TRIBUTE TO MY BELOVED MOTHER MRS NELLY NDIEGO ESIONE.
For everything there is a season, a time for every matter under heaven. A time to be born, a time to die.
A time to plant, and a time to pluck up what is planted. A time to kill and a time to heal. A time to break
down and a time to build up.A time to weep ,and a time to laugh. A time to mourn, and a time to dance.
Death has struck my family yet again and again. It is believed that God made death to be blind, deaf, and dumb. God allowed death to wonder and feed on living things , be it young or old, poor or rich, big or small. There is no amount of crying or pleading that can change the heart of death. It goes without saying that we were born into this world to live and to die.
At the age of 97, my beloved mother passed away and went to be with the Lord. To God be the glory .Mama lived an accomplished , fulfilled, glorified, and well- pleased life on earth.
In her days Mama and Papa were blessed with the first Triplets in our country Nigeria. Elizabeth, Jonathan, and David. And altogether they had eight children, Elizabeth, Jonathan, David, Ernestina, Augusta, Chigbo, Chukwunonso, and Amalachukwu. My mother had twenty-four grand - children; and twenty- seven great- grand - children.
I will tell you of mother and daddy who stood their ground as husband and wife and brought up and nurtured a family of eight children. They were missionaries, Catechist as they were called in those days. The only way and hope they had in their livelihood was their determination to trust God who called them. They brought up their children in hard times and with good education and bright futures .
Mama was a mother to other children and grown- ups who were less fortunate. She never cooked food and reserved it only for her household. There were always less fortunate individuals who would join our family meals. My mother was a very devoted woman of God, she woke-up very early by 4.30 a.m., took her bath and attended morning prayers at the church, just the way they were doing it in their missionary years. She did that for the rest of her years before she finally left her residency /home to stay with her children. She never stopped rallying her family for prayers before going to bed every night.
Mama never stopped watching out for her children's welfare even when she was living outside her home. She continued to monitor their wellbeing, giving them encouragement when they needed it. She was a very brave and courageous mother and I am very happy she persevered until the day she left this world. Mama did not like to border any person. When any of her children did anything that bordered her, she always tried to call the person to resolve the matter. She even continued to cry on their behalf, because she did not want God to punish any of her children for what anyone has brought to oneself.
By the time Mama watched herself and understood she could no longer take care of herself, it was then that she started to ask her children to release her to go. She always told me that she knew it was my prayers that are holding her; of course because I like to be hearing her voice, whenever I called her on the phone. The whole privilege was given to me last on Mother's Day. We called her from America and wished her Happy Mother's Day, not even knowing that Mama would leave the next two days. Mama went to be with the Lord when my sister was laying her down on her bed. That was the death of a brave woman of God.
I know that death is the end of natural life, and life after death is Victory over the fear of death. The fear of death has no ground in the life of someone who had accepted The Lord Jesus Christ as one's personal Savior. And that was the area I made sure my mother did it correct when she was alive. Perfect love cast out fear because Victory and Triumph had swallowed up death. Jesus went down to hell and snatched away from the devil the key of the gate of hell, and liberated the saints of God, and transferred them into the Kingdom of God.
My final thought to my Mom's tribute is concerning all of us who are still living; who are created by God Almighty. Are you prepared to meet your creator; do you know your tomorrow? No one knows when one will be called. Get yourself together, wake-up from your sleep, clean-up yourself. Call on the name of Jesus Christ; tell Him to forgive you your sin and to receive you into His Kingdom. He is The Alpha and The Omega. The Beginning and The End. Nobody will go to the Father except through Jesus Christ, His only begotten Son. Make sure you know to whom you have given your life; The Lord Jesus Christ, or The Devil; The evil one. Jesus Christ will never force Himself into your life. He is waiting for every individual to invite Him into one’s life. Be clearly sure Jesus Christ is the Lord and Savior of your life. Are you lonely in your thoughts; why won't you come to The Lord Jesus Christ and partake of Hislove? He is the only way to God.
By the way, I say Adieu to my beloved mother, until I meet you again in that glorious day of resurrection where we shall all gather together in the presence of Jesus, in jubilation; where you are now resting in perfect peace: and never to hurt again.
Your daughter,
Mrs. Elizabeth Okoma Esione Offoh.