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     Fayetteville- Emerson Jean “Emmi” Barbaro,10, of 151 Ellerslie Dr., Fayetteville, NC died Thursday December 27, 2012, while sledding with her best friend and brother, Julian, and her two cousins, at their grandparents home in Dassel, MN. She is survived by her mother and father, Heather and Richard Barbaro; her 5 brothers:  Ryan of Dexter, Michigan (his wife, Devon and children Andrew, Dane, Mae, Nora); Justin of Fayetteville (his fiancée, Callie); Brandon of Chapel Hill; Colin of Chapel Hill (his fiancée, Lauren); and Julian of Fayetteville. She is also survived by her grandparents, Barb and Craig Kay of Dassel, MN; Great grandparents, Orval and Alice Lea of Rushford, MN; Aunt Pamela and Uncle Eric Sandstede of Dassel, MN; Aunt Carrie and Uncle Joel Harmala, and cousins Greta, Ryan, and Darby of Pequot Lakes, MN; Aunt Leah Kay of Duluth, MN (her friend Michael Clark); Aunt Jeanette Bratti of Wantaugh, NY; Aunt Kathy and Uncle Charles Prentice of Inverness, FL.

     Emmi only lived 10 short years, yet she touched the lives of many. She loved Jesus and she loved life! She woke up every day with a smile on her face and joy in her heart. She was a great soccer player for the Fayetteville Force; ran several 5K races; completed 2 triathlons; and loved to swim, tumble, and flip. She dreamed of competing in the Olympics one day; loved to sing; believed in Santa Claus; and savored the good in all people. She conquered her small world with luminous laughter and boundless energy. She was never ready for bed, but always the first one up to start a new day. There were few things that Emmi wasn’t truly good at. She welcomed any challenge with relentless determination. She was never afraid of defeat and win or lose, the result was always the same… a beaming smile from ear to ear. Her small frame carried a big personality and an even bigger heart.

     Unfortunately, a tragic accident ended her life here on this earth. She now sings and plays for Our Lord in Heaven. We miss her so very much!

     A celebration of life will be held at Manna Church (5117 Cliffdale Road, Fayetteville, NC 28314) on Wednesday, January 2, 2013, at 6p.m. preceded by visitation from, 4:30 p.m. until 5:30 p.m. at the same location. Visitation will also be held on Thursday night, January 3, 2013, at Jernigan-Warren Funeral Home from 6p.m. until 8 p.m.

    Emmi had been trying to raise money for the American Heart Association. She would attend Julian's basketball games with her own handmade sign in the lobby in hopes of raising money. She was going to Jump Rope for Heart at her school Fayetteville Academy. 
In the near future, we will be organizing an athletic event to honor Emmi.
We miss her terribly, but we know that we will see her again one day. 

January 15, 2013
January 15, 2013
Angel~Baby, I am a teacher & was drawn to the news today b/c of the jump rope for heart story. I am so touched by your story & my prayers are with your family. I always contribute to this cause in memory of my daddy but I vow from this day foward to make jump rope for heart your angel~versary too. Now go run, tumble & play & if you see a silly lil dauchsund hes mine, pet him for me :)
January 14, 2013
January 14, 2013
We did not know you or your little Emmi, but we know her Aunt Leah and Grandma Barb and Grandpa Craig. We know Emmi was a wonderful little girls because her grandparents and Aunt are some of greatest people we know. We can only imagine your pain, but pray and think of your family daily. Our daughter said it best, Emmi lives on through Leah cause they look and seem to act so much alike.
January 13, 2013
January 13, 2013
Your family is continually in our daily prayers. We pray that your faith will continue to be a source of strength during this sorrowful journey.
Jennifer, Dennis & Sherry Lamberth
January 12, 2013
January 12, 2013
Thank you, Emmi. You have changed many people's lives and will forever impact the world. Our son is starting a project like yours for the American Heart Association in honor of you.
Love,
The Herndons
January 12, 2013
January 12, 2013
To the Barbaro family,
I am so terribly sorry to hear of your tragic loss. Dr. Barbaro has assisted me in Forensic Dentistry & I know him to be the most pleasant & friendly person in his profession. It hurts my heart to know his must be broken at the loss of his daughter. May your faith in the Lord bring you all comfort.
January 10, 2013
January 10, 2013
Dear Heather and Rich,
Chris and I will keep you in our prayers and thoughts, asking God to be with you and bring you peace.
Thinking of you now and in the days to come.
Lisa
January 8, 2013
January 8, 2013
Heartfelt condolences from our family to yours. My heart can only imagine your pain right now. God Bless you and give you the strength you need to live on without your precious girl until the day you see her again in Heaven. Linda (Martin) Anderson and family (Griz Martin's widow).
January 6, 2013
January 6, 2013
Colin and Lauren, you are in my prayers for strenght through this tragic time, as is your entire family. There are no words that can comfort you so I send my thoughts and love. You both have made an impression on me as it sounds like your sister did to many lives daily...see you back at school soon.
January 5, 2013
January 5, 2013
"Dear Richard, Heather and family,

May God continue to comfort you and the family during this most difficult time. You are in our thoughts and prayers."  “ With our deepest condolences to you and your family.
January 5, 2013
January 5, 2013
Rebecca and I are so sorry for your loss. May Emmi's bright warm sunrays shine on us all.
January 4, 2013
January 4, 2013
Dear Heather, Rich and family,
May God continue to comfort you and carry you through this difficult time. Our lives have been blessed and enriched for having known Emmi.

Rhonda and Damian Peterson
January 4, 2013
January 4, 2013
Dear Heather, Rich and family,
May God continue to comfort you and carry you through this most difficult time.
Our lives have been blessed and enriched for having known Emmi.
You are in our thoughts and prayers.
January 4, 2013
January 4, 2013
Words can not describe the loss of a child. Our thoughts and prayers are with the entire Barbaro family!
January 4, 2013
January 4, 2013
Dear Rich, Heather, Julian, and family, The Army's Army will continue to pray for all of you! We are deeply sorry for your loss!
January 4, 2013
January 4, 2013
You all are thought of and prayed for every day.
Vanessa and Clay Wade
January 4, 2013
January 4, 2013
Hi Rich and Heather,

Emmi was and is a wonderful young lady and touched many lives. Please know she continues touching lives today and will forever do so. We love you.

Heather and Mitch Herndon
January 3, 2013
January 3, 2013
Our hearts are so heavy with sadness. Sending our deepest sympathy. As long time patients of the clinic we know how beautiful, loving, caring and giving the entire Barbaro family is. Our prayers are with you. Jerry & Jo Kolstee and Jerry Fitzhugh
January 3, 2013
January 3, 2013
Dear Dr. Barbaro & Heather;
Keith and I want to express our sincere condolences for your loss. There is another star in the heavens tonight. Just know that we are thinking of you during this time. Much Love, Keith & Linda
January 3, 2013
January 3, 2013
Dear Dr. Barbaro and Heather,
We did not have the pleasure of knowing Emmi, but we have been patients of yours for many, many years. You and your family are in our hearts, thoughts, and prayers. The Windley's Cynthia, Thomas, Chris, Nikki, Ashley, Danielle, Meagan, Nicholas, and Alexis
January 3, 2013
January 3, 2013
We have been patients for many years. I enjoyed so much hearing about Emmi, Julian, and the rest of the boys when I came to the office. Our thoughts and prayers will continue to be with your wonderful family. May the Lord comfort you during this tragic time.
Donna and Mel Kanode
January 3, 2013
January 3, 2013
We have been patients for many years and are deeply sorry for your loss. Emmi welcomed Mallory with open arms to the FSC team and always had a warm smile and a kind hello for us. We like to believe Emmi is an angel now,that travels in the sky watching over her parents and siblings. We pray for healing for the family. We will miss you Emmi from the Shelton family
January 3, 2013
January 3, 2013
Always and forever an angel, Emmi had the purest heart. She was a blessing to all of us.
January 3, 2013
January 3, 2013
Julianne & Michalene always enjoyed playing with Emmi during the boys' soccer games. She was always so bright and cheerful and full of life.....a beautiful child. Heather, my heart is completely broken for you. There are no words. We are praying that you may feel His comfort and peace during this most unbelievable time.
January 3, 2013
January 3, 2013
No words could convey what we feel for Emmi's family. I do not think that there are words that exist...We offer our deepest sympathies.
Tara, Jerry, John, Carlee, and Seth Perkins
January 3, 2013
January 3, 2013
Emmi was a beautiful, loving, caring and spirited little and now is a beautiful, loving, caring and spirited angel and I miss her very much. My memories of Emmi started the day she was born. I remember standing in the kitchen when Rich called to let us know that him and Heather had a beautiful little girl. We were thrilled. Although we live in NY and they lived in NC we were always in touch wheth
January 3, 2013
January 3, 2013
She was a really good soccer player. She didn't care whether we won or not. She might have been younger than me but she was way more mature. She always smiled. I'm gonna miss her.
January 3, 2013
January 3, 2013
Our family sends our deepest sympathy and prayers.
January 3, 2013
January 3, 2013
I was in tears the day I found out about beautiful Emmi, I was her school counselor at Fayetteville Academy for 3 years and the Barbaro children are wonderful blessings from God. I will cherish her smile, laughter, and good times at the FA. I pray for the family to continue her remarkable legacy and I wish I was there and didn't have to move to assist in supporting Emmi's school, family.
January 3, 2013
January 3, 2013
" The Lord is near to those who are broken-hearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit." Psalm 34:18
We are deeply saddened to hear about the death of Emmi. May God bless Dr. Barbaro, Heather and the Barbaro Family.
Sincerely, Janet and Nick Grubich
        Lisa and Matt Compton
January 3, 2013
January 3, 2013
Emmi was a truly wonderful child. Her sweetness and kindness infected everyone she met. Her spirit will live on in those who knew and loved her. I consider myself lucky to have known her. You're in our thoughts Barbaro family.
January 3, 2013
January 3, 2013
Our deepest condolances to your family.

The Ivan & Shannon Duerk Family
January 3, 2013
January 3, 2013
Ive grown up playing soccer with Emmi, and going to school with her. She was a amazing soccer player, and beautiful sweet girl! My family and my cousin Holden and his family love Emmi so much and her family, and she will always be in our hearts. We love you so much emmi! - Lauren Matthews and family
January 3, 2013
January 3, 2013
Heather I am your cousin and am deeply sorry for your loss. I hope that some day you can look up in the sky and see a star shining brightly down at you, and know that it is your sweet daughter looking down on you and smiling like she did every morning. Many prayers for you and your family.
January 3, 2013
January 3, 2013
I have been a patient of yours since 1988 and I realized when I met you what a compassionate person you were from the way you treated me and my and my girls and now I still come to your office. My heart goes out to you and your family with the loss of your only daughter. I will keep you and your family in my prayers and pray that god will strengthen all of you
January 2, 2013
January 2, 2013
What a beautiful little girl with a beautiful family! They have been through my line many times at Harris Teeter - Emmi was always smiling & so polite. I will miss seeing her. You could tell she was so happy with life. Barbaro Family - you are all in my prayers at this difficult time.
January 2, 2013
January 2, 2013
Our family is deeply sadden and our hearts go out to the whole Barbaro family. We are so sorry for the loss of such a shining star, Emmi. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

John & Peggy Graham, Wendy, Theresa, Hilda & Lucas
January 2, 2013
January 2, 2013
I had the privilege of meeting Emmi in concessions at the last BB game at FA before Christmas. Her smile and outgoing personality were infectious. She worked diligently taking orders and making change, she impressed all of the adults that were there. I will never forget her sweet smile. May God be with her family and friends, she made the world a better place for everyone that met her.
January 2, 2013
January 2, 2013
Emmi is a beautiful angel sitting at the feet of God! Watching over her mom and dad and brothers forever! My love and prayers to all the family.
January 2, 2013
January 2, 2013
Our hearts are broken for you, and our prayers are with you always.
With our deepest sympathy,
David and Phillis
January 2, 2013
January 2, 2013
On behalf of John & Ricky Britt, we offer our sincere condolences to all of Emmi's friends and family at this time.
January 2, 2013
January 2, 2013
To Heather and Family,
I am so deeply saddened for the loss of your beautiful baby girl. Heather you were so kind to me when Brian passed and I'll never forget it. This is so unimaginable. I took comfort in reading these tributes and I hope you will as well. I was never able to meet Emmi but I feel like I know her from your love for her. God bless you all.
January 2, 2013
January 2, 2013
I'm so sorry to have heard the news of Emmi's passing. My heart aches for the entire Barbaro family. We are sending love and prayers your way.
January 2, 2013
January 2, 2013
Rich, Heather and family. Our family sends you our deepest sympathy. There are no amount of words that can express the sorrow we feel for all of you. Ryan, Justin, Brandon and Colin my prayers are with you always. You all have grown to be amazing adults and I know you will provide your Dad and Heather unimaginable support. We love you all and are praying for you.
January 2, 2013
January 2, 2013
Emerson I never had the honor of meeting you but I new your mother and father for many years. There warm, caring and loving spirit shines a bright light on things they touch. Emerson you have inherit that awesome gift and wonderful spirit. Your light shines even brighter in heaven. One day I will have the honor of meeting you. Until then keep shinning your light down on us. God Bless...
January 2, 2013
January 2, 2013
My heart is heavy and crying with you Heather, Rich, Julian and your entire family over the loss of beautiful Emmi. My prayers and love are with you always. Chris
January 2, 2013
January 2, 2013
Dave and I are loss for words but our hearts share with your family and Special Prayers are being said for your family and Emmi friends. In thought we remain, Linda, Dave, and Danyelle Ridley
January 2, 2013
January 2, 2013
"Emmi was a great friend. I will always hold close the memories of the fun times we shared at school, texting, and especially working together on Jump Rope for the Heart. I know Llewie is there in heaven to take care of you. I will forever miss you Emmi." Prayers to Julian,Dr. and Mrs. Barbaro, and your entire family.
January 2, 2013
January 2, 2013
We are heartbroken over the loss of your beloved Emmi~ We are with you & your families in spirit & prayer. With love, The DeCorts & Whitmans
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Good morning sweet Emmi
mom and I spent the night at the condo. I believe it was the earliest time of the year that I took the boat out. 70 degrees on January 27. I cruised down the waterway to Grand Dunes, then turned around slowly enjoying the beauty of the morning. The water was glass, no wind, and very little boat traffic. It was an exceptional morning, spent thinking of you and your love of the water. I miss you!

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11 years ago, I got up early and hid eggs along the waterway at Myrtle Beach. You loved racing  around the lawn, looking for the egg laden treasures, trying to grab more eggs than your brother. I always enjoyed your enthusiasm and your unconditional belief in the good in people. You left this earth believing in the tooth fairy, Santa Clause, the Easter bunny, and most importantly in the Risen Lord. I love you today and forever. Your earthly presence continues to be felt in the little things; your absence hurts. You’d be approaching your 21st birthday, yet I’m sure your enthusiasm for Easter egg hunts and your faith in Our Lord would be profoundly felt. 
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December 27, 2022
It’s been 10 years without Emmi
It’s almost hard to believe. It’s not the way I ever intended for her life to be. I had so many hopes and dreams for her. As a parent, her future in my eyes was so full of wonderful things. It wasn’t for me to decide though. She was only 10. In her short life she brought so much joy. Her sense of humor, her contagious laugh, her kindness, her love for one another, her faith are some of the things I loved about her. She didn’t know the impact she had on others. Why did she have to leave us soon? It’s because it was time. Going down the road of trying to figure out why is not a good place to go. It will be a never ending road. You truly have to accept that now is not your time to know. One day we will all be together and understand. Death is not the end. It’s just the beginning. Our time here on earth is just, but a small moment of time. No where in the Bible does it say that we will be free from hurt and pain on earth. While we are here, we are to love one another. Live life with love, faith, grace and kindness. Love is hard. I gave birth to Emmi, but never did I think I would watch as she started her eternal life. That’s what love is. It’s every beautiful and painful emotion you can have for someone you love. We are to try and live the best way that Jesus taught us. We will fumble along the way, but we still need to try and get back up and give it another shot. We are ALL gifts from above. Each and every one of us. One day we will all meet our Father. When, is not a question that can be answered. 
There are no words to ever describe what it is like to lose a child. At times I feel as if I can not breathe. Yet, I know she would not want that. The love never ends. I know in my heart she is cheering us on. Loving us and guiding us along this path we are on. As she said on the day she left us, “This is the best day ever!” It was her best day ever. She met her Heavenly Father. What more could I ever want for my daughter? She received the greatest gift of all. Eternal life✝️
I love and miss you so much, Emmi 
Emerson “Emmi” Jean Barbaro
October 14, 2002-December 27, 2012

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