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August 2023

Grief is just love with no place to go.

                               Jamie Anderson


August 2022

Three years have now passed, and there is unending gratitude for the ways Bill touched our lives  - caring without judgement, adding humor and gentle insight, giving selflessly, and living life to the fullest.  Add brunches and happy hours, and you have yourself Bill's credo.


August 2021

Two years have come and gone without Bill's wisdom, humor, and love - a huge hole in the fabric of our lives.  His absence certainly confirms what a gift it was to have shared his life.

I'll be forever grateful for the love, compassion and support of family and friends through this difficult time.  Bill's absence is becoming familiar.  My hope for all of us is that one day soon his memory will bring more joy than sadness and more gratitude than grief, because that's what he'd want - no matter how many happy hours it takes.

                                  "All that we love deeply becomes a part of us."
                                                                                Helen Keller

Now his story is part of our story that we carry forward.  We can give him a place in the narrative of our lives and keep him in our hearts.

Peace, love and gratitude,

Ann 


Your continued participation in this website is the best possible gift you could give to Bill's family and friends - we love and very much appreciate shared stories and photos that help us to remember and to learn even more about what an amazing person he was and how lucky we were to have known him. 


August 2019

Our beloved Bill passed away unexpectedly after recent surgery.  He will be forever in our hearts.  

Bill is survived by his wife, Ann, and by children, Kellen [Eric], Kristin [Chris], Will [Annika] and Lauren [Cole], and by grandchildren, Tyla, Lexi and Quinn and Charlotte, Parker, Boden and Ainsley.  

***There will be no formal funeral, in honor of his wishes.***
 
August 21, 2021
August 21, 2021
Occasionally I construct mental lists such as my favorite vacations, books, albums, movies, wilderness trips, and ski resorts; 10 foods that I would take to a deserted island; sports that I am good at (otherwise known as a null set); and so forth. As I was recalling memories of Bill the other day, I thought back to my most memorable “dinner,” one that I shared with Bill and Jim on an October trip to the BWCA, with dinner deservedly being in quotes.

We had canoed and portaged for 11 hours that day, arriving in camp just as the sun was setting at 7 pm or so. The total distance we had covered was at least 17 miles, if not more. The day had involved much orienteering, missed turns, backtracking, and sketchy portages. Both Bill and Jim crossed each portage with a canoe and a light pack whereas I carried a greyish blue monster (perhaps a Lowe backpack) that went from the top of my head to my knees and that accounts for me now being 5’9” instead of 6’ 4”. 

Arriving so late, we had to make dinner and set up camp before we lost the evening light. The three of us were famished and cold and were ready to end our trip the next day. We opened up our food bag to discover just three one-serving packets: one of instant oatmeal, one of soup, and one of hot chocolate. How did we end up in this predicament? Had Jim planned poorly? Unlikely. Had we stayed out a day longer than we expected? Possible but again, not likely. Had Jim planned for several dinners of fish and both he and Bill had failed to get their quota earlier in the week? Clearly, this is the most plausible explanation.

I can’t remember if we consumed one-third of each packet. More likely we drew cards to see who got the soup, oatmeal, or hot chocolate. Despite the cold, fatigue, and hunger pains, no one complained as we rehashed the day’s events and its ultimately successful conclusion – despite all the setbacks, we had made it to camp with a few minutes of daylight remaining.

It was the company, the shared experience, and the setting that made this dinner most memorable, not the food.
August 18, 2021
August 18, 2021
I've been thinking more than usual about Bill, Ann, and the entire Schultz family these past few days. I take comfort in looking at the photos of Bill, his family and friends and reflecting on all of the wonderful times he and I shared, often with many of you. From grand adventures (Alaska kayaking) to more mundane activities (sheetrocking cabin bedrooms), I enjoyed every minute with Bill. One photo in particular made me smile a bit more than the others. The picture (on the second page) is one of Bill and me at his 30th birthday party. Some of you may have noticed a small detail before (Lynne remembered it from the party), but it never registered with me until today. Check out the candle on his cake. Classic Bill. He could improvise with the best of them.  Thanks for all the laughs, Bill.
August 18, 2021
August 18, 2021
Hard to believe two years have gone by. I often think of my brother as my daily life goes on. Though our paths crossed infrequently it was always felt we would have more time together.
My regret is that we didn’t make time when the opportunity was there.
I know how proud Bill would be of his family and would have brought him so much happiness.
Bill is forever missed.
I am thankful and blessed to have had such a wonderful brother.
July 11, 2020
July 11, 2020
Yes, today would have been the day we would have gathered to celebrate my brother Bill’s life. Unfortunately the current times don’t allow gatherings of this type. Looks like a beautiful day in the north and would have been a wonderful time. The future will hold the same.
I think Bill would have done better during these times than many of us. Frequently he liked his time alone or at least sheltered up at his cabin with friends and family.
Bills memory often is there. I recently traveled near conifer Colorado and fished a stream,
had another Father’s Day, hearing of Chads trip to the wind river range. All these brought fond memories.
Look forward to the resolution of the pandemic so we can have a proper celebration.
While you shelter and isolate yourselves have a toast to wonderful husband, father, friend and brother.  Salute
July 11, 2020
July 11, 2020
Well, today was set aside for friends and family to get together at the cabin and celebrate having had Bill in our lives. Bill would be the first one to postpone this celebration/memorial to protect his loved ones from covid, and I am glad that decision was made. 

Gathering to tell stories, golf, eat, laugh, cry, and spend time with each other will hopefully help assuage the ever-present, deep ache Bill’s death has caused for many. Time has marched on without Bill, but he lives in my heart. And, he lives through all the acts of kindness and hard work that have taken place in his honor. He is remembered constantly by talking about him, remembering his quiet ways and sense of humor, putting him into today’s story – “What would Bill think about this?!” and in channeling his spirit to help get through the day.

We will hopefully gather to celebrate Bill next year. He will live on forever, maybe larger than life, in my heart and soul.
September 10, 2019
September 10, 2019
Bill was a great person, friend, and manager. I know he is going to be missed by all that had the opportunity to be around him. My sympathies to the family. My memory’s still have him with that grin. Almost like he knew something that you didn’t.
Rest In Peace my friend. 
September 10, 2019
September 10, 2019
Dear, dear Ann and Bill's family,
We are saddened to hear of Bill's passing to the other side. We hold you all in our prayers during this very difficult time. 
With love and fond memories,
Bob and Mary
September 7, 2019
September 7, 2019
Our deepest condolences to all of you. Bill was a wonderful man and he will be missed.
September 6, 2019
September 6, 2019
I worked with Bill for nearly 30 years and enjoyed all of our times together. Bill was one of the most genuine and sincere people I have ever encountered. He was very fair and always concerned about the well being of others.

Bill will be missed but never forgotten.
August 28, 2019
August 28, 2019
So Sorry to here of Bill's passing. I did not know him well but I know all who did, feel truly blessed. Our prayers to Ann and the family.
August 21, 2019
August 21, 2019
It has been my joy to have been part of Bill’s world. He was such a solid rock individual in every way that I never considered that he would not be ever-present. That he and Ann were on the precipice of making their long-dreamed-about next steps of life together makes his premature passing even more distressing. 

Going through family photos, I see that Bill was not ever front and center. He wasn’t attention seeking – he didn’t proselytize, or push his opinions on anyone else, but he did keep true to himself and his beliefs about people and the world. He believed in kindness. I think of Bill being quiet, but he wasn’t all that quiet and I do not know how he did that! Bill seemed to like feeling that he was a bit anti-social. It is ironic that he is beloved by so many. 

Bill was calm, understanding, smart, and was interested in everything and everyone. He liked to relax and talk and found joy in others. Bill had a way of supporting others that meant so much. He let you know that he believed you could do whatever you set out to do, and his belief made me really feel that I could do it. He was a good teacher and mentor and could find a kind and even humorous way to make any situation better. He didn’t talk much about the past or dwell on adversity.

Bill was a hard worker and problem solver; and would do anything for those he loved. He even took care of my two young sons at one point when we had a daycare emergency!

You could also count on Bill to stop what he was doing and settle in for sunset happy hours and relaxation at the cabin. The cabin was his dream and his legacy to his family. He seemed to enjoy every moment of its’ beauty and solitude and its’ perfect setting to spend days of work and laughter with family and his fabulous close-knit friends. Bill loved cooking Thanksgiving Dinner and dreamed of holidays spent with family at the cabin.

Bill loved his family! One time, Ann and I took the kids way up north for a few days. When we got back, he scooped up Lauren and Will and held them tight for several minutes just looking into their faces and smiling. Love and affection for them, and for Kellen and Kristin and all the grandkids radiated off him.

The world has lost a kind, gentle, smart, funny, fun-loving giant of a man whose impact on others cannot be calculated or overestimated. My family is so fortunate to have known and loved him.

Page Weed (Ann's sister)
August 20, 2019
August 20, 2019
We are so very sorry for your loss. Our prayers will be with you and your family.

Tim, Holly & Cody
August 20, 2019
August 20, 2019
We are so very sorry for your loss!
Our hearts go out to you Ann, the kids, grandkids and the entire family. Sending you love, hugs and strength as you go through this very difficult time.

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August 21, 2021
August 21, 2021
Occasionally I construct mental lists such as my favorite vacations, books, albums, movies, wilderness trips, and ski resorts; 10 foods that I would take to a deserted island; sports that I am good at (otherwise known as a null set); and so forth. As I was recalling memories of Bill the other day, I thought back to my most memorable “dinner,” one that I shared with Bill and Jim on an October trip to the BWCA, with dinner deservedly being in quotes.

We had canoed and portaged for 11 hours that day, arriving in camp just as the sun was setting at 7 pm or so. The total distance we had covered was at least 17 miles, if not more. The day had involved much orienteering, missed turns, backtracking, and sketchy portages. Both Bill and Jim crossed each portage with a canoe and a light pack whereas I carried a greyish blue monster (perhaps a Lowe backpack) that went from the top of my head to my knees and that accounts for me now being 5’9” instead of 6’ 4”. 

Arriving so late, we had to make dinner and set up camp before we lost the evening light. The three of us were famished and cold and were ready to end our trip the next day. We opened up our food bag to discover just three one-serving packets: one of instant oatmeal, one of soup, and one of hot chocolate. How did we end up in this predicament? Had Jim planned poorly? Unlikely. Had we stayed out a day longer than we expected? Possible but again, not likely. Had Jim planned for several dinners of fish and both he and Bill had failed to get their quota earlier in the week? Clearly, this is the most plausible explanation.

I can’t remember if we consumed one-third of each packet. More likely we drew cards to see who got the soup, oatmeal, or hot chocolate. Despite the cold, fatigue, and hunger pains, no one complained as we rehashed the day’s events and its ultimately successful conclusion – despite all the setbacks, we had made it to camp with a few minutes of daylight remaining.

It was the company, the shared experience, and the setting that made this dinner most memorable, not the food.
August 18, 2021
August 18, 2021
I've been thinking more than usual about Bill, Ann, and the entire Schultz family these past few days. I take comfort in looking at the photos of Bill, his family and friends and reflecting on all of the wonderful times he and I shared, often with many of you. From grand adventures (Alaska kayaking) to more mundane activities (sheetrocking cabin bedrooms), I enjoyed every minute with Bill. One photo in particular made me smile a bit more than the others. The picture (on the second page) is one of Bill and me at his 30th birthday party. Some of you may have noticed a small detail before (Lynne remembered it from the party), but it never registered with me until today. Check out the candle on his cake. Classic Bill. He could improvise with the best of them.  Thanks for all the laughs, Bill.
August 18, 2021
August 18, 2021
Hard to believe two years have gone by. I often think of my brother as my daily life goes on. Though our paths crossed infrequently it was always felt we would have more time together.
My regret is that we didn’t make time when the opportunity was there.
I know how proud Bill would be of his family and would have brought him so much happiness.
Bill is forever missed.
I am thankful and blessed to have had such a wonderful brother.
His Life
August 18, 2019
Bill was born to Barbara and Carl Schultz, the oldest of 8 kids, which was apparent in his dependability and caretaking throughout his life.  He was a retired 3M engineer who, over the last two decades, loved to escape 'up north.'  Bill was an athlete and outdoorsman at heart, active in swimming, basketball, tennis, golfing, waterskiing, cross country and downhill skiing, biking, countless canoeing trips in the BWCA and Quetico, and backpacking/hiking/kayaking trips in Canada, Alaska and out west.  He loved brunch, happy hour and spending time with family and friends.

Bill was a committed and proud husband, father, and grandfather who was there unconditionally for everyone and anyone - always giving and never expecting or wanting anything in return.  As Bill often put it, Ann made him marry her, and they recently celebrated their 30th wedding anniversary. Bill meticulously, thoughtfully and selflessly provided for his family in every way possible, setting them up for happy, successful lives.  

He was described by his daughter, Lauren, as a “burnt marshmallow” - having a slightly rough exterior with a very sweet center.  His intelligence and dry sense of humor with a touch of witty cynicism were “classic Bill” and will always be fondly remembered.
Recent stories
September 19, 2019
I first met Bill in 1977 through Jim and Lynne.  I made a couple of Boundary Waters trips with Bill and Jim, and one with just Bill and I.  I had no qualms about bringing Bill up north to the reservation where I grew up for duck hunting or fishing.  I knew nothing that occurred would be a problem for Bill.  We stayed at my parents' house and of course they adored Bill.  Over the years of our dinner club, happy hours, and cribbage games, I counted Bill as a true friend.  I helped Bill set up a surprise wedding reception when he and Ann got married, and enjoyed outings to the old cabin on the river in Wisconsin.  When I lost my Mom in 1998, I was stumbling around the funeral home trying to get my bearings and I looked up and saw Bill.  He had driven the four and half hours just to offer the support he knew I needed.  This was typical of Bill-selfless and giving.  In the last years I had not seen much of Bill, but as Bill had previously told me with friends you are comfortable with you pick up right where you left off.  I am truly sorry I did not get the chance to renew our friendship in the last years, and I will always cherish the memories of a kind, gentle, and solid friend.

September 7, 2019
I want so badly to think of the perfect stories to honor my Dad, but I cannot right now. It’s impossible for me to explain the impact he has had, and will continue to have, on my life, but for now there are a few things I’d like to say:

Thank you to everyone who has shared a story, picture, or condolence on this memorial site. I appreciate it so much. I visit every day to check for new stories, read old stories, look through photos, and reflect. My Dad’s passing is undoubtedly the most difficult and painful chapter of my life, and your contributions are helping me through it.

To his friends,
He loved you so much. You made him happy. You’ve been a rock in his life for my entire existence and longer. I’ve grown up with your names, faces, and families, and experienced how much you meant to him.He’d be so appreciative of the stories you’ve shared and proud of the support and laughs you’re giving us, his family. I believe that the friendships he built are just one of the thousands of ways he is taking care of me. He left us knowing you’d be here for his family, and that we’d be in the best company.

To his siblings,
While to me we seemed more distant, I always felt his love and respect for you and the hope to reconnect.He was very proud of you and your families. Reading your stories gives me a glimpse into chapters of his life I hadn't known or explored much yet. I’m thankful to have you all to help me continue to know my Dad.

Will
September 1, 2019
Well I guess I've avoided this long enough. So badly wanting this not to be true but it is.
I could type forever but I won't and don't need to.  Our relationship was sooooo deep that it doesn't require words.  We (you know who you are) had so many wonderful /fun times together.  No one I know had the amount, and more so, quality experiences that we shared.  For that I am grateful beyond words.  The "movie" of our times together keeps playing a loop thru my head......hope it just keeps replaying.  Of course the trade off is that it just makes this so much more painful.  I always felt safe (for someone with a bit of a messy mind like me, try to put a price tag on that) when I was around Bill.  Actually KNOWING that he would be there regardless if he was present was such a benefit and relief.  I am choosing to believe that he is and will continue to be there for me/us.  I'm so grateful that we (the gang) shared our love for each other thru actions and words continually instead of waiting to do so in a tribute such as this.  We lived it. Bill, I am so grateful for your love but miss you so bad it just flat out hurts.  Rest in peace my brother, you did LOTS of good for so many.....mostly me.  Love you so much,  George

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