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It is with incredible shock and sadness we announce the passing of Cindy Harrison-Faulkner. Our hearts are overflowing with memories of our Cindy. We lost her suddenly, and too soon. 

Thank you to those who joined us in Edmonds, Boulder or via Zoom as we gathered to remember and celebrate Cindy's life. Family and New York friends will gather on Friday, June 23, 2023 in New Suffolk, New York as the final celebration of life event.

This tribute website is set up so her many friends, colleagues and family can share photos and stories (especially her many shenanigans over the years) to celebrate her and help us all heal. It's what she would have wanted.

In lieu of flowers, please consider making a donation to the September School she helped found in 1973 or Juvenile Diabetes Research Foundation to help find a cure for Type 1 diabetes for her beloved granddaughter Addie.
December 2, 2023
December 2, 2023
Cindy, I am soon at our annual Learning Forward Conference. I will always remember our calls but also the times at the conference that we sat in the floor (sometimes), had a drink together and just shared family stories. I miss those times so much--your laughter, your joyful smile, your support and encouragement for me when things were crazy in my life. What an amazing friend! I miss you greatly!
November 29, 2023
November 29, 2023
Oh Cindy, it’s been a year and you are still so loved and missed it’s almost unbearable. BUT, as the pain may slowly fade I know my memories never will.
November 28, 2023
November 28, 2023
Over the last week have been thinking of Cindy especially often, missing her, and thinking of you, her family that misses her so much. 
Much love to all of you.....
November 27, 2023
November 27, 2023
There isn't a day that goes by that I don't think of you...I miss our talks and your visits when you're here on business...We always had to find a place that had beer on tap for our dinner and it usually involved a walk on the beach. Love & miss you...
November 23, 2023
November 23, 2023
Cindy lives forever in my heart and mind. I hear her voice and feel her love every day.
June 27, 2023
June 27, 2023
I miss walking through Edmonds with you. As I see the flowers on the blackberry bushes I know I will miss picking blackberries with you. Yesterday I was at the Edmonds Marina and my heart was so heavy it felt like a knife stabbing me in the chest. You are loved and so missed.
June 23, 2023
June 23, 2023
Happy heavenly birthday, dear friend. Bet you are hosting a dance party for your fellow angels. Confetti is flying here is celebration of you, sweet one!
June 23, 2023
June 23, 2023
Happy birthday Cindy! Sending love to all of your family remembering and celebrating you today. Think of you often! Miss you♥️
January 12, 2023
January 12, 2023
Without a doubt Cindy's light continues to shine in this world. Her values and beliefs live on within each of us who had the opportunity to know, to learn, and to be present with her. Her zest for life was ever present; her inclusive nature drew us all in as a moth to a flame; her friendship was both gentle and robust supporting us in one moment, challenging us to grow in the next. Ever committed to being fit, one of my favorite memories is hugging her in the morning when her hair was still wet from her early swim. She was one of a kind and her footprint is alive in so many of us. My heart misses her deeply.
January 2, 2023
January 2, 2023
I send my deepest condolences to Cindy's treasured family. And I know she is a great loss to all of us in her Learning Forward family. Cindy was generous with her knowledge, her ideas, her sense of fun and her kindness. She knew how to build people's skills and build community, which means she has shared and left so much of her goodness behind. It is a gauntlet for all of us who experienced it. I give thanks for her as a colleague and for the chance to learn from her written word and her leadership.
January 1, 2023
January 1, 2023
Cindy was an amazing woman. She was my educator, boss, mentor and friend. I am sad and know her life in years was too short, but her impact on so many and the wonderful memories she left will live on. I extend my sympathy and love to her family. She will be missed by us all.
December 27, 2022
December 27, 2022
Cindy was my executive coach very early in my career as a school leader. She was always positive and encouraging. She helped me get through some very difficult challenges. I will forever be grateful for her light. I remember she would never miss a swim in the morning. What an amazing person.
December 24, 2022
December 24, 2022
News on Cindy's sudden demise is very devastating and I am still trying to process it. A sponsor who became a friend and a family. Than you for seeing me through my education; both high school and post high school. And after I was done with my studies you still held my hand and never gave up on me.Indeed Cindy you were an extraordinary person with a huge heart. You touched lives of people who were
not only far away but never even met. Thank you for empowering me to be the person I am today. I miss you Cindy
December 4, 2022
December 4, 2022
When I heard of Cindy’s passing of course I immediately reflected back to our last conversation. The support and sound advice she gave me over the last 3 years. I remember how she validated and empowered me as she would help break down an issue and guide me through the solution. She could get away with saying what needed to be said, getting to the heart of an issue without alienating anyone. This was her superpower! She was talented and wise; with all of her experience I think she had seen it all. She knew people, their habits good and bad, which is what made her an expert problem solver. She genuinely cared about bringing people together. 
Cindy was funny, and joyful. She loved to talk about her granddaughter. The happiness Addie gave her, the enthusiasm and joy could not be hidden when she would talk about their most recent visit. 
As I read other tributes in made me realize she made everyone she touched feel special, cared for and supported. My relationship with her was not unique, she touched people in a way that made them feel, important, valued, supported, and joyful.
This truly speaks to a life well lived, when you can touch this many people and each one feels a special connection you have made a difference. I feel immensely fortunate and am a better person having known her. I will miss her and our conversations.
December 3, 2022
December 3, 2022
I had a conversation with Anita today regarding Cindy. We always enjoyed time spent with her because of her positive attitude, energy, intellect, and genuine empathy coupled with a willingness to be helpful. We will both miss her and know that is a shared sentiment.
December 2, 2022
December 2, 2022
Cindy had a huge heart, a ready laugh, and a unique genius about teaching and learning. Partnering with Cindy on and off over the years was always a treat for me-- I would learn, laugh and think. What a gift! Thank you for helping shape who I am as an educator today, Cindy!
December 1, 2022
December 1, 2022
An authentic, dynamic, humorous, and fiery personality are what I will miss most about Cindy. She was a mentor, advocate, coach, and friend. Working with Cindy over the past ten years, I learned the importance of being prepared, holding high standards, providing unrelenting support, engaging in the difficult conversations, and using humor to get through it all. Cindy knew exactly when to push hard and when you just needed to meet over a glass of wine and to discuss family, sailing, travel, and education. She had a knack for helping individuals see their potential and strive to do better. Her presence in my life made a lasting impact and I am a better person for having known her. 
December 1, 2022
December 1, 2022
Cindy was a pistol. We became walking buddies after she and Larry moved to Picnic Point and continued when they moved into Edmonds proper. Imagine my surprise when she, a casual acquaintance, whacked me on the arm to make a point in a conversation. Imagine my surprise at her shock that I have never been arrested. I'll think of Cindy when I see beautiful flowers (she sometimes carried clippers to "borrow" blooms). I'll think of Cindy when I see sailboats on the water. I'll think of Cindy when I hear political conversations. There is a gap in my life. Who will solve world problems with me? Who will keep me walking? I miss you Cindy.
November 30, 2022
November 30, 2022
Cindy joined our book club several years ago. She was a welcome addition to the group. As a group, we discuss our books but also our lives, family, grandchildren. Cindy so delighted in the time she spent with Addie. I remembered a trip to the zoo with Cindy, Addie, and my grandchildren. I had hoped for more outings together with grandchildren. Cindy will be missed.
November 30, 2022
November 30, 2022
My first recollection of Cindy was a Harrison and Killion NSDC workshop. They “wowed” me and I could only imagine ever having the depth of knowledge, experience and examples to share with others. There were many other things I came to appreciate about Cindy the more I had the opportunity to work with her. I loved the way she kept one foot in the real work of Adams 12 which made her consultant work that much more authentic. I admired her confidence in the presence of teachers or superintendents. The rank never mattered. As NSDC president she introduced policy governance and used her exemplar facilitation skills. I specifically recall her “on target” and impressive presidential remarks during the general session. Cindy was an extrovert of the best kind because she invited the introverts around her to join at their level of comfort. She never met a stranger and she was a valued mentor, colleague, teacher, to many including me. Her legacy is intact and the field is stronger because of all she contributed. My heart goes out to her family and close friends.
November 30, 2022
November 30, 2022
Heartbreaking and shocking. I have delayed writing this, because I am still processing Cindy's unexpected death.  Cindy was an extraordinary person, an exceptional human, a good and cherished friend whom I loved and admired for many, many years. I am so grateful to have had her presence in my life. Lost touch in the last several years due to some life challenges (fire) and now must live with regret of missing out on her final time here. I know you all will miss Cindy as a wonderful Mom, Grandma, and Bride. Sending you all love and deep condolences as you celebrate Cindy's wonderful life amidst your grief and in gratitude for her presence in your lives. Much love to all, Christine
November 30, 2022
November 30, 2022
Larry, Elizabeth, Arron, Addie, I am one of Cindy's many colleagues who are both shocked and saddened by the news of Cindy's unexpected passing. I am truly heartbroken by this news. She was a friend, a colleague, and I often say, "she wrote the books I teach." We were co-facilitators, co-authors, and most of all friends. I am grateful for her commitment to children and teachers all across this country. She made a difference. 
With great love, Ann Delehant
November 30, 2022
November 30, 2022
Cindy truly made a difference in this world. Her knowledge and dedication and quick wit were ingredients for a healthy and fun work and learning environment. What a coach and mentor she was! Remarkable. I learned so much from her. She also was really creative with amazing energy. Educators are better because of Cindy. She will be so very missed.
Sending love to her family❤️
November 29, 2022
November 29, 2022
Cindy leaves an indelible mark on us all. Her presence was effervescent. Her delight in listening and honoring the stories of others was a trademark. Her quick wit, impish antics and pixish smile brought out the best in eac of us. Cindy was such a positive force for all that is good in this world. You will be missed.
November 29, 2022
November 29, 2022
Cindy showed up in my life as a school leadership coach. She became a wonderful friend and thought partner. She helped me to reflect, celebrate, build confidence, and plan for hard things. I am so thankful for Cindy and her impact on me as a person and professional. We will miss you Cindy.
November 29, 2022
November 29, 2022
Unlike others who have written so lovingly of their long time relationships with Cindy, I've known her only since her move to Washington State. Cindy was a welcome addition to our book group; we are a cohesive and long standing group of women who enjoy reading and discussing serious books, but we also share the joys and sorrows of our lives, with lots of emphasis on grandchildren. Cindy contributed in so many ways to our discussions. Her professional background working in the field of education, her literary insights, her gracious hosting of the group when it was her turn in the rotation, her deep love for and delight in granddaughter Addie and the rest of her extended family--for all of these reasons, Cindy's loss will be deeply felt. My sincerest condolences to the family. May your memories be a source of confort to you. 
November 29, 2022
November 29, 2022
Cindy is an important part of my learning journey, and her guidance helped shape my thoughts, my actions and my beliefs about teaching and learning. As long as I continue my work, her's lives also. God bless all who suffer because she's not visibly with us anymore. I am comforted knowing that she will live in the work of all whose learning journey she impacted while making her own. With love and gratitude....Debbie
November 29, 2022
November 29, 2022
My dear Elizabeth, Lawr, Aaron and Addie, I am heartbroken for you all.  I feel blessed to have had Cindy as a friend and neighbor. I think that you, Elizabeth, were the first person to welcome us to the neighborhood over 32 years ago, and then you became part of our family. I love you guys and am keeping you in my prayers.
November 29, 2022
November 29, 2022
Cindy became a neighbor and then a friend as time went. We would visit and get caught up as she was walking by or at neighborhood gatherings. I loved her heart for people. She cared so deeply and that came across clearly. Cindy always offered to help in any way she could for group gatherings, etc. We loved the conversations about a variety of topics. When Russia invaded Ukraine, she was a staunch supporter to our daughter as she was directly involved in the relief efforts. We will be forever grateful for knowing Cindy (and Larry).
November 29, 2022
November 29, 2022
I will be missing conversations with Cindy. Often, at bookclub, we would talk about our children and grandkids and how they play together.  It was a sweet shared interest we had, and I'll miss that connection. My deep sympathies to her entire family.
November 29, 2022
November 29, 2022
We will miss her incredible energy of helping. 
Ann & chuck Loomis
November 28, 2022
November 28, 2022
Cindy was a delightful addition to our book club in the last few years, and we just did not get enough time with her. We will all miss her and her insightful contributions. Love and healing to her wonderful family.

November 28, 2022
November 28, 2022
After I heard about Cindy's death -- and not able to think, just feel -- I came to a poem that is about Cindy (and about all of us who love Cindy). Here it is:

Wildflowers
(For Cindy Harrison)

By Lois Easton

We didn’t know we were wildflowers.
No chateau orderliness, bungalow borders;
No tea sipped in our midst, no walls or hedges
Around us. We were wildflowers.

We gathered somehow, a community of
Single flowers, several, many.
Organized ourselves according to no
Color schemes, shapes, or sizes.

Brought together by soil right for all of us,
Nurturing; right rain, absorbing; right
Light, learning. Bound by these, bound to each
Other by love. Strangely bound to

The people who see our brave blooms,
Seek the “courage with which we grow anywhere,”
“Bloom with ferocity and light.” And, in a way,
We become pollinators.

A wildflower garden. A pollination garden. We
Are also a memorial garden, some of us picked
For other purposes, other times, other places.
So soon, our ethereal flower, the Stargazer Blue Iris.

Then, the sweet-smelling, White Alyssum, the quiet
Flower. And, too soon, the classic flower, the Mr.
Lincoln Hybrid Tea Rose. Now, the Daredevil Claret
Geranium. Our wildflower garden is bereft.

But we notice another blue iris in our midst, then another.
A spread of alyssum amongst us, and roses galore.
We’ll see at least one more Daredevil Claret Geranium,
which won’t be the same as ours, gone forever.

Those who look upon our brave blooms,
Are different, somehow, because of us,
Because of the disappeared wildflowers. New
Flowers have found and bound themselves to us

To “bloom with ferocity and light.”
November 28, 2022
November 28, 2022
I am so grateful to have had Cindy in my life. She will always be a part of me. She was a mentor and a dear friend. Wherever Cindy was, there was sure to be mischief and lots of laughter, always laughter.

Cindy’s heart was huge and therefore she had many “best friends.” She was a giver and a connector. She embraced people and made them feel like they had known her forever. She was so smart and innovative but never took herself seriously. She was at her best when she was generously contributing and sharing her wealth of knowledge with others. She was confident but humble, always willing to share the many resources she created.

She loved her family and her friends. Everyone was immediately drawn to her because of her genuineness, her warmth, her humor, and her fearlessness.

I have so many memories of Cindy and they all involve laughter, learning and stories about the family she adored and the trouble she often initiated. A recent memory involves playing poker in a hotel in California and betting with packets of sugar.

Cindy encouraged me to become a staff developer and, of course to do so, required being initiated in her back yard. So many fun times were had in her back yard on 6th Avenue.

Cindy was also a force to be reckoned with. No one ever said no to Cindy so when she was president of NSDC, those of us on her team who attended the conference to celebrate her, wore specially made buttons that communicated that “Cindy Made Me Do It.” Even after retiring from the district, those of us who worked with Cindy, teased her about her reputation of getting people to do whatever she asked them to do. On the flip side, she would do anything for her friends and family. She was fiercely loyal and supportive, and it made her happy to see others succeed.

I know Cindy would want us to get on with life- to go sailing, take a swim, a long walk, or find ways to encourage each other and be grateful for the light she shared with all of us.
November 28, 2022
November 28, 2022
Cindy was one of the most influential educators on my career. I met her at my first NSDC meeting, and we connected right away. She convinced me to run for the Board and became my mentor. Her speech on stage as a new president was bold and inspiring both in words and delivery. I have never forgotten that moment. Cindy served as both a personal coach and taught me, along with her sidekick JoEllen Killion, how to both facilitate effective meetings and be a better instructional coach. She was wise, kind, funny, reflective, adventurous, brave, and mission driven. She has left her mark across this globe through her dedication to helping adults create better education systems for students. She will be in our hearts and work forever. 
November 28, 2022
November 28, 2022
My thoughts and prayers go out to Cindy's family and to everyone who knew and loved her. She was such a wonderful educator and friend. Always working hard and smiling all the way. She will be missed by everyone who knew and loved her.
November 28, 2022
November 28, 2022
Cindy was such a cheerleader for so many people in A-12. She was one of the reasons I got into administration. Always so positive, gave it to you straight & encouraging.
My heart goes out to her family and to us all, but we are better people for having had her in our lives.
November 28, 2022
November 28, 2022
Cindy was a mentor and amazing leader that I always looked up to. I admired her and called her for advice early in my educational administrative career. After I left Colorado in 2001, I hadn't heard from her in years. Amazingly she reached out to me about a month ago and we had a quick connection like we had just spoken yesterday. I am shocked and saddened by her passing and am sending love to all of your wonderful friends and family. A great educator with an amazing legacy.
November 27, 2022
November 27, 2022
I remember the day we met at the coffee pot at Adams 12 in the fall of 1979. Cindy had just returned from Jamaica and was wearing a homemade skirt and a bright bandana on her head to cover a rather awkward hair cut. From that moment, we share a deep friendship and rich professional partnership. We shared the joys of childbirth and the challenges of life. We celebrated and cried together often, loved laughing, inventing, drinking beer, playing pranks, and sharing many travel adventures including trips to Machu Picchu, Malaysia, and Singapore. Our families spent birthdays, holidays, and days on the ski slopes and sailing together. Cindy’s heart was huge, her spirit mischievous, and her determination fierce. She touched thousands of educators and exponentially more students with her work in professional learning. She made me a better educator and person.
November 27, 2022
November 27, 2022
Elizabeth, I love your Mom. She was my coach and my dear friend. We met through days as consultants in Learning Forward. We loved long conversations about you and your family, about sailing, about work, about life in general. She helped me through some really rough times. We shared common interested in coaching others. My granddaugher, Kate, is 15, and is Type 1. She always had a great optimistic view of the world, always loved to laugh, loved to live life to the fullest, and was such a model for me.  I will miss her so much! I am praying for you and your family during this shocking and difficult grieving time. 
November 27, 2022
November 27, 2022
Elizabeth, Arron, Addie and Lawr our thoughts and prayers are with you . We are all shocked and so sad.
Cindy has been part of my life since I was in 5th grade. That’s about 60+ years. We just saw her in Colo. two weeks ago.
We have been friends in Scarsdale, Long Island, Florida and Colo. We moved to Colo. together and lived in Boulder. Our son was born 6 weeks after Elizabeth.
We have spend many wonderful times together Holidays,summer fun, traveling. We will miss her kind heart. She was so great with my kids and then my grandchildren.
A true friend to me and my family. You will be greatly missed. Our wonderful lives together will live on with our fond memories.
November 26, 2022
November 26, 2022
Oh Cindy, l hope you are looking down and seeing how profoundly loved and missed you are. We’ve known each other all of our lives and had over 70 years of love, laughter, adventures and many misadventures! The miles and time that has separated us evaporated in an instant upon our reconnecting. I’ve always thought of you as my oldest and dearest friend and am shattered that you are now gone. Hopefully this grief I feel will fade in time but thankfully I know my memories never will. Rest In Peace my dear, sweet friend Cindy. Love to Lawr, Elizabeth, Aaron, Addie, Leslie and Bev.
November 26, 2022
November 26, 2022
Elizabeth, are thoughts and prayers are with you and the family! Your mom was a very special woman, loved by all. She will be missed by all! We would like to attend her service.
Love to you and the family!
Dennis and Margaret
November 26, 2022
November 26, 2022
There are no words.  I’ve known Cindy all my life. She was the closest cousin to me in age.  Only one year older.  She was always kind to me when we were little, but the best part lay way ahead in our lives when we reconnected as adults.  Our children were pretty grown, so we traveled together many times to wonderful places….she was an amazing tour guide.  We sailed, we swam, we commiserated over having bad backs.  We were truly connected souls.  She was like a sister I never had.  I’m so sad for all of us that shared her, but especially for Elizabeth and Lars.  You know your Hawaiian home is always waiting for you.  RIP cousin Cindy and come visit me here in Hawai’i spiritually….I know you will. 

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December 2, 2023
December 2, 2023
Cindy, I am soon at our annual Learning Forward Conference. I will always remember our calls but also the times at the conference that we sat in the floor (sometimes), had a drink together and just shared family stories. I miss those times so much--your laughter, your joyful smile, your support and encouragement for me when things were crazy in my life. What an amazing friend! I miss you greatly!
November 29, 2023
November 29, 2023
Oh Cindy, it’s been a year and you are still so loved and missed it’s almost unbearable. BUT, as the pain may slowly fade I know my memories never will.
November 28, 2023
November 28, 2023
Over the last week have been thinking of Cindy especially often, missing her, and thinking of you, her family that misses her so much. 
Much love to all of you.....
Her Life

Cindy was a consummate educator - a bit about her professional contributions

November 28, 2022
Cindy was a consummate educator who believed in the potential of every student and educator. She was a founding member of September School in Boulder, Colorado, the oldest independent school in the city which provided a unique learning environment to students who benefit from a nontraditional education. It was there where she met Lawr, who she went on to marry and serve two years in the Peace Corp in Jamaica with her as a curriculum developer. When she returned, she became the organizational development specialist in Adams 12 Five Star Schools and then served as the Director of Staff Development leading professional development for all staff. She expanded the department’s role and responsibilities throughout her many years of service.

Cindy was elected to the board of the National Staff Development Council in 2000 and served as its president in 2004. She is the co-author of two books, Taking The Lead: New Roles For Teachers and School-Based Coaches and Coaching Matters and numerous professional articles and training manuals. In her work, she pioneered many initiatives including a unique partnership among the University of Colorado and local school systems to support teachers in earning advanced degrees, school-based coaching, and facilitation training for all staff to empower them with the skills and tools to collaborate productively to address complex issues. She continued to serve as a senior consultant to Learning Forward (NSDC) and to schools and school systems throughout the U.S.

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December 28, 2022
What a loss! My kids loved to have Elizabeth at our house. I loved early breakfasts with you and Sam. I loved the many gifts your care, laughter heart, energy and incredible knowledge of the educational process brought to District 12. You taught me lots, Lady! How to teach, how to care, how to support and how to learn. 

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