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Service:  Carole's inurnment occurred at Arlington National Cemetery, Friday, May 13, 2016 at 3:00 pm (it was a beautiful day). 

In Lieu of Flowers: The family request that you please donate to the DC/MD/VA ALS Association Community of Hope, in memory of Carole Smith: 
http://webdc.alsa.org/goto/carole-sue-smith

 

November 10, 2023
November 10, 2023
The absence of Carole and Gwen in my life has created a hole in my heart that I feel every day. Both were exceptional in every way, their beauty, joy of life, generosity of service to others, empathy and so much, much more. Carole is missed more as time goes by and there is so much I wish I could share with her. Her spirit lives on and brings a smile with each beautiful memory.  I love viewing all the amazing pictures her family has so kindly shared. 
November 10, 2023
November 10, 2023
Tara and Brandon, and Family
I'm thinking about your beautiful mother today especially....and holding you both close to my heart. She was truly a lovely spirit and will always be with us. I'll never forget our loving, happy, warm times together, especially with our kids at your Mom's.
Love to you both, today and every day.
November 10, 2023
November 10, 2023
I just reviewed all the pictures on Forever Missed, and see Carole, but also children, grandchildren, friends, dogs and familiar parts of her life. This reinforces the memory of her loving life and how she touched us all. She is always missed. Lee
November 10, 2023
November 10, 2023
Another November 10 full of sadness but also this day brings me closer to her wonderful spirit! I am lucky that I have soooo many memories of her. Forever missed indeed.
September 6, 2023
September 6, 2023
Carole,
You had such a positive impact on my life and my son Marcus. You brought many a smile to my heart and will always cherish fond and loving memories of you always!!
September 4, 2023
September 4, 2023
Carole, you are always in my thoughts. I smile, I laugh, I remember soooo many wonderful experiences we shared. There will never ever be another you. I miss you and especially today. Love always, Merry
September 4, 2023
September 4, 2023
I have been moving, and I recently packed and looked at many of the pictures that we had taken over the years. Again her precious being rushed back to me, and I missed her again. Lee Smith
September 4, 2023
September 4, 2023
Still, of course, think of our mom each and every day. This week, I reread a bunch of letters she wrote to me back in the 1990s. Loved seeing her unique handwriting and thoughtful letter-writing style. Forever missed!
November 10, 2022
November 10, 2022
CAROLE is still missed. 7 years! With the brain fog that comes with aging, I have trouble with memory. Yet I do not forget the kindness and gentleness that she showed every day.
September 4, 2022
September 4, 2022
Carole is still in our minds. She would be most gratified to see the growth of her grandchildren since children were the most important events in her life. Her care for children bore witness to this as her way of life.
September 4, 2022
September 4, 2022
Missing mom more than ever today on her birthday. Her smile, laughter, and warmth persist. And her elegance! I reflect today on how many hundreds of hours she worked as a volunteer. The Smithsonian (all the recordings she made) and Walter Reed National Military Medical Center (all the compassion and empathy she shared) come to mind. Just think of how many people’s lives she impacted through this volunteer work!
May 9, 2022
May 9, 2022
Another spring has come and the plants have made the garden bloom and flourish. Carole loved this time and I associate her beauty with nature's beauty. She would be all in on making the earth better.
May 8, 2022
May 8, 2022
Another Mother's Day come and gone without a mom BUT my mom's splendid momness pervades in all of the lives she touched (and not just on Mother's Day - I still hear her voice in its gentle mom way every day).
November 10, 2021
November 10, 2021
I have on my desk an electronic internet frame with a favorite picture of Carole, Gwen and myself prior to leaving for an Inaugural Ball when President Obama was elected the first time.  It is my daily (at least) time to remember my dear friends Carole and Gwen and smile. I do miss them so much.  
November 10, 2021
November 10, 2021
Not a day passes that I do not think of Carole. Her beauty and caring cannot be forgotten. She is sorely missed. Lee
November 10, 2021
November 10, 2021
I echo what Lee said a bit ago. Today, I wish I were sitting by her grave marker in Arlington and reflecting on some of the millions of memories of my mom!
September 13, 2021
September 13, 2021
There will never ever be another 'you.' While that can be said about everyone, Carole was SO special. You are always with me, Carole, to this very minute. I am so glad we met --- a long, long time ago.

Sending you a big hug and kiss!
Merry
September 12, 2021
September 12, 2021
I miss Carole so very much, her kindness and her gentle attitude. She was warmhearted and would do anything to help you. She will always be remembered by my son and myself.
September 4, 2021
September 4, 2021
Missing my mom today as always. Found a list she made of little tasks and things that I needed to get my new house in order, probably from 2009, that made me tear up. Such a lovely and kind person. Totally dedicated to family and friends and always right there ready to help! It pains me every day that Annalise was not able to get to know her better, but she asks about her often and I talk about her often.
September 3, 2021
September 3, 2021
Carole, I still miss you, your voice, your laugh, your kindness, your beauty, you being such a solid person who always gave in many ways. You are still alive to me even though I know you are somewhere else. I miss you -- plain and simple. All of us who were lucky enough to have your friendship and love, are so lucky to have known you. 

All my love,
Merry
September 3, 2021
September 3, 2021
Still miss her. I have been locked in because of the pandemic; so I'm not able to visit the cemetery for the past year, but the fond memory lingers on. Lee
September 3, 2021
September 3, 2021
Thinking of my mom as usual on the eve of her birthday and remembering her lovely voice, smile, and laugh… the smell of her perfume... Seeing her walking the dogs, feeding the fish, watching MSNBC, and drinking her coffee...
November 10, 2020
November 10, 2020
A day does not go by without thinking of Carole. Memories of her and her beauty are always with me.
November 10, 2020
November 10, 2020
Five years have passed. Four of these years would have been full of interesting and lively political discussions between my mom and all her wonderful friends and family! Can you imagine?! Think how many hours of MSNBC would have been watched by my mom and Lee – and how happy she would have been on Nov. 7, 2020 (Biden’s victory declared)! Thinking of my mom today, as always, and missing her more and more and more. And I love and miss all of you on this tribute in a very big way.
November 10, 2020
November 10, 2020
Nothing has changed, Carole. My love, admiration, respect and being grateful that we met in the first place, is still in my soul. I love you and you are with me probably every day of my life. So many of us who were lucky enough to have you for a friend -- or, of course, your entire family, think of you and miss you, always.  
Merry
September 4, 2020
September 4, 2020
Carole, here I am last in line and only God and you know that you are always, always with me. I was just moving some photos of you and me around in my built-in bookshelf. I see you all the time whether in my bookcase or in my bedroom where I have photos of my favorite friends and family. I have so many memories of you and of us and you will always be a part of me. I miss our honesty, closeness, laughter and most of all your true sincerity. I feel your presence still and am sure I will until the day I die and then, who knows.... I love you.
September 4, 2020
September 4, 2020
Five years have passed, and I find it hard to believe that she is gone. I have kept her pictures up to see her outer beauty and remind me of her inner beauty. Dearly missed.
September 4, 2020
September 4, 2020
Sept. 4: Our memories of my mom shine through in a big way.
September 4, 2020
September 4, 2020
Dearest Carole, I have lovely  thoughts of your beauty, intelligence and wisdom today, your birthday, and how very much you are missed. Especially during this "election season" I miss sharing with you!  I pray you and Gwen are enjoying God's beautiful garden as you so enjoyed yours here on earth lovingly nurtured by Lee. You are so missed.....
September 4, 2019
September 4, 2019
Every day Carole is thought of and her incredible beauty, class, graciousness, and kindness remembered with the joy of sharing part of life with her and such sadness that she is gone. 
September 4, 2019
September 4, 2019
Everything of hers that I see or touch makes me remember what a wonderful person she was. Snickers was a favorite, and each day he jumps around and is so sprightly, reminding me of what pleasure she took in his presence.
September 4, 2019
September 4, 2019
Carole, I just looked at all these beautiful photos of you that Brandon took. Each one is so very beautiful. Each one is so real to me.....I still think of you every day.....you were a rare friend with such beauty outside and inside. I can still hear your laugh and voice, of course. In a strange way, I do not think of you as 'gone' -- just away.....please know that I love you and to this minute, cherish our friendship. 
September 4, 2019
September 4, 2019
Those who were close to mom are brought a bit closer to her on September 4th. We are so lucky to have so many WONDERFUL memories (and photos and audio recordings and a few videos) of her. Mom - we miss you so much always and sure wish we could give you a hug on your birthday.
November 10, 2018
November 10, 2018
Three years have passed, and I think of her every day. She was the light of my life, and she will be missed forever. I think she was the most elegant person that I have ever met. Likewise her inner self was most caring and loving to a perfection. She shared this perfection with her family and friends.
November 10, 2018
November 10, 2018
Dear Sweet Carole, I miss you and especially our sharing of the current events and discussions of our darling grands!!!! Your beauty and kindness are very much needed in our world and you are remembered every day with love.
September 7, 2018
September 7, 2018
Happy birthday, cousin Carole! How I would love to hear your sense of humor and comments about contemporary events. I miss your joy and light. LOVE!
September 4, 2018
September 4, 2018
I got to see three of my old college buddies this holiday weekend. Each knew Carole, and after mentioning to them that her birthday is today, each shared a story about her. One of my friends recalled when mom told him that 'he needs to take a shower!' These stories reinforced that she left a warm place in the hearts of so many. Thinking about my mom all day today on her birthday. We all miss her so much. 
November 10, 2017
November 10, 2017
Philip & I think of you often, you were a very special person to the both of us. I still have the last text message you had sent me and I read it again today, we miss you dearly!
November 10, 2017
November 10, 2017
My beautiful, loving wife, You are gone, but memories of you linger forever. A part of you is here in this house and garden to remind me of you every day. Love, Lee
November 10, 2017
November 10, 2017
Susie, not a day goes by without thoughts of you...but I feel that you are near me! Lots of memories. Love you always! Babe
November 10, 2017
November 10, 2017
My mom remains a big part of our lives, and she still helps us make good decisions. She was absolutely the most wonderful human being.
September 9, 2017
September 9, 2017
Carole was a genuine lady who always had kind words and a warm smile.She always was giving of herself, her time and she truly cared about her family and dogs. She was a great friend to me and my son, I will remember you Carole, but I know you are resting but still I miss you.
September 5, 2017
September 5, 2017
I miss my dear friend. As I was about to add her to my prayers I recalled the email notice about her birth date. I think about the laughs we had, in the garden, over margaritas, with the dogs, Christmas shopping, over hard shell crabs...so many good time. "It's the laughter we will remember, whenever we remember the way we were". Carole, you are dearly missed.
September 4, 2017
September 4, 2017
Happy Birthday dear Sister! You are so missed by family and friends but all of us are left with wonderful memories of your loving ways....in that, we are very fortunate.....but you know, I tell you each day how I miss you! Happy Birthday! Love You, Babe
September 4, 2017
September 4, 2017
Carole, my dearest friend, you are with me every day....and I send you a special message of love on today, your birthday. I love you.
Merry
September 4, 2017
September 4, 2017
It's hard to realize another year has passed without your presence which always added more love and joy for everyone. We miss your love and beauty.
Jim
September 4, 2017
September 4, 2017
Dear Carole:
The NTM gang misses you. Lyne, Jane and I still meet at Clydes but not as often. You were the glue to our foursome. We all miss you so much. Those few years of knowing you continues to bring me joy.
Martha
September 4, 2017
September 4, 2017
Sending dozens of flowers your way today, Sept. 4. Hugs are in order. You are missed more than ever by lots and lots and lots of us (and dogs of course)! Your presence is as strong as ever in our worlds. Time for a walk in the garden. LOVE!
September 4, 2017
September 4, 2017
We have a statue of a young girl holding a bird in Carole's garden, which I must stop and admire frequently. There is a brass plaque on it that has a line which says," the most important job is raising your children". A good job was done, and all of our grandchildren have turned out to be "gifted". A grandfather would say that anyway, but I do believe it.
September 4, 2017
September 4, 2017
To my dear mother: Annalise and I miss you every day in so many ways. We talk about you a lot because we feel you around us all the time. The world will never be the same without you but it is a better place because you were once here. Today, your birthday, has been the most gorgeous day of the year in Atlanta. We are enjoying it as you would - the first signs of Fall have arrived. Love to all of you who loved Carole. What a truly special person she was.
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November 10, 2023
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The absence of Carole and Gwen in my life has created a hole in my heart that I feel every day. Both were exceptional in every way, their beauty, joy of life, generosity of service to others, empathy and so much, much more. Carole is missed more as time goes by and there is so much I wish I could share with her. Her spirit lives on and brings a smile with each beautiful memory.  I love viewing all the amazing pictures her family has so kindly shared. 
November 10, 2023
November 10, 2023
Tara and Brandon, and Family
I'm thinking about your beautiful mother today especially....and holding you both close to my heart. She was truly a lovely spirit and will always be with us. I'll never forget our loving, happy, warm times together, especially with our kids at your Mom's.
Love to you both, today and every day.
November 10, 2023
November 10, 2023
I just reviewed all the pictures on Forever Missed, and see Carole, but also children, grandchildren, friends, dogs and familiar parts of her life. This reinforces the memory of her loving life and how she touched us all. She is always missed. Lee
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two of my favorite mom memories!!!

February 28, 2016
Two of the most memorable, happiest times EVER with my mom were a Mother’s Day hike we did together at Difficult Run Trail in Great Falls National Park (1990), and a five-day road trip from Tempe, AZ to Columbia, MO (May, 2002).

The Great Falls hike was not too long, maybe a mile, but it was just so special. It was a peaceful trail along a clear stream. It was a sunny, warm, breezy day. The hike ended at a deep pool where the stream entered the Potomac River. We brought a picnic and laughed a lot. I remember talking with mom about geology. That day with her and that place were so special that I returned by myself a few years later to collect a bunch of large rocks from the stream that I arranged into a rock garden in the patio of her condo in Shirlington. These rocks were then moved to Lee and Carole’s house in DC, where they rest today, in the lower level of their beautiful garden. Years later, with the arrival of grandkids, I think she called the rock garden there the ‘grandkids garden.’

On our ‘roadtrip extraordinaire’ as we referred to it, my mom and I enjoyed short day hikes in Sedona (in a beautiful canyon that involved crossing a stream and getting our feet wet) and Wupatki Ruins in AZ (she loved the Indian ruins here; she bought me a tee-shirt there that I still wear!), toured the Painted Desert (where we drove right through a dust devil), stood together at the Four Corners site (where it was super windy), visited the Anasazi Visitors Center in Montrose, CO (where she bought Ute Indian jewelry), hiked a section of the 'slickrock' trail in Moab, UT (see image - one of my favorites!), stayed in a hotel in Telluride (where she didn’t sleep much at all because of the altitude), drove across South Park in Colorado (where we stopped and watched buffalo graze), and drove by Pikes Peak (where she recalled stories from a roadtrip she took there from Missouri with her parents and siblings in the 1950s). Last, we made our way across Kansas and into Columbia. We were in my 1989 Buick Le Sabre (donated to me from my dad), with no air conditioning, which made the trip more memorable (especially the Arizona section)!

For years and years, we often talked about these two events, because they were so special. We shared so many laughs and made so many memories! 

Brandon, 2/28/2016  

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