THE DAY WE GOT MARRIED. WE CAME TO NEW JERSEY EVERY WEEKEND TO FINALIZE EVERYTHING
WE WERE MARRIED AT THE VFW IN WRIGHTSTOWN SO ALL FAMILY AND FRIENDS COULD ATTEND AND THE DAY OF THE CELEBRATION PASTOR MICHEAL KLIMICK FIRST BAPTIST CHURCH BROWNSMILLS (I AM A MEMBER) OFFICATED AND HE SAID IF ANY ONE WOULD OF TOLD HIM A YEAR BEFORE THAT I WOULD REMARRY HE WOULD OF TOLD THEM TO HAVE THIER HEADS EXAMINED BECAUSE I WAS NEVER GONNA MARRY AGAIN BUT CALVIN JUST DID NOT GIVE UP.
LOVE YOU MR.BARLOW YOU ARE MY HEART AND MISSED DEARLY 

I remember when i first ment calvin /stepdad i had my two little onen the older ones and i had my place in wrightstown my mom told me that she had a man i didnt belive it at first till she brought him over and from then i knew he was good for my mom she seemed so happy and always had a smile on her face and give her everything he loved all his grandchildren he had a fun life but the crazy thing about it was me and him had a love hate thing but we got along when the football games came on and baseball came on but i never knew that i would everr miss him till he left us all and i never had a chances to tell him thanks for all he donee for me and my kids and that i loved him so now i hurt the most but i want to say merry xmas dad and i will always love you this is the hardest time for all of us is xmas cause you alway made us laught and always made us smile and gave us all the best gifts thanks for everything dad and love and miss you so much . 

CALVIN WAS BORN IN WILLMINGTON DELAWARE TO THE LATE CALVIN AND DORIS (HAMILTON) BARLOW HE WORKED FOR H&A ELECTRIC FOR 25 YEARS. HE LOVED TO BOWL IN WHICH HE WAS ON A LEAGUE. AND FISHING HE LOVED TRAINS, DRAGONS AND OF COURSE THE 49ERS AND PHILLIES.HE  HAS TWO BROTHERS NICHOLAS AND TED BOTH OF WOODSIDE DELAWARE. HE LOVED GOING TO THE DELAWARE STATE FAIR AND REALLY ENJOYED THE TIMES HE SPENT WITH TIMMY AND KIM AND SHELBY WHEN THEY CAME. WE SAW THE BEACH BOYS AND HE LIKED NASCAR. HE ENJOYED GOING TO FAMILY FOR PICNICS AND HOLIDAYS LIKE THANKSGIVING AND CHRISTMAS. WE SPENT A WEEK IN NORTH CAROLINA WITH JESSIE AND VINCE AND FAMILY FOR EASTER. HE AND KYLA USE TO WATCH WALKER TEXAS RANGER AND WRESTLING TOGETHER I WAS NOT ALOUD TO INVADE THIS TIME. MIKAYLA WAS ALWAYS FIGHTING WITH KYLA FOR HIS ATTENTION AND HE ENJOYED IT SO. VINNY HE WAS ALWAYS LOOKING FOR THE WREASTLERS YOU WANTED. MIKAYLA ASKED HIM ONE DAY 'POPPY HOW CAN YOU EAT THAT PORK CHOP OR CHICKEN WITHOUT TEETH? THANK YOU FOR GIVING HIM SO MUCH JOY

I REMBER THE DAY OF THE PHILLIES GAME. I BOUGHT HIM TICKETS ONE DAY FOR HIS BIRTHDAY AND HIM AND TIMMY WERE GOING HE WAS LIKE A KID AT CHRISTMAS AND LITTLE DID I KNOW THAT WAS THE MOST JOY HE HAD SAID HIM AND TIMMY SPENT A GOOD DAY TOGETHER TIMMY AND CALVIN WERE CLOSE TIMMY YOU DONOT KNOW HOW MUCH THE TIME YOU SPENT WITH CALVIN MET TO HIM.HE LOVED YOU ALL AND OUR TIMES AT THE FAIR. I DONOT EVER REMBER US NOT BEING THER FAMILY PICNICS BIRTHDAY PARTIES AND THE HOLIDAYS, I KEEP THESE IN MY HEART FOR ALWAYS.
THANK YOU FOR BRINGING SUCH JOY TO HIS LIFE AND BEING WHO YOU ALL WERE TO HIM