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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Arline Brown, 87 years old, born on July 13, 1925, and passed away on September 14, 2012. We will remember her forever.
July 13, 2023
July 13, 2023
Another year. As I watch the wonderful video Paula made once more I am struck by how happy you look throughout your 89 years. What a good life you lived. I feel you every day. 
September 14, 2022
September 14, 2022
10 years without you Mom ...  It doesn't seem possible.  I miss you so much!! I picture you dancing in heaven with Daddy to Peg 'O My Heart!! Your happy place! Your love for each other, through good times and bad, was always strong!

Your baby twins are 70!!! You must be so proud of them and their accomplishments!! We all miss you and Dad so much, but we carry on without you as you would want us to. Your love for each other and for us lives on. You were the best Mom ever!! I love you always ... your first born.  Paula
July 13, 2022
July 13, 2022
10 years. And now Juanita and Janet Sadler have joined you. Jack will not be able to write this year. Neither will Rick. I love and miss you Mom. Wish you were here to see Dennis and I turn 70.
September 14, 2021
September 14, 2021
I have a severe case of hives today. It reminds me of you putting calamine lotion on me when I got the measles. Besides your laughing picture I added one of you and Madison and ask you to watch over her every day. It brings me comfort. I am your Cry Baby. 
July 14, 2021
July 14, 2021
Dear Mom ... It is hard to believe that you left us nine years ago.  Debby, Dennis and I all agree that as much as we miss you, we are grateful you left at a younger age (not 96), you didn't suffer, and you were so happy and healthy the day before you left us. You kept your quick wit and sharp mind until your last days. So many people tell me what an amazing, funny, kind, and loving person you were. So grateful you were my Mom!

You would be so proud of Dennis on his retirement... and Debby too ... for all they have accomplished in life. You and Daddy did such a wonderful job of raising us with love and guiding us to become the people we are today. 

We miss you both so much!!! Debby's wedding dress would be shortened much better by your hands than mine, but I will do my best!! I love and miss you with all my heart and think of you everyday. ♥ I know you and Daddy are dancing to Peg 'O My Heart right now with dreamy eyes.  Until I see you again, keep dancing!
July 13, 2021
July 13, 2021
Joe is back at work. Says he misses you every day. Misses Daddy. Misses Portola. I look over at your laughing photo every time When You Wish Upon A Star plays on my musical clock and remember sitting beside you while you played it on the piano.
We are all retired now. All thinking of you and the way you loved us and taught us how to love each other. The gift that never dies.
❤❤❤
September 16, 2020
September 16, 2020
Arline, You and Charlie will remain in our hearts forever.
We long to go back in time and do it all over again.
lotsa Love,
Jack and Jan Sadler
September 14, 2020
September 14, 2020
Mom,
You have given me so much strength the last 3 weeks as Joe has been paralyzed. I talked to you and asked you for help. Today he stood up for the 1st time.
We are going to get married soon. I know you and Daddy wanted this. You will be there with us the day of our wedding.
April 13, 2020
April 13, 2020
Another year and it seems only year since we last saw you.
Our Love for you and Charlie will never chahge.
Jack and Jan Sadler
September 15, 2019
September 15, 2019
Dear Mom, 

You have been gone seven years now, and Dad seventeen.  It doesn't seem possible. You and Dad gave us such wonderful years! So many cherished memories! 

Every day your words come out of my mouth Mom. Today Debby noticed I said someone's "nose was out of joint." (I think that is a total Arline Brown or Janes expression. :).

I see you and Dad in the eyes of my grandchildren ... you live on through them. We all love and miss you ❤️ every day. 
You are truly forever missed! 

Love from your oldest.

P. S. I got your white hair. What a great gift!! :)
September 14, 2019
September 14, 2019
To Arline and Charlie.
This is the year that I hit the age of 90.
My sweet wife has not been able to walk for quite a while.
We still remember the fun of all times we got together with the Browns.
Love, Jack and Jan Sadler
July 13, 2019
July 13, 2019
You would be so pleased to know that I am no longer fat. After so many diets with you, weight watchers and grapefruit and eggs. I wish you were here to burp them for me.
Dennis and Paula continue to be loving and supportive always. You taught us all well.
Jack and Janet are still close by and well.
September 15, 2018
September 15, 2018
Dearest Arline and Charlie.
I thought this longing and tears for you would finally go away.
It's not happening.
However, joy happens when I'm among your children.
I recieived so much important advice from you when I was a teenager and never forgot , 
Still Loving you,
-Jack
September 14, 2018
September 14, 2018
Mom, I miss you often, but make peace with that knowing that you and dad and the rest of your family are together again.
September 14, 2018
September 14, 2018
This is an extract from a story that Aunt Arline wrote in 2004.
One other thing you might like to know about Nana
Janes was that she was a supervisor over all the
long-distance operators in San Francisco before she
married. She met Dad when he worked with
her Dad on the streetcars and cable cars in S.F. and
he brought him home to dinner. They did not want her
to marry him because he had been very ill with Typhoid
Fever, and they did not think he would have a long
life. He was bald even then as had lost all his hair
with the fever. Consequently we never saw him with
hair, and she only had one or two pictures of him with
hair. They ran off and got married. They liked,
accepted him and he did live a pretty long, very happy
life!
This is the Nana we did not know. BG Richard
September 14, 2018
September 14, 2018
I love you.
Oh to lie with my head in your lap again.
Grief does not diminish.
September 14, 2018
September 14, 2018
Six years without you mother dear. It doesn't seem possible. I think of you every day, and sing your wonderful songs to my grandkids. You and your loving spirit live on in all of us. You taught us how to love. What lucky kids we all were to have you and Daddy to love and care for us. I miss you so much, and every time I drive by your new little place, I yearn for the times that could have been. You left too soon  But, as you taught us, the silver lining is that you are with Daddy now. I know how much you love and missed him.  And I have two wonderful twin siblings who share memories of our life with you. An amazing childhood and life!! Thanks Mom and Dad!
September 14, 2017
September 14, 2017
Well Arline, it's that time of the year when Jan and I recall all the wonderful years we had together with you and Charlie.
I don't why the tears flow down our face. We should be joyful having you
two as our Dearest friends for all those Years.
July 13, 2017
July 13, 2017
Every single day Mom. The clock plays When You Wish Upon A Star and I look over at your laughing picture and know you are with me still.
How excited you must be to know we are awaiting Amber's little Claire Jane!
September 14, 2016
September 14, 2016
I miss you Mom.
The moments you come to me are precious beyond words.
July 15, 2016
July 15, 2016
Your spirit lives on through your children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. I sing your songs with my grandbabies every time we are together, and tell them stories of you. Thank you for the gift of music and love you gave so selflessly to your family!! I miss and love you every day Mom!!!
July 15, 2016
July 15, 2016
Here is a note from your nephew Eric:

Aunt Arline was a dear Aunt, and I really feel I got to know her best 
in her last 15 years or so when I would be in Reno on BLM business and would often drive over to Portola for a visit, or lunch with her. She 
was one of my last real links to the earlier generation of our family 
and she had an incredible memory, plus impressive computer skills and very organized photos. I became well trained at the front door of her house to NOT let the dogs out as I slipped in. I enjoyed those visits immensely.

Thank you Eric!
July 13, 2016
July 13, 2016
Mom,
Thank you for Paula who continues to mother me everyday. I know you are always beside me.  How thrilled you and Daddy must be to know little Ted is here and that Amber is so fulfilled.  Have a dance with Daddy and a good laugh that I look more like you every day.
Xoxo
July 13, 2016
July 13, 2016
Dear Brown,  Every time I drive past your house I wish I could stop in and visit. I loved our talks. Love & miss you.
July 13, 2016
July 13, 2016
Auntie Arline oh how I miss your smile and laugh, That "Janes" smile was always there to warm my heart when I visited you. Always wondering which WEINER was going to attack me with joyful kisses!...On your birthday please know as you look down from heavan above, how you are missed, loved, and how the leagcy you have left on this planet is trying to carry your torch...I love you...Trev
OH and I posted a picture of our plant!...she is doing very well and I think of YOU everytime I look at her ans water her!
September 14, 2015
September 14, 2015
If I wished upon a star
I would wish
To sit beside you again
On the piano bench
Like a bolt out of the blue
Fate would come in and see me through
To endure another day without you
Here-where I can lean against you
And feel your warmth and hear your voice
I am not only your Crybaby
I am your Dreamer too.
July 13, 2015
July 13, 2015
Charlie and Arline, well, another year has gone by and we are still here.
We still think of our relationship with the Browns and the wonderful times the Brown/Sadler Families had.
I've been thinking about the time when Arline''s Mom gave me the best and most important advice I ever had. Love, Jack and Janet
July 13, 2015
July 13, 2015
In Portola remembering our wonderful family times together. We are so blessed to have had you and Dad as our parents.  Love and miss you so much my mother, my friend. Wish you were here with me now. :-(
July 13, 2015
July 13, 2015
Hard to believe that 3 years have passed since you left us. Miss you every day.
July 13, 2015
July 13, 2015
I have you with me every single day.
You would have been 90 today.
Instead you will forever be a youthful 87.
You are more right with every passing day about most everything.
I become more like you by the minute.
Thank you for my dear Sister. I love her like I love you.
September 14, 2014
September 14, 2014
It is hard to believe you have been gone for two years. I will forever be grateful that I got the chance to come see you. You will be forever loved and forever missed. It is been a hard couple of years losing you than a week later my mom. Love you Nana I know you and grandpa my mom and dad are dancing in the sky watching over us.
July 13, 2014
July 13, 2014
I miss my Nana very much. Thinking of her on her birthday. She loved her family (which very much included her dogs) so, so much. I know Nana would be So happy her little dog is living the high life in Lincoln with you mom !
July 13, 2014
July 13, 2014
Arline, Mrs.Brown,Paula's Mom! Was the sweetest, Crazy Lady I will probably ever meet! I know you are still taking care of all those you cherished! Rest in Peace!
July 13, 2014
Many times this year I've wanted to Auntie Arline about something related to the Janes family and have realized what a loss it was for all of us when she died.

She was a loving aunt, a smart, hardworking woman who influenced in a positive way the lives of all the remaining Janeses.
July 13, 2014
July 13, 2014
Opened my eyes this morning and wept.  Still your crybaby.
Paula takes such good care of me.
July 13, 2014
July 13, 2014
I loved Mom Brown! We would talk for hours, and I knew she really cared about me & what I had to say. She made me feel like part of the family. I sure miss my sweet, caring, loving, Mom Brown.
July 13, 2014
July 13, 2014
Oh how we miss those long wonderful phone conversations we used
to have, Arline.
And I'll always remember our conversations at the bear club after ball games when I was only 18 years old.
We love all your children and will forever. Please say hello to Charlie and tell him we miss him so.
Love, Jack and Jan Sadler,
July 13, 2014
July 13, 2014
Wow Mom!! I wish I had a dollar for every time I said to myself this year, "I totally get why Mom said or did that!!!" You were so wise about so many things. Debby and I say it daily!!!

What I wouldn't give to have lettuce wraps and margaritas with you just one more time so I could tell you all that I have come to understand since you left. I would take your hand in mine and tell you "I love you so much!!!! I totally get it!"

The "Silver Lining" turned out to be the gift of Debby, The two of us have been able to carry on without you (because we have each other). We share the memories of being your daughters, and we are brave together! You would be proud! <3 <3
September 14, 2013
September 14, 2013
My mother, my friend .... I miss you every day. I thank God for blessing me with the best mother a girl could ever have. Remember all those things you used to tell me that I didn't get? Well ... I totally get them now. I love you Mom!
September 14, 2013
September 14, 2013
One whole year of firsts without your physical presence. Thank goodness you are here with me everyday in spirit. I am constantly amazed at the way you let me know that you are with me. It has made me unafraid of death. What a beautiful gift to give to your crybaby. Nana used to always share the scripture-Be not afraid. She is very thrilled to know that you taught me how. Thanks Mom.
July 15, 2013
July 15, 2013
I'm so glad I got to know you better the last few years of your life. It was fun. I enjoyed our phone calls and "farming" with you. I miss you. 

When I was very young, you and I watched the movie "Judgment at Nuremberg" together, and you taught me so much about history. I cherish that time I had with you.
July 13, 2013
July 13, 2013
Thinking of you on your 88th birthday Mom, and wishing you were here to spend the day with me .... a margarita, lettuce wraps and a little shopping together.

Thank you for teaching me what love is all about. Thank you God for blessing me with this wonderful mother!
July 13, 2013
July 13, 2013
Since Dad was kind of the "black sheep," Auntie Arline was so kind to fill in blanks about the family whenever we had questions. She always had a funny story, or a special memory which not only brought Dad to light, but also Nana and Grandpa and many other relatives. I have missed her, and wish I had spent more time "picking her brain."
July 13, 2013
July 13, 2013
Our first year to celebrate your life Mom, without getting to share a piece of cake with you. The ache of reality is only offset by the knowledge of your spiritual presence every day. Thank you for staying with me forever.
Your Crybaby.
January 19, 2013
January 19, 2013
Aunt Arline was more than an Aunt to me. She was more like the mother I did not have. During a stressful time in my life I lived with "The Browns". She (and they) gave me a loving home when I needed it. I will miss her and her shoulder to help me through bad times.
January 18, 2013
January 18, 2013
Lana said it perfectly ..... "This is a lovely tribute to a wonderful woman whom we all miss". I didn't get to see Mom Brown very much, but I loved our talks when I did get to see her. She truly is missed!!!!
January 7, 2013
January 7, 2013
Arline was really good to me when I was a teenager and I was having serious problems with my dad. I will never forget her Love and kindness.
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July 13, 2023
July 13, 2023
Another year. As I watch the wonderful video Paula made once more I am struck by how happy you look throughout your 89 years. What a good life you lived. I feel you every day. 
September 14, 2022
September 14, 2022
10 years without you Mom ...  It doesn't seem possible.  I miss you so much!! I picture you dancing in heaven with Daddy to Peg 'O My Heart!! Your happy place! Your love for each other, through good times and bad, was always strong!

Your baby twins are 70!!! You must be so proud of them and their accomplishments!! We all miss you and Dad so much, but we carry on without you as you would want us to. Your love for each other and for us lives on. You were the best Mom ever!! I love you always ... your first born.  Paula
July 13, 2022
July 13, 2022
10 years. And now Juanita and Janet Sadler have joined you. Jack will not be able to write this year. Neither will Rick. I love and miss you Mom. Wish you were here to see Dennis and I turn 70.
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Mom's Favorite Plant

July 15, 2016

This plant (not sure what it is called) was hand carried from Hawaii by Mom to remember the wonderful, romantc trip she and Daddy took when they retired.  She kept it in the window of her kitchen, and cared for it tenderly.

She told me Trevor always admired it, and told all three of her children (and wrote it down in several places) that she wanted Trevor to have it when she passed.  Trevor was very special to her.  He visited and did errands for her often.  A great nephew!  And he also has an incredibly green thumb!  Maybe two incredible green thumbs!!  

Thank you Trevor for posting this photo!  It almost looks like it is growing into a heart shape.  Love from Mom! 

Sleep Now

February 19, 2013

Although I cannot see you, I feel your presence near.
I will hold you close in memory,
Till I drop my very last tear.

So sleep now with the angels,
And your golden heart let rest.
Although our hearts are broken,
We know God took the best.

So dance beyond those golden gates,
And join our loving Dad.
I'll see you when I'm sleeping,
And pray for you to come.

And although this pain is painful,
And I don’t want to let you go.
I'll wait for death to take me Mom,
So we can together one day glow.

Until that day I'll close my eyes,
and see your smiling face.
I'll lock you up inside my heart,
Until we again embrace.

So rest now my beautiful mother,
I'll never forget how much you have done.
So until my hand meets yours again,
Sleep now in the sun.

Arline's Memorial Video

January 2, 2013

Join us for 10 minutes of love, laughter and wonderful memories of Arline.

Before clicking the link below, please turn down the sound on this site so it doesn't interfere with the audio on the You Tube video.  (Go to the very top of  this page and click the word "sound" next to the speaker icon).  Remember to turn the sound back on when you return to Forevermissed. 

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L4aNOK1xkHs

This memorial website was created in the memory of our loving mother, Arline Brown, 87, born on July 13, 1925 and passed away on September 14, 2012.  She will live on in our hearts forever.

Arline, a long time outstanding Portola resident, passed away suddenly on Friday, September 14th in Roseville, California where she had recently moved to be near her children and grandchildren.  The day before her death, she had gone to lunch with her daughter, enjoyed her favorite dish, had a tall margarita, and was shopping for her new great-granddaughter due in October.  She was “on top of the world” and loved her new little apartment, the many friends she made at Roseville Commons, and the ability to shop at the Dollar Store near her new home. 

It was known that she was struggling with kidney disease and for that reason her three children moved her to Roseville three months prior to her death to be near them.

Arline’s first job was for the Portola Reporter.  She was 12 years old and was paid $2 a week.  She was a student at Portola High School, and after graduation attended Heald Business College in Richmond, CA.  She then went to work as a Roadmaster Clerk for the Western Pacific Railroad in Portola.  She sold Avon for many years and earned many Awards with her great salesmanship.  In later years she worked as a legal secretary, and retired as a medical transcriptionist.  She taught herself medical terms and was very proud of her skills.

Arline was instrumental in restoring a monument dedicated to her mother who had taken active part in the development of the Portola Park and swimming pool.  The monument was completed in 2012.  She was also very active on the Portola El Tigre website and provided much historical information to Portola residents.   She had a wonderful memory, and loved her computer (especially Farmtown).

Arline was married to her late husband, Charlie Brown, on September 13, 1947 in Portola.  They had a wonderful 54 years together.  She fell ill on their anniversary, and passed away the next day.

Family was everything to Arline.  When her children divorced, her love and friendship continued on with their partners. She is survived by three children, Paula Buerger, Lincoln (born in 1950), and twins Dennis Brown (Sacramento) and Debbie Tudor (Watsonville) (born in 1952).  Also surviving are eleven grandchildren, twelve great-grandchildren, and nineteen nieces and nephews.  Many of the nieces and nephews traveled from California, Nevada and the Midwest to join in the celebration of Arline's life at her home in Portola.  The home has been in the Janes family for over 100 years.  Arline lived there for 79 of her 89 years of life.

Arline was preceded in death by her mother and father (Joseph and Juanita Janes), her siblings Herb Janes, Bertram Janes, Pauline Parrish, and Richard Janes, her son Charles Brown, and her nephew Bert Janes. Her graveside services were held at the Portola cemetery at 12:00 p.m. on Saturday, September 29th.  She was laid to rest in the beauty she had done much to establish and preserve.   A celebration of Arline’s life followed at her home in Portola.

Arline will be sadly missed by her many friends and family.  The family requests that, in lieu of flowers, contributions be made to High Sierra Animal Rescue in Portola (http://www.highsierraanimalrescue.org/).  Arline loved dogs, and her wish was to help out all the little orphan dogs possible.

[Note: The questions from the "Her Life" section were responses she wrote in a book I gave her to complete in 1984. If you would like, leave a story in the "Story" section. It would sure be appreciated. And if you have time, go into the audio gallery and listen to the song Mom wanted played at her memorial, "Look for the Silver Lining".  That's what I'm going to do.]





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