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This memorial website was created in memory of our dear father, Donald Edwards. 

Dad was our safe harbor; our rock of kindness, strength, and integrity. One of the greatest compliments Dad could pay someone was to say Good People. He was Good People! Only a year ago, we lost Mom, his beloved wife of 63 years, Kay Edwards. We will cherish Dad and Mom forever. Please see Kay's memorial here. kay-edwards.forevermissed.com

Dad was known for his grace, resilience, and fortitude. He was the quintessential "stand-up guy." We kids often quipped that Dad was this era's Abe Lincoln, with his powerful stature and commanding presence, yet fairness, open-mindedness, and compassion. He also had a great sense of humor. Dad would laugh so loud, his characteristic chin jutting out in a way totally unique to him. Imagine growing up, seeing this 6' 4'' athletic gent, gently scooping up a spider onto his San Francisco Chronicle (diligently read daily), to release it safely outside. We admired Dad so much for his consideration and care for "all creatures great and small" and for sharing this precious planet of ours with all walks of life, diverse cultures, and peoples. Dad was a great man and role model who walked the talk. He lived by the Golden Rule. We count ourselves incredibly blessed to call him Father.

Dad's last weeks and hours were filled with him expressing his deep gratitude for his rich, rewarding and fulfilling life. He felt fortunate not only by the diversity and beauty of his life experiences, but for meeting the love of his life, Kay, and being blessed to spend his life with her. As well as being blessed with a close-knit family, beautiful grandchildren, and many rewarding friendships that span the globe. Dad said he was the richest man alive. He also enjoyed his livelihood and his and mom's many years of charity work in their treasured Lake Tahoe. 

However, I would say that Dad wasn't so much lucky, as his gift of gratitude for life and fair play magnetized the good into his life. Much like Mom loved life with all her might, Dad similarly found the tapestry of life fascinating, even the challenges, and looked forward to discovering whatever lay around the bend. He attracted goodness by his great appreciation for living; by his golden heart.

When starting out his job search as a young man, Dad gave up on a lucrative career (turning down multiple offers), but instead followed his passion. He chose to be a coach and later high school administrator and counselor, heading up the athletic department. That is something, given Dad had to work multiple jobs and "live on beans and pancakes" to put himself through college. He never regretted that decision. He greatly appreciated his career and the many rewarding relationships with those he met and worked with over the years - forming lifelong bonds that endure to this day.

When he and Mom retired late in life (they were entrepreneurial workaholics as many of you know!) they spent their golden years traveling internationally with Friendship Force. The mission statement for Friendship Force is to help foster world peace, which was close to their hearts as well. Or traveling to the Himalayas to see Brian, Ashna, and his two darling grandchildren, who he cherished, and vice versa. "We love you Grandpa" they would chime as we skyped from across the oceans.

One of Dad's keen interests was music. (And of course sports~Go SF Giants, 49ers, Warriors & Cal!) From the moment Dad discovered Andre Rieu's Johann Strauss Orchestra on PBS, he was hooked. Dad often remarked that if he had learned of Andre Rieu earlier, he and Mom would have loved nothing more than to embark on a tour following Andre's globe-trotting concerts. Much like Friendship Force, Dad felt the harmony of music could heal the divisions of humanity. For his and Mom's 60th Anniversary, their dream present was to attend Andre Rieu's Waltzing Forever concert in Sacramento for Andre's US tour. That was a feather in Dad's cap. He and Mom waltzed in the aisle as they played one of his favorite songs, Hallelujah. And as Dad gently, peacefully, gracefully crossed over to the other side, Hallelujah was playing in his honor.


With the deepest love and admiration for you, Dad.
You will be forever missed.

Love You For Ever!
LYFE ~ Kristen

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For those who'd like to honor Don's memory with a gift can make a contribution in his name to either: The Sierra Club, Tahoe Chapter https://www.sierraclub.org/mother-lode/tahoe or Lake Tahoe Wildlife Care https://ltwc.org/ or The Nature Conservancy https://preserve.nature.org/page/80429/donate/1
September 14, 2023
September 14, 2023
Hello Kristen & family .. Truly ... never a day goes by that we do not miss the walks that Jim & Don took. And still to this day .. when we see an egret in our backyard ... we salute Don .... And thank him for coming by and blessing our moment. We are so thankful to have known him ... shared his humor ... And we are so delighted to still be the neighbors of Kristen & King Louie ...
I hope these annual updates continue forever.
Don will be forever missed and forever in our hearts... Lynn & Jim
September 14, 2023
September 14, 2023
We were greeted by a mountain-hugging misty morning today, the anniversary of Dad's "crossing over to the other side", as he liked to say. LeeAnne and I were texting as I'd sent her some playful photos of Mom and Dad (pictured above) in their and Steve's favorite spot - Yosemite - and she sent this note, so perfect for our Mr. Perfect: 

"These are precious!! They had a BIG LOVE! We are so lucky to have had our parents, I was saying to Glenn last night. As you say there is this beautiful peace in the air this morning, like a giant hug from Mama, Papa and Steve letting us know we are all still together."

And I found this beautiful poem from Brian that seems perfect too:

"Overlooked by that unswerving star
My eyes are pulled from home afar,
As though my feet stand far away
My thoughts in home's green pastures play.

For love that's measured tis but desire
Affection tested a scorching fire,
Of what's truly there cannot be spoken
The spell of that was forged unbroken.

From your wisdom-tempered bow I fly
Reaping the world as you sowed the sky,
For the home is ever in me part
It's curled with you inside my heart."

You are curled forever in our hearts, dearest Papa, Mama and Steve!
September 16, 2022
September 16, 2022
Dear Kristen & family ... Already a year and Jim & I have missed Don just about every day. We walk out of our door & see his house and just wish he was still here to walk, talk & laugh with Jim. Each time we have an egret in the back yard we wave, give a big smile & say "Hi Don ... Thanks for stopping by!!"
Yes ... so fortunate to have had him in our lives & he will be "Forever Missed"
With caring thoughts ... Lynn & Jim Macfarlan
September 16, 2022
September 16, 2022
Well Don, thought I'd give you an update, I know how much "the rivalry" means to you and figured the news might be slow up there.

*New York Yankees 87-56 (first place)
* Boston Red Sox 69-74 (last place - 18 games behind)

I'll smile at this one. :) 
September 14, 2022
September 14, 2022
Don left us the day beforee my birthday of 88 years. We uit play golf as our drives were not getting off the tee without several swings.
Thank you Edwards for out continued friendship.
September 14, 2022
September 14, 2022
I concur Brian. Your dad was amazing! He could rescue a fallen wheelbarrow from a 10 freeway mishap while facing oncoming traffic better than anyone! I'm sure he & Dean are still laughing about that up there right now. Our mom's with their hysterical personalities still make me laugh to this day as well. Sounds like your daughter is a mini Kay in the making. I regret not being able to visit your dad before his passing. It sure would've been fun to see him.
September 14, 2022
September 14, 2022
Hi Dad,

Hope you are enjoying yourself up there. Down here your little grandchildren are not so little any more and blooming in a way I am sure makes you smile. Mayel is a dolphin in the water and is becoming quite the Judo star. He loves astronomy and history and inherited your remarkable memory. Not surprising his favourite animal is an elephant and he wants to show you all his friends, long-trunked and otherwise!

Ellejienne is the star of every show, sings all day long, is learning Guitar and is the life of every party just like her grandmother. She also seems remarkably lucky, so perhaps you are having something to do with that!

People sometimes ask me "how are you such a good parent?" and I honestly answer "I'm just copying what my Dad did." So thank you for all your past and current blessings.

Loving and thinking of you,

Brian
June 12, 2022
June 12, 2022
I was really shocked and saddened to learn recently of Don and Kay's passing. I think the Edwards have endured enough loss and pain for many lifetimes. I think the well deserved accolades have all been said here so I will just post my memories of Don; a stream of consciousness. Little visual moments that I remember vividly. I was an adopted son of the family so to speak for many years before losing touch. We travelled to India for Brian's wedding and London, spent time together in Tuscany, Hermosa Beach, Lake Tahoe, Santa Rosa and the Sequoias. Sleepy mornings in snowy Lake Tahoe. Don and I, first ones up, going out front to get Don's paper which which we then divided up. 4th of July celebration, moving chairs with Don and just hanging out in the sun with his brother. Music and smiles all around. Don and Kay did some great job. Cooking together. Endless dinners around the big living room table with the family, so delicious and everyone was so funny. Sharing dishes and serving. The boat drama. Planning their spectacular 50th anniversary; what a night. I was the self-appointed photographer, lots of Christmas morning pics, pajamas, hiking and so much more. Riding in a jeep looking for Tigers in India. Don and his brother ecstatic at being gifted a trip to see the Yankees and Red Sox back east. Sleeping in the sun on the back deck in Tahoe; Don loved that. Don fixing my faucet in Hermosa Beach. Endless political conversations. Don driving from gas station to gas station looking to save a few cents. Sorry Don I had to bust you on that one. There is so much more.

It seems trite to say that someone who is gone was one of a kind, they broke the mold, etc. But in Don Edwards case it is so true for all the reasons everyone has written about. He was a Lincolnesque figure figuratively and literally; strong, loving and unwavering in his adherence to his moral compass and doing the right thing. And number one, did he ever love Kay and his family. Rest in peace Don.


March 31, 2022
March 31, 2022
   It has been 5 or 6 months since Don's passing. I've thought about this for quite awhile now, but what can I say. I had known Don since the 50's. Met him one evening when he was dating Kay's roomate in SanFransico when Mary Lee and I were visiting Kay. Maybe that was the last date with the roomate. I think the three were friends ever after.
   He was a great guy. A good brother-in-law. A good friend. I miss him.
October 23, 2021
October 23, 2021
From dear friends Dale and Betty Ferber:

We were so sorry to hear of Don's passing. He had lived a long life working with Kay as a very productive team. Always willing to give a helping hand with his famous smile. If you wanted a straight answer just ask Don. We had many good times at La Puente High and Workman High. There are so many times that Don had an impact on my life that it is impossible to list them and to be honest to remember them at my age. My wife found a picture of a cruise we did with 5 couples to Alaska (pictured in the gallery section). Bill Heynen, Bob Delgado, Willy Reinmuth, and Don. Unfortunately all deceased. We send our sincere regards to the Edwards family for their loss. 

~Dale and Betty Ferber
October 18, 2021
October 18, 2021
Don Edwards was one the those special people you may be lucky enough to know in your lifetime. Don ALWAYS did his best at all he did. He truly cared about others. I value having worked with Don at Los Altos High School for nine years. During those years and the ones that followed we developed a deep friendship. When Don and Kay lived in Lake Tahoe, Betty and I visited them on numerous occasions. We have many memories of our get togethers.
I spoke to Don two weeks before he passed and know that he was ready to compete his life cycle knowing that it was a life well lived with so many memories. Betty and I will always cherish our times together with our dear friends. Don and Kay were two people who gave more than they took, cared for others more than themselves, made our planet a better place to live and always made you feel welcomed in their presence. They exemplified love at its finest. May they both Rest In Peace together for eternity. 
October 17, 2021
October 17, 2021
Your DAD was a very special person; kind, considerate, gracious, and full of
life always. His travels and stories are wonderful!
He will be with us all always!
October 14, 2021
October 14, 2021
Hello Kristen & family .. We are new into Don's life ... just 2 years ..but it has been an amazing journey with Jim & Don as they became "Walker Buddies". As I told Kristen when we had a group of friends over and asked the question "What has come out of this Pandemic that you see as God or the Universe intervening" ...
And Jim said without hesitation that "Don was a God-send". And I know that as well ... as Jim loved his walks with Don ... It was not about the "walk" ... it was about the "talk" ... We will always remember Don with his smile and his humor and his charm and his grace. With much love and gratitude that Don was in our life ... Lynn & Jim Macfarlan
October 13, 2021
October 13, 2021
Dear Edwards Family,
Reading tributes to your Dad gives us (Don and Jerra Lynne) even more reason to be grateful for the times we were able to spend with your folks. Indeed they were both unique in all the ways others have described. Our personal connection is two-fold. I, Don, go back to the late 1970's when my kids were in school with you Edwards kids. Jerra Lynne met your folks after we moved to Lake Tahoe in early 2002. Our friendship blossomed and their generosity blessed us in so many ways! My golf dates with your Dad became a regular event and an opportunity for us both to brag about our best shot! As you might expect, in his casual way, he consistently whipped my butt!

We loved spending time with your Mom and Dad and also housesitting their lovely lakefront home when Don and Kay would be traveling abroad to see Brian and family. Their home was like a five star hotel and it was a vacation for us!

We will always remember them with such joy and enthusiasm; they were a very special couple and will be missed more than we can say. The world needs a lot more of people just like your parents; it would be a better, kinder and calmer world were that so! That's just the way they were.
October 11, 2021
October 11, 2021
My dearest Kristen and LeeAnne, Brian & family....

Your tributes to your father brought tears and tears and tears to my eyes! As my tears streamed down my face I am reminded why I love your family so!!!! Your heart filled sentiments are extraordinary and so wonderfully touching! I know your father is beaming in heaven with pride for you both! As I am!!! 

I am profoundly and deeply touched by your words for your father!!!!

I am so thankful and grateful to our Lord in Heaven for the amazing friendship that your parents had with my parents! 50+ years of friendship is a long time!

Growing up with your brother Steve and with you both has been a gift from God I am so thankful for! Unfortunately I didn't get to know your brother Brian, because he's so much younger than I. I'm sure he's a spectacular person!!

Kristen, LeeAnne, Brian and family I am so sorry for your loss. I truly understand the hole in your heart and the thankfulness for having your father!!! God blessed you all, and your father's legacy lives in you!!!

Brian your tribute to your father made me smile from ear to ear!!! Touching, thoughtful and filled with wonderful memories and moments in your life!!! You have been richly blessed!!!

Your tributes have touched my heart .... LYFE...... love you for ever.... I've never heard this before!!! I will use this for my family LYFE!!! For ever!!!! Thank you for sharing this acronym... as this is apart of your families legacy and has now touched others.... FOR EVER!!!!

You are GOOD PEOPLE!!!!

I wish I would have had more time with your parents!!! I'm so thankful that my parents were blessed with time with your parents!!!
GOOD PEOPLE!!!

All my heart and love!!! LYFE!!! My dear friends...
Debbie (Beckhart) Penderghast

October 9, 2021
October 9, 2021

"One hundred years from now it will not matter what kind of car I drove, what kind of house I lived in, how much money I had, nor what kind of clothes I wore. But the world may be a better place because I was important in the life of a child" 

There are no words, and so many words, to best describe Dad. Simply stated, he was the most amazing man, father, mentor, and friend. 

While the saying above may be a little cliché, it’s also fitting because Dad left an imprint on not only us children & his grandchildren, who were lucky enough to have his guidance & love, but everyone who had the opportunity to be around him. His calling to be a coach, counselor and father befit him and he spent his life advising us to live, as sis said, in his favorite expression, as “GOOD PEOPLE”. 

Dad said it, a lot. Those are GOOD PEOPLE. In my worst & best of times, I reflect on his words and dig deep to live being GOOD. To my fellow humans, to the animals, to the earth & beyond. The important truth that Dad instilled in us was to be tolerant & deeply forgiving, to love all living things, without judgment, to be fair, and live with determination and curiosity. To accept our faults, and work persistently to remedy them and never, ever give up. He inspires me every day to live this gift of life with the utmost integrity, and always give back. Not just in the monetary sense, but in our daily choices and to not waste this divine gift of life. He was nice, kind, and made lemonade out of lemons. It was the way he lived. It was the way he taught. It was the way he showed us his love.

He was the ultimate teacher, a pillar of strength to our family. He showed us how to persevere and keep positive in the hardest conditions. He was courageous, steadfast and gave us balance. He made us feel safe yet encouraged us to take risks. He taught us the beauty of hard work & purpose. He lived frugally yet was very generous. He loved music, nature, animals, people and places, history, warbirds, warships, war stories & war movies – we saw and heard ‘em all! He loved Michener, musicals, sports and singing - he had a beautiful voice. And as I fondly recall in our early years, Dad's deep baritone tone ringing through the halls to sound the day's alarm..."up in the morning, out on the job, work like a devil for my pay, and that lucky 'ole son, ain't got nothing to do, but roll around bed all day..."

I loved being around Dad, he was interesting; whether listening to his stories, his advice, or just watching a good ‘ole ballgame with him. No one knew those player stats better than Dad! Some of my favorite memories are my college basketball days, him sitting squarely in the middle of the bleachers so to get the best vantage point, dilgently keeping my stats. At halftime, I would run over to the sidelines like bees to a honeypot to hear him give me his two-cents. And boy he did! I cherished those words of wisdom, and the millions more that have helped guide me through my years.

He could do anything he set his mind to and to me, he was EXTRAORDINARY. As mom dubbed him ever-so-perfectly, he was, MR. PERFECT.

Us kids would chuckle because it was a gift to share our parents with our friends. It seemed as if our friends would have more fun with mom and dad than with us. And here’s the thing, they were right! Our folks were fascinating, well-read and well-lived, classy yet approachable. They had universal appeal, around the world, in their backyard & with everyone they touched.

Dad & Mom invested in us kids throughout their lives. They were always present, even if not in person. Until his last breath, Dad was preparing us to live our best life. And now he’s living his best afterlife with mom, his forever love.

My cup runneth-over with gratitude sweet Papa. 

I am the most blessed daughter ever, and forever.

And as we Edwards say, LYFE oh beautiful father, may the Tchaikovsky 1812 Overture horns sound in your honor!

I LOVE YOU DAD, Your eternal Scooterpie

September 25, 2021
September 25, 2021
Kristen, what a beautiful tribute you have written for your Dad. I often relate the story of how my sister and I came to know Don and Kay and how we adopted them as our American Mom and Dad -because we were orphans.
How very sad they have departed this world but their legacy lives on through their amazing family and social connections.
I have never met such kind, caring, generous and loving people as they both were and will always be thankful to the organization of Friendship Force, without which, I would not have had the privelege of meeting them.
Always in my heart.
LYFE
Julie Longbon
September 24, 2021
September 24, 2021
So so sad to hear of Dons passing. It was a real privilege to have known both him and Kay . They will always hold a special place in our hearts . Baz and I will celebrate our 50 th anniversary next September and hope some of their magic will stay with us in the coming years.Thank you Don and Kay for taking us under your wing and making us so welcome .

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September 14, 2023
September 14, 2023
Hello Kristen & family .. Truly ... never a day goes by that we do not miss the walks that Jim & Don took. And still to this day .. when we see an egret in our backyard ... we salute Don .... And thank him for coming by and blessing our moment. We are so thankful to have known him ... shared his humor ... And we are so delighted to still be the neighbors of Kristen & King Louie ...
I hope these annual updates continue forever.
Don will be forever missed and forever in our hearts... Lynn & Jim
September 14, 2023
September 14, 2023
We were greeted by a mountain-hugging misty morning today, the anniversary of Dad's "crossing over to the other side", as he liked to say. LeeAnne and I were texting as I'd sent her some playful photos of Mom and Dad (pictured above) in their and Steve's favorite spot - Yosemite - and she sent this note, so perfect for our Mr. Perfect: 

"These are precious!! They had a BIG LOVE! We are so lucky to have had our parents, I was saying to Glenn last night. As you say there is this beautiful peace in the air this morning, like a giant hug from Mama, Papa and Steve letting us know we are all still together."

And I found this beautiful poem from Brian that seems perfect too:

"Overlooked by that unswerving star
My eyes are pulled from home afar,
As though my feet stand far away
My thoughts in home's green pastures play.

For love that's measured tis but desire
Affection tested a scorching fire,
Of what's truly there cannot be spoken
The spell of that was forged unbroken.

From your wisdom-tempered bow I fly
Reaping the world as you sowed the sky,
For the home is ever in me part
It's curled with you inside my heart."

You are curled forever in our hearts, dearest Papa, Mama and Steve!
September 16, 2022
September 16, 2022
Dear Kristen & family ... Already a year and Jim & I have missed Don just about every day. We walk out of our door & see his house and just wish he was still here to walk, talk & laugh with Jim. Each time we have an egret in the back yard we wave, give a big smile & say "Hi Don ... Thanks for stopping by!!"
Yes ... so fortunate to have had him in our lives & he will be "Forever Missed"
With caring thoughts ... Lynn & Jim Macfarlan
His Life

Dad's essay recollecting growing up on the Presidio watching the Golden Gate Bridge's construction

September 20, 2021
I was born in Lettermen General Hospital which is located in the Presidio of San Francisco on January 9th, 1930. My father, Herschell Edwards, was stationed in Fort Winfield Scott (the coastal area of the Presidio) for 21 years in the 6th Coast Artillery. He likely holds the record for being the longest stationed there. He arrived in 1922 at the Presidio until he left for the war in 1943. I lived at the Post until I was 13 when my father was shipped overseas to serve in Africa and went through Africa and Sicily with General Patton’s Army and then into Italy under General Mark Clark. He came home on a hospital ship near the end of the war. After living on the post for 21 years, our family had to move to the city when he was sent overseas.

I also served in the army for two years in 1953-55, in Allied Occupied Germany as part of a regimental combat team guarding the Czechoslovakia border. I was stationed at Straubing, Germany, located on the Danube River.

When born, we lived next to the Presidio’s Crissy Field in what they called the Mine Dock area. One of the mine sweeping ships that placed the mines during WWII under the Golden Gate Bridge to protect against submarines, was called the Slocum. In the Humphrey Bogart film Dark Passage, Bogart drives right by our duplex on Crissy Field. We saw a number of planes that crashed in the bay being towed up the seaplane ramp to the hangers. The winds were very tricky which I think is why they more or less closed the airport around 1936.

My brother and I enjoyed the unique experience of watching the Golden Gate Bridge being built above us from our home on Crissy Field. The. Golden Gate Bridge was “born” on January 5, 1933, a few days before my 3rd birthday, with my brother 5 years old (my brother is 2 years, 2 months and 2 days older than me). When they were building the Golden Gate Bridge, they built two high concrete silos on the beach to supply the concrete for the bridge construction. They hired my grandfather who lived with us to turn on the lights at the top of the silos at night and turn them off in the morning. This included the replacing of burnt out bulbs.It was a hairy experience to climb to the top to replace the bulbs, but something my older brother James and I were itching to do. We were probably 6 and 8 at the time and finally convinced our grandfather to take us up with the admonition to never tell our mother.

My father and grandfather both fished and crabbed alot off of the mine dock, which is where they stored the mines in and outside the bay.We also had all the abalone we wanted, because along the seawall to Fort Point there were large boulders in the bay and they would use a tire iron to pry the abalone off the boulders.

Also that year our duplex on Crissy Field burned down (next door neighbor had a still in his house which blew up) and we had to move to the Lancaster housing area of the Presidio for a short time only because it was located where the current toll plaza was to be built and the bridge opened in May 1937.

Our next home was an old generals house on the hill above the Mine Dock which they had converted into a duplex. It had a sunporch, faced east, and had a beautiful view of the bay. The dirt road leading to it and two other houses is still there but the houses are gone.

After a year or two there, we moved to new duplexes in the Stotzenburg area which is on the western side of the Presidio overlooking the ocean. The homes were located next to four 12” inch gun batteries. Each gun battery had four 12 inch mortars which I guess were obsolete since we played in and around them all the time until the war started. The guns had 20 to 25 foot embankments around them and under the embankments were ammunition and other storage and quarters for the soldiers. Today those areas are used for wine storage, at least partly. Across the road from our houses was part of the Presidio Golf Course, which is still in operation.

When WWII started, they fenced off the gun batteries, made us put up blackout curtains, and had two sentries walking about ten yards behind each other guarding our area. Food and gas (we got 4 gallons per week) were rationed. We also saved anything that would support the war effort, such as the tin foil from our gum wrappers, metal, paper, etc. Both the Presidio and Fort Scott, which anyone could enter before the war, became restricted areas with gate guards etc.

Things I remember:

I'll never forget the broadcast the morning of December 7th, 1941. We were at Playland at the Beach located near the famous Sutro Baths (no longer standing) and Cliffhouse Restaurant at a shooting gallery when an announcement came over the radio for all military personnel to report immediately to their posts. Interestingly, as I remember, they did not during this broadcast mention that Pearl Harbor had been attacked.

When they played Retreat and lowered the flag each night at 5 PM, if you were a soldier and driving on the post, you stopped the car, got out and saluted until Retreat was finished. The bugler would play the two melodies, and sometimes they’d fire a canon. I can remember the song distinctly.

The small fishing and crab boats going out each morning through the golden gate (we called them the putt, putt boats because of the sound of their motors) and their later return. This was especially true when we lived at the mine dock area very close to the beach.

Saturday parades on the parade grounds located within the half circle of the barracks.

My brother and I had jobs as paper boys on the Post, including Letterman General Hospital’s wards filled with soldiers. We’d ride our bikes to deliver papers each afternoon (usually the Call Bulletin, an afternoon paper) all over Fort Scott. On Sunday mornings I delivered and sold the San Francisco Examiner around the post and also sold them in the wards of Letterman General Hospital. Some wards had young men in them whose hair had literally turned white from their harrowing experiences in the war, something we called “shell shocked” at the time.

We eagerly awaited letters from our father overseas serving in Africa and Italy, as my Mom, brother and I were all terrified he could be killed or injured or taken prisoner. And later, when he came home on a hospital ship, he was sent to White Sulfa Springs in Georgia to recuperate. This is where FDR famously spent much of his time to treat his polio. It had been turned into a military hospital during the war.

Our dad, a man of few words, when we asked him what the war was like, he simply said, “War is hell.”

The post was kept clean and the grounds manicured by Army prisoners riding in the back of trucks with a guard carrying a rifle.

On Thanksgiving the families of the soldiers assigned to each barracks were invited to dinner in the mess hall of that barracks.

Early on, there were no movie theaters on the Post, except for a small theatre upstairs in the YMCA. On Sunday nights, if you went to Vespers services, then you would get to see the movie for free. So we boys often went to the Vespers services. Later in the 30s I believe, they added a modern theatre in the Presidio, which has recently been totally renovated. They also added a wartime theatre in Fort Winfield Scott, which we went to often. Before the war, we got the films after they appeared in the public. Once the war started, we got the movies before they went public. The only church before the war was in the Presidio. But after the war started, they built a church in Fort Winfield Scott as well.

My father died in 1951 and my mother 1986. Both are buried in the Presidio Cemetery. My brother James, who died recently in 2017, is one of the last people to be permitted to be buried in the Presidio, alongside my parents. Since he was in the Air Force and served from 46-50, he was given a military funeral.

One of the things that became obvious immediately, was that the nations and people became united and pulled together in an unprecedented, patriotic way. Once the war started, it brought the nation together; uniting the people in the great effort to save our democracy.

-Don Edwards
Recent stories
January 10
This is nothing new ... It is the same feelings of love and the same feelings of loss.
Don became a soul partner and a Giants partner for Jim just after we moved across the street from him & his wife & Kristen.  Don is missed everyday to this very day.  Thank God we are close to Kristen & of course Louie ... and as always the egrets that show up at just the right moment to give us a nod and a hello from Don  ...
Don ... You are so missed .. 

Such Great People

January 26, 2022
The Edwards were a huge part of the Raftery family's life starting from before Nancy first became pregnant w/ me in early 1968 (& Kay w/ Brian a month later!) all the way up to the last of the vacations the Raftery's and Edwards enjoyed together. I have well over 40+ years of memorable and often hilarious times shared between the Chester Road & Cortez Street neighbors and the Stern family as well. Despite myself, Brian, & Howard all traveling down very different paths after high school, our parents remained very close friends. I will always be grateful for this. Don & Kay wrote an amazing eulogy about my dad Dean for me to share at his celebration of life since they couldn't be there and once I find this I will share it on here as well. 

Pops in the Park.4th of july.

October 16, 2021
Your Dad and Mom both worked with us to raise funds for the RENO PHILHARMONIC ORCHASTRA.  Your Dad went to the various businesses to collect donations to be sold at the auction and your mum assisted with the cashiering. And we had  many good years doing that.  We are very sad to learn of your Dad,s passing.  John and Audrey Sim.

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