- 64 years old
- Date of birth: Mar 12, 1946
- Place of birth:
Takoma Park, Maryland, United States
- Date of passing: Aug 22, 2010
- Place of passing:
Kailua, Hawaii, United States
|Let the memory of Carlos (aka Charles, Charlie) be with us forever|
"Always prepared with a giving heart and the desire to help one move in a more comfortable stride. With knowledge so vast, his tolerance was unimaginable. Focused, beautiful, and fearless in regards to what he wanted. Able to defend himself in silence with the security he provided for his loved ones. To have known him at all is a clear sign that at one point, no matter who you are: you traveled on a special, most gifted pathway that you should always be thankful for... I leave this note in respect and love for having been fortunate enough to have been in the presence of such a great man, husband, father, son, friend..Dr. Carlos Weber!"
"You will always be remembered as a wonderful and caring person by so many of your patients. Aloha and mahalo Dr. Carlos Weber ...."
"Good, smart, caring, man. Missed as a husband, father, friend, doctor. I continue to make efforts to be a better human because it's the right thing to do. Examples work for me. Carlos was a beautiful example. Love Sam"
"Thinking about Dr. Weber makes me smile because he was such a kind and caring doctor. Kaiser Hospital was so lucky to have this amazing man, but his patients were even luckier! Aloha Dr. Weber ..."
"Today and everyday I miss my soul mate. As awkward and oppositional that we were, we were filled with love, humor and two beautiful babies, now beautiful people. I miss you my love because I now carry the burden of loving our children alone. We would have such joy with them now. You were right, although I doubted you, they gave up their pacis(pinky's whatevahs).
Today Evan is celebrating you on the Potomac, that we would view from your parents' Apartment in the Watergate. Simone and I will visit Papas' path to where he laid himself down, doing what he enjoyed.
Today is a beautiful day and we will remember you always. I hope that people will remember you and share a story. That is how we get to hold you even more dear, with those you touched with your healing hands or your presence.
We will see you on the water today,
With eternal love,
Aye Matey ;-)
"Carlos is remembered always as the sweet, quiet, funny, creative soul that touched so many lives. I think of him often and wish he was still here for Tek, Simone, and Evan - who I know miss him so very much. It makes me sad that he had to leave so early but it reminds me to be grateful, not only for his life, but for all of our lives. Love to Tekla, SImone, and Evan on this fateful day. XO"
"Carlos is still very much alive in me.. I've been thinking all day that where ever I am, is where I'm supposed to be. There is no place I'd rather be. To serve and be happy is an immeasurable achievement. The Weber family has made all things possible.. With love and thanks for helping me on the road to peace... Carlos Weber, Tekla Weber, Simone Weber, and Evan Weber. With all the love and thanks I can serve up......
Love and Thank You
Unk Sammy Mann"
"Wow - how did another year go by? I will never forget the sly smile that Carlos had while he watched Tekla, Simone, and Evan as they went about their business! He adored his children so, so much and his life was truly blessed when he married Tekla. She connected him to friends and family - not only hers, but HIS! They made such beautiful children and enjoyed so many important, silly things - like Sponge Bob and other holiday festivities. Tekla and Carlos always brought a special flare to celebrating family and family life - each occasion was made special from Seders to Bar and Bat Mitzvahs, Halloween, beach days, and having fun with friends visiting Hawaii. What a great life he had - but taken much too soon. We needed him to show us how to be an uber athlete in our 60's. XO"
"Daily, I think of my beautiful sister Tekla and her husband Carlos! It is not possible to give enough thanks to the Weber family. Their invitation to experience love, kindness, honesty and respect has propelled me on a daily journey to be a better, kinder and more honest person. Every day I give thanks to Carlos for inviting me to come visit him in paradise. On this day I will celebrate The Life and Legacy of Carlos Weber: Father, Husband, Friend, Healer, Teacher, Musician, Scholar, Creator, Experimenter, Comforter, Believer, Dreamer, and so much more! Today I'm putting both feet in it. With love and thanks.. Unk Sammy"
"My deepest aloha to a wonderful person and doctor. I will never forget you!"
"What I find most amazing about Carlos is how he is still teaching us about love, presence, generosity, kindness and humility. Tekla, Simone, and Evan, you are his greatest teachers.
Much love and appreciation for all of you,
Kath..AKA Pony Hair"
"You know Carlos I still feel the loss of you deeplyl Though as time has passed and I have been fortunate enough to be able to share time being with and seeing your most incredible family. This because they have been kind and caring and giving and so inviting of me to all of the ongoing Weber celebrations. Your loss will always be in my heart deeply. Today I must thank you for all that you created, helped create, supported, disagreed with, and having the patience and love to always find something agreeable. That you inspired and in return were rewarded with discovery of things you had never contemplated. Yet you never stopped to think if you were capable, you always put both feet in it. I thank you because watching Evan and Simone contributing to make this world a better place, and your beautiful wife Tekla providing support and insight to Evan and Simone. As I stated, you will always be in my heart, mind and soul. I believe all who had the great fortune to spend any time with you, are all better people for having had that time. Many of these people are contributing to make a more compassionate and compatible world. A great legacy has taken action as you would. I was lost for a very long time. Because of you Tekla, Evan, Simone and a GPS when necessary I am not nearly as lost as I once was. I give eternal thanks to you and your most awesome family. Love Uncle Sammy......."
"Today is the mere 4th year of my darling devoted husbands exit from his dear loving family, missing him terribly.
It seems just yesterday, when we sat and talked with Larry Caster about your Medical Assistant, Jerry Poscablo's wedding. You really enjoyed the evening being with your colleagues and other Kaiser family. We kissed good bye and you and Larry headed off on your bicycles to Makapu'u Point with a return trip through Waimanalo.
Larry shared that you stopped on top and expressed how lucky you were to call this beautiful place Hawaii, home. You had found your home.
I can't wane eloquent here. I could expound indefinitely, the memories that swoon up on a day to day basis, alas it will not happen. It is wonderful to recall but so difficult not to share them with you, or really anyone. No one really wants to here all this dribble that I lock up inside of me. I have had the blessings of Simone and Evan to create new memories, but it is not the same.
We don't have your punster humor for us to tease you about, or to have you read to us or to humbly share unknown information, words, formulas, or opinions we would not consider, and have no basis of knowledge to compare. Always a learning moment in your presence, even in your solitude. I always said in your quiet you were much louder than the rest of us.
I miss you sniffling and crying more than me at a bad B rated movie. I miss your softest of hands to rub my back or to hold. I miss how your knees would jut into the back of mine when we were at rest, I miss you bringing me coffee every morning with the greeting " Good Morning Sleeping Beauty", I miss our terrible riddles we would text to each other on your way to work, I miss how you would always kiss me good bye and your scent would linger and as soon as the car would leave the driveway, I would urge you to come back.
You were such a devoted soul. You devoted yourself to every person that entered your exam room, your co-workers, your staff, and over extended yourself always. You devoted yourself to seeking knowledge, never stopping to be informed, always thirsting for new computer language, writing programs, helping others with their issues even in this venue. You had so many answers for everyone….but shared with humility. So patient with all of us.
My wish for you was to always devote more time to you, to be more spontaneous, to take pleasure, to revel in our little time together.
Home living with the double whammy of bright exuberant and active teenagers was with challenges. How much we learned together. You… always the mind of rational and reason to temper the energy.
Left to our own, we are trying. Trying to keep the memories alive and create them with you in mind. Daunting and difficult and demoralizing. You are missed by your family that you were devoted to as well. I will never have this kind of love again… how fortunate to have so much at all.
When you are sorrowful look again in your heart and you shall see that in truth you are weeping for that which has been your delight. "Kahilil Gibran"
To my tooter from your farf, 34 years later I am the richer person for being loved by you."
"Oh Carlos! How you are missed! Thinking of you today! So many wonderful memories of you. For me I especially like the funny memory of your fabulous red velvet cupcakes that I was holding for you on the little boat~ they were perfect until we hit the reef and then I was wearing them! A valentines day we'll never forget!! xoxox"
"our friend and buddy we miss you
"Forever in our hearts!"
"Kind, brilliant, honest. Carlos was a devoted and loving husband. A proud and loving father. You could not help but become a better person after being in his presence. I have an outstanding debt of gratitude owed to Carlos. I'm sure he would want me to pass it on to someone in need. I will pass this gratitude along filled with the love Carlos had for his fellow man and his family. Love Sam"
"Forever missed is the truth. Father, as you know, your beautiful family is doing quite well. No one really likes it that you aren't here, but your children are amazing and they are carrying many of your attributes and talents forward! Your yittle wife looks beautiful and she is also putting one foot in front of the other and I am continuously inspired by her positive attitude. Love!"
"Kind. Honest. Brilliant. Father. Husband. To this day he inspires me to be a better person. I am eternally thankful and forever in debt to the Weber family for accepting me with love filled open arms."
"Wow. Already 3 years. Forever grateful for your talents as a surgeon and as a caring person. Peace and loving memories forever wished for your family. You are missed."
"Happy Birthday Father! Yes, in the old days, when Tek and Carlos were first married and we were still (are) immature and relatively young - Dawn Morris and I went to visit the Weber's newly wed hale. We had a wonderful time and endearingly began to refer to Carlos as "father" - partly because he was older but mostly because of his wisdom. Soon he would produce 2 amazing children. Nice job!"
"I will always remember the care and aloha he showed me when I had bariatric surgery and then hernia surgery. I was crying after the hernia surgery and he had comforting words and checked up on me even though I live on the Big Island. I told my husband that Dr. Weber is a really caring doctor and how lucky I was to have him as my physician. Little did I know he would die a few months later."
"I just thought of Dr Weber yesterday. I saw someone who looked very much like him. I thought at that time that I am so grateful to have had him as my surgeon. He gave me back my life. I will forever remember him and his contribution to improving and touching so many lives."
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