TRIBUTE TO MY SUPER ANGEL
I trembled as I watched you translate into another realm on March 6, 2016, thinking it was a dream and I would wake up soon....
.......It's still like a cruel joke to me mummy! Life is not the same without you. It's so difficult to express my feeling.......never has anything hurt this bad. Mummy, in you I saw love that is absolute and all encompassing, love that transcends all else. You were so much to me.........an excellent companion, my confidant, my caretaker, my backbone, my Watchman, the best counsellor, my friend, the true mother to my children, my extraordinary backup in everything.
You trained us just as the bible commanded, you brought us up to have a relationship with God, to be respectful and hardworking. You instilled the reverence for God in us and never gave room for any indolent or indiscipline. Your discipline made us who we are today. You taught us to understand the values of life and to make the right decision. You were a very strong and industrious woman, you wanted the very best for us. You welcomed everyone and made your home comfortable for them. You accepted all our friends and treated everyone equally and your hospitality made every visitor feel important. You were a force that always brings the whole family together. You were a perfect organiser.
Mummy, you were an Angel here on earth. You were a portrait of a godly mother, you were our rock, our anchor, our inestimable Jewel. You were loving, kind, caring, strong, sweet, thoughtful, resilient, hopeful and selfless, your virtues can not be qualified. You had special Love for me and you were beside me in everything I went through especially relating to my children. You were always there for my children, praying for us and teaching them the word. You were so much more than a mother to me. You were a great covering for us.
You are the one that would notice when my children had any rashes, you are the one that notice when they are not feeding well. You would go everywhere with us and helping with the children always. You always look out for their wellbeing. For over a year, you took Hansel to Igbobi for therapy every morning.
Nigel, Hansel & Denzel in their early years knew you as their mothers. You had the heart of Gold, a heart to reason right in all things.
I learnt so much from you. You taught me to endure and be the very best in all I do. In you I learnt to be a giver as I grew up watching you give of yourself and your resources. You gave your all to God and your family, never thinking about yourself but everyone else. You constantly wanted to know if I needed money and was always a great support whenever there was a need. My house was always well stocked with food because you ensured there was no stock out. You loved and treated my husband as your own son. We all always looked forward to coming to your home every weekend. You were a mother that gladdens the heart of all around you. You sacrificed so much for your children, family and friends. In your sixty-two years on earth you affected so many lives, you were not just a mother to me and my siblings but so many that came in contact with you experienced your amazing touch.
You were more than a mother, you were an awesome friend and a great listener too. Oh how I miss our special talks. You were full of stories that inspires and motivates us unto good works. You had so much to say about God's Mercy and Faithfulness. On March 2, 2016, I came to your house after work, you had so much to say to me, but I had to leave because it was getting very late, I never knew that was going to be our last special talk as you transited four day later. I'd always cherish all those moments we had, I particularly remember when we were together in Houston for four months. I also remember our trip Disney World in Florida, trip to India, our visit to the White House in DC, and several resorts in the United State. Over the years we had so much fun, frequently travelling together. I miss you so much mummy and you knew that I'd miss you this much. You taught me so much about life and Godliness. You translation has changed a lot of things.
Mummy, you were unwavering in your stand for truth and righteousness. You were bold and fearless in your stand. Though gentle and gracious, you were firm and unbending in your biblical conviction. Your Love for God was so inspiring. Your Godly counsel always comes at the right time. You were full of the Spirit of God and was steadfast in your Faith in God. You never ceased to confess God's Word. You fought the good faith, kept the faith, finished the course and won the race! I remember one of your favourite scripture "I shall not die, but live to declare the work of the Lord"
Yes mummy, you did not die, Woe unto death, you got the victory! You had transited to a more glorious place.
Mummy, I can never say goodbye to you, because I could never bear the pain. Instead I say I love you Mummy until we meet again.
Your dearly beloved daughter………………….Dcns Rachel Akhuetie