This memorial website was created in loving memory of Jack Phillips. Take a look around, share a story, a picture, your condolences.
A memorial service is planned for Sunday January 19, 2014, 10 AM sharp at Temple B'Nai Shalom, 41 Storrs Avenue, Braintree MA 02184 (see map below.)
In lieu of flowers, donations in his memory may be made to Temple B'Nai Shalom (download form) or to the Museum of Fine Arts, Boston, 465 Huntington Ave, Boston, MA 02115.
Tributes
Leave a tributeXOXO,
Marcy
Happy Birthday, Jack.
There is a slight cool breeze. The ground is painted with colorful fallen leaves.
Great memories of my dear friend add to the comfort of this special day.
Happy Birthday Jack.
I still do miss our daily calls and the long talks we had about anything, everything.
Thoughts of Jack and his lovely family will always remain in the hearts of his friends.
I am so glad to have this place to share my feelings with you and the people who knew you best. I am hopeful they join me today to remember you.
We had such good times together. I think about you often and the "adventures" we shared. Those memories shape my life and guide me every day. They motivate me, encourage me, remind me of the more important aspects of life - love, family, truth, humanity, freedom, a little laughter, moving forward and not backwards, being a good person, and living life to the fullest.
One example! Just yesterday, I booked a family vacation to Costa Rica. I've been thinking about going for years and years, ever since told me about the hotel in the rain forest where you and mom had breakfast with the tropical birds and monkeys. So finally, we are going. Can't wait to be there together with my family. You'll be there too in spirit.
See you in my dreams. Love you forever. xo
Daughter #3
Happy Birthday in heaven, Daddy.
Daughter #3
Jack remains ever in our hearts.
We were blessed to have shared some time with him in our lives.
Happy Birthday Jack.
Not a single day has gone by that I haven't thought of you and what you would say to advise me or lift my spirits. How much you have taught me! Your lessons and words are in my heart and in my mind. I miss you Daddy, but I know you are still with us in spirit. Have a Happy Birthday in heaven. I love you!
OXOX, Marcy
There are time when I think that it wasn't your time to leave us. You had so much more to do and say and be and try. And then there are other times when I am reminded of how difficult every day must have been without your sight and your health, without your walks and your dips in the pool, without your cruises, your little red car, and your independence. You adjusted to everything, but it wasn't easy, and especially towards the end, it was painful.
So, better you aren't in pain. Better to think of you free from the limits of your human shell. Better to think of you when the Yankees, the Ranger and Giants win, when the kids do something terrific, when the sun is shining in the morning out the window - it's another day in paradise.
The sister agreed today that you'd be proud of the way we've carried on this past year, not always as gracefully as we might have. But we have managed to be together for your memorial, Sarah's Bat Mitzvah, and most of us for Thanksgiving. And although we won't be together tonight, we're remembering you in our own individual and special ways.
xxoo
#3
Always, young at heart.
Always, ready; looking to celebrate anything, everyday.
Always, the 1st hand, always the last.
Always, having the right questions to be answered.
Will, the memory of your smile ever fail to take the sting out of the day?
Will, I still see that mirror you held up, so I could look into my heart to find the right answers.
Will, I ever fail to hear your voice, your advice, even now, when things get ruff?
Remember, make lists and stay focused, move forward.
Remember, work with friends is not work; have friends. Still good advice.
You, were and still remain my best friend.
Always Will Remember You.
Happy Birthday Jack,
Richard
He always knew what he wanted, quick to think, and rarely gave-up. How he cared about and loved:
family, a devoted husband, others, like all the members of his Temple’s wonderful Mens Club which he and I as his caregiver would plan for—all this especially after being given a second chance if you will—reasons to be optimistic and achieve the next objective. He really saw everything…
• Playing checkers every morning
• Waking up very early
• Telling stories about mom and his job
• Butterscotch candies/ peaches with the cream in the morning
• Always saying “let’s eat” after doing the Seder ceremony
• Calling me his piano player
• Loving to watch me play piano
• Telling stories every night before bed when he stayed over
• Teaching me how to draw
I will love you and miss you forever, your granddaughter Sarah
Daddy,
You've given me so much encouragement to learn and grow. I hope you know what a difference your love has made in my life and how much your support and guidance has meant to me.
I love you, Daddy!
Marcy
And I will always love you forever.
Just like Family Forever.
Even when you're apart, you're still together.
Whenever, wherever.
So I will always think,
Family Forever.
Your granddaughter,
Emma
I was - as Jack sometimes called me - his partner in crime. Maybe you were too. I was often asked to complete or sometimes even start one of his tasks. So I am sure this is one he would have me do, A.S.A.P., and probably more than once, if I could get to it.
Jack would want me to try and let you know exactly how much you meant to him. If you met him once; if you grew up with him; if you worked with him in business; if you were his neighbor; if you prayed with him at temple; if you had conversations over the years, on any topic; if you spent time with him at the pool; if you discussed sports, loved the Yankee's (or not); if you played tennis with him; if you planned events with him; if you worked together on projects; if you took a walk or sat with him;
if you knew his name - Jack was your very dear friend.
And you, I am sure, were his. You know that, because it was part of that special relationship that you shared. He would want to thank you all now for giving him all he ever wanted from life - your friendship, your love, your story. It was the source of his strength. I think it was his reason for always staying active and remaining involved with everything that he did. He knew he could be the kind of friend that was just what you needed. He did understand.
Girls, there is no need to wonder how the world will ever be the same without him. You have already have begun the task to answer this; a continuation of who Jack really was; an extension of the friendship he gave to us all. By creating this place where we can all be for awhile, just a little bit longer. Maybe just one more time. A place that is just what we needed. You understand too. Thank you. I hope it can provide you warmth in return.
Elaine, I can never thank you enough for the many hours, days and years that you were kind enough to share your Jack, with me. I am eternally grateful.
Thanks Jack.
Who will make me feel that special again.
I hope I am able to pass on to my children all that you have taught me, Daddy, and continue to make you proud.
Love you always
Laura(#2)
The "glue" daughter as you liked to call me!
I only hope to shine as bright as you.
I love and miss you daddy
I love you. I miss you. Forever.
Your daughter (#3), friend and biggest fan,
Penny xx oo
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A Cruising Couple
Dad looked forward to his annual cruises with Mom. Great food, new friends, and new places to explore... did we mention food? Together, they cruised to Alaska, Europe, Mediterranean, Russia and Scandinavia, Hawaii and twice through the Panama Canal. Here he is with his stunning bride, decked out for a formal evening meal. Dad always knew how to wear a great suit.
Family Get-Together, September 2013
Jack's girls brought the family together for three nights in the Berkshires where the family vacationed every summer to visit Tanglewood. Here he is with Elaine and a handfull of their grandchildren on the great lawn infront of the music shed. It was a beautiful, perfect way to spend the day with Nonnie and Pa.