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Leave a tributeUncle Bob
-Colin was born 3 weeks early on Feb 11, 1996 with a full head of dark brown hair-SO cute
-he was a good baby but only liked to take short cat naps
-he became a big brother at 2 1/2
-he loved to read and started reading independently when he was 4
-he always loved to learn
and had a great memory
-he liked to try new and interesting foods. (Alligator bites, turtle soup, bison burgers)
-he played soccer and baseball in elementary and middle school
-he started playing hockey when he was 6 and then was a goalie on his high school team from from grades 8-12.
-he seemed quiet and serious to those that didn’t know him well
-he was funny and had the best smile and laugh (giggle)
-he had a lot of friends and was a great one to others
-loved to talk sports and followed the Sabres, Red Sox and Steelers with his dad and brother
-his bedroom has a Red Sox theme
-he loved ALL kinds of music and going to concerts
-he liked to dress up and had good taste in clothing
-liked Little Bear/Arthur/Zooboomafoo/Ghost Writer/Encyclopedia Brown/Harry Potter
-favorite movie was Anchorman-We named our dog Baxter after the dog in the movie
-he had shoulder surgery when he was a 17 due to a hockey injury
-he got a car (his baby) when he was 17-a black 2001 Acura which we still have
-he loved attending college at Pitt where he was conducting research on mice in an effort to eradicate toxoplasmosis
-he was planning to be orthopedic surgeon -his orthopedist let Colin spend a day shadowing him in the OR when he was 19
-he was an organ, eye and tissue donor which have saved/enhanced the lives of 279 people in the US, Canada, Japan and S. Korea
-he was an amazing son and brother and we miss him dearly
If you knew Colin please feel free to add to this list. We love hearing about him from others and are glad that you remember our sweet boy.
The sea will echo your gypsy soul
You will always bring us together, this much I know
Oh, your smile was as big as this island
You could drown in your eyes of blue
You were friend of a friend and someone, I'm glad I knew
I'll always see you dancing, up there on the bow
Living life in the moment, happy on the hey now
And you'll live with us as long as, memories stay alive
And you left us with so many, Colin,
You will never die never die"
Colin,
I miss you every day buddy. We love you forever. I know you're up there smiling, dancing, singing Kenny and Billy Joel. I cant wait to give you a big squeeze. I see you in the water, the sunshine, the birds and in the stars at night. Whenever work or school gets tough, I feel you with me and know how you would have practiced medicine to the fullest potential. We had so many laughs in new visions and school. You made it brighter and better. Study hall heart to hearts. I wish we could share one more. Love you always - We're all in the mood for a melody, and you've got us feelin alright <3
Your buddy for life,
Cbo
Uncle Bob
love allie
Uncle Bob
I cannot speak, but I can listen
I cannot be seen, but I can be heard
So as you stand upon the shore gazing at the beautiful sea,
As you look upon a flower and admire its simplicity,
Remember me
By Margaret Mead
❤️Uncle Bob
Uncle Bob
April 21st 2017 was a gorgeous day, all blue skies and sunshine. Dave and I were going to a Mets-Nationals game that night, Colin was finishing his last exam of Junior year at Pitt.
I don’t remember if the Mets were winning.
We had just tried the cocktails at Citifield’s new Bourbon Bar and they came in a cute little mason jar. I posted it on Instagram.
Sometime around 9pm, towards the 4th or 5th inning, I got a phone call from my sister. She always texts, so a phone call meant something was up. I figured it was going to be about my dad. I never expected her to say, “There was an accident. It’s Colin.”
Tracy told me he fell and was badly hurt. They were told to get to Pittsburgh as soon as possible. I ran from my seat to the mezzanine near the World’s Fare food court to talk to her.
Dave was back at the seats. I called him and told him to meet me; we had to go.
Tracy, Mike and Evan drove to Pittsburgh that night. For six hours they drove, worrying, crying, wondering, not getting any information from the hospital, not knowing how he was, what was going on.
Dave and I went to sleep, planning to get up early and drive to Pittsburgh the next day.
Around 3am, I got a call. “Colin passed away.” WHAT? “He passed away, he’s gone.”
How could this happen?
Is this really happening?
Did that actually just happen or was it a terrible dream?
Life split into before and after.
Grief is a personal process. Each of us has handled our it differently. Each of us has had to figure out a way to keep Colin’s light alive while not letting our own flicker out in a flood of tears.
I still can’t set foot in Citifield without that first phone call running through my mind. There’s a moment every day that stops me in my tracks. I don’t know what to say now when someone asks me how many nieces and nephews I have. I don’t know what I should do for him. For my family. For his friends. For the world.
Colin was always the adventurous one, the driven one. He would have achieved everything he set out to do.
It’s the everyday things that make you really you realize the finality of it all: I wish I could slurp oysters with him, eat sushi, take him skiing at Hunter Mountain, go to a baseball game, buy him a drink in NYC, just talk to him, say goodbye.
It’s true that you never know what will happen. One minute you’re dancing around with your friends, the next...
Don’t forget to live and love your life. Be safe but don’t be afraid to challenge yourself. Appreciate those around you, work together, support each other, try your best to understand each other.
Colin brought so many people together. No one he met will ever forget him. That’s an amazing thing. And because of that, he’ll live on forever.
I love you Colin. I miss you and I think about you every day.
xoxo - Allie
"So long my friend, until we meet again
I'll remember you
And all the times we used to
Sit right here on the edge of this pier
Watch the sunset disappear
And drink a beer"
XO Uncle Bob
Leave a Tribute
Uncle Bob
-Colin was born 3 weeks early on Feb 11, 1996 with a full head of dark brown hair-SO cute
-he was a good baby but only liked to take short cat naps
-he became a big brother at 2 1/2
-he loved to read and started reading independently when he was 4
-he always loved to learn
and had a great memory
-he liked to try new and interesting foods. (Alligator bites, turtle soup, bison burgers)
-he played soccer and baseball in elementary and middle school
-he started playing hockey when he was 6 and then was a goalie on his high school team from from grades 8-12.
-he seemed quiet and serious to those that didn’t know him well
-he was funny and had the best smile and laugh (giggle)
-he had a lot of friends and was a great one to others
-loved to talk sports and followed the Sabres, Red Sox and Steelers with his dad and brother
-his bedroom has a Red Sox theme
-he loved ALL kinds of music and going to concerts
-he liked to dress up and had good taste in clothing
-liked Little Bear/Arthur/Zooboomafoo/Ghost Writer/Encyclopedia Brown/Harry Potter
-favorite movie was Anchorman-We named our dog Baxter after the dog in the movie
-he had shoulder surgery when he was a 17 due to a hockey injury
-he got a car (his baby) when he was 17-a black 2001 Acura which we still have
-he loved attending college at Pitt where he was conducting research on mice in an effort to eradicate toxoplasmosis
-he was planning to be orthopedic surgeon -his orthopedist let Colin spend a day shadowing him in the OR when he was 19
-he was an organ, eye and tissue donor which have saved/enhanced the lives of 279 people in the US, Canada, Japan and S. Korea
-he was an amazing son and brother and we miss him dearly
If you knew Colin please feel free to add to this list. We love hearing about him from others and are glad that you remember our sweet boy.
Please be patient.
Please be patient.
Colin's Contagious Laugh
I remember sitting in a circle with everyone and sitting with Colin singing our hearts out to Piano Man and It's a Great Day to Be Alive at our friends house. I remember that memory whenever I am feeling down and it makes me smile. And I will never be able to listen to those songs, or any Kenny Chesney song without thinking of him. He laughed and lived with all of himself. Always giving 110%.
When I was bringing my brother on college tours, I stayed with Colin and he showed me around Pitt and his classes and wanted to make sure I had a great time. He got together our highschool friends, Nate and Rachel as well and we all went for Mexican. It was a great time with them and I'm glad I got to see him in Pittsburgh.
Working in the hospital can be draining. Lately, I feel very discouraged and defeated. It's during the hear times that I think of Colin, and I push through with a smile on my face for him. Healthcare and people were his passion. I know he would be working his hardest right now for others, as he always did, with a positive attitude and he would find a way to make us laugh.
This is hard.
Colin, I’m sitting at the park looking through pictures and listening to some of the songs that remind me of you. I can remember you sitting in the back seat singing Wagon Wheel. I loved it Especially when you didn’t realize that I was paying attention. Those small moments are now so important to me. So many songs make all of us think of you. You loved so many different types of music and always knew all the words. Listening to you sing them was a joy that I’d give anything to hear again.
Today is dad’s birthday. The 2nd one now without you. I got him some work shirts. I know it’s not what he wished for. If only I could bring you back and make his wishes come true. All of our wishes.
Dad, Evan and I went to a movie today. It didn’t feel right w/o you. Who else can cry watching “Deadpool” other than me?! In the movie there are scenes about death and heaven and I sobbed quietly thinking that no one warned me about that part of this so called comedy. I’ve gotten very talented at quietly sobbing when I have to.
How has 13 months passed and I still cannot grasp the full reality that you are never going to walk through the door or send a goodnight text? It’s so crazy to me how grief works. One minute I’m ok and the next I’m literally falling apart. Getting good at covering that up, too. Wow I’ve gained some new skills over the past year. Skills that no mother should have to learn.
I miss you. Every day. All day. I don’t know how to keep doing this for the rest of my days. This is so hard. Please send me a sign so that I know you are ok
Love,
Mom xoxo
Genesee Brew House
One night last winter break, a few of us were trying to get together for dinner. I had been texting Colin because we, along with a few others, tended to be the catalysts in setting up our friend group hang-outs. He suggested we go to the Genesee Brew Pub. As you know, Genesee always held a special place in Colin’s heart, as it does for our whole friend group. Even though we know it’s a middling beer at best, we accept it, and enjoy it, with pride because it’s our local beer - it’s Rochester.
So, we started texting our group chat to see who else we could get to join. Danny and Sammy both said they were in, along with John and Eric who were going to meet us there. I had originally offered to drive because I suggested the hang-out in the first place. But, once we agreed on the brew pub, Colin offered to drive without hesitation. He knew I had just turned 21, and he wanted me to be able to have a beer at dinner without having to worry about driving home. And though I didn’t realize it at the time, this simple offer completely embodies what Colin was like as a friend. He was so selfless, always putting others before himself. Most 20 year-olds feel a little resentment towards their friends who already turned 21; I know I did at that age. But, Colin was different. He knew that I’d enjoy having a Genny at the brew house - and that made him happy. Colin’s emotions sometimes seemed to be derived from all of ours. If we were happy, he was happy. If one of us was upset, he was upset – and would do all that he could to try and cheer us up or talk to us. We of course ended up having a great time at dinner, filled with laughs per usual - from Sammy's stubborn steak outburst with the waiter, to the guys debating ordering a beer after the waiter didn't ask for my ID (at first), to setting up our NYE plans amidst some funny tensions. Every time we all hung out, the laughter - especially Colin's - was contagious.
I know this is just a small anecdote, but it truly speaks endlessly about Colin’s character.