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*** PLEASE CLICK ON THE "HIS LIFE" TAB (above) FOR INFORMATION ON DONATING TO THE GRENADA HOSPITAL FACELIFT PROJECT**      (please scroll down, the information and letters are below on the page)


Dear Family and Friends,

A 'Celebration of Life' Memorial Mass for Alec is scheduled in Grenada as follows:

SUNDAY, 8th SEPTEMBER 2013 (his actual birthday)  at  4:00 PM
Blessed Sacrament R.C. Church
Grand Anse, St. George's - GRENADA
Parish Priest:  Fr. Clifton Harris, O.P.

I urge you to share these details with those you know in Grenada who may wish to attend.

I received a letter  from the Ministry of Health sanctioning the proposed project to be funded in memory of Alec.  Next month I will be meeting with Mrs. Ann David-Antoine, Advisor to the Minister of Health, to see how best the funds collected to-date can be put to use.

Following various enquiries regarding donations to fund this facelift project at the General Hospital in St. George's, Grenada, and given that this is a one-time funded project and not an on-going memorial fund, it is too intricate (and not necessary) to set up a foundation specific to this.

The easiest way was to open a separate United Nations Federal Credit Union (UNFCU) account where deposits can be made directly (see the "his life" tab of this site regarding banking info for direct deposit).  Alternatively, checks can be made to my name for deposit to that specific account, indicating in the memo "In memory of Alec Telesford".

Please feel free to share with others you believe may be interested in supporting this project in commemoration of Alec, and to the benefit of a cause in his beloved homeland. 

Thank you for the continuing outpouring of love, caring and support that you have shown to our family during this difficult time, and I so look forward to seeing those of you who can make it to the service on September 8th.

With thanks and one love,
Debbie

 

 

NY SERVICE DETAILS:

Monday, June 24th, 2013 

St. Augustines Episcopal Church -
4301 Avenue D, Brooklyn, NY 11203  

Viewing -  4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. 

Tribute - 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m.

Service - 7:00 p.m. - 8:30 p.m. 

 

Tuesday, June 25th, 2013 

St. Augustines Episcopal Church - 
4301 Avenue D, Brooklyn, NY 11203 

Viewing -  9:00 a.m. - 10:00 a.m. 

Committal Service - 10:00 a.m. 

Burial - immediately following at Canarsie Cementary

 

The family requests that, in lieu of flowers, donations to be given in aid of St. George’s General Hospital, Grenada.


June 24, 2013
June 24, 2013
Dear Debbie and family,
Please accept our deepest sympathy! Our thoughts and prayers are with you.  May Alec's soul rest in peace and may the great memories bring you consolation!   Marie and Francis Gregoire
June 24, 2013
June 24, 2013
"Simple, humble and easy going" - Alec. I have not known you very well but admired your warmth and simplicity looking over the fence. Your presence has lifted the neighborhood and would miss seeing you picking the sour-sop in the middle of the lawn. Sleep sweetly Alec! To Debbie, Alec will not want you to grieve but to live with the happy memories that you both shared.
June 23, 2013
June 23, 2013
My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family. You were the most wonderful person to be around, still could remember the party days in the basement on E95th Street in Brooklyn you were the best DJ then and now, you had that special gift from God to make the saddest person or persons laugh and smile with your jokes... May your soul RIP you would be greatly missed......... love Matty
June 23, 2013
June 23, 2013
Rest in Peace Alec.

Heartfelt condolences to Debbie and the family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
June 23, 2013
June 23, 2013
MAY THE SOUL OF ALEC AND OTHERS THAT HAVE DEPARTED REST IN PEACE. MY CONDOLENCES TO YOU DEBBIE AND THE REST OF THE FANILY.
FROM NEIL STEELE, AKA PANDORA
ONE CALL DOES IT ALL
June 23, 2013
June 23, 2013
Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves memories no one can steal” Deb, may looking back at the beautiful memories you and Alec shared comfort you in the days ahead.
Love you Girl,
Marcia & Sid
June 23, 2013
June 23, 2013
Debbie, you've been continually in my thoughts and prayers, as have Eric and the rest of the family. There are no words enough, but I hope you are all finding comfort in the love you shared, laughter remembered, the joy he brought into your lives. You will miss him, but know that he is free from the suffering of the last months. May he rest in peace, and rise in glory.
June 23, 2013
June 23, 2013
Dear aunty Debbie and family
Just sending our condolences to you all at this hard time.even though we are in London we are thinking of you all. my dad is so sad as would love to have made the funeral tommorrow to say goodbye to his litte brother . Love from Teresa and the Telesford family in England and my dad ronnie Telesford sends his love xxx
June 23, 2013
June 23, 2013
Deepest condelences to Debbie, Jessie, Eric and Gordon.
Debbie you and all the Telesford family are in my thoughts and prayers.
May God bless and always keep you in his care during this mournful time. Alec is gone, but will never be forgotten.
Sincerely, Val
June 23, 2013
June 23, 2013
Dear aunty Debbie and family
We are so sorry for your loss . We are all thinking of you all at this hard time,here in england .my dad would loved to have been able to attend the funeral of his little brother . We are all sending our kisses and Hugs xx
From Teresa and the Telesford family here in England and ronnie Telesford xxxxxx
June 23, 2013
June 23, 2013
We are deeply saddened by your loss. We will cherish the memories of the times we spent together with Alec. We are with you during this time of grief. Alec was a treasure.
June 23, 2013
June 23, 2013
Dear Debbie & Family,
Our collective hearts are heavy with sympathy. Alec was not only a neighbor but most of all a friend. We are here for you!

Herman "Doc" & Armetta McQueen
June 23, 2013
June 23, 2013
Dear Debbie & Family,

Alec was a great man & will forever be missed. Our thoughts are with you in this time of sorrow & may you find comfort in loving memories. We will always remember the two of you dancing at our wedding in Feb. 2003
Nylka "Nikki" McQueen-Jeffries & Mark Jeffries
June 23, 2013
June 23, 2013
Alec you will be missed tremendously, your contagious laughter, your sense of humor and you just being you, I will cherish forever. Debbie, my prayers are with you. I know with the memories you have of and with Alec you will be ok. He is in a better place now and knowing Alec, he is looking down at all his loved ones .  Eric Gordon lots of strength. Love from Jackie and family in Aruba
June 22, 2013
June 22, 2013
My heartfelt condolences to Debbie and family, may God continue to bless you and give you the comfort and solace in this trying time. Grenada has loss one of her great sons, and the world has loss a great influence, Alec you will be greatly missed. Rest in Peace in the loving arms of our Lord.
June 22, 2013
June 22, 2013
My heartfelt condolences to the Telesford family and friends. We are mourning the loss of a fabulous individual and a special friend. Debbie may you find comfort in the love and memories you shared. RIP my dear friend.
June 22, 2013
June 22, 2013
To Gordon,Debbie & the Telesford family. Our deepest condolences on the passing of Alec. He was truly a caring and sincere person."when our loved ones go before us,we do not lose them,God takes them in His care."  May he rest in Christ's eternal peace.
Love, Denis & Vern
June 22, 2013
June 22, 2013
My condolences to Alec's family. Alec was a great person, a real gentleman. I have lots of footage with him in G.B.T.V. CultureShare Archives, doing the MC thing with lots of humor at many Grenadian functions since 1987. I just lost my brother ROLAND BENJAMIN who was co-creator of Cultureshare on 6-5-2013. May Alec rest in peace.
June 21, 2013
June 21, 2013
Debbie condolonces to you and the Telesford family. Alec was such a wonderful human being,may his soul rest in peace.
Joycelyn and Family.
June 21, 2013
June 21, 2013
dear alic what ever it takes you will always be my friend you left us with a broken heart ;but it will be mend you are at peace and you are one of gods greatest child we love you lester
June 21, 2013
June 21, 2013
Words cannot express how sad I feel with the passing of an icon in the person of Alec T. His passing brings an end to a certain era in the Brooklyn/Grenada Community. The many Miss Grenada/USA Pageants he has MCE'D with that "Voice' that no one else possesses. will always echo on stages throughout heaven and earth. We miss you. The X-Teachers join with me in sending condolences to Debbi
June 21, 2013
June 21, 2013
My family extends to the Telesford our deepest sympathies.
I know for certain that we never lose the people we love, even to death. They continue to participate in every act, thought and decision we make. Their love leaves an indelible imprint in our memories. We find comfort in knowing that our lives have been enriched by having shared their love.  Leo Buscaglia
June 21, 2013
June 21, 2013
Dear Eric, Gordon & the Telesford family:    So Sad to learn of Alec's passing. Our days in the GBSS's hostel will never be forgotten. My Room 9 neighbors "Alec & Eric were "Simply The Best."Alec, you were a tower of Strength to us all; we will miss you dearly. Our deepest condolences to the family at this very difficult time.
Kelvin & Janice Nurse
June 21, 2013
June 21, 2013
Dear Bebbie, Eric & Family,

My condolences to you all. Alec was a great humanbeing. He was very caring & loved everyone. He will be missed a lot.
Love to all.
Admas
June 21, 2013
June 21, 2013
Dear Debbie, 
We are deeply saddened by Alec's passing. He was one of the kindest, humorous, wonderful and easy-going person. We are so lucky to have known him. May his soul rest in peace. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and the Telesford family during this difficult time. Martin and Betty
June 21, 2013
June 21, 2013
My deepest sympathy to the Telesford family with the passing of Alec. I worked with him for several years during my tenure with the Waterfront Commission Police. May you Rest in Peace, Alec.

Bob
June 21, 2013
June 21, 2013
Dear Debbie,
Our prayers and thoughts are with you in this time of grief.
Words cannot express our feelings of your lost. Alec, you will be dearly missed.
Sincerely,
Stephen and Patricia (Jabous)
June 21, 2013
June 21, 2013
Debbie, what I know about Alec, is what I learned from you during my time at UNICEF.
I know he was loveable, because of how you loved him. You held him in high esteem, and few wives have spoken favorably of their husbands as you have of your “Alec T.” Let that warmth continue to keep you in the days ahead. You will continue to be in my prayers. Jean and I send our Condolences to all.
June 20, 2013
June 20, 2013
I had the pleasure of meeting Alec through a mutual friend, and what I can say about the man is that he enjoyed life to the fullest. He will be be missed and to Debbie , when your heart is empty, fill it with happy memories of you and Alec. RIP.
June 20, 2013
June 20, 2013
I had the pleasure and honor of working with Alec while he served as National Security Advisor to the Government of Grenada. I found him to be the ultimate professional, passionate about his job and a true team player. His passing is a loss for Grenada as well. May God strengthen us all at this time.
June 20, 2013
Dear Debbie, there are no words I can find to console you at this moment but you have many many beautiful memories that will help you to keep going ahead. I'll always remember my visit to your home and all the attention from you and Alec that made me feel so welcomed and special. Un abrazo fuerte para todos. Love Jenny
June 20, 2013
June 20, 2013
Debbie, our condolences to you and the entire family. Astra will represent me because I am currently in Denmark. Alec, I will miss your impromptu visits to La Digue, may you rest in peace my friend. With love ~ Myrna & Astra
June 20, 2013
June 20, 2013
To : Ronnie, Gordon, Eric and Debbie.
I grew up with the telesfords in La Digue and we were all one family.
We had some memoriable times. Alec when I heard of your death. It really hurt but I known that you are now in peace with your savior.
Condolences to your family. Love always Celia and Arnold
June 20, 2013
June 20, 2013
Eric and Gordon, my condolences. You know how special your brother was. Hope that God will guide you through this difficult period. Warm hugs, Marion
June 20, 2013
June 20, 2013
Dear Uncle Alec,
You were an amazing human being! You had mom, dad and I laughing all the time! love you and miss you...
Aunty Debbie! we love you and we are sending lots of hugs and love
Cherie, Anne & Terry
June 20, 2013
June 20, 2013
Aunty Debbie, Eric, Gordon & the entire Telesford family- Our deepest condolences-  From: The Archibald Family
Poem-If I should go tomorrow
It would never be goodbye,
For I have left my heart with you,
So don't you ever cry.
The love that's deep within me,
Shall reach you from the stars,
You'll feel it from the heavens,
And it will heal the scars.
June 20, 2013
June 20, 2013
Dear Debbie and family: We are thinking of you tonight and looking forward to seeing you on Tuesday. Alec was such a wonderful guy, with so much gusto for life, we cannot believe he has passed on. His integrity, decency, selflessness and loving disposition will always be remembered by us and all his friends and family. He was truly a giant among men. Love from both of us.
June 20, 2013
June 20, 2013
It is with a sense of deep sadness and great sorrow that I write these few words about my dear friend Alec. I first met Alec through Debbie, a childhood friend of my wife, and after our second meeting, I was confused as to who I liked more, so I went ahead and loved them both.
Farewell dear friend-will miss you greatly, but you will always be my friend.
June 19, 2013
June 19, 2013
Dear Alec, You'll be dearly missed.  Debbie, sending you a big hug. xoxox. Love,
Sylvia & Dennis
June 19, 2013
June 19, 2013
Dear Alec, May your Soul Rest in Peace. You left us with Beautiful Memories. God will continue to give Debbie and the Children the courage and strength they need to carry on. I will always remember "The Voice" :)  Love, Sharon.
June 19, 2013
June 19, 2013
It's amazing how uncle Alec's genuine warmth has stayed with me over all the years. I know he is at peace now, so my prayers are for auntie debbie and the rest of his family whose lives will now have a space that no one else can fill. Be comforted by the many many beautiful memories you have together.
June 19, 2013
Thinking of you and holding you close, close, Auntie Debbie. Hoping all this love that surrounds you, and the stories of your love, joy and hope that guide me, bring courage now. God's grace to you and your family. I won't be far away. Love from us,
Anika and Christian
June 19, 2013
June 19, 2013
Just wanted to pass on my condolences to you and the family. Alec and yourself open your hearts and home to us while we were in New York before even knowing us. He was a true gentleman. Really loved his sense of humor and your relationship. Love Always xx Candice & Carlton xxx
June 19, 2013
June 19, 2013
Dear Debbie,
Our prayers and thoughts are with you and your family.
Dear Alec, may your soul rest in peace.
Love,
George and Joyce
June 19, 2013
June 19, 2013
The Besutiful Memories that I shared with my dear Brother-in-law AlecT are far too many to mention. AlecT the thought of you will always put a smile on my face and you will always be in my Prayers for a speedy passage to Heavenly Glory...Debbie my Darling Sis know that I will always be there to support you in whatever you do. Let the Good Memories give you the Strength to carry on..Deanna.
June 19, 2013
June 19, 2013
Dear Debbie,

I knew your lovely husband through you with all the wonderful and sad moments that you lived together but at the end there was so much love between both of you as a couple, as parents, grandparents...Rest in peace Alec!
Angela
June 19, 2013
June 19, 2013
Dear Alec, we did not know each other very well. But always said hello to each other when we came face to face driving up or down the hill. I knew you inquired about my late husband, Paul Joseph, and his health and I thank you and your family for that, knowing what you were going through. You will be missed in the neighbourhood. Rest in peace.
June 19, 2013
June 19, 2013
Jessie.....Ronnie/Paula, Gordon/Monica, Eric/Dierdre......Chantal/Keith, Gary, Bret and all the Loved ones of AlecT.... My Sincere Confolences and 'May he Rest in Peace'.....Love Always..Deanna.
June 19, 2013
June 19, 2013
His soothing comforting voice, His laugh,The huge breakfast he would prepare when u arrive.The safe feeling u felt.Those are the kind of things that he will be remembered for making people smile & bringing laughter in their lives & while it's going to be difficult to think of this world without him it is a happy thought knowing that wherever he is he is only spreading joy- Garnet,Pam & Kim
June 19, 2013
June 19, 2013
Dear Mr T ..Our story is short and sweet ..I never had any brothers and I certainly adopted you and Eric over 40 years ago and was so glad I did .. You never stopped loving me as your baby sister and always let me know you were only a phone call away if I ever needed you.. I was thankful for our visit last month, and was thankful when I need comfort when Liz passed .till we meet again MrT
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A Letter to Daddy…

July 2, 2013

DADDY….

There is nothing I'm going to say today that you didn't already know to be true, but it seems fitting to tell you one last time out loud.

Alec Telesford, my father, was nothing short of the most amazing dad a girl could ask for, and when we walked into a room together...it wasn't uncommon for there to be a feeling that conveyed “That girl got the last daddy in the world”… and thats because it was true...i did in fact get the last daddy in the world!

The pride I feel when I think about you overwhelms me with joy and happiness every morning I open my eyes.  And I am forever blessed to have had you for a father.  A man of honor and respect that has thought me so many things simply by example.
Always honorable, truthful, unpretentious, giving, kind and full of unconditional love.  You showed me the example of what a man should be, so when it was time to pick a life partner, id know what that looked like….( and I think I did pretty good, as Keith mirrors what I saw in you in so many ways).  You set an example for how I should raise my sons, leaving behind so many lessons I can pass on to them to make them men of righteousness.  My favorite being...”Daughter...You cannot be Wrong and Strong”  as you'd often say to me when I being was being stubborn about something I had done wrong…. Cant count the amount of times I say that to your munchkins...and they are only 2!
I will miss every little thing about you… to name a few... the way you would say, “ya ya ya” when you had had enough of whatever it is was going on or when you were being harassed by one of us! When I would say something smart and you'd say “ Ja, nice to see my college money at work!” or “yes Chubs...Yuh moved to the head of the Class!
Your infectious laugh, especially when you had just heard a super corny joke you couldn't wait to retell us! And your ever growing uniform collection of Rugby shirts from my HS days, that gained new life in your closet!

My heart hurts that you are no longer here with us, for I'm still that little girl that needs her daddy, but I know that even if I don't understand it, the good Lord needed you more.  I take comfort and pride in who I am today ….thanks to you daddy! And I know that you’ll continue to guide my thoughts, my heart and my mind from up above!  

My heart will forever be with yours,
Your one and only daughter
Chantal

A Poem for Alec

June 26, 2013
by Mo Rinc

In Loving Memory of Alec

It's really not farewell, my dear friend
But just a last Good-Bye,
For memories live forever
I treasure mine with pride.

Father, Husband, Brother and Friend
You were the very best,
When other names are mentioned
You'll always top the rest.

Grenada, the land that you so loved
Saltfish and bake, roti and curry,
Jump up and wine down
Wished for a miracle so you won't go in a hurry.

You have taken a new journey
You have gone the last long mile,
And when your name is spoken
It will be spoken with a big smile.

Missed by everyone, you'll always be
You are heaven's own ally,
It is really not farewell, dear friend,
But just a last Good-Bye.

Will always hold you dear in my heart.  Until we meet again . . .
Peace and Love,  Mo

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