Tributes
Leave a tributeYour baby twins are 70!!! You must be so proud of them and their accomplishments!! We all miss you and Dad so much, but we carry on without you as you would want us to. Your love for each other and for us lives on. You were the best Mom ever!! I love you always ... your first born. Paula
❤
You would be so proud of Dennis on his retirement... and Debby too ... for all they have accomplished in life. You and Daddy did such a wonderful job of raising us with love and guiding us to become the people we are today.
We miss you both so much!!! Debby's wedding dress would be shortened much better by your hands than mine, but I will do my best!! I love and miss you with all my heart and think of you everyday. ♥ I know you and Daddy are dancing to Peg 'O My Heart right now with dreamy eyes. Until I see you again, keep dancing!
We are all retired now. All thinking of you and the way you loved us and taught us how to love each other. The gift that never dies.
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We long to go back in time and do it all over again.
lotsa Love,
Jack and Jan Sadler
You have given me so much strength the last 3 weeks as Joe has been paralyzed. I talked to you and asked you for help. Today he stood up for the 1st time.
We are going to get married soon. I know you and Daddy wanted this. You will be there with us the day of our wedding.
Jack and Jan Sadler
by Jack And Jan Sadler
Our Love for you and Charlie will never chahge.
Jack and Jan Sadler
You have been gone seven years now, and Dad seventeen. It doesn't seem possible. You and Dad gave us such wonderful years! So many cherished memories!
Every day your words come out of my mouth Mom. Today Debby noticed I said someone's "nose was out of joint." (I think that is a total Arline Brown or Janes expression. :).
I see you and Dad in the eyes of my grandchildren ... you live on through them. We all love and miss you ❤️ every day.
You are truly forever missed!
Love from your oldest.
P. S. I got your white hair. What a great gift!! :)
This is the year that I hit the age of 90.
My sweet wife has not been able to walk for quite a while.
We still remember the fun of all times we got together with the Browns.
Love, Jack and Jan Sadler
Dennis and Paula continue to be loving and supportive always. You taught us all well.
Jack and Janet are still close by and well.
I thought this longing and tears for you would finally go away.
It's not happening.
However, joy happens when I'm among your children.
I recieived so much important advice from you when I was a teenager and never forgot ,
Still Loving you,
-Jack
One other thing you might like to know about Nana
Janes was that she was a supervisor over all the
long-distance operators in San Francisco before she
married. She met Dad when he worked with
her Dad on the streetcars and cable cars in S.F. and
he brought him home to dinner. They did not want her
to marry him because he had been very ill with Typhoid
Fever, and they did not think he would have a long
life. He was bald even then as had lost all his hair
with the fever. Consequently we never saw him with
hair, and she only had one or two pictures of him with
hair. They ran off and got married. They liked,
accepted him and he did live a pretty long, very happy
life!
This is the Nana we did not know. BG Richard
Oh to lie with my head in your lap again.
Grief does not diminish.
I don't why the tears flow down our face. We should be joyful having you
two as our Dearest friends for all those Years.
How excited you must be to know we are awaiting Amber's little Claire Jane!
The moments you come to me are precious beyond words.
Aunt Arline was a dear Aunt, and I really feel I got to know her best
in her last 15 years or so when I would be in Reno on BLM business and would often drive over to Portola for a visit, or lunch with her. She
was one of my last real links to the earlier generation of our family
and she had an incredible memory, plus impressive computer skills and very organized photos. I became well trained at the front door of her house to NOT let the dogs out as I slipped in. I enjoyed those visits immensely.
Thank you Eric!
Thank you for Paula who continues to mother me everyday. I know you are always beside me. How thrilled you and Daddy must be to know little Ted is here and that Amber is so fulfilled. Have a dance with Daddy and a good laugh that I look more like you every day.
Xoxo
OH and I posted a picture of our plant!...she is doing very well and I think of YOU everytime I look at her ans water her!
I would wish
To sit beside you again
On the piano bench
Like a bolt out of the blue
Fate would come in and see me through
To endure another day without you
Here-where I can lean against you
And feel your warmth and hear your voice
I am not only your Crybaby
I am your Dreamer too.
We still think of our relationship with the Browns and the wonderful times the Brown/Sadler Families had.
I've been thinking about the time when Arline''s Mom gave me the best and most important advice I ever had. Love, Jack and Janet
You would have been 90 today.
Instead you will forever be a youthful 87.
You are more right with every passing day about most everything.
I become more like you by the minute.
Thank you for my dear Sister. I love her like I love you.
She was a loving aunt, a smart, hardworking woman who influenced in a positive way the lives of all the remaining Janeses.
Paula takes such good care of me.
to have, Arline.
And I'll always remember our conversations at the bear club after ball games when I was only 18 years old.
We love all your children and will forever. Please say hello to Charlie and tell him we miss him so.
Love, Jack and Jan Sadler,
What I wouldn't give to have lettuce wraps and margaritas with you just one more time so I could tell you all that I have come to understand since you left. I would take your hand in mine and tell you "I love you so much!!!! I totally get it!"
The "Silver Lining" turned out to be the gift of Debby, The two of us have been able to carry on without you (because we have each other). We share the memories of being your daughters, and we are brave together! You would be proud! <3 <3
When I was very young, you and I watched the movie "Judgment at Nuremberg" together, and you taught me so much about history. I cherish that time I had with you.
Thank you for teaching me what love is all about. Thank you God for blessing me with this wonderful mother!
Your Crybaby.
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Your baby twins are 70!!! You must be so proud of them and their accomplishments!! We all miss you and Dad so much, but we carry on without you as you would want us to. Your love for each other and for us lives on. You were the best Mom ever!! I love you always ... your first born. Paula
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Mom's Favorite Plant
This plant (not sure what it is called) was hand carried from Hawaii by Mom to remember the wonderful, romantc trip she and Daddy took when they retired. She kept it in the window of her kitchen, and cared for it tenderly.
She told me Trevor always admired it, and told all three of her children (and wrote it down in several places) that she wanted Trevor to have it when she passed. Trevor was very special to her. He visited and did errands for her often. A great nephew! And he also has an incredibly green thumb! Maybe two incredible green thumbs!!
Thank you Trevor for posting this photo! It almost looks like it is growing into a heart shape. Love from Mom!
Sleep Now
Although I cannot see you, I feel your presence near.
I will hold you close in memory,
Till I drop my very last tear.
So sleep now with the angels,
And your golden heart let rest.
Although our hearts are broken,
We know God took the best.
So dance beyond those golden gates,
And join our loving Dad.
I'll see you when I'm sleeping,
And pray for you to come.
And although this pain is painful,
And I don’t want to let you go.
I'll wait for death to take me Mom,
So we can together one day glow.
Until that day I'll close my eyes,
and see your smiling face.
I'll lock you up inside my heart,
Until we again embrace.
So rest now my beautiful mother,
I'll never forget how much you have done.
So until my hand meets yours again,
Sleep now in the sun.
Arline's Memorial Video
Join us for 10 minutes of love, laughter and wonderful memories of Arline.
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This memorial website was created in the memory of our loving mother, Arline Brown, 87, born on July 13, 1925 and passed away on September 14, 2012. She will live on in our hearts forever.
Arline, a long time outstanding Portola resident, passed away suddenly on Friday, September 14th in Roseville, California where she had recently moved to be near her children and grandchildren. The day before her death, she had gone to lunch with her daughter, enjoyed her favorite dish, had a tall margarita, and was shopping for her new great-granddaughter due in October. She was “on top of the world” and loved her new little apartment, the many friends she made at Roseville Commons, and the ability to shop at the Dollar Store near her new home.
It was known that she was struggling with kidney disease and for that reason her three children moved her to Roseville three months prior to her death to be near them.
Arline’s first job was for the Portola Reporter. She was 12 years old and was paid $2 a week. She was a student at Portola High School, and after graduation attended Heald Business College in Richmond, CA. She then went to work as a Roadmaster Clerk for the Western Pacific Railroad in Portola. She sold Avon for many years and earned many Awards with her great salesmanship. In later years she worked as a legal secretary, and retired as a medical transcriptionist. She taught herself medical terms and was very proud of her skills.
Arline was instrumental in restoring a monument dedicated to her mother who had taken active part in the development of the Portola Park and swimming pool. The monument was completed in 2012. She was also very active on the Portola El Tigre website and provided much historical information to Portola residents. She had a wonderful memory, and loved her computer (especially Farmtown).
Arline was married to her late husband, Charlie Brown, on September 13, 1947 in Portola. They had a wonderful 54 years together. She fell ill on their anniversary, and passed away the next day.
Family was everything to Arline. When her children divorced, her love and friendship continued on with their partners. She is survived by three children, Paula Buerger, Lincoln (born in 1950), and twins Dennis Brown (Sacramento) and Debbie Tudor (Watsonville) (born in 1952). Also surviving are eleven grandchildren, twelve great-grandchildren, and nineteen nieces and nephews. Many of the nieces and nephews traveled from California, Nevada and the Midwest to join in the celebration of Arline's life at her home in Portola. The home has been in the Janes family for over 100 years. Arline lived there for 79 of her 89 years of life.
Arline was preceded in death by her mother and father (Joseph and Juanita Janes), her siblings Herb Janes, Bertram Janes, Pauline Parrish, and Richard Janes, her son Charles Brown, and her nephew Bert Janes. Her graveside services were held at the Portola cemetery at 12:00 p.m. on Saturday, September 29th. She was laid to rest in the beauty she had done much to establish and preserve. A celebration of Arline’s life followed at her home in Portola.
Arline will be sadly missed by her many friends and family. The family requests that, in lieu of flowers, contributions be made to High Sierra Animal Rescue in Portola (http://www.highsierraanimalrescue.org/). Arline loved dogs, and her wish was to help out all the little orphan dogs possible.
[Note: The questions from the "Her Life" section were responses she wrote in a book I gave her to complete in 1984. If you would like, leave a story in the "Story" section. It would sure be appreciated. And if you have time, go into the audio gallery and listen to the song Mom wanted played at her memorial, "Look for the Silver Lining". That's what I'm going to do.]