This memorial website was created in memory of our dear father, Donald Edwards.
Dad was our safe harbor; our rock of kindness, strength, and integrity. One of the greatest compliments Dad could pay someone was to say
Good People. He was
Good People! Only a year ago, we lost Mom, his beloved wife of 63 years, Kay Edwards. We will cherish Dad and Mom forever. Please see Kay's memorial here.
kay-edwards.forevermissed.comDad was known for his grace, resilience, and fortitude. He was the quintessential "stand-up guy." We kids often quipped that Dad was this era's Abe Lincoln, with his powerful stature and commanding presence, yet fairness, open-mindedness, and compassion. He also had a great sense of humor. Dad would laugh so loud, his characteristic chin jutting out in a way totally unique to him. Imagine growing up, seeing this 6' 4'' athletic gent, gently scooping up a spider onto his
San Francisco Chronicle (diligently read daily), to release it safely outside. We admired Dad so much for his consideration and care for "all creatures great and small" and for sharing this precious planet of ours with all walks of life, diverse cultures, and peoples. Dad was a great man and role model who walked the talk. He lived by the Golden Rule. We count ourselves incredibly blessed to call him Father.
Dad's last weeks and hours were filled with him expressing his deep gratitude for his rich, rewarding and fulfilling life. He felt fortunate not only by the diversity and beauty of his life experiences, but for meeting the love of his life, Kay, and being blessed to spend his life with her. As well as being blessed with a close-knit family, beautiful grandchildren, and many rewarding friendships that span the globe. Dad said he was the richest man alive. He also enjoyed his livelihood and his and mom's many years of charity work in their treasured Lake Tahoe.
However, I would say that Dad wasn't so much lucky, as his gift of gratitude for life and fair play magnetized the good into his life. Much like Mom loved life with all her might, Dad similarly found the tapestry of life fascinating, even the challenges, and looked forward to discovering whatever lay around the bend. He attracted goodness by his great appreciation for living; by his golden heart.
When starting out his job search as a young man, Dad gave up on a lucrative career (turning down multiple offers), but instead followed his passion. He chose to be a coach and later high school administrator and counselor, heading up the athletic department. That is something, given Dad had to work multiple jobs and "live on beans and pancakes" to put himself through college. He never regretted that decision. He greatly appreciated his career and the many rewarding relationships with those he met and worked with over the years - forming lifelong bonds that endure to this day.
When he and Mom retired late in life (they were entrepreneurial workaholics as many of you know!) they spent their golden years traveling internationally with Friendship Force. The mission statement for Friendship Force is to help foster world peace, which was close to their hearts as well. Or traveling to the Himalayas to see Brian, Ashna, and his two darling grandchildren, who he cherished, and vice versa. "We love you Grandpa" they would chime as we skyped from across the oceans.
One of Dad's keen interests was music. (And of course sports~Go SF Giants, 49ers, Warriors & Cal!) From the moment Dad discovered Andre Rieu's Johann Strauss Orchestra on PBS, he was hooked. Dad often remarked that if he had learned of Andre Rieu earlier, he and Mom would have loved nothing more than to embark on a tour following Andre's globe-trotting concerts. Much like Friendship Force, Dad felt the harmony of music could heal the divisions of humanity. For his and Mom's 60th Anniversary, their dream present was to attend Andre Rieu's Waltzing Forever concert in Sacramento for Andre's US tour. That was a feather in Dad's cap. He and Mom waltzed in the aisle as they played one of his favorite songs,
Hallelujah. And as Dad gently, peacefully, gracefully crossed over to the other side,
Hallelujah was playing in his honor.
With the deepest love and admiration for you, Dad.
You will be forever missed.
Love You For Ever!
LYFE ~ Kristen
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For those who'd like to honor Don's memory with a gift can make a contribution in his name to either: The
Sierra Club, Tahoe Chapter https://www.sierraclub.org/mother-lode/tahoe or
Lake Tahoe Wildlife Care https://ltwc.org/ or
The Nature Conservancy https://preserve.nature.org/page/80429/donate/1