your ever growing uniform collection of Rugby shirts from my HS days, that gained new life in your closet!

My heart hurts that you are no longer here with us, for I'm still that little girl that needs her daddy, but I know that even if I don't understand it, the good Lord needed you more.  I take comfort and pride in who I am today ….thanks to you daddy! And I know that you’ll continue to guide my thoughts, my heart and my mind from up above!  

My heart will forever be with yours,
Your one and only daughter
Chantal

A Poem for Alec

June 26, 2013
by Mo Rinc

In Loving Memory of Alec

It's really not farewell, my dear friend
But just a last Good-Bye,
For memories live forever
I treasure mine with pride.

Father, Husband, Brother and Friend
You were the very best,
When other names are mentioned
You'll always top the rest.

Grenada, the land that you so loved
Saltfish and bake, roti and curry,
Jump up and wine down
Wished for a miracle so you won't go in a hurry.

You have taken a new journey
You have gone the last long mile,
And when your name is spoken
It will be spoken with a big smile.

Missed by everyone, you'll always be
You are heaven's own ally,
It is really not farewell, dear friend,
But just a last Good-Bye.

Will always hold you dear in my heart.  Until we meet again . . .
Peace and Love,  Mo

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