- 40 years old
- Date of birth: Apr 3, 1970
- Place of birth:
Sikeston, Missouri, United States
- Date of passing: Dec 19, 2010
- Place of passing:
Sikeston, Missouri, United States
|Let the memory of Lisa be with us forever|
This memorial website was created in the memory of our loved one, Lisa Chessor who was born on April 3, 1970 and passed away on December 19, 2010. She would want us to try to remember the laughter we all shared with her, so this memorial is to help us celebrate her life. We will remember her forever.
"Hi sis. Thought I would say hi. I sure wish you were here to help Manda n Blake. They r having some bad times lately but r working thru them one day at a time.Manda will never find another love as true as yours n her heart still aches but she's better, got a great job n nice house in the city you guys shared so many memories!!! Just keep looking down on them, they need your angel prayers every day❤ We all love you n miss our Lisa terribly!!! Until next time, love n miss you!!!"
"Happy birthday. You are loved and missed every day."
"Five years later and I still feel the pain just as fresh as that day. The panic, the fear, the disbelief. I would give almost anything to have you back. I still miss you so much. I live life. I have relationships. I move forward. But part of me is, and always will be, stuck there with you. In that moment of loss. Forever. I love you and my heart will always be linked to you."
"It is so hard to believe that it has been five years since you passed from this earth. I miss you and your loving nature and your infectious laughter. Please keep looking down on us all. Love you cuz."
"Lisas day is quickly approaching. Thats a tradition I havent carried on with anyone else. That was ours alone. Like so many other things. Every day I miss you still. Every day Im thankful that Blake and I had you in our lives. You were an amazing person and the world just isnt the same without you."
"Merry Christmas in Heaven. Today we sprinkled some of your ashes at Tower Grove and our old house. I finally fulfilled part of the promise to you to sprinkle them at places signifcant to us. It brought me peace. I miss you. So does Blake. But we are both living and happy and healthy. Everything I know you would want for us."
"Today marks 4 years since you left us. Sometimes it seems so much longer than that. It feels like its been an eternity since I saw your smile and heard your laugh...but somehow I still remember it clearly. I still miss you and hold you in my heart and soul."
"Happy Thanksgiving my dear. I baked all day yesterday and of course I'm cooking away today. I miss you for lots of reasons, but little things like our holiday traditions are the things that I miss more than anything. I've got Blake and Jenna to share the day with so I'm blessed. And I had 20 years of holidays with you, that's a blessing so many don't have. I love you and miss you always."
"Happy Lisa's day to you. Your boy and I have been talking about you so much lately. We both still miss you so very much. We have some big changes ahead of us. I hope they bring us happiness and peace. We've both had periods of happiness since you've gone, but neither of us have been truly happy or fulfilled. I'm really hoping the upcoming changes help with that. I hope you look down on us and guide us as we make our way in our new future. I love and miss you more than I could ever say."
"Our baby boy turns 23 today. It seems like just yesterday we were that scared couple bringing him home from the hospital. Time surely does fly. While I know you wouldnt agree with all of his choices in life I do know you would still be proud to see the man he has grown in to. I wish you could be here to help him celebrate, but you are always here in our hearts. We both love and miss you today and every day."
"memories that are forever locked in my soul help on days like today when i miss you just a little more than usual ....happy birthday you are loved and missed"
"i carry your heart with me
i carry your heart with me(i carry it in
my heart)i am never without it(anywhere
i go you go, my dear;and whatever is done
by only me is your doing,my darling)
no fate(for you are my fate,my sweet)i want
no world(for beautiful you are my world,my true)
and it's you are whatever a moon has always meant
and whatever a sun will always sing is you
here is the deepest secret nobody knows
(here is the root of the root and the bud of the bud
and the sky of the sky of a tree called life;which grows
higher than soul can hope or mind can hide)
and this is the wonder that's keeping the stars apart
i carry your heart with me(i carry it in my heart)"
"haven't been on here in a while...ive posted on ur fb page...but not here...tonight u invade my thoughts"
"Merry Christmas. I woke up this am missing you like crazy. Missing our traditions and our routine. Missing the past. Missing what was supposed to be and what will never be. I hope you're celebrating in Heaven. Ill love you always."
"Lisa I remember you when we were small riding the same school bus together and then you became one of our family members. I remember the last time I saw you was at aunt Ruby's Christmas family get together. You are loved and very much missed. Luv you cuz r.i.p."
"Yesterday was 3 years. For some reason this year has been the hardest holiday season without you and momma and daddy. Maybe it's because Ive been living alone so long. Maybe its because I dont have anyone there to do our traditions with. I don't know. Its still VERY hard for me. Some days I'm strong and ok and other times I still ache from the loss of you. EVER SINGLE DAY I think about you. I guess I always will. I hope you are looking over us and seeing how strong we've grown since you left. I love you always."
"Its been 3 long years today that we lost u. I miss my sissy an my best friend. We love an miss u theres not enough words to tell u how much love u ur baby sis"
"It's almost Thanksgiving. Blake told me he missed me cooking a big meal at home so that's what Im doing this year. I hope its as good as he remembers and that we are able to share memories and laughter with the meal. I wish more family would be here. I wish YOUR family was still in my life. Guess things are what they are. Love and miss you always."
"Miss you today and every day."
"Missing you today"
"yesterday would have been our wedding anniversary...i missed you"
"Happy Lisa's Day in Heaven. You are loved and missed always.Give my daddy a big ol hug for me."
"I went on a great training for work today and came back all excited and inspired. Then I came home to an empty house. I wish you were here. You would sit and listen as I babbled on about my students or a training I went to or idea I had for the classroom. You didnt just listen, you were interested in what I was saying. You shared in my excitement. I remember you saying "I love when you get that sp"
"Today is our boys 22nd birthday. I still dont know how the time has flown by so quickly. I know you were looking down with such pride at him today...but I miss you being here to help us celebrate.He is different than we imagined in some ways...but I know you would still show unconditional love and pride. He misses you more than he will talk about. Especially on special days. We both do."
"I've been watching these sappy love movies all day. They make me think about my life now. They make me think about my future. And they make me think about my past with you. I was truly blessed to experience such a wonderful love story with you. Thank you for all that you were to me. I will always miss that. I will always miss you."
"HAPPY BIRTHDAY LISA, LOVE AND MISS YOU SO MUCH, PLEASE CONTINUE TO WATCH OVER ALL OF US BUT ESPECIALLY MANDA AND BLAKE."
"Happy Birthday Lisa. I love and miss you every single day. I was blessed to spend 20 years celebrating this day with you, but still wish I could spend this one with you too.
[i carry your heart with me(i carry it in]
BY E. E. CUMMINGS
i carry your heart with me(i carry it in
my heart)i am never without it(anywhere
i go you go,my dear;and whatever is done
by only me is your doing,my darling)"
"I'm always thinking of you and miss you so very much. You were such a great person and I know you are in heaven watching down on us all. I love you my dear cousin and wishing you were here to celebrate your birthday here on earth bur God had a different plan for you. Keep watch over us all."
"happy birthday sissy we love and miss u so very much just not the same with out u. u was the best big sis I thank god every day I had a great sister.an now I am tryin to be the big sis like I had now of course u know I know u r watching over us every day. I need ur help watch over us close happy birthday love u sissy"
"Missing you today and everyday. I miss our talks most of all. You could help me make sense of everything."
"I miss our friendship. You could always make me feel better."
"Merry Christmas! I hope you were looking down on us and saw how happy our boy was. He is truly all grown. He isn't even going to go to dinner with us today..for the first time ever. It's hard to accept but I know you would be proud of how independent he has become. We all miss you so much, not just on the holidays, but every day."
"Hey sis It has been two years ago today that God called our angel home We all miss u so much and wish u were here to help our family thru a difficult time. U were always our rock and our laughter when we needed it the most. Manda and Blake still struggle eevery day to remember without hurting but they are both geetting there and doing ok. Merry Christmas Know u r looking down on us."
"About this time 2 years ago my life began to change. I went to bed early without you not knowing that in a few short hours my entire life would be turned upside down. 2 years ago at this time everything was still ok...still normal. 2 years later Im still wondering why. 2 years later im still missing you more than I thought possible...but thankful for all we shared."
"I miss my best friend"
"Today is momma's bday. Give her a big ol hug from me. I love and miss you all"
"It saddens me to see that I'm the only one that really posts anything on here. I guess people deal with things differently. It makes me feel a little more connected to you to "talk" to you on here. To put it simply, I miss my friend. Guess I always will."
"Im awake and you are on my mind. Im not sure why tonight really. Its not a significant date. Im not down or depressed. You are just there..lingering on the restless surface of my mind. I miss you. I don't think that will ever change. You were/are such a part of my life, my heart, my soul. That part feels like its missing now. Like no matter how happy I am (and I am happy again...but you know that)"
"Today would have been our wedding anniversary. Although I am living and loving and in a MUCH better place than I was a year ago, I will always love and miss you. Happy Anniversary love."
"I will be thinking about you this weekend. You get "Lisa's day" in Heaven with your daddy and my daddy. I hope you know I still, and always will, love and miss you."
"Thinking about you"
"Some posts on fb have me thinking about us. Ive been looking at our wedding pictures and thinking about how short of a time we got to be remarried.. Sometimes I feel cheated and other times I realize just how lucky I am to have gotten to share 20 years with you and make so many memories that I now cherish.I still miss you and suspect I always will."
"Happy Easter love. I got my chocolate bunny. A giant Diva one. I have a gorgeous little boy to share Easter with today. I'm all smiles. I love and miss you."
"HAPPY BIRTHDAY MY DEAR FRIEND, Love and miss you so much."
"Happy birthday love. I miss you much. I sometimes feel alone in my sadness. Blake prefers to keep everything to himself. My family has their own issues. I am disconnected from all of your family..that was my family for 20 years..by their choice. Sometimes I just want to talk to someone that misses you as much as I do. Anyway..happy birthday..I love you and always will."
"Im at work and its quiet and for some reason you are on my mind. I miss you as always. It's exactly 2 weeks til your birthday, maybe that's why you are invading my thoughts. I can honestly celebrate your life and the memories we created now instead of mourning. I know that is what you want for me. Still, somedays your absence is so strong that it pervades every bit of my life, mind, soul."
"Today was absolutely gorgeous. I bet you would have been outside washing your truck...and maybe my car lol. Living is easier now. I still miss you but I feel like its ok to live completely again. I love you."
"Many days have come and gone
Since the day you shared with me
It was Our Day
A Red Letter Day for me
We shared much more than just time
You gave me reason to smile again
And be excited about tomorrow
Now, when sadness surrounds me
That you were gone so soon
I try to rejoice
That you ever came at all
Happy Valentines Day. I will always love and miss you."
"Im finally REALLY really starting to live again and be happy. Ive tried before. Ive gone through the motions before. I have lived, but not been long term happy. Things are falling into place instead of falling apart. Nobody will ever every take your place, but I have found someone that makes me happy again. You will always live in my heart. I love and miss you still."
"Happy New Year. I love and miss you terribly, but I'm finally living life again."
"MERRY CHRISTMAS WE MISS AND LOVE U SO MUCH THINGS ARE JUST HARD NOW"
"Merry Christmas baby. It doesn't seem like Christmas to me at all. It was hard to wrap presents without you... everything about this holiday has been hard without you. I still miss you do very very much. I love you always."
"Today it's been a year since you left me. Yesterday was equally hard because on that date last year we spent our last day together. I'm trying hard to celebrate your life and focus on all the wonderful memories we created together...but sometimes thats hard to do....the absence of you overwhelms everything. I still miss you so much. I love you baby and I hope to see you again someday."
"I finally put the tree up. I cried.. a lot... but I also smiled and felt so blessed to have been able to spend so many Christmases with you. I love and miss you now more than ever."
"WELL U Have ur fav. uncle with u now yall will be have a go ol time love u and miss u so much"
"My heart still whispers your name...
I haven't put the tree up yet. I will. I remember how much you loved sitting in the dark with just the tree lights on. I will do that and think of you and smile because I was so blessed to have been loved by you."
"Happy Thanksgiving baby. I love and miss you more than you know. I really wish you were here to help us celebrate. It doesn't feel like a holiday to me at all. I'm just empty."
"its so close to being a year u have been gone it has been the hardest year of my life without u here i miss you so much had to go though the worse that could have happen after losing u i hope u are taking good care of my baby i love and miss u both"
"It's almost Thanksgiving. We loved the holidays. Me ..the family time, the laughter and noise...all of it. You..the sparkle in my eye, my happiness...the food lol. Im trying so hard to honor your life by living mine but I miss you so much...especially now at the holidays. I will always love you."
"Hey there sis, its been a real tough year so far but we are doing ok. Manda and Blake are still trying so hard to live without you, we all are! I know you are up there looking down on them and keeping them safe just like you did here. I worry about my sister, so just keep watching over her. You are a special angel and she will never love anyone the way she did you, none of us will.Love ya!"
"I can't believe its been over a month since I was last on here. Sometimes time seems to stand still and other times it seems to be rushing by. I still miss you so much."
"today is my first birthday that I will be spending without you being a part of it in some way...i miss you so much and today above all days i hope i feel your presence around me...i love you dear"
"Today has been a year since daddy left. I hope you know how grateful I am to you for being by my side when he and momma left. It was so hard when I lost you because I didn't have you there by me to lean on. I miss you so much."
"I wish you were here."
"You are on my mind. I wonder is there a Heaven? Did you go there? Are you still here watching over me? Sometimes I want to feel your arms holding me so much and telling me everything will be ok. I miss that the most. The part that let me know it will all work out. I love you."
"Time, distance, accepting the inevitable truth....nope none of it erases the pain of losing my best friend."
"Happy 4th of July. I love and miss you lots."
"I still miss you dear. I guess I always will. You have left such a massive hole in my heart and soul. I don't think I can ever be the same. I have started counseling, maybe that will help. I love you."
"Our son turns 20 today...he is such a gorgeous young man. I wish you were here to help us celebrate. He is making me feel old and I wish he would stop. We both still miss you alot. Sometimes the absence of you overpowers the presence of anyone else."
"Babe I've packed up our house and moved everything out. It was very hard to lock that door and walk away. I remember that you got that house so I would have a place to come home to, but it just isn't the same without you there. I left our house behin"
"Hey sis, just wanted to say Happy Easter! We do miss you Manda and Blake are trying so hard to move on but it is hard some days. S is give momma and daddy a kiss for us and we do miss you very much, its niot the same without you here! Love you!"
"Happy Easter baby. I got my chocolate bunny : )"
"We are slowly but surely getting the new house ready to move in. Blake is so excited. I'm trying to be. I just want to feel like I'm at home right now. I still miss you so much. I hope you are at peace."
"Some days memories simply aren't enough. If I had only known that our last day together was the last day I ever got to kiss you, hold you, smell you, feel you...I would have never let go of you."
"happy birthday sissy we love and miss u so much"
"Happy Birthday baby. I sure do wish we were celebrating it together. I had plans for today, but I'm still in the hospital so they will have to wait. Please know you are always in my thoughts. Be with me tomorrow during my angiogram and help Blake."
"Lisa you would have turned 41 today I would have teased you about getting old I love and miss you so much but I know that you are always with the ones that loved you Your picture reminds me of how happy you were YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!!"
"Babe I'm sorry for everything that has happened with the family. You know how much family means to me. I hope some day it will all blow over. I'm sure we all said things we didn't mean. I still miss you so much. I wish some things could be different."
"You warned me that people would be mad the choices we made in our wills and our funerals but I was hoping you were wrong.I truly believe I am doing what you and I both wanted.I have not forgotten about you and never will.I love you and always will"
"sissy i miss you so much it's just still so hard to believe your gone its still so unreal thers no words to expreaa how much i will miss you but god had bigger plansfor u even though i really dont know why u had the biggest heart i just dont know why u all ways put ur self on the back if u wouldnt have things would be so different and ur birthday is coming really soon its so hard here without u"
"Hiya my friend I know Its been a minute sorry for that. I sit and wander a lot of times why, but no one can ever answer that for me. I miss ya. I have a lot to say but really just wanted to stop by and say hiya."
"Some days are harder than others. So many people think I have moved on and that I have forgotten about you but that would be impossible."
"I'm beginning to move forward with my life without you in it. It still seems unreal sometimes. You were and always will be such an important person in my life. I love and miss you so much still. I will never forget you."
"I took my first road trip without you. Our son and your sister and I all needed it. I did enjoy myself, but missed you so much. I came back feeling stronger and determined to live my life. I will always love you."
"All though I'm having fun with our boy, Veronica, your sister and Renee, I've discovered that road trips just aren't the same without you. I miss you so very much."
"Lisa I am still trying to find my way in this world without you by my side. I never knew how hard that could be. Slowly, day by day, I am doing it. I miss so many things about you. I miss the way we didn't have to talk, but simply being close was enough. I miss your strength. I miss your smile. I miss your voice. I miss the me I was when we were together. I love and miss you more everyday."
"I love and miss you so much more than I even knew was possible."
"It's time to face another work day tomorrow. Please watch over me and give me strength. I still just want to spend every minute wrapped up in one of your blankets and surround myself with all of our memories...block out the whole world. Unfortunately...that doesn't pay the bills. I love and miss you more every day."
"I love and miss you so very much. Last night was a very hard night...but I'm sure it will be one of many. Death physically separated us, but not death or anything could ever take away the love and memories we shared. I am trying my best to pull those around me and allow them to give me strength, it's not going too well right now, but someday it will work."
"Ok baby...I am going to rely on some of that strength you always gave me and go back and face the world tomorrow. You were so proud of me for being a teacher, as was my daddy, and I have to keep making you proud. I' going to be sad to come home and not be able to walk in and kiss and hug you like I did everyday...but I know you will be with me. I love you."
"Happy New Year Lisa. We miss you alot."
"Happy New Year's baby. You get to celebrate it with so many loved ones. I wish you were here to celebrate it with me. I never imagined I would be sitting her alone on New Year's Eve. I feel lonelier than I ever have in my life. People offered for me to celebrate with them, but I didn't feel like celebrating. I just love and miss you so much. It is so hard to be here without you. Watch over us."
"Lisa, you were truly an amazing person to know! I couldn't believe it when I heard and my heart reached out to Manda and all of your family! I know I have not seen you for about 3 years but I have always remembered you and tried to stay in contact with you! You were so much fun and such a great friend to have. I remember the night I met you and we were instantly friends. You will be missed!!!"
"Not long ago I asked you if you went before me would you come back and let me see you, hear you, feel your presence. I'm waiting. I need to feel you. I miss you so much. Please baby come close to me...let me know you're here with me. I need it so much. Please."
"Lisa we truly truly miss you. We think we are in a dream. You were and always will be a part of the Guthrie family. We Love Sis."
"Lisa,I didn't know you very well,but I knew you through the people who's lives you touched.I saw how happy you made Manda. I saw what a great son you raised.You did your best for those that loved you. You had a short life, but it was well lived because you gave your heart and that will live on forever."
"I am still having a hard time accepting that you are gone. I was in our bedroom looking at our engagement and wedding pictures and I just can't fathom that you are never going to be back here with me. How does something like this even happen? How can someone be gone so very quickly. I know none of us are promised tomorrow...but I truly thought I had so many more tomorrows to share with you."
"Merry Christmas baby. I love you and miss you so much."
"Lisa it is hard to believe that you are not here with us,I will always cherish the many memories we have made through out the years,I hope you know how much you meant to our sister Manda, you loved her and Blake so much they were your world, as you was theirs,You will always be my Best Friend, Give Mama and Daddy Christmas kisses and hugs for me, Love and Miss you very much."
"Hey there sis! It is so hard to believe that you are gone and I want to make you a promise, I will always look out for Manda and Blake. We know how much yu loved them both adn its so hard for them to go on but we are a strong family, we will help them. Your strength will always be with us and spirit will live in each of our hearts! RIP AND GIVE MOM AND DADDY A KISS! Merry Christmas WE LOVE YOU!"
"I remember Lisa from school. She was always nice and fun to be around. She was a friend and Manda and her family were like sisters to me. May God hold you in this time of sorrow."
"I have fond memories of Lisa and I working at Brown Shoe together, she was such a hoot to be around. Many a nights i stayed at her house just hanging out..I am truly gonna miss her smile and her generous nature"
"I am going to try to celebrate Christmas for our son's sake, but it is so hard. I finally wrapped the presents last night. It will be so hard to open the ones you wrapped for me. I love you and miss you. I hope you have a wonderful Christmas with your daddy, my mom and dad. Look down on us baby."
"Lisa it is still so hard for me to believe you are gone. I miss you more than words could ever say.I wander through our house and I still smell you and feel your presence. I hope you know how much I truly love you. I am having a hard time on this journey without you. I have always had you by my side holding my hand and letting me know everything will be ok. I wish I could have that one more time."
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