- 67 years old
- Date of birth: Aug 14, 1946
- Date of passing: Feb 12, 2014
|Let the memory of Jay be with us forever|
This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Jay Young, passed away suddenly on February 12, 2014. Jay first and foremost was a devoted husband, a loving father/grandfather, and a passionate business man. He also served as a lieutenant in the Unites States Army. His family knew him as a fun loving dedicated man. His peers knew him to be a professional hardworking man who helped so many people make their dream of homeownership a reality.
Thank you for your support, prayers and thoughts during this difficult time. We will be posting information on the dates and time of the memorial as soon as we have it.
Lorraine and Family
In lieu of flowers the family requests a donation to the Jay Young Memorial Fund. Proceeds from this fund will help cover funeral expenses.
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Any questions please email at JayYoungMemorial@gmail.com
Please note this is not a tax deductible donation.
Please Join us for a memorial service for Jay.
Date: February 17th, 1:00 pm
Where: Shadowridge Country Club, Vista CA
Address: 1980 Gateway Drive, Vista CA 92081
"More time has passed, Jay, and you have been gone even longer ... but it doesn't change how positive I feel about you and the memories I have from our youth. I was just remembering recently that after you showed up at my house on a Cushman Eagle and gave me a ride I really wanted one, but my dad - who was not high on motorcycles or motor scooters - would not give me permission. Once I was an adult in my thirties I bought a Suzuki 550 motorcycle which I rode fairly regularly for about three years and then sold it. The first day I rode it (and you would laugh at the story that led up to the purchase that included my wrecking a friend's Honda 500 on the same day) as I was riding around my neighborhood I said out loud, "Jay Young, where are you now? I want to take YOU for a ride today!" You were a cool, witty and fun guy. Still miss ya, still love ya. Save me a seat ... well, I mean if I deserve it."
"One year ago today you left us, Jay. Just want to say I still regret that you and I didn't have or make an opportunity to see each other and sit down over dinner or coffee to catch up and share memories from our youth in Oklahoma City. The impact of your character and life continues to touch all of us who knew you and cared about you. God is holding you and I pray He will help me preserve my memories of your smile and wit."
"Those that touch our lives .... stay in our hearts forever - you gave us our new home Jay and forever grateful"
"My precious Jayson Delbert (JD) I miss you so much!! You spoiled me!! You always took such good care of me and the children!! God has to have made you An Angel immediately!
I always knew you and I was a constant relationship . . .even now as you enjoy heaven!! XOXO"
"Jay - Although we hadn't seen each other in many years when you left this world, I still remember our young days at Luther Burbank in Oklahoma City, playing YMCA baseball during the summer and in later years seeing you buzzing the neighborhood on your blue Cushman Super Eagle motorcycle (I was envious). I know you're watching us all, smiling and probably making a few wise cracks too. Miss you, my friend!"
"You are so wonderful and so kind it is still so hard to think a nice man like you have to go so soon....my husband and i want to thank you so much for doing what you did to help us .......i am sure you are reading every word that i am typing......thank you."
"Did not find out of your sudden passing through Jami a week ago......so saddened ....many people come and go in our lives, but very few make a worthwhile memorable impression....you are a great man, may you rest in peace....I cannot say enough thank you for all that you did for us, you will be deeply missed.
Salina and Tim"
"Dearest Lorraine and Family,
"I was so saddened to hear of Jay’s passing. I see reflected in the montage of photos, a Loving Husband, a Grandfather and a Friend! You were a beautiful reflection of how he lived…..deliberately with determination and joy! All my love and condolences to you and your family."
"Jay was integral in my early career in banking and I consider myself a very lucky person for knowing him. He will be missed."
"To the Young Family, I am very sorry for your loss. Jay was a wonderful hard working man. He will be missed by all."
"Lorraine, I can't tell you how saddened I am to learn of Jay. He certainly will be missed. My deepest sympathies to you and your family. Jay was so nice and so helpful to me when I moved here, was always around to answer my questions and I always looked forward to seeing his smiling face. He was a good person and will leave such nice endearing memories with so many people. I am glad to have had him as a friend."
"Such a natural response to pick up the phone to share a story or ask a loan question of Jay. He complimented all my sales with Texas TLC when we worked a buyer together. Foremost in his mind were Lorraine, his children and way up there on the list were the grand kids. I like all of you have lost a dear friend and was blessed to have Jay as a friend for 20 plus years. It figures, we lost Jay on a Tuesday and Friday I received an email from him wishing me a pleasant President's Day, that man was always working and planning ahead. Jami Besecker"
"Lorraine- Analisa and I are so saddened for your loss! I remembered when we first met Jay and you. Jays kindness and amazing way with people, your loving support for Jay! We love you dearly. Are hearts are broken!
Eric & Analisa"
I'm so sorry I missed the service. I just returned yesterday afternoon from a trip out of the country and heard the sad news. Jay will always be rememberd as a loving, caring, wonderful man. I enjoyed visiting with him and going through the many scenarios our challenging business affords us. He was a special comrade to me."
"I'm shocked. Jay, you and I went to elementary, middle and high school together but never had one on one contact after that. Then - years later, thanks for Facebook, we reconnected. Had I realized you were going to leave us all forever I would have asked for your phone number so I could call you and talk over where our lives have taken us during all the years since we last saw each other. I am really sad to learn today that you have left the earth, but I have faith that you are with God and that HE is with YOU.
Judy and I are deeply saddened by your loss. Jay's caring style and mentoring approach drew people to him from all walks of life. I look back fondly on the years we worked together and how the two of you made such a great team. The world has been a better place because of Jay Young and those he touched will always cherish his memory.
Jim and Judy"
"Lorraine, we all know that Jay was your soulmate, the love of your life. You always glowed when standing by his side and talking about him. That light will never leave you. His memories, his words, his love will always be a part of you. I'm so sorry for your loss. Stay strong and one day you will be by his side eternally. May a God bless you each day."
"Selfless, Gentle, Patient and Kind, are the words that describe the sweetest Oakie I have ever known. If tears could build a stairway, and memories a lane, Id' walk right up to heaven and bring you home again. Jay, we are so blessed to have had you in our lives. Thank you for all you have done for me and my family. We all know heaven is a little brighter with your spirit resting comfortably in Gods hands."
"Lorraine ~ I are so very sorry & saddened to learn of Jay's passing. He was such a wonderful and nice man, who was loved by all who knew him. My thoughts & blessings are with you, Lorraine & your family, I feel that you are so fortunate to have such a wonderful life together! Much love & many blessings to you,"
"Lorraine I want you to know that I am here for you!
Please call me if I can help in anyway!!
Jay had such a special charm in him!
I will always remember his greetings with a great handshake and smile!
God bless you and your family!
God brought a great one home in Jay!!!!"
"Jay you will be missed however never forgotten! You and Lorraine have been family to us for many years and have shared some great holidays, memories and just pure fun.
We love you and may god bless you and your family as you are in the best place there is.
The only place where Real Estate is priceless!
Rest in Peace our dear friend
Lorraine we are alwyas here for you, we love you.
The Rearick family"
"It is with a feeling of profound admiration and gratitude that I join in the many praises expressed so far in memory of Jay Young. He touched our lives and hearts and inspired us to be better human beings. Jay will be remembered most for his kind smile, warm spirit, and endless love for his family, friends, and community. He was a kind Southern Gentleman who taught us about courage and determination. Jay was an inspiration to those of us lucky enough to have known him."
"Lorraine, our condolences to you and your family. I'm sure everyone will miss Jay's smiling face!
"Jay you were a man of many talents. I had the pleasure of working with only a few times but it was always touched with your wit, wisdom and laughter. Heaven has a new angel and it's with fondness I will remember you. Blessings to your family Jay"
"Jay...Jay...Jay....Our paths crossed 20 plus years ago and I am a better person as a result. You will be missed my friend. Blessings to Lorraine and the family. We lost a very classy, graceful man who was passionate about all he touched. God be with you Jay. Rest now."
"sorry to hear of Jay's sudden passing....Bruce & I will be praying for you and all the family....much love sent you way....Mary Montgomery"
"Lorraine ~ We are so very sorry & saddened to learn of Jay's passing. He was such a wonderful, caring man who was loved by all who knew him. Our thoughts & prayers are with you Lorraine & your family. Much love & many blessings to you, Jeff & Lisa"
"Dear Lorraine and family,
I am shocked and saddened by Jay's passing...he was such a wonderful and genuine person who gave so much to his family, friends, colleagues...always a smile and a twinkle in his eye!! I cannot imagine your shock, despair, and yet I know your love for Jay is everlasting and Jay's love for his family and friends will give us all strength in knowing that he is in a heavenly place!! Love and prayers to you!!
"Our thoughts are with you. We will always remember Jay, and the many wonderful times we had with both of you. Jay was the definition of a true gentleman. Rest in Peace My Friend. Love, Lyle and Vickie"
"Lorraine, thinking of you & your family at this difficult time. Jay
will be missed. He always had a kind word & a smile...such a gentleman. I am sorry for your loss. Kim"
"Lorraine, I really trusted Jay. He was an honest, intelligent and quality person. I felt we shared similar values and trusted referring clients to him. He always did a great job. On a personal level, I enjoyed his humor and enjoyed exchanging ideas with him. My thoughts and prayers are with you, may you find peace in this time of grief."
"Lorraine and Family: Jay has always been a part of my business life. I will miss him. My thoughts are with you at this difficult time."
"Our family is so sorry for you loss. Jay was so wonderful to us. He made our dream come true in owning a home which we never thought possible. He helped us 2 times with our home loan and really cared. He will be missed by many. Our prayers are with you and the family."
"My heart is broken with the news of Jay's passing. He was an incredibly kind, smart, clever and funny southern gentleman....always with a twinkle in his eye and always with time for a sweet hello and hug. The world has lost a gentle soul way too soon, but God must have wanted and needed him more than we do. I am praying for your family and friends as we are all enveloped in sadness. But I have the eternal hope that we will all join each other again on the other side in heaven. God bless you and your family."
"Lorraine, we are so very sorry for you loss. I can not even imagine your pain. He will be missed by everyone who knew him. Jay was a pillar of our community, a kind and caring man, and a good friend-We are here for you and your family. If there is anything you need, please let me know. Love, Gini and Joe"
"Jay: You will be missed by all of your friends and co-workers. We pray that you have found a better place, and will rest in peace for all eternity."
"I am so sorry for your loss, Although I only knew Jay for a short period of time but he had a positive impact on me during our time working together. My thoughts and prayers to Lorraine and Family"
"To my very dear friend, Lorraine... I am so, so sorry for your loss. Jay will be missed by so many, he has touched so many lives. Rory said it all, "Jay was a great man." Love you Lorraine, my heart and thoughts are with you. Marcia"
"Lorraine-Bill & I are deeply saddened. Jay will be missed by all who knew him. Words can not express the loss we all will feel-the ultimate Professional, devoted father & husband. We are so priviledged to have known him and can only hope the loving memories will help to heal the pain you are going through. You are in our prayers. Helen & Bill Krunglevich"
"I will miss you Jay - your sense of humor, suprising jokes, and anecdotes. Your no-nonsense in business & work ethic. We will miss you. My love and prayers to Lorraine and family. God Bless you Jay!"
"So sorry for your loss. We already miss him here, now will miss him more. Such a pleasure to work with a true professional and a gentleman with such a gentle spirit. Thank you for letting us borrow him for a time. Remember him in all of his light."
"A true Southern gentleman, who loved his family above all. He will be missed."
"Lorraine, thinking of and praying for you and your family during your sudden loss. I've truly enjoyed spending time with you both at various events and Jay will be very missed. God bless you all."
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Jay will be missed by many in the community. I will always remember his gentle smile! My life was blessed to know him. Please know you have a lot of support and love coming your way!"
"This tribute was added by Mari Stryjewski on 13th February 2014
"Lorraine, my heart is broken for you. Jay was larger than life and touched so many people. Our lives will never be the same and yet be richer for Jay being in it. We love you and are here for you, prayers going out constantly. Love you so much, Mari""
"Dear Lorraine, I am so saddend to hear about Jay. I still remember the very first time I met him at a Realtor function and instantly liked him. We always had great conversation and he had the best smile. You and the family will be in my thoughts and prayers. We have great memories of a class act guy that has left us too soon. I love you and hope to see you soon."
"I am so sorry for your loss! Jay will be missed, he was quite the gentleman and very pleasant. Jay leaves a wonderful legacy as a wonderful family man and true professional at his craft. Rest in Peace My Friend ..."
"Could hardly believe the news. So sad to hear of Jay's passing away so suddenly. All those who knew Jay will miss him. Please know there are many prayers for you and the family at this time."
Words fail me. I was just adding an endorsement to my Facebook page of Jay's wonderful lending skills from the escrow we just closed on Feb. 4th! He will always be the best lender ever because of his kindness, courtesy, consideration, not to mention his wealth of knowledge. Bless you, my dear, for such a huge loss of this wonderful man. I will always be grateful for having known him."
"What to say..... I will miss you. You were like a Dad to me. It just will never be the same. Rest in peace. I love you."
"Lorraine - Can't really tell you how sorry I am in hearing of Jay's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. I think this quote sums up my thoughts on Jay...
"Few were his equal, but none were better"."
"My thoughts and prayers are with Lorraine/Jennifer and their families. I remember meeting Jay for the first time through Lorraine about 12 years ago.. Such a pleasant man. thinking and praying for you all. Much Love~ Pina Shaw"
"Lorraine We're so very sorry for your loss. Jay will be so very missed by all. I know how much you both loved each other and had a great life together. We love you and feel your pain. Love, Pam and Dean."
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