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This memorial website is created to celebrate our dearest "D."

We encourage you to share your memories, photos and videos in honor of this wonderful man, the Lord's newest angel.  

We have been absolutely deluged with a huge outpouring of love and kindness, and for that we are overwhelmed and extremely grateful.   We always knew that D was very special, and you should know that your thoughtful words and actions have been inspiring and comforting for Traci, Kelli and me. We are experiencing a gigantic void in our lives and trust that the Lord will continue to guide and protect all the family and friends that mourn at this time.  Here are the details 

Miami, Florida
Funeral Mass - 12 Noon
Saturday, March 15th
Our Lady of Lourdes Catholic Church
11291 SW 142 Avenue, Miami, Florida 33186

Interment follows at Our Lady of Mercy Cemetery
11411 NW 25 St, Miami, Florida 33172

Atlanta, Georgia

Memorial Mass - 11:30am
Saturday, April 12th
St Thomas The Apostle Catholic Church
4300 King Springs Rd, Smyrna, Georgia 30082

In lieu of flowers, a charitable contribution in David's memory would be welcomed at either of the following:

Missionaries of the Poor 
PO Box 29893
Atlanta, GA 30359
(headquartered in Jamaica, 
serving the poorest of the poor in Uganda, Indonesia, Haiti, India, Kenya, Philippines)


Winship Cancer Center of Emory University / Director's Fund Office of Gift Records, 
1762 Clifton Road NE, Suite 1400, 
Atlanta, GA 30322.
Online at winshipcancer.emory.edu/support

 

September 29, 2014
September 29, 2014
Much respects to family and friends. Good to see he used to tease his cousins. Used to tease us too. Of course we gave him back. He displayed great tolerance having us as his friends! Always missed. A great guy.
September 24, 2014
September 24, 2014
Happy Birthday sweet David. We miss your wonderful smile and gentle nature. Our lives are better having known you and your beautiful family.
September 24, 2014
September 24, 2014
Happy Birthday David! Keep Taking care of us up there. We miss you down here.
September 24, 2014
September 24, 2014
My darling David - Happy Birthday. Miss your beautiful smile but know you are up there organizing everything in Heaven. Until we meet again my friend.
June 15, 2014
June 15, 2014
D, on this significant day I can't help but think about the awesome father that you have been to our daughters. You made them feel secure and loved, knowing that you were always ready and available for them. You made them independent, thoughtful, responsible and not afraid of taking on challenges. I remember how you always took their phone calls, helped with school projects and comforted them when they didn't feel well. And you never complained. I loved being your wife. N
May 16, 2014
So many happy memories of all the cousins growing up together in Jamaica. David was a natural leader even in those days, whether it was organizing cricket matches, teasing his cousins, or daring us to climb higher in Grandma's cherry tree. I think food was always a predominant theme too! Although many miles separated us in our adult years, D would always reach out, pick up the phone to chat, or send an email. He had this enormous capacity to make you feel special. God bless you, D. I know you are watching over your beloved family of whom you were so proud.
May 9, 2014
May 9, 2014
David was the little brother I never had, Living next door to each other for ten years we grew up together although I am almost five years older than he is.

His home in Miami was always my home away from home. After he got married ... nothing changed, except the cooking got better! To my mind Nancy was the best partner D could have had. Then they had two lovely daughters just to make it perfect.

To say that I miss D is an understatement of the first magnitude, life goes on yes, but a "large" piece is now missing.

Walk good "little" brother,
Pablo.
May 8, 2014
May 8, 2014
Anniversary reflections....so much to be thankful for, and I am especially grateful for a wonderful marriage. Today would have been 32 years. Our life was full of optimism and good experiences and handling challenges with grace and levelheadedness. We tried to keep our focus on things that mattered, and steered away from all things negative. I miss "my D".

To our family and friends, thank you for being a part of our love story and allowing D to enjoy his life of service to The Lord and to you. And a big thank you also to everyone who joined the family in prayer at the services in Atlanta and Miami. We all know that D never wanted to be the center of attention but I am sure that he would have been quite humbled, and grateful, that you traveled from England, Canada, Trinidad, Cayman, Jamaica, NY, NJ, KY, CT, DC, MD, TX, TN, VA, NC, CO, IL and various cities throughout GA, FL. And if by chance you weren't with us on those special March and April dates, we could still feel your presence of love and support.

God bless you today and always.
May 7, 2014
May 7, 2014
Found out about this a bit late and also fell ill myself. Just wanted to record that David and I were friends from 1st Form Jamaica College. Only made contact with him again in recent years after the Form reunion. That was my Boy Scout brethren. Clearly remember our Second Class Scout hikes. His personality did not change. Unruffled (despite having an annoying friend as me). A really great person who I will really miss. My condolences to the family... a tremendous loss!!
April 14, 2014
April 14, 2014
Fortunately to be able to attend both services for David and they were both beautiful. Nancy, Traci and Kelli have already continued the legacy that our darling David started. We all miss him so much but have to thank the dear LORD that we had the opportunity to be a part of his life here on earth. Know he is already working and organizing things up in heaven.
April 13, 2014
April 13, 2014
Sorry to hear about the loss of your loved one. Know that he is in heaven and you will see him again! Please let me know if I can be of assistance in any way...I live across the alley from you!
April 10, 2014
April 10, 2014
The last time we spoke I called David "a gentle giant" - in statue and manner. He was a wonderful person who touched so many lives and left an indelible imprint. I can hear his unmistakeable voice and laughter, thoughts of him always brought on a smile. What a tremendous loss - especially for the family he loved so much - but he lives on in our thoughts and memories. As I look through the photos it is just so hard to fathom that this vibrant, many-faceted person is no longer among us.
March 18, 2014
March 18, 2014
One of "D"s favorite hymns:

When we were sharing "counting" & "stewardship" duties for Fr. Anthony Massi @ Our Lady of Lourdes (OLOL), "D" used to hum this hymn. It kind of became our anthem during the "fund-raising" activities for the Building Fund for OLOL. I will always remember our "D" whenever I hear this refrain:

   Lord, I believe
   Lord, I believe
   I believe you are the Christ
   Lord, I believe.
March 17, 2014
March 17, 2014
So sorry to hear about Uncle David. Sending warm thoughts!
March 17, 2014
March 17, 2014
It burns our hearts and waters our eyes to hear.Ride with the angels my friend . The pictures show the love for life and family that you had, a true family man .God bless you. God keep Nancy and the girls strong through this journey , for we all know that through Jesus Christ all will be understood. Love your friends to lean on Peter and Michelle
March 16, 2014
March 16, 2014
What a beautiful send off we experienced yesterday. I know David was there with us and he had that beautiful smile. He also had a good laugh at some of the stories that were shared. But what I think made him the happiest was how Nancy, Traci and Kelli took charge of everything, just as our dear David would have done. 
May the Dear LORD bless you.
March 16, 2014
March 16, 2014
I only heard of David's illness a week ago and in a week he had made his transition, so his passing was and still is a great shock to me. Yesterday was a true celebration of David's life and this website is a wonderful contribution - thank you Kelli! The pictures show the love and warmth you shared as a family. David was truly blessed to live with such a loving and caring wife and such wonderful daughters; he could not have been who he was meant to be without your love. Nancy, you were his rock, and the way you Kelli and Traci sent him off yesterday was truly a beautiful, heartfelt and peaceful tribute to his life. I can see him smiling down on you with much love and admiration. Love, hugs and blessings!
March 16, 2014
March 16, 2014
I grew up in Beryl Tomlinsons house next door to the Murrays. I remember the boys fondly albeit from another lifetime. We did reconnect once as adults & it was as if no time has passed. I am so sorry for your loss but I know we will all be together again one day. Til
then rest in peace my friend
March 15, 2014
March 15, 2014
Our deepest condolences to you Nancy, Traci & Kelli & family. David was such a wonderful, kind man. He will be missed. Gone too soon but will not be forgotten. Rest in peace David.
March 15, 2014
March 15, 2014
Bev, Nicole, Karen, Aunt Nell and I will greatly miss David with his wonderful disposition and positive attitude throughout his illness. Our deepest condolences to Nancy, Traci, Andre and Kelli. His spirit will always be there to guide and comfort you.
March 14, 2014
March 14, 2014
David, I know I am not alone in saying I will miss you. You had a great sense of humor and were always gentle and positive. Just remember our saying "It's not what you say, it's how you look, Babe!". I will always remember you my friend.
March 14, 2014
March 14, 2014
I was privileged to pray with my cousin several times over the past year.
We shared our faith in God and was assured of His Love and promises that never fails even when we do not understand all. Almighty God has granted my cousin peace for evermore.
David finished his earthly race, crossed the finish line, and is now present with the Lord. D was a man of faith who lived well and finished well. So to his dear Nancy, Tracy and Kelli be comforted and know that you are in our prayers and our love always.
March 14, 2014
March 14, 2014
You were always there with a caring smile, a helping hand, a silly joke, and sage advice. Thank you for the beautiful imprint you've left on our lives and in our hearts. Your memory will live on, and we will cherish it. We love you Uncle David. May you rest in peace.
March 13, 2014
March 13, 2014
My daughter & David's daughters went to school together and they were in Marching Band together. When they would have Band Trips, Davis would tell me he would chapperone, if I would stay home and cook him some Pelau, that he liked so much from when he visited Trinidad. I would happily do so, cause I knew he would enjoy that meal. He & Nancy were very dear friends and D was a genuine, gentle soul and will be sorely missed. God speed David!!!
March 12, 2014
March 12, 2014
I feel honored to have known David. He was such a gentleman. We worked together in Jacksonville, and also being from Miami, he knew I missed my Cuban pastries and would bring me some when he made trips south. We loved to discuss politics, and he had a great sense of humor. So glad we kept in touch after he left. He always expressed his love for his family and the pride he had in his girls. Rest in peace my friend. You will be missed.
March 12, 2014
March 12, 2014
My deepest condolences to Nancy, Tracey & Kelly...my prayers and thoughts are with you all...Davids' kind nature and warm smile will remain with us always.
March 12, 2014
March 12, 2014
You will be sorely missed David! Since 1975 we have been friends and became family in 1981.It has been a special relationship between us and you were like the big brother I never had! I am so blessed to have known you.
Ken & I take great pride in knowing that we played Cupid with you and Nancy and were witnesses at that beautiful union! We saw you take on the role as a husband, father, friend, counselor and an exemplary son to your parents.
Now God has called you home. While you work on earth is over, I know that God has assigned you special tasks that you are busy working on while continuing to watch over those you love dearly, especially your Dad, brothers Geoffrey and Kevin, your amazing and devoted wife Nancy and your two beautiful daughters Traci & Kelli!

I hold fond memories of all our times spent together and will keep my nickname for you "Crazy Rabbit" close to me,forever!
Love you always DMurjam.

Your memory will live on forever through your legacy......Traci and Kelli!!
March 12, 2014
March 12, 2014
During the days after Katrina, David guided our area back from the disaster. His kind, gentle manner motivated us to work long hours during a difficult time. He left a positive mark on the area, made many friends and we were sorry to see him leave. Our sincerest sympathy to his family and may he rest in peace in the arm of Our Savior.
March 12, 2014
March 12, 2014
David, you were not only a Brother-In-Law, you were an example for me....a loyal and patient leader among men and patriarch of our family. You defined "success" for me and I will always be reminded of you through the words of Ralph Waldo Emerson:

To laugh often and much
to win the respect of intelligent people
and affection of children; to earn the
appreciation of honest critics and
endure the betrayal of false friends;
to appreciate beauty, to find the best
in others; to leave the world a bit
better, whether by a healthy child
a garden patch or redeemed
social condition; to know even
one life has breathed easier because
you have lived. This is to have succeeded.
March 12, 2014
March 12, 2014
My sincerest condolences to Nancy, Kelli and Traci.
I had the pleasure of working with David in the 90's in the Miami office. He was such a kind and gentle person who will forever live in our hearts. May our Lord give your loving family the comfort they need in this very trying time.
March 11, 2014
March 11, 2014
David was one of the most considerable , strong, and kind person, I remember , Maning one of the Charter Flight to London at the Norman Manley Airport,Air Jamaica I was a total Novice still in High School I had to do the manefest for the flight and had such a problem, David (BIG BIRD)came to my rescue and allow the flight to leave on time. Sleep well David you did us proud during your journey her so long, so long R.I.P.
March 11, 2014
March 11, 2014
David, I will always remember you as a quiet, reserved pillar of strength and kindness. Whenever I was in a gathering where you were present, I felt calm, at peace. You are surely and sorely missed.
March 11, 2014
March 11, 2014
My Dear Nancy, Kellie and Traci:

My deepest condolences on your loss of a wonderful Husband and Dad. When I was the real estate agent selling your home in Kendall your Dad took me into your bedrooms and said "we need to start packing all my daughters great achievements". He had such a proud grin on his face. He loved you all so very much. May the Dear Lord comfort you in this very trying time. Love, Brigitte Bornn (McClure)
March 11, 2014
March 11, 2014
David was a great boss, wonderful friend and kind and gentle soul. We are all better having known David and know that he is now in the Loving arms of Our Father and Creator. David, you will forever live in our hearts and minds. Rest in peace my friend.
March 11, 2014
March 11, 2014
My condolences to the Murray family.

I remember David being a very nice and approachable person. He was my director at BellSouth some years ago. I remember one encounter with him where I was bringing my lunch back to eat at my desk. He saw me as I passed by his office and he invited me in to sit and each lunch with him. We talked about a few things I don't remember vividly, but I do remember him telling me the history of Jamaican Jerk. That story sticks with me today and will be one of the little nice things I will always remember about him.
March 11, 2014
March 11, 2014
I had the pleasure of working with David in the BRC. He was always pleasant and available to talk when you needed him. I truly enjoyed knowing him and send prayers of comfort to his family. Heaven has another Angel.
March 11, 2014
March 11, 2014
Nancy...my long time forever friend....we were out of touch for a while, tho never far in heart. I wonder if you will ever know how inspiring David & you were as a couple & especially during David's illness.
I looked forward to getting his notes..they always filled me with awe & made me smile. God blessed you both with such love & 2 beautiful daughters. He only takes those who are worthy...the rest of us have to wait on His time.
You are a strong woman who has known a great love...that, your daughters & your faith will sustain you. "Rest in peace, David, you loved, & were loved in return.
March 11, 2014
March 11, 2014
I had the pleasure of working with David in the Sunrise BRC. A man of character...he taught me well. My sincerest condolences to Nancy, Kellie and Traci. David was one of a kind and his legacy will live forever.
March 10, 2014
March 10, 2014
Our lives are richer having known such a compassionate man as David truly was. He will be greatly missed, but we will forever have the memories of his friendship and wonderful smile. Our prayers and deep sorrow go out to his beautiful wife and girls. I know he will continue to be with you in your hearts and forever watch over and guide you from heaven. May God bless you all.
March 10, 2014
March 10, 2014
David, you were a gentle kind man of great character who will be missed by many. You clearly made the world a better place and set a great example for your family. You will be greatly missed and never forgotten.
March 10, 2014
March 10, 2014
Mahatma Gandhi once said, “In a gentle way, you can shake the world.” The few years I worked with David at BellSouth, he exemplified that statement. He was always friendly, cordial, and eager to help. No matter how crazy things got David kept his cool. David was a good man and did his best to leave the world a little better than how he found it. God Bless you David.
March 10, 2014
March 10, 2014
I worked with David when he was here after Katrina. He is a good man with a funny sense of humor & a kind heart. I grew to respect not only the Manager but the man himself. When he came back to Louisiana, I worked with him on staff & it was the best job I have ever had at AT&T. He made my job interesting. He did love his spreadsheets & pivot tables but he taught me a lot about excel. He was missed when he left & I am saddened by his passing, Your family is in my prayers as you heal from this tremendous loss.
March 10, 2014
March 10, 2014
I am blessed to have had David as a friend during our years together in Windsor and Miami. David was always good humoured, supportive, kind, and we have lost a really special person.

Nancy, Traci, and Kelli - we are thankful to have shared some of David's time with you, his beloved family.

Rest in peace my friend, and save a spot for me.
March 10, 2014
March 10, 2014
David lived his philosophy: "Every Day Above Ground is a Good Day"
New Orleans will never be the same since David. He was a man who truly sought a God. I pray for healing and grace to all who loved him.
March 10, 2014
March 10, 2014
David, our thoughts and prayers are with your family at this time. We know that you will be helping out in the Almighty Church in the skies as you always did at Our Lady Of Lourdes. You will be missed as a friend and hope that your family will be comforted knowing that they have great friends around them and that you are at peace.
March 9, 2014
March 9, 2014
The news of David's transition was very sad. He epitomized the strong family that he was born into and was such a happy and dutiful person in all that he did. I loved seeing David and Nancy together; they were so stable and such a solid couple. It pains me to think that Nancy and the girls will no longer have his physical presence to comfort him. But he will continue to watch over his family and his beloved wife from another realm. I am praying for you during your time of mourning; we are all mourning with you. Much love.
March 9, 2014
March 9, 2014
My thoughts and prayers are with your family. I know so many lives were touched by David. What a wonderful person. May God be with you all and be your strength.
March 9, 2014
March 9, 2014
David...you fought a long and hard battle. Your friends and family were there for you every step of the way. Rest in peace with our Lord my dear friend until we meet again. I love you.
March 9, 2014
March 9, 2014
David was strong and brave to the end. The words of his last note on February 7th will be forever imprinted in my mind - so full of humor and optimism, even with the news of his mother who went ahead to prepare the path for him. Nancy, Traci and Kelli, take comfort in knowing that your lives were touched by a genuinely wonderful man who truly adored you all. Nancy, I can clearly remember David from our 20th ICHS reunion. He was the busiest of all the husbands there - organizing things, lifting boxes, and enthusiasticaly supporting our efforts . I can just see him up in heaven doing the same thing. He is in the arms of the Lord, now. It is well, it is well with (his) soul.
March 9, 2014
March 9, 2014
Andrew and I will always cherish our memories of David and we will miss him terribly. In spite of all that he was going through he always remained positive and that alone is an example to us all. Nancy, Traci and Kelli we will keep you in our prayers during this difficult time.
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Richard, KK, and David at Richard's house in October 2012.  Richard hosting the full Racal bunch.

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David and Nancy at Pebble Hill Plantation in Georgia, just north of Suzanne & Keith's house in Tallahassee.  Mountain laurel in bloom. 4/2009.

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