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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, William Blackford, 60 years old, born on March 5, 1953, and passed away on February 1, 2014. We will remember him forever.
February 1
February 1
Thinking of my dear friend and his beautiful wife, Tory, today. Full of gratitude for our friendship and for wonderful memories of time spent together. Looking forward to creating fresh memories with Tory this year.
February 1, 2015
February 1, 2015
Remembering Bill today and always. Love to you, Tory, from Mark, Charlene and Lindz
March 6, 2014
March 6, 2014
Tory, I hope you will see this ! I had every intention of coming to the Memorial in Ridgewood , but at the last minute my Son needed to me do something for him. I am sorry I missed it. In case you don`t have my email joebusheypainting@hotmail.com. Please keep in touch. I hope you are well!
February 28, 2014
February 28, 2014
Bill crafted beauty in diverse and numerous ways, through singing, designing decks and landscapes, creating stained glass, and, most of all, through his love for Tory. I can still hear the sound of his laughter, see the wonder of his smile, and feel the warmth of his love and companionship for me, Mark, and Lindsay over the last 35 years. His voice will be remembered . . .
February 24, 2014
February 24, 2014
Bill was my mentor and friend when I joined West Side Presbyterian Church Choir. Bill took me under his wing and I've been a better Tenor since. I will deeply miss this man and look forward to singing with him again when I gain my reward. For Joyce and me, Bill and Tory were both a blessing and great friends. We both will miss Bill dearly and Tory and Bill's family will be in our heartfelt prayers.
February 24, 2014
February 24, 2014
I met Bill and Tory when I came to work at West Side Presbyterian Church...Tory was chair of Personnel and one of the people responsible for bringing me here. Once on staff, Bill and Tory really took me under their wing, inviting me to their home for dinner and providing me with any information I needed to make my job easier. Bill was the kind of gentleman who, rather than simply pay a compliment in passing, would actually take the time to write a personal note. There was something very kind and sweet and old-fashioned about him that drew people to him. Thank you for sharing him with all of us, Tory.
February 10, 2014
February 10, 2014
Bill and Tory are one of the most devoted couples I've ever met. Dear sweet people who loved each other to the core. Tory - May the love all of us have for you help to fill your void. Huge hugs, Wendy
February 9, 2014
February 9, 2014
I met Tory and Bill in 1986 at their home in Oradell when I was asked to paint the exterior of their house, which was the first of many projects we collaborated on over 20+ years. They were true lovers of restoration of older historical homes and gardening. They both enjoyed getting their hands dirty and very competent in doing so. I am sorry Tory for your loss, but glad he isn't suffering any more
February 6, 2014
February 6, 2014
Bill and I met after he moved to Cville. We worked briefly on a church committee at First Presbyterian. Even though he was ill, I enjoyed having his thoughtful comments. I am glad he suffers no more.
February 6, 2014
February 6, 2014
Bill and I met many, many years ago when we both worked at Chemical Bank in NYC and quickly became fast friends. Shortly thereafter, I happily met Tory. Through the years I've been lucky enough to share a meaningful and delightful friendship with both. Tory, you and Bill are both in my hearts and in my prayers. What a wonderful love you share with each other -- and with each of us.
February 5, 2014
February 5, 2014
Dick and I met Bill and Tory at West Side Presbyterian Church in Ridgewood, NJ., and then they moved. Every time we visited our sons in North Carolina, we would make a side trip to C'ville to visit the Blackfords. We developed a wonderful friendship, enjoyed several holidays, and we will miss Bill so very much. We will continue to support and visit Tory.
February 4, 2014
February 4, 2014
We got busy with are respective lives later on, but Bill and Tory have always been treasured, special friends. I will miss him.
February 3, 2014
February 3, 2014
From early childhood, when Bill was a real red head, into adulthood Bill always did some things so well I was always an admirer. I am glad he is out of pain, but I will miss him at our next family gathering. God speed and best wishes to Tory.

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February 1
February 1
Thinking of my dear friend and his beautiful wife, Tory, today. Full of gratitude for our friendship and for wonderful memories of time spent together. Looking forward to creating fresh memories with Tory this year.
February 1, 2015
February 1, 2015
Remembering Bill today and always. Love to you, Tory, from Mark, Charlene and Lindz
March 6, 2014
March 6, 2014
Tory, I hope you will see this ! I had every intention of coming to the Memorial in Ridgewood , but at the last minute my Son needed to me do something for him. I am sorry I missed it. In case you don`t have my email joebusheypainting@hotmail.com. Please keep in touch. I hope you are well!
Recent stories

Who is Having More Fun Here?

April 15, 2014

Who says these are nesting buckets? They are obviously hats!

Bill Blackford as "Best Storyteller"

April 15, 2014

When we lived in Charlottesville, Va, we cherished holiday visits from Tory and Bill. Even now, Lindsay remembers Bill as being her best childhood storyteller. Bill  read books to her using unique voices for each character making the stories come alive.  

A few memories of Bill

February 4, 2014

I met Bill in the fall of 1971 at the Residential College (U-M).  He quickly became like a member of my family.  To my Mom, Bill was another son.  He was a frequent guest.

Michigan went to the 1972 Rose Bowl.  His family quickly became hosts to eight college guys: his roommate Stan and three of his friends, and me and friends.  One story that struck Bill's fancy was the day his Mom was baking a ham for all of us.  She was very slowly trying to remove the cloves with tongs.  I 'volunteered' to help and removed them by hand.  If you could have seen his Mother's face!  I told her, "Don't worry, any germs will be baked off."

I was a frequent guest during Bill's early New York years and my Mom would also visit New York once a year to catch up with Bill.  One of those times, when Bill lived on East 91st Street, I remember he requested my Mom make spanish rice.  I don't remember any special reason, but he wanted some of Ma Whittum's cooking.

If I remember correctly, that was the same visit where Bill had an 'appointment.'  It really was a date with Tory, but he wasn't ready to introduce us yet.

When he announced he was getting married, my Mom made a quilt especially from him and Tory.  After all, what better gift than something handmade for one of your sons (and his wife).

We had a lot of good times.

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