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This memorial website was created in memory of Douglas Damerst, 64, who was born on February 12, 1950 and passed away on September 9, 2014. 

The website is a work in progress. Over the next several months we will be adding more photos and videos so be sure to check back. We invite you to leave a tribute to Doug, share a favorite story, or upload a photo. And feel free to leave any suggestions as well. 

Doug will always be missed, but he will live on in our hearts and memories forever. 

December 7, 2022
December 7, 2022
I just saw this In December 2022! Doug and I were best friends in 1968. We worked together at Allen's Self Service Drugs in our senior year. Doug moved into my house when his parents moved away. He and I spent several months in my parents basement until fall of 1968 when he enrolled at Chadron State College. He And I took trip to Denver in 1968 and again in 1970. His brother Marcus was living there at that time. I got married in 1971 and asked Doug to be my best man, but he couldn't make it to G.I because he was a broke kid in college! Love this guy forever! We had some great times together!
February 12, 2020
February 12, 2020
Today would have been your 70th birthday. How time flies. I wish with all my heart that we could have celebrated this milestone together. But it was not to be. And though I miss you no less today than I did the day you left, life has carried me forward, as was your wish. I no longer pine away for days gone by, but instead look fondly back on the memories we made, and the life we shared. A wise lady once told me that we know we are living in the past when our emotions go back with us, but we are honoring the past when we can reminisce about the good times, smile, and continue moving forward. That is where I am today. You were a futurist, always dreaming of making a better tomorrow. When I would fret about the past, you would nudge me forward. You taught me how to live in the present, and dream of the future. I thank you for that. Happy Heavenly Birthday Doug!
September 10, 2019
September 10, 2019
Dear Dad,
Yesterday was five years. I couldn’t believe it. It feels more like three, or some days more like twenty. I’ll be honest: I dread each year I tack on without you. I dread the day I wake up and it HAS been twenty, or forty, or maybe even sixty. I can’t stand the thought. But, I once couldn’t stand the thought of one day without you. And here I am. So there I will go. I don’t truly believe you’re gone. Some days, I feel more confident than others about this concept. But I hold on to the idea of living eternally with you. I can only hope at this rate, that that will be my “heaven.”
For now, I live for mom and Jessica, and all else who adored you. There were so many.
In that mean time, I’ll feel you with me when I cook pancakes, and see a train, and see someone order hot coffee with a couple of ice cubes to cool it down.

I miss you. I love you.
Katherine
September 9, 2019
September 9, 2019
It’s hard to believe that it’s been 5 years since you passed. Sometimes it seems like only yesterday, and at other times it feels like an eternity. So much has happened since you drew your last breath, but I suspect that somehow, you already know. I have a sneaking suspicion that you have been keeping an eye on us, making sure your family is happy and safe, just as you did when you were alive. I have come to not only suspect this is true, but know it as fact. You have communicated with us through songs, messages, photos and many other creative ways that can not be attributed to chance. There is no doubt in my mind that you not only go on, but you are thriving in that beautiful place we all hope to one day call home. We miss you and love you more than words can ever express, and we look forward to the day, after we have each lived very long and productive lives, that we will see you again. In the meantime, keep those messages and “coincides” coming. And thank you for sending them :) xoxo
September 9, 2019
September 9, 2019
Yes. It is hard to believe Doug is gone...a good man and good leader, and, from what I know, a good husband and parent. Rest in peace Doug.
September 9, 2016
September 9, 2016
Can't believe he's been gone this long, we were cousin's only a year apart, and when we were real young I use to love it when my parents would drive us from where we lived in Massachusetts to where he lived in Massachusetts it was either Leverett or Shutesbury, anyway I remember we would play outside. There was alot of woods around. It was nice. Lots of family, a long time ago, makes me miss everyone that's gone. Makes me cry. I do miss you Doug
January 17, 2016
January 17, 2016
I was saddened by this news. I worked with Doug for 11 years on the AAA World and Car & Travel magazines as production manager. There were many sides to Doug, but I mostly remember him as a brilliant man, good leader, and motivator. I learned much about publishing from Doug, and have many fond memories of the things we accomplished at AAA.
July 10, 2015
July 10, 2015
Doug was a big Lincoln fan and living in Springfield, I see Lincoln things everywhere. I park a block from Lincoln's house. So, it isn't unusual for me to think about Doug and wish I could take him around town. I always had the greatest times with him and he was always very kind to me. I enjoyed the photos and they really bring back memories! Thank you for creating this web site. Knowing there is a place I can go to remember this great guy is a real comfort.
February 13, 2015
February 13, 2015
"Congratulations on completing another trip around the sun," Doug would often say whenever someone celebrated a birthday. He didn't quite make it to his 65th birthday, but I don't doubt for a minute that he somehow completed his trip. Happy Heavenly Birthday, my love.
November 12, 2014
November 12, 2014
I worked with Doug Damerst at AAA 20+ years ago. He was a mentor, a friend and the reason I left AAA to become Publisher for Tow Times magazine. As he told me, better to be a big fish in a little pond than a little fish in a big pond. I have never forgotten his wisdom. Thank you Doug.

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December 7, 2022
December 7, 2022
I just saw this In December 2022! Doug and I were best friends in 1968. We worked together at Allen's Self Service Drugs in our senior year. Doug moved into my house when his parents moved away. He and I spent several months in my parents basement until fall of 1968 when he enrolled at Chadron State College. He And I took trip to Denver in 1968 and again in 1970. His brother Marcus was living there at that time. I got married in 1971 and asked Doug to be my best man, but he couldn't make it to G.I because he was a broke kid in college! Love this guy forever! We had some great times together!
February 12, 2020
February 12, 2020
Today would have been your 70th birthday. How time flies. I wish with all my heart that we could have celebrated this milestone together. But it was not to be. And though I miss you no less today than I did the day you left, life has carried me forward, as was your wish. I no longer pine away for days gone by, but instead look fondly back on the memories we made, and the life we shared. A wise lady once told me that we know we are living in the past when our emotions go back with us, but we are honoring the past when we can reminisce about the good times, smile, and continue moving forward. That is where I am today. You were a futurist, always dreaming of making a better tomorrow. When I would fret about the past, you would nudge me forward. You taught me how to live in the present, and dream of the future. I thank you for that. Happy Heavenly Birthday Doug!
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Doug's scholarship award tribute

July 24, 2015

As many of you know, the Florida Magazine Association will honor Doug by awarding a journalism scholarship in his name on August 7 at their annual conference. I plan to attend and read the following tribute:

It is a privilege to be with you today to help present the Doug Damerst scholarship to this year’s deserving recipient. Helping young adults was a passion of Doug’s, so this award is very appropriate, and I thank the FMA for creating this scholarship in Doug’s honor. Brittany, my heartfelt congratulations go out to you and your family for this wonderful achievement.

As many of you know, Doug passed away last year from an aggressive form of Lymphoma. He fought valiantly, as he so often did in many areas of his life, and he literally worked for both his employer and the FMA up until the very end, not because he had to, but because he loved his work that much.

Thirty-five years ago, while working as Public Relations manager for AAA Colorado, Doug placed an ad in the Denver Post for a Publication Artist. I applied for the position, and was called in for an interview.

Chin held high, I confidently walked into the building and asked to see the manager. And then it hit me. What on earth was I doing? I knew nothing about designing publications. My nerves kicked in as I sat alone in his office, waiting for my interviewer to arrive. But from the moment this kind, soft-spoken man entered the room, I was put instantly at ease. Needless to say, I accepted the position, and my life was forever changed.  

Over the next few years, Doug assembled a team of rising journalists and artists and provided a fun environment where we could push the creative envelope. Doug believed in me when I didn’t believe in myself, often gently nudging me into places I didn’t want to go, but was later glad I did. Before long, the Auto Club’s boring, black and white newspaper had transformed into a slick color magazine with the highest circulation in the state. We had done the impossible, because Doug had taught us how to work smart and think outside the box; skills we would use our entire careers.

Doug and I began dating when he left AAA to work for Vail Associates and we were married three years later. The success of the Colorado club soon caught the attention of AAA headquarters in Washington D.C., and Doug went on to work his magic on a national scale. Not only was Doug an amazing writer, editor and publisher, but also a visionary leader who understood the big picture without overlooking the smallest detail—a rare skill in our industry. His talent for contract negotiations became legendary, and both his employers and employees benefited from having worked with him.

Doug left this world much too soon, but I am forever grateful for 34 truly joyful years and the two beautiful daughters we had together. Doug was our rock. We looked to him for guidance and drew upon his strength. And although we are heartbroken to have lost him, we will put to good use the lessons and wisdom he gave us, and Doug’s spirit will live on not only through this scholarship, but in the memories and stories of family, friends and the colleagues who knew him best.  

 

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