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This memorial website was created in the memory of our loved one, Alfred Kirkland, 82, born on July 27, 1930 and passed away on August 30, 2012. We will remember him forever.

The email invitations for the memorial service were sent the evening of September 5. If you would like to attend, but did not receive the email, check your junk-mail box before contacting me via the link with my name (Kelly Kirkland) on this page on the right side.

September 5, 2012
September 5, 2012
Have known Jeanne and Al since 1975 and have had many, many good times with them over the years. Big Al was often the chef and bartender. What fond memories I have of those delicious meals and fun evenings. Al had a wonderful, busy life as evidenced by the many pictures and tributes on this site. My condolences to Jeanne, Kelly, other family and many friends of Al.
September 5, 2012
September 5, 2012
Dear Jeanne,
I am so sorry about Al's passing and pray that our Lord will bring you comfort. You spend so much time in the chapel with the Lord and I'm sure he will be reaching out to touch your heart. He will help you recall all the beautiful memories of Al and the time will come when those memories will bring you joy. May God bless you now.
September 4, 2012
September 4, 2012
Dear Jeanne,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. We so remember you and Al coming to the Emerald Ball in 1980 and forever after being the Priory's biggest supporters. So many will miss Al. He was so generous. Our love to you, Jan and Oz Pieper
September 4, 2012
September 4, 2012
Al was a hero to us all. How blessed we have been to have him in our lives and as our leader. He has kept us a family for all these years, our "God Father". I am certain he is still watching out for us. We miss him, the How Boys miss him and Stanford misses him. He does live on in our hearts.
September 4, 2012
September 4, 2012
Dear Jeanne & Kelly:

The news has reached me in Dubrovnik, Croatia, and I think of Puerto Vallarta where I met teenager Kelly and her parents. What joy Big Al brought to so many. The visits in the Bay Area, Tucson, in an RV, around amazing food, etc. He hit a home run! Love to you.
September 4, 2012
September 4, 2012
Big Al and I met early in my Rugby career during his graduate work at Stanford. We maintained our relationship in an off and on basis as our careers and family demands allowed. I offer my condolences to his family and to the Stanford community he so loved. His passing leaves a space that can only be partially filled by grand remembrances.
September 4, 2012
September 4, 2012
Dear Jeanne,
We are saddened to hear of the passing of Al.
You are in our thoughts and prayers
Love
Barrett & Carole
September 4, 2012
September 4, 2012
Dearest Jeanne and family, Tom and I send you our love and our prayers. You and Al have been such a big part of our lives at the Priory, always sitting together with us at the Sunday liturgies. Al would always make me smile. We are thankful that you have your wonderful family with you.  Much love, Tom and Fran
September 4, 2012
September 4, 2012
One of the all-time great Stanford Indian/Cardinal alumni friends!!!
A true gentleman, scholar-athlete and one that ALWAYS made the room brighter ~ You will be missed Big Al!!!
Love always, Dot
September 4, 2012
September 4, 2012
Al was one of those exceptional people who redefined love and tolerance during his midlife, and go on to bring good nature and a special loyalty to all of us. Dear Jeanne, we know how you will miss him, but please know you are never alone. As Al remains in your spirit, we remain in your life.
September 4, 2012
September 4, 2012
I'm so sorry to hear about Al's passing. I will miss his emails. He was so good about keeping in touch, especially after Cappy passed away in 2009.
September 4, 2012
September 4, 2012
Go Indians, whoever and wherever you are. Howie'55

PS. Say hi to Chuck Taylor
September 4, 2012
September 4, 2012
Jeannie! This comes as a shock! God must have needed him for one of His projects. He and you are very special friends Love Don.
Mass and Communion for the Kirkland family.
September 4, 2012
September 4, 2012
Al was my adviser, mentor, and auditor when I was House Manager of
Zeta Psi in 1967-68. He was also sometimes my Rugby Ref. Subsequently, I saw him at some of the away games in the Midwest. He was a friend who connected me more deeply to Stanford. I shall always remember him, and think of him often.
September 4, 2012
September 4, 2012
I didn't know Al when we were undergraduates, but because I went out for the team my senior year, somehow my name got on his list. That has meant a lot to me. Big Al reconnected me with many of the guys I knew well at Stanford. He provided a link with so many fading memories of good times I had on the Farm. So God bless you, Al. I hope to see you later on, in the place where you have gone,
September 4, 2012
September 4, 2012
Auntie Jeanne,
I wanted to say that I am so happy to that you and Al were at Mom and Dad's 65th.I believe the Lord arranges everything in our lives. It was special that you and Al were able to spend it with us.
I see Al smiling and at peace with the Lord. I pray that peace is with you too. All love to you, Ruth
September 4, 2012
September 4, 2012
What a wonderful legacy you have left us, dear Al. You showed all of us the incredible worth of friendship. You made sure all of your buddies were honored and remembered and therefore, you will never be forgotten. We thank you for showing us the way. 
With love, Jeanette and Joe
September 4, 2012
September 4, 2012
To Al's family: I first met Al when he was advising/mentoring Zeta Psi in my undergrad days there, 1979-1982. I learned of his football background and that my dad and he had been teammates. I came to understand why it was that my dad described Al as a fine, caring man with a big heart. I will remember Al for all his kindness and support of Stanford football. He will be greatly missed.
September 4, 2012
September 4, 2012
Fica con Deus Big Al, you will always be in our hearts!
September 4, 2012
September 4, 2012
I will fondly remember Al and Jeanne stopping at my parents home in Woodside over the holidays - the holidays would not have been the same without their visit. And, how kind Al was driving me around on my visit last November to California. I am glad I got to see him so recently. I think seeing how happy both he and Jeanne were together was an inspiration.
September 4, 2012
September 4, 2012
Dear Jeanne and family,
We are sad to hear of Al's death. You were great neighbors in Menlo Park. Kelly and Bonnie were best buddies from the day they met I think, and Colleen was a lovely babysitter too! Bonnie loved to eat at your house because Al was such a great cook. With love and prayers for comfort. Jane and Walter Day
September 4, 2012
September 4, 2012
Dear Kirkland Family,
I was not prepared to lose my pal. Who will now send me bad Armenian jokes. Along with you, I miss him already. His dry humor was always my high for the day. The rest of you stay well.
September 4, 2012
September 4, 2012
Dear Jeanne, Kelly, Jim and family: I am sad to hear about Al's passing. He was a friendy, compassionate and bright man. I have many fond memories of him while working at Cornish and Carey. He was respected and loved by many of his coworkers. He had a wonderful life and will be missed by many.
September 4, 2012
September 4, 2012
Dear Jeanne

It is with deepest sympathy that I think of your family and you. Al was such a considerate, and truly nice gentleman. He will be missed and remembered by all who knew him. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
September 4, 2012
September 4, 2012
Dear Jeanne,
62 years is about how long Jack and I knew Al. You came along later to enrich and complete his life. Not only did you make a strong and effective business team, but together you gathered an everlasting circle of friends who love you and will be the rocks on which you may lean henceforth. Al was cherished & will very much be missed.
September 4, 2012
September 4, 2012
I am so saddened to hear of Al's passing. He was such a great guy. Always keeping up with everyone. I appreciated his support so much when Pat died in 2006. May he rest in peace.
September 4, 2012
September 4, 2012
Jeanne - - - Carol and I were so surprised and sad to hear of Al's death yesterday. A good man, wonderful husband, cook and partner. We certainly enjoyed our times together. Our love and prayers to you and the family. We will be in touch.
Tormey and Carol
September 4, 2012
September 4, 2012
Dear Jeanne and Kirkland family,
I was a scout/practice player on that 1951/HowBoys team, but always felt included by Al and the Rose Bowl Team. I loved being on Al's email list, and appreciate all he has done to keep the HowsBoys legend and spirit alive in Stanford Football. John and Martha Gilmore.
September 4, 2012
September 4, 2012
Dear Jeanne,
We were so sad to hear about Al's passing. You and Al were always fun to be with at Family Reunion and other KW events. We feel blessed to have known Al. We will be keeping you and your family in our thoughts and prayers. Robert and Myrna Reid
September 4, 2012
September 4, 2012
Although I only saw Al once in recent years, I'll always remember his excellent and positive softball coaching (with my mother Carol Campbell managing). So sad to hear of your loss.
September 4, 2012
September 4, 2012
Dear Jeanne,

I was very sad to hear of Al's passing. While I didn't know him well, he was a very warm man (not to mention talented soup cook). I always enjoyed seeing him at Stanford (women's) volleyball and football games.
September 4, 2012
September 4, 2012
Dear Jeanie, I am so sorry to hear about Al's passing. I did not know him well but  what i did know was that he was a gentle soul...My thoughts and prayers are with you. Emily
September 4, 2012
September 4, 2012
Al was my brand new friend but our evening together last week will be with me for a lifetime. He was so bright, great sense of humor, a gifted story teller and one of the most likeable men I ever met. Meeting him, talking and joking made it seem we had know each other for many years. I will miss him and his blessed spirt. Our heartfelt sympathies from Jo and me to Jeanne.and the family
September 4, 2012
September 4, 2012
While I always was grateful for Al's friendship, he was especially important to me when I was in school and having money problems. I was president of the Zete house and he arranged for a small scholarship from the Zete International--amazing in itself since we were not generally the poster boys for the International. But, it was really important to me and I'll never forget him for helping
September 4, 2012
September 4, 2012
I didn't know Al as well as some, but his impact was still strong. Big Al - you will be missed.
September 4, 2012
September 4, 2012
Our deepest condolences from the entire Stanford Rugby Family. Al was a wonderful supporter of the program and most importantly the kids that played, and his passion and enthusiasm were infectious and inspiring to all. God Bless
September 4, 2012
September 4, 2012
Jeanne, Oh dear! Too soon. I only knew Al from so many away game trips over the years. I'm so sorry to hear about his passing. Now he will have to elbow my dad, and Toots Vosti for those 50 yard line Cardinal heaven seats, with so many others. Take care.
September 4, 2012
September 4, 2012
i first met big al as a member of the rugby team that went to australia.at the time iwas a jr.at usc and played against al along with the rest of the stanford guys--gary kirkorian,jack bonnetti and pat henry-saw big al a number of times that we "aussies"got together.he was great individual who i always enjoyed kidding with him about the trojans and cardinals.rest in peace big al--bob buckl
September 4, 2012
September 4, 2012
Dear Jeanne,
Al was the unifying force that held our "How Boys" together all of these 60 plus years. His love of Stanford and his enthusiasm was contagious. He will be sorely missed.
September 4, 2012
September 4, 2012
Dear Jeanne,
Thank you for including me - my condolences and I will miss the correspondance.
September 4, 2012
September 4, 2012
Dear Jeanne and family,

My sincere condolences to you. The loss of Al is felt by us all. I am so very glad to have become acquainted with him, and to have had the opportunity to see him recently. Much love to you.
September 4, 2012
September 4, 2012
Dear Jeanne,

I'm very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Take care.
September 4, 2012
September 4, 2012
My most sincere condolences to you Jeanne. What a shock to read that Al has died. He was such a roll model, teammate, and my best friend. He had done more for the "51 team than anyone could have dreamed to have done. Al brought not only our teammates together for 40 somewhat years but even some of our opponents over the years. You will be missed and never forgotten Al.
September 4, 2012
September 4, 2012
Big Al will be missed by all the Cardinal Faithful and present day staff and players. Loyalty has been a keynote and Al's support for football and all of the Cardinal athletes will be difficult to replace but always appreciated.
September 4, 2012
September 4, 2012
Dear Jeanne & Family: We send our deep condolence for all of our loss of Al. He never forgot the little guy and included so many of the wanna-bees as his friends. He never forgot a smile and how well his Stanford watch was working. Hope we will be kept on Captain Al's list.
September 4, 2012
September 4, 2012
Love to Jeanne from both of us.
It was my privilege to call Al my friend since the 4th grade.  His love of sports, comradeship, and humor will always inspire those whose lives he touched.
Juana and Don Mueller
September 4, 2012
September 4, 2012
Dear Jeanne,

I shall always remember Al and my interest in history and sharing our most recent books read. I shall remember him at St Denis this Sunday.

Gary
September 4, 2012
September 4, 2012
Dear Jeanne:
We send our loving thoughts and compassion to you on the sudden loss of Al. No one loved the 1952 Rose Bowl Team more, and his bond and enthusiasm for them kept the team together to share memories of their unique years together. His legacy will live on forever in all who knew and loved him.
September 4, 2012
September 4, 2012
Dear Jeanne,

We will all miss Al, who was smart, funny, kind and the best source of Stanford info around.
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September 16, 2019
September 16, 2019
Al was a wonderful cousin who took such a great interest in our family history......and passed it on to us. His updates were so interesting . Thank you Al.        Hi to Jeanne...do you have a new phone # and address. Tried to contact you on June 26 to wish you a Happy Birthday! But could not get in touch. .... Lots of great thoughts .Norm and Mary
August 30, 2018
August 30, 2018
I miss Al and his always thoughtful, encouraging and informative e-mails. My love and thanks to his family for keeping his memory alive. Tau Kappa Phi.
August 4, 2018
August 4, 2018
Al & Jeanne were so supportive for me when I lost my last husband in Palm Desert when they lived here. I so appreciated their friendship and was sorry that Jeanne left the area. I also had an attachment to Stanford in my younger days. Love to the family.
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August 30, 2018

I remember meeting this wonderful gentleman when I came to Athletics, turned into one of the people I LOVED seeing daily. I Miss You AL! I do want to say my oldest now works on Campus and I am so glad you took time to talk with me occasionally! - wish I could have introduced him to you! Love, John! You are STILL MISSED!

Love is A Many Splendored Thing

September 18, 2012

Independently, my son Jim and I immediately had the same reaction to the photo on the back of the memorial program (an enlargement was displayed outside the chapel.


Al waving from the top of the grassy hill was a near duplicate of the final scene in "Love is a many Splendored Thing" with William Holden waving from a nearly identical hill.


Jim had seen the movie many years ago, as had I, and I had watched it again just the night before the memorial! 


I wondered if the film had any special remembrance for Jeannie and Al.


Al was great friend!


Dick Rutter '54           

American All Stars legend

September 11, 2012

I heard about Al's death last Saturday and was deeply saddened that he had not lived long enough to read my book about the American All Stars rugby league tour in 53, to which he contributed such magical stories. I only met Al twice, both times he was wonderful with his generosity of time and spirit.

Having travelled from England to interview him a second time in April 2007, he was in bed recovering from an operation. I arrived late and he was about to have his daily treatment. But he told his nurse "Leave us to it - this fella's come further than you have"!!

It was so fitting that on Sunday I was at the Rugby League Heritage Centre in Huddersfield and there on the wall in the boardroom was an All Stars team group including Teddy Grossman, Ed Demerjian, Bob Buckley, Pat Henry, Al Abajian, Vince Jones, Jack Bonetti and Big Al.

My book No Helmets Required will be out next year - I had hoped Al would be a special guest at a launch event at Stanford. I will invite his family instead.

Thanks Al.

Gavin Willacy, Bengeo, England

 

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