November 5, 2019
by Abi Akinola
I have written this a couple of times and stopped but I know I MUST find a way to capture you in words.
Formidable
My earliest memories of you were at Sister Busola wedding in your regal outfit and hand made beaded shoes... Euroba’s fashion sense was top notch.
You stood tall with your usual formidable presence. It was the first time I asked the meaning of Eurobodo.
My little heart welled in pride to be your daughter and niece. Qualified to be an “Euroba” myself.
Father
I am sure the year but when my dad (your younger brother) was hospitalized for slip disc issues, you swung into action to ensure dad had everything he needed , you ensured he got the attention he needed.
If you have ever visited Igbobi orthopedic, you would appreciate this better.
A strong part of my childhood memories:
I smile because we ( Tope Eboda and I) always looked forward to our shiny one naira notes every Christmas day since the 80’s.I gradually got elevated to about #2000 the last Christmas I visited with my son.We looked forward to the increments in our Christmas monetary gifts. It was the highlight of Christmas day celebrations.
Olori Ebi:
Everyone who knows you is aware of how you worked to keep the Eboda family together and how you extended that to your maternal side of the family too. I learnt how beautiful family ties are irrespective of our differences from you and My dad.
Thank you.
Lastly, Dad’s big brother:
You were big brother in every sense of the word. My dad’s hero. We all know the bond that you both shared. Daddy wont go about a week without visiting you, getting worried about your health and vice versa. He longed for those conversations with his Euroba. Life dealt us all blows in 2014 and you both encouraged each other in a stronger bond.
On the morning of 24th October when I heard my dads voice break in a call to announce your passing, I broke down because I could hear the hurt in his voice. He would miss you greatly but we would be strong to continue on this journey standing on your shoulders.
Omo Egbo mogun ara Ijamo, omo a dele tejiteji, omo aborule nsunkun ojo,
Omo Ita ntebo alabameji, .Omo afegba sawo loke Moro,
Omo Eruobodo, eniti o duro ti odo ni eru nba
Continue to rest on Daddy
Euroba ,we will miss you.
Signed
Abisoye Eboda Akinola
Your Ladele’s daughter
Formidable
My earliest memories of you were at Sister Busola wedding in your regal outfit and hand made beaded shoes... Euroba’s fashion sense was top notch.
You stood tall with your usual formidable presence. It was the first time I asked the meaning of Eurobodo.
My little heart welled in pride to be your daughter and niece. Qualified to be an “Euroba” myself.
Father
I am sure the year but when my dad (your younger brother) was hospitalized for slip disc issues, you swung into action to ensure dad had everything he needed , you ensured he got the attention he needed.
If you have ever visited Igbobi orthopedic, you would appreciate this better.
A strong part of my childhood memories:
I smile because we ( Tope Eboda and I) always looked forward to our shiny one naira notes every Christmas day since the 80’s.I gradually got elevated to about #2000 the last Christmas I visited with my son.We looked forward to the increments in our Christmas monetary gifts. It was the highlight of Christmas day celebrations.
Olori Ebi:
Everyone who knows you is aware of how you worked to keep the Eboda family together and how you extended that to your maternal side of the family too. I learnt how beautiful family ties are irrespective of our differences from you and My dad.
Thank you.
Lastly, Dad’s big brother:
You were big brother in every sense of the word. My dad’s hero. We all know the bond that you both shared. Daddy wont go about a week without visiting you, getting worried about your health and vice versa. He longed for those conversations with his Euroba. Life dealt us all blows in 2014 and you both encouraged each other in a stronger bond.
On the morning of 24th October when I heard my dads voice break in a call to announce your passing, I broke down because I could hear the hurt in his voice. He would miss you greatly but we would be strong to continue on this journey standing on your shoulders.
Omo Egbo mogun ara Ijamo, omo a dele tejiteji, omo aborule nsunkun ojo,
Omo Ita ntebo alabameji, .Omo afegba sawo loke Moro,
Omo Eruobodo, eniti o duro ti odo ni eru nba
Continue to rest on Daddy
Euroba ,we will miss you.
Signed
Abisoye Eboda Akinola
Your Ladele’s daughter