Benedict Mpa Tarh (BM or Pa Tarh), (1935 - 2013) - ForeverMissed.com Online Memorials

"If we live, it is for the Lord that we live, and if we die, it is for the Lord that we die. So whether we live or die, we belong to the Lord." Romans 14:8

77 years old
Born on April 3, 1935 in Kendem, Manyu Division, Cameroon
Passed away on January 15, 2013 in Mt Mary Hospital Buea, Fako Division, Cameroon

This memorial website was created in memory of our beloved father:

Benedict MPA TARH,

known to many as "Pa Tarh"

Papa you will be remembered forever!!!

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FUNERAL PROGRAMME FOR LATE PA BENEDICT MPA TARH

Born: 3rd April 1935 ~ Died: 15th January 2013

Thursday, 21st February 2013

1.00 p.m. Removal of corpse from the Mortuary of the Regional Hospital Annex, Buea

2.00 p.m. Requiem Mass at St. Charles Lwanga Parish, Molyko, Buea

5.00 .p.m. Laying in state at the Tarh Family residence in Bonduma, Buea

All-night Vigil with Christian, cultural and traditional animation

Friday, 22nd February 2013

4.00 a.m. Departure for Kendem village, Upper Banyang Sub-Division

10.00 a.m. Stop-over in Mamfe Blessing of Corpse at St Joseph’s Cathedral, Mamfe.

10.30 a.m. Continuation of trip to Kendem village

11.30 a.m. Arrival of corpse in Kendem Village

Laying in State at the Tarh Family residence at Mile 36, Kendem

6.00 p.m. All-night vigil with Christian, cultural and traditional animation

Saturday, 23rd February 2013

9.00 a.m. Requiem Mass at SS. Peter & Paul Parish, Mbeme (Mile 37)

11.00 a.m. Return to grave at the Tarh Family residence, Mile 36

Burial

Refreshments and Departure of guests

Sunday, 24th February 2013

9.00 a.m. Thanksgiving mass at SS. Peter & Paul Parish, Mbeme (Mile 37)

11.00 a.m. Traditional Rites continue.

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January 27, 2013

You are the man from whom I am name!
You walked into me when the whole world walked out!
Your name will often be spoken
My thoughts are with you still
And what is more!! You shall never be forgotten!!
You the Rock of Awanchi-Betieku
Speak me fair to Euphemia, Eyang and your Pal- MPA

January 27, 2013

Grand pa,you were not only a grand father but you were an angel that lived amongst men.Your passing away with respect to the life you have lived here on earth taught me to have courage and trust in GOD for in every thing you do your reward must come.Thank you for being a good director and your words will for ever ring like music in my heart.Go and rest in peace with the LORD

January 26, 2013

Tarh’s Family, please accept our heartfelt condolences. The memories of Pa Tarh will leave in our hearts forever.
I remember when I went to greet Pa Tarh at OJ’s wedding ceremony, Pa surprised me by bringing up the story my childhood puppy dog that went missing, this was a story I didn’t even know Pa knew about but Pa did and could still remember 18years later. Adieu to you Pa, RIP.

January 26, 2013

Grandpa, you were the best grandpa in the whole world. I always liked how you called me "mbombo' and we shared your breakfast, and you told us to work hard in school so that we would get a good grades in school, I love you grand pa,
From Julius Mpanyo-TarhTakang (your grandson and "mbombo")

January 26, 2013

Grandpa, you used to hug us and ask us how we are doing in school. You always told us to work hard in school and you used to share your breakfast with us and I will massage your hands that were paining. I want to promise you grandpa that I will work hard in school.
From Jennifer Bawak-Ako Takang (granddaughter and Big mami)

January 26, 2013

Papa you lived your life to the fullest but it was time, the Lord called and you answered, May your light continue to shine as you watch over the loved ones you have left behind.Rest in peace for you will now be reunited with your darling wife.We all loved you BUT God loves you more.

January 26, 2013

Rest in Peace Papa,
You have fought your fight and completed your race. We wish you well as you make the transition to heaven and continue to enjoy the peace that passes all understanding.

January 25, 2013

Pa Tarh marked my life with his uncompromising attachment to God, love, humility, discipline, simplicity and family as the true sources of fulfilment and greatness. Besides, his notion of family extended way beyond blood lines. This is a tremendous and very challenging legacy to live up to in these times.

January 25, 2013

Pa Tarh, "fought the good fight, he finished the race, he kept the faith. Now there is in store for him the crown of righteousness, which the Lord, the righteous Judge, will award to him...(2 Timothy 4:7-8)." He will be ever missed by those whose lives he touched in different ways.

January 25, 2013

Tribute from Patience Wanobi
I loved my father and father loved me, there is nothing I would have done without him. May you rest in Peace, papa, till we meet again.
Your Daughter, Patience

January 25, 2013

Papa, God hath not promised sun without rain, joy without sorrow or peace without pain. But he hath promised strength for the day, rest for the laborer, light for the way and Grace for the trails. So may he grant you eternal rest.
You remain in our hearts forever.

January 25, 2013

Pa Tarh ,We thank God for the fuffilled and accomplished earthly sojourned.The world,your family and especially your children and grand children will miss you,but rest joyfully in peace because you adequately prepared them for this inevitable exit.Give all our love to Mami and all fallen members of this great family and together continue to inspire us all from the great beyond.AGWEH PAPA!

January 25, 2013

"Papa", May you Rest in Peace now for your journey on this earth is over but your eternal life is just beginning where you will be joined with your darling wife who left you before to prepare a place.... To all you have left behind, be reassured and know the Lord has plans to prosper and not harm you. You have "ANGELS" watching over you. Please accept our deepest sympathies. Hang in there!

January 24, 2013

Baggio and family, may the Lord give you the strenght to bear this great loss. Your Dad has played his role, and did so well. It is left for you to preserve his legacy. May his kind and gentle soul rest in perfect peace. Ernest, Mireille, Dorel & Maida-Pearl.

January 24, 2013

Tarh Family, Accept our sincere condolences. May the good God see you through this moment.
Hoil, Enny and Briony

January 24, 2013

I learnt of Papa's passage to the Glory Beyond.
Accept my condolence and we pray for the repose of his soul.
Ako Kingsley

January 24, 2013

Regrets éternels

January 24, 2013

Pa Tarh, thanks for the love and attention as well as all the encouragement. Our story is incomplete without you. Our kids remember how much attention you accorded them after Mass on Sundays in Molyko. May your gentle soul RIP! To the rest of the family, accept our heartfelt condolences. It is well. Pa has returned to his Father whom he loved and served so well while on earth; take heart!

January 24, 2013

"Papa, you were a strong pillar of encouragment, an icon of faith and trust to us throughout our ten years of seminary formation and for all these years as priests. You always told us to be good and holy priests and so you spent your whole life praying for priests. Papa, you lived a good life, and you were always ready for the Master's call. Papa, we will live to remember you! Rest in pea

January 23, 2013

Pa Tarh
I knew you for a very short time but in no time i understood you are a great man.Why? Because you gave respect where it is due and above all you always made sure the slate is clean.In my eyes you are even greater now for reconciling your family before your departure to heaven the way my father did.Say hi to God on our behalf

January 23, 2013

Papa, we thank God for your life. You were a father to us a role which you did exceptionally. The news of your passing away was a shock to me but i find comfort in the hope that you are now in a better place. I remember how you fondly call me Ma Eneke all the time. May you find peace in the bossom of the Lord. Greetings to your freind/brother Papa & Aunty. Forever in our hearts.

January 23, 2013

"As said in the Bible, There is a time to come and go. Pa Tarh, you have been there for us at all times. You did what God wanted you to, and have left a mark that will always remain forever. You are in the best place now. No more pains, worries and sorrows. Just keep on watching over us with the angels above. Wish you a peaceful rest."
From the OBENSON'S FAMILY.

January 23, 2013

Pa Tarh, your passing leaves a hole in the hearts of all who knew you, but you remain alive in those same hearts regardless, you were a father, a friend , a mentor, a source of inspiration and a very strong personality to those of us privileged to have known you. Your principled nature was infectious, personally that is what I will miss most about you. You will always be remembered.

January 23, 2013

Pa Tarh, even though I met you just once, I know your gentle soul is now resting in Perfect Peace. You are with the angels now and are watching over your family and much more. I remember your smile when you met us last July. You embodied wisdom.

January 23, 2013

Grandfather, you were such a blessing to me. You were more than a father in law! You were always advising me and knew how to correct without hurting. You taught me how to pray like a true Catholic! I will truly miss you. May the Lord receive you into his Kingdom, may He comfort us and turn our mourning into dancing till we meet again. Rest in the Lord's bossom. Adieu Papa!

January 23, 2013

Toutes mes condoléances Jude.

Que son âme repose en paix.
Beaucoup de courage à ta famille dans cette dure épreuve qu'elle traverse.

January 23, 2013

Papa, you always had kind words and a smile. You lived an exemplary life of simplicity, discipline, love, sharing and had the kindest heart. I know, I was blessed like many others to have known you and will always cherish every moment we had. We will miss you, as we celebrate your homegoing to join the heavenly angels and mami, where there is always peace, and joy. RIP Papa!

January 23, 2013

Pa, heaven's gain is our loss. You have fulfilled your destiny - a return to heaven. Your humility will raise you high in the realm of angels. Now you can truly rest where Mommy Tarh awaits you. May heaven's light shine perpetually on your face. Rest in peace. let it be.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JH3TTr77GIQ

January 23, 2013

Courage Jude,
Je ne l'ai rencontré qu'une ou deux fois, mais cela a été suffisant pour capter l'image d'un homme affable et génereux. Le témoignage de ceux qui ont eu la chance de mieux le connaître est éloquent à ce sujet.
Sincères condoléances.

January 22, 2013

Pa Tarh lived a fulfilled and accomplished life that can only call for celebration, celebration not because he departed us, but for the life he lived while on earth. We can only pray and hope that while we live on in his physical absence, the values instilled, by him, continue to resonate in us, and thus he lives on, even to the next generations.

January 22, 2013

It was just like yeaterday that we met, your loving heart you shared, but now you are gone to rest. You took the responsibility of my late dad to go execute my traditional wedding in my absence. How much can I say thank you. We will miss you, we will stay together and emuliate your examples moving forward, rest in peace, papa.

January 22, 2013

Pa. May your SOUL REST IN PERFECT PEACE.
You did your best to bring up your children with your sweat, confidence,dedication and dignity. In all these things you never failed as a father. Surely your children know this and will always remember you for giving them the life today. May you peacefully rest in the LORD'S hands and when there shower blessings to all of us here.

January 22, 2013

"Pa Tarh, you took me like your own child and gave me very good advice how to survive in the priesthood, in Mamfe diocese and in Yaounde. You told me that even if the road as difficult as what, I should have faith in Jesus and the Catholic Church. I loved you but God love you more, blessed be the name the Lord. Requiescat in pace."

January 22, 2013

Pa Tarh, is a Great man. The Almighty granted him the possibility to live to this day, we can only give Him glory and rejoice. Pa, I recall the advice you gave me when started working in the Far North that I initially refused going. I remember what you said and all I can say is thank you.For your advice was very helpful, not on that situation alone but on several.You are a Patriot, a hero.

January 22, 2013

Grandpa, your passing has only made us realize how much difference a person can make in the world, you gave your best in almost every situation, and it was amazing how you always found time to give counsel to all those you came across. You were inextricably linked to the struggles of folks you barely knew and your constant advice and prayers,we will forever miss.May your soul rest in Peace

January 22, 2013

Pa Tarh, I know you died a very happy man, especially after having lived life to its fullest and being part of the great accomplishments of your children before passing away...I'm confident that wherever you are, you are looking down on them and smiling...May your soul rest in perfect peace.

January 22, 2013

Uncle Pa Tarh, it’s not an easy road for I know you are journeying to heaven and there are many thorns on the way. Never mind dear father our lord Jesus walks beside you and brightens the journey and lightens every heavy load.
May your gentle soul rest in perfect peace
Christy Tarh

January 22, 2013

"Papa, truly this world is a stage where every body must play his/her part", you have done your best to teach us the realities of this world ,that all is vanity, the best is to LOVE one another as our selves; yes Papa you didn't just say , but you demonstrated the Love. you made all of us who knew u as Grand Pa benefit the Blessings God gave u.thanks for connecting us to u. R I P.P

January 22, 2013

Pa Tarh, uncle Tarh as you were known in our house hold. I shall always remember how supportive and loving you were to all of us and your friendship with our family was always cherished. I am so grateful I got the chance to see you last year and have taken the advice you gave me on that day and I'm still putting it to practice. Regards to daddy and aunty from us all. REST IN PEACE.

January 22, 2013

"Pa Tarh", After living a fulfilled life on earth, I'm very confident God saw that the mission he sent you on was satisfactorily completed and called you home to re-unite with your most loved ones. Rest in eternal bliss with the choirs of angels and continue to watch over your own.

January 21, 2013

Papa , you were papa to all who knew you. You lived a full life and saw all your childrens' Children. What better blessing can one hope for?. I thank you for guidance and love you gave us all. Thank you for giving me the opportunity to bury you. It is hard to let go, but we all have to. But I know you will never be faraway and this time you will be with Mami. Aways in our hearts.

January 21, 2013

Papa, Thanks for the good times we shared. Thanks for also helping me to go through the bad ones too. You taught us to share and cherish all, be they good or bad, friend or foe. You stayed long enough, fearing we might not be able to bear the burden alone. And, when you felt were ready for it, you took your bow. Farewell, our regards to Mami and may God reward you for your labours...

January 21, 2013

Papa, you lived striving to stay on the right path, even when it was rugged; trudging along all around you, ensuring none was left behind, like the good shepherd. We now have to continue the journey without you. But, in your strategic style, you exit the stage to reunite with Mami, convinced we are armed to continue by ourselves, Thank you Papa for all you have been to us, so long...."

January 21, 2013

The righteous man walks in his integrity; his children are blessed after him (Prov 20:7). You've been and will remain a role model; a Dad indeed. All thanks and glory be to God for the exemplary life you lived.

January 21, 2013

Pa Tarh, you treated all "your children" in the same way and without exception. I remember these words of yours to me late last year " Austin, are you still in this Buea? I know when you will pay me a visit. but I will not be there..." I didn't pay that visit before the year ended. I wish I had. But rest assured that you are still a father to me and I will heed to all your advice. Adieu Pa

January 21, 2013

Papa, if I ever wondered the power of prayers, you've thought me to be steadfast & hold on to it. Am grateful to God for the cherished moments we shared. Say me well to Mami Monica, tell her I found my steps back home. Remember to tell Daddy Bawak of God's wonders on Sis Oben. Papa, you've gone but your words leave on & I'll practice, as they sure lead to a long healthy life. Love u always

January 21, 2013

"Pa Tarh was a father to all and what a loss to everyone who knew him. He will be missed forever."

January 21, 2013

Papa, you were a father to us all and we will sorely miss you. Your
heart was so tender and ready to embrace us all. I am so glad that I got the opportunity to visit with you twice during your confinement even though I did not know that was the last time I'd see you. Papa, may God be merciful to you and grant you eternal rest free from your labor

January 21, 2013

My Dear Papa. Your memories will forever remain in my mind as I reflect on the advice and unconditional love you showed to us. I will miss your wise words and stories. May the almighty God lead you to eternity? Adieu Papa

January 21, 2013

Papa, it is not the length of life but rather its plenitude that matters. You have taught us that living is loving, giving, sharing, helping, being there when one is needed. You embodied the principles you stood for. Today, despite the sadness of your passing, we are proud of you, and shall celebrate and thank God for your life. Greet Mami, Uncle Bawack, Aunty Irene. Rest in Peace!!!

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April 3

Papa happy birthday it’s been a journey since your untimely demise I do have fun unforgettable memories , words of wisdom kindness support counsel & inspiration. Your physical presence of assurance and mentorship deeply missed . Do continue to rest in perfect peace, as your enduring spirit continues to hover over the family in a positive way .

April 3

Pa Tarh the Patriarch, The Man, The Myth, above the Father. happy birthday in the heavens and with the Angels. We miss your wisdom and calm collected way of solving problems that at time seem unsolvable. Your teachings are still alive and we learn to use them. "Let love Lead" one of your favorite quotes has become so apt and the guiding force of my being. Thank you for being you and for teaching us what it means to be a leader of people and how to find the strength within us to be a better version of ourselves.
As we continue on this journey called life, your life and light will forever continue to shine and show us the right path.
Happy Birthday Papa and continue to watch and guide over us.

April 3

Papa, our beacon of strength, wisdom and guidance. Your legacy of love, kindness and perseverance continues to inspire us every day. Today, on what would have been your 89th birthday, we celebrate the profound impact you had on our lives. Forever cherished, forever missed. Happy birthday, Papa!!!

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Hambe Kahle-Baba Benedict Tarh!

May 9, 2013

I wish to express my condolences to the Tarh family on the passing of their patriarch-Papa Benedict onto eternal glory.It seems Papa is working miracles from heaven because I cannot explain my access to this site. A Google search unrelated to it led me to it!!!I did not know Pah personally but did attend Government High School Mamfe with his daughter Cornelia.I can vouch for the type of upbringing Pah bestowed on his kids as I attended the same church in Mamfe with Cornelia and then again in Yaounde at the then Elig Effa English speaking Catholic Parish.I happen to know the duo of the trio mentioned by lawyer Adjua-Lawyer Adjua and late Mr. Bisong.God is sending a message to me and I may not be as active in church the way Pah was but will make up in other ways as I struggle to build a 3 classroom Catholic school in Dschang in memory of my late dad and especially people like Pah Benedict Tarh and Foncha who mentored us with their exemplary pious lives.All of us can take solace in the Book of Matthew where it is stated that Christ whom Pah served came for us to have life abundantly and though we shall die , we live!Pah Benedict Tarh lives!!!I am privileged to say farewell and RIP to Pah in the Zulu language: HAMBA KAHLE BABA BENEDICT TARH!

Farewell Papa

March 11, 2013

Deeply saddened upon learning the news of the death of our beloved Papa Tarh, after a long life of total dedication to God and service to our family, region and country… In these moments of pain, I join you, my venerable brothers and sisters in the prayers of thanksgiving for the life of this praiseworthy father and servant of God. Truth is: every great man has in his life a unique source of inspiration, a spiritual center from which he draws his strength, and a constant point of reference from which he takes direction as well as corrections. We may call it centeredness or individuation, or give it a more poetic ring by naming it a "secret garden" and a "holy grail." Pa Tarh’s person and life was fashioned and inspired by a life-giving spring which was never hidden. It was plainly visible to all who truly knew him. "I am totally yours (totus tuus), and all that I possess is yours. I accept you in all that is mine.” Papa’s passing lives us with a full sense of this consecration which includes a real and essential reference to Jesus Christ: "Jesus Christ our savior, true God and true man, must be the ultimate end of all our devotions; otherwise they are false and deceiving." It is not exaggerated to say that Papa’s consecration to Christ is the real secret and the not-so-hidden source of his grandeur. He was an extraordinary father and a constant source of inspiration and purpose. Love, integrity and character accompanied him throughout his life and directed his way of thinking, evaluating, making choices, taking decisions and offering guidelines. Papa was a “just” man in the spirit of God, and to all who in civic and biblical tradition could hear the voice of God addressing his call not only to them personally, but also to the communities to which they had been sent. This justice, full of humble adherence to God’s will, formed the basis of Papa’s deep love for God and for people. It was his light, inspiration and strength in demanding personal responsibility from us through an epoch in which important social and political transformations affected our lives and region. To sum it all, Papa’s love of God and concern for the life and dignity of people made him an apostle of unity against division and a concord in the face of conflict. I always appreciated his sincere kindness, his simplicity, his openness and his cordial dedication to my issues personally growing up with him. Thus in my memory and in my prayers he will live on. May the Lord receive him into his glory! In the name of Jesus! Amen. Pantaleon Ebai, Washington, DC USA

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February 18, 2013

Dear Andrew
Thank you so much for sharing this sad news with me: you have indeed found the right person! My family join with me in offering our condolences to you all.
Your father was a friend and support to me from the earliest days after we met at CD in Buea in 1976. He was 'in' from the beginning of my relationship with Madeleine which led to our marriage in 1978, and served as witness to the marriage. It was particularly good to see him and the family when we visited following Madeleine's death 8 years ago now. I was sorry that we had lost contact in the past few years.
Although I have been in Coventry serving as a Methodist minister for the past 5 years, I am moving back to London in August after marrying again in July. I would always be glad to hear from the family - probably easiest via this email address.
Best wishes to you all

David

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