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Alma Ingersoll Hix was born in Philadelphia in May of 1930 to Jesse and Catharine “Kate” Otley of Penn Valley Pennsylvania. Alma’s father, Jesse Otley, served in WWI in the 314th Infantry Regiment. He saw action in France from where he regularly wrote letters home to Kate Hasselberg, the woman who was to become his loving wife. After the war Jess and Catharine were married and had four children: Gloria, Jess, and twins, Carl and Alma.

Alma grew up in Penn Valley and attended schools in Radnor. Beginning in 9th grade, she attended The Shipley School in Bryn Mawr. At Shipley, Alma developed many friendships that lasted for seven decades. After graduating from Shipley in 1948. Alma then attended her beloved Smith College in Northampton, Massachusetts. She graduated in 1952 with BA in Art with a focus on Architecture, having been inspired by her father’s love of historic homes in north America. In 1977, Alma went on to earn her MLA – Master of Landscape Architecture from the SUNY College of Environmental Science and Forestry in Syracuse, NY.

While growing up, Alma and her siblings spent summers at Pine Forrest Farm along the Chester River and then at the “Bohemia” farm along the Bohemia River, both in Maryland. Alma cherished her time there and often told stories of her summers “down in Maryland." Alma was the last surviving Otley from the family of Jess and Kate. Alma, along with her brothers and sisters, her many children, and dozens and dozens of Otley, Ingersoll, and Hix descendants, is part of a vibrant and far-reaching legacy.

In 1953, Alma married her high school and college sweetheart, Howard Ingersoll, whom she met when she was 15. Howard attended Cornell University while Alma was at Smith. After graduating with a degree in mechanical engineering, Howard served in the Air Force with Alma by his side. Alma and Howard spent time in Ohio, Pennsylvania, and Washington DC before settling down in Wayne, Pennsylvania. In the early 60s, Alma and Howard realized their dream of building a cabin overlooking Alma’s much-loved Bohemia River. Alma and Howard had sons including Anthony, Paul, and Charles. In 1966, Howard died suddenly and tragically of a heart condition leaving Alma alone with the boys.

In 1967, Alma met the second love of her life, Charles "Frank" Hix of Berwyn PA. Frank had lost his wife Patsy to cancer in 1966 and was busy raising his three daughters Claudia, Lisa, and Julie while working as an engineering executive at GE outside of Philadelphia. They were married in 1967. With this serendipitous union, Alma and Frank and the children from the two families joined together to become a large and boisterous family that made a lasting footprint wherever they lived.

Over the course of the next 15 years, Alma and Frank and their children lived variously in Berwyn, Pennsylvania, Cazenovia, New York, and Westport Connecticut. In 1981, after becoming empty-nesters, and after Frank’s retirement from GE, Frank and Alma moved to Estes Park where they built their beautiful passive-solar home high on a rocky point overlooking the town. At that time they assumed ownership of Hix Insurance, Inc. from which they retired in January 2000. Alma served as the President of the firm, while Frank was the Chief Operating Officer.

Alma threw herself into Frank’s passion for restoring and operating Stanley Steam Cars. Alma and Frank took a variety of lovingly restored Stanley steam cars to car shows and to countless Steam Car “tours”. They also hosted several Steam Car tours themselves. Alma and Frank were well known in the Stanley Steam Car community for their dedication to the preservation of this important chapter in America’s industrial history. Alma was a member of the Estes Park Car Club and, along with Frank, was very active in the Estes Park Museum and the Stanley Museum. Alma was a strong advocate for women's rights long before it came into vogue. She professed the importance of education for women and was very active alumnus in support of Shipley, Smith College, and SUNY ESF.

Alma was intelligent, quick to laugh, and very worldly. She was a true Renaissance Woman – interested in all topics and always keen to keep learning. We will fondly remember the endless stories she told about her childhood. Alma will be remembered as the Otley-Ingersoll-Hix “super Matriarch”. For almost seven decades, she was the glue that kept the family together.

She was very proud of her large family – her children, and especially her grand and great-grand children. She never missed a graduation or wedding and racked up tons of miles traveling with Frank to these joyous events. Alma saw to it that each child, grandchild, and great grandchild got a card on milestone events like birthdays and graduations. She lovingly kept the family calendar for 60 years, coordinating visits from her children and their families to her and Frank's home, or to “The River”. Christmas and Thanksgiving were always a time to gather, and these were well attended for each of the last six decades because of Alma’s love and dedication to family.

Alma was ever supportive of her children as they grew and started families of their own. “Mom” was always there to help out in times of trouble or when obstacles would appear. She will be remembered for her generosity of spirit, her selfless support in challenging times, and her dedication to creating happiness and success in others.

Alma's children include: Claudia (Rick Angus) Hix, Tony (Cynthia) Ingersoll, Lisa (Jim Kyle) Hix, Julie (Keith) Liebmann, Paul (Sarah) Ingersoll, and Charles (Margaret) Hix III; 14 grandchildren: Jessica (Steve), Diana (Will), Benjamin (Kimberly), Nathaniel (Samantha), Michael, Landon, Nicholas, Lauren, Aaron, Erin (Evan), Jason (Pam), Michelle (Nick), Jacob (Nicki), and Zach, as well as seven great grandchildren: Katie Ann, Aaron, Alma, Sidney, Adelaide, Hadyn, and Griffin.

Alma was preceded in death by her first husband, Howard, by her second husband Frank, by her three siblings, Gloria, Jess Jr., her twin brother Carl, and her grandson, Michael. Frank and Alma celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary in June 2017.

A celebration of life was held on Sunday, November 10th at Chateau Bu-De in Earleville, Maryland in 2019. An additional service was held in Estes Park, Colorado in November of 2019 at the Stanley Hotel in Estes Park. Alma is interred at Estes Valley Memorial Gardens next to her husband Frank.
 
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May 12, 2021
May 12, 2021
It's spring going into summer. Will always remember your love of trees and gardens. You knew all the Latin names of trees! I miss you very much.
Love,
Claud
May 31, 2020
May 31, 2020
Alma and Frank were great neighbors when they lived up on the top of Big Horn. Alma had determination and a spitfire personality, which I loved. I would like for one of her sons to please contact me about an historical question regarding the property. You can contact me at gatorpt74@gmail.com or call me at 970.699.6350. Thank you!
December 3, 2019
December 3, 2019
I still remember the first time I met Alma. I applied for a job in the Boulder office working with Charles. She came to meet me on a 2nd interview. She was so impressive and a lovely woman. I knew that she was someone I would love working for. I was absolutely right. I just learned about her passing and just wanted to send my condolences to her family. She was so much fun to be around. Whenever, I would see her she always greeted me with a smile and a story. She will be missed and I am a better person just to have known her. 
November 12, 2019
November 12, 2019
At Shipley Alma played goalie on our varsity hockey team. Senior year our final game was against our biggest rival, Baldwin, which had an undefeated record. Just prior to the game Almie's best friend Ann had been demoted to the JV, and replaced by a junior named Betsy. Not only that we didn't like Betsy, we didn't think she played right fullback very well. We managed to score a goal early on, but the rest of the game belonged to Baldwin, which was unquestionably the better team. They took shot after shot after shot on our goal, most of them by the person guarded by Ann's substitute, and after each save Alma would angrily shout, "Betsy, that was YOUR man." We won the game 1-0. (I can still hear Almie's voice.) Fast forward to our 50th reunion. Frannie Rogalsky had made reservations for us at the Barnes Museum, and at the last minute had given up her space to some Baldwin alums, who desperately needed an extra ticket. But when we arrived at the Barnes we were not admitted; the tickets would only be given to Mrs. Rogalsky. We explained, pleaded, argued; to no avail. But we knew the voice we needed... "Almie!" She started "Now look here..." And they let us in. (I can still hear Almie's voice.)
November 10, 2019
November 10, 2019
Frank and Alma gave me a job when I moved to Estes Park in 1996 and I lived in the big cabin of theirs above the Stanley steamer garage they had. After they moved to Good Samaritan village I would see them almost every day and they were so kind to me . Thank you Alma for helping me out !!! :)
November 5, 2019
November 5, 2019
Alma and Frank were always so gracious to Hank and I when we visited them. Their love of life and their many interests made them fascinating people to know. Hank and I admired and loved them.
Love and light to all,
Donna Usher & Hank Hamilton
October 29, 2019
October 29, 2019
She was my mentor and my friend and really so much more. I will miss her and do miss her but she lives on in my life because I use, say, do so many things she taught me. I used to say I listen to her advice even better than she does.... I was so fortunate to have a woman mentor in my life and even more fortunate that it was Alma. Rest in peace Alma. I will be forever grateful to you and Frank. Thank you for putting this together. Much love to all the family.

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May 12, 2021
May 12, 2021
It's spring going into summer. Will always remember your love of trees and gardens. You knew all the Latin names of trees! I miss you very much.
Love,
Claud
May 31, 2020
May 31, 2020
Alma and Frank were great neighbors when they lived up on the top of Big Horn. Alma had determination and a spitfire personality, which I loved. I would like for one of her sons to please contact me about an historical question regarding the property. You can contact me at gatorpt74@gmail.com or call me at 970.699.6350. Thank you!
December 3, 2019
December 3, 2019
I still remember the first time I met Alma. I applied for a job in the Boulder office working with Charles. She came to meet me on a 2nd interview. She was so impressive and a lovely woman. I knew that she was someone I would love working for. I was absolutely right. I just learned about her passing and just wanted to send my condolences to her family. She was so much fun to be around. Whenever, I would see her she always greeted me with a smile and a story. She will be missed and I am a better person just to have known her. 
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Provide, Provide!

March 21, 2020
I heard my mom quote the last line in this famous Robert Frost poem dozens of times. Alma always presented it with a chuckle as if it were tongue-in-cheek. I never read the poem and always thought the phrase "provide, provide" was humorous.

Once you read the poem – as I recently did - you’ll realize that it’s not tongue-in-cheek at all; it is a very pragmatic view of growing old.

Mom always accepted life head on and made pragmatic decisions. With apologies to Frank Sinatra, "she did it her way".

Because I don’t possess the money to “provide, provide”. I can only hope that love abides, so here is my take on a revised version of the poem for those of you in similar financial circumstances.

Ascend, Ascend!
Dear Lord amidst heaven abound
Hear my prayer, my earthly sound.
When my eyes dim, my body cold,
Don’t entomb me in a rock hold.

Don’t roll that stone across my door.
I pray that You have plans for more.
Send a chariot, vibrant light
Lift me gently into the night.

Receive me, Lord, with open arms.
Receive me, Lord, to hear Your songs.
Receive me, Lord, to feel Your kiss.
Receive me, Lord, for holy bliss.

A prayer? Yes, yet I insist,
Treasure me in eternal mist.
When it is time, no need to rush,
May my carriage be velvet plush

Place my bones in a Viking ship
Set it ablaze and let it drift.
The Milky Way has room to roam.
Send Your angels and take me home.

Your home wherein time never ends
Rooms of star dust. Ascend, ascend!

Peter John Ingersoll 3/21/2020



The other son...

February 11, 2020
Tony and I were best friends in High School, Cazenovia, and I was welcomed into their beautiful home as one of them. Alma often made sure the cold cut drawer was full so when we cane home late, we could make huge sandwiches. We used to toot around in Their ‘67 Chevrolet SS. She was kind and fun, and seemed to understand the joy and confusion co-mingled in the minds of teenage boys and their quest to solve mysteries with very few clues. I enjoyed her laughter, and always appreciate how comfortable and appreciated she made me feel. Those fond memories will stay with me always. 

Message from Dave and Carrie Stocker, Rockford, IL - November, 2019

November 22, 2019

Hello and a heartfelt embrace to the dear family of Alma Otley Ingersoll Hix - Claudia, Lisa Julie and your families - And especially Paul, Tony, Chick and Peter whom I have known since I was in diapers. And to your families as well. Now we span children’s children’s children.

This is Dave Stocker in Illinois 62 years old and still feeling the recent joy of reunion in August with Paul and Sarah here en route to back East. Their trailer was pulled up close by our house at The Compound on Rural St. We sat, cooked out and told stories in our drive for three days as we watched the dogs circulate. Second Morning, Paul dialed Alma and there she was on FaceTime  to see us and say, “ There’s my boys!” I am so grateful to Paul for this moment. 

And I think of you all as part of many experiences and places, big snow in Cazenovia, Wayne, PA. We stayed in a tent platform before the first cabin, beach combing for arrowheads and dragging sunken rowboats back to shore at the River. The Bohemian Queen, bouncing really far across the Bay with Frank in the Boston Whaler, epic prison break games after dark & collapsing in a room with gym mats and a rope swing off the rafters!!  

Tony and me off to Europe found ourselves a few degrees above the Arctic circle and utterly sleepless in a bright orange tent and then in Venice the day Nixon resigned! A boisterous American tourist was so happy he bought us dinner!  My first try at grad school in Dallas it meant a lot to be close to Charles and Margaret- friends in what seemed a distant land. 

Peter, I remember the sound of your guitar from way back in Philly. I dreamed of becoming a cabinetmaker-guitarist. I did it man. (and later you turned up living with Paul in Aurora, IL)...seeing Claudia and Peyton  .was it up the Housatonic as I headed out of New Haven to live in the midwest thirty years ago. and here I still am. So many stories like the flow of rivers and tides of the ocean. I have these great memories through the gift of Alma’s friendship with my parents, Pat and Jim Stocker.

Alma left a deep impression on me and affected my life in a big big way. She gave me a kind of permission to be a boy, and I always felt just wonderful in her company. It would be with great joy that Carrie and I might have the chance to see and greet any of you and offer safe mooring here just west of Chicago or let’s meet by bigger water somewhere and, please let it not be too long.

Thinking of you all with gratitude, love & deep peace.

Dave & Carrie Lee Stocker

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