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This memorial website was created in memory of Emily Oladunni Abiodun, to honour and to celebrate her inspiring life and legacy and to provide a platform for family and friends to reflect on her life, share thoughts and memories as well as inspire and support each other. We deeply love, miss and remember her always.


“Then, when our mortal bodies have been transformed into bodies that will never die, the Scripture will be fulfilled: death is swallowed up in victory” - 1 Corinthians 15:54

And this is the promise ... the life everlasting - 1 John 2:25
 


Appreciation      
 

We use this medium to express our appreciation of the various support from our relatives, our church family at C.C.C. Bristol, UK, friends at home and abroad, all colleagues from OAUTHC Ile-Ife, Nigeria, Cossham Gardens Bristol, RCCG Overcomers' House Bristol, and the support network from all over, who with unsurpassed affection and sympathies rallied round the family before and after our beloved's passing and at our times of profound grief.

We acknowledge the unquantifiable parting farewell from everyone present at the service of songs in Bristol and the interment at the family residence in Ilesa, Nigeria.

Ki Oluwa Je k'ojo jina si 'ra, Ese O.
Ven. M.S.E Akinfenwa Abiodun - for the family     

September 25, 2016
September 25, 2016
You are always on my mind Mummy. Your memories and legacies are cherished. I look forward to seeing and rejoicing with you at Jesus' feet, and may your memory be richly blessed.
September 25, 2016
September 25, 2016
May your soul continue to find perfect rest. You are , and will forever remain in our heart. We missed you dearly.
September 25, 2016
September 25, 2016
3years on mummy Abiodun we will fovever miss u. The Fashorantis
July 7, 2016
July 7, 2016
Been thinking about you today mummy, as I have done every day since your passing and just imagining how wonderful life would have been with you around. I miss you, miss you, miss you!
Continue to rest in perfect peace. xx
September 26, 2015
September 26, 2015
May your gentle soul continue to rest in perfect peace. Amin
September 25, 2015
September 25, 2015
Abiyamo boja gborogboro!!! You are sorely missed Mummy. Continue to rest in the bosom of the Lord.
September 25, 2015
September 25, 2015
Morning to a beautiful, generous, caring and loving Aunty. Can't belief is two years already. Time has passed. But you are always in our thoughts. You are greatly missed. Love you Aunty Emily. Keep resting in God's blossom.
September 25, 2015
September 25, 2015
Two years on and it feels like you were gone yesterday. Your absence in our lives is greatly felt.
The Lord blessed you with another grandson (Olufela) a few months ago. It has not been easy without you, but the great Comforter has been faithful.
He will grow up knowing he has an amazing grandmother in heaven. You are sorely missed Mum. May God continue to bless your memory.
September 25, 2015
September 25, 2015
Aunts, you were really and truly missed. May your loving gentle soul continue to rest in perfect peace. We love you but God loves you most. We thank God for His love and care over your children . Your memory remain evergreen in the lives you touched.
September 25, 2015
September 25, 2015
Mummy sunday school as we all call you.....You lived an exemplary life and a life worthy of emulation, you loved everybody around you. The lessons you thought us and the life you lived will forever be remembered. Although it saddens our heart but we have this consolation that you were called home to reign with Jesus....Isaiah 57:1.
We love you but Jesus loves you most...Rest on mummy
June 9, 2015
June 9, 2015
Mummy "IFE" as i used to call you,you came, you saw,you fought & you conquered. You lived as a role model to everyone around you, you stretched your hands of generosity far & wide, You ensured i gained admission into nursing school & u stood by me all thru'. As am writing this tribute, i still shed tears as if i just hear of ur demise, continue to rest in ur creator's bosom,Your good legacies will forever be remembered.
April 1, 2015
April 1, 2015
You would have been 64 years old today.
I miss you very much and desperately wish I could have more of you than just the photographs and memories. But I believe you are in that tranquil, happy place and I hope you are smiling knowing that we your children will take you with us whatever we do, wherever we go.

Happy heavenly birthday Mum. x
October 8, 2014
October 8, 2014
Here the dearest of ties we must sever
Tears of sorrow are seen everyday
But no weeping, no sighing forever
When I've gone the last mile of the way

Mummy, it's painful accepting the reality that you're gone forever.
But it's comforting to know that you've gone to be with The Lord.
In life, you were courageous. In death, you were victorious.
Rest on Mama; you'll forever be in our hearts.
We'll continue to love you.
Adieu!
October 3, 2014
October 3, 2014
Dearest mum,

So hard to find my voice to ever speak
So hard to find the lines to ever use
So let me mumble and whisper my thoughts
As I pay a tribute to your resting soul
To the dearest mother the world could hold
I've spent the whole year thinking of you
And the past seven days celebrating your life
Your bravery, your strength, your courage
Your cherished smile, your heart of gold
Happy memories, fond and true

Never will I forget the day I first met you
You accepted me as a son wholeheartedly
If there ever exist a true, inexhaustible love
Yours to me was exemplary
Loving, caring, giving the whole of the way
Oh! how dearly I wish you have lived on
But your passing on is a constant reminder
That tomorrow is a gift, today is what we own
So I thought I should use your remembrance to say this
Not to you dear mother 'cause you're safe and free now
But to us the living, friends and acquaintances alike..................
         
          ''gather ye rosebuds while ye may
           old time is still a-flying
           cause this same flower that smiles today
           tomorrow will wither and die''"
October 2, 2014
October 2, 2014
Mummy , I can't begin to describe how deeply it hurts to come to terms with the realisation that you are no longer within reach. All you wanted was for us all to do well and I'm thankful when I think about the sacrifices you made for us all, my husband and children inclusive.
You built a happier life for everyone of us, we are all who we are and where we are today because God helped you to do the best you could by us.
So much still for you to see, so much joy still to share, i cannot but wish you are here. Ooh! the pain of wanting to call you and remembering that's only a wish.
But I take solace and comfort in the knowledge that we shall meet at the feet of our Lord Jesus Christ where we shall be together forever. Continue to rest from all your good works.
You will forever be loved, missed and celebrated 'cause you completed your assignment and you did an excellent job of it.
September 27, 2014
September 27, 2014
I didn't know Emily but I know the pain that many of you feel. Charlotte mentioned Isa. 57:1,2. Verse 15 went on further to say that the lord resides with those crushed and lowly in spirit. Thank goodness he is there to comfort you. He also made a promise to us at Isa. 25:8. What a joy it will be when that is fulfilled and then you will experience John 5:28,29. Sorry for your loss. But the god of comfort is there for you.
September 27, 2014
September 27, 2014
Mummy,
We love but God loves you more.
Continue to rest in the bossom of the Lord till we meet to part no more.
September 26, 2014
September 26, 2014
The best life one can live is to serve God, be a blessing to others, put smiles on others faces and then reproduce after one's kind. Mum as done just that. She is not dead but very alife in all the lives she touched. Sleep on mum.
September 26, 2014
September 26, 2014
I remember those days when myself, folakemi and Bayo were younger, you looked after us like we were yours. We never missed our Sunday lunch after church at the house. And you use to make sure sis Anu and sis Tinuke cut our nails before meal. And myself and folakemi's use to hide in the room but u always know our spots and fish us out. You are a caring, loving, devoted mother and wife. you were not only blessing to your family but to everyone around you. And I am happy and grateful to God that you played a part in my childhood. We love you and miss you lots. Keep on resting in God's blossom.
September 26, 2014
September 26, 2014
Mummy,
It's a year now that you went to be with the Lord. I am reminded constantly of your love, devotion, sacrifice, smile, humour, charisma, industry, generosity, determination, strength of character, wisdom, courage and fortitude. You are sorely missed. Continue to rest in Jesus and may your memory continue to be blessed.
September 26, 2014
September 26, 2014
It's been a year since your passing and it's heartbreaking just like every other day that you are no longer with us and life is definitely not the same. Life can change in an instant and that's exactly what has happened, the pain is unbearable thinking of those last moments with you but in Christ alone I push on. We remember the shining light and a true source of strength you were to your family. As a mother where do I start, you were simply the best anyone could ask for and I will continue to hold on tight to the good memories we shared. Forever missed, Forever loved!
September 26, 2014
September 26, 2014
We thought of you today
But that is nothing new
We thought of you yesterday
And will tomorrow too
We think of you in silence
And make no outward show
For what it meant to lose you
Only those who love you know
Remembering you is easy
We do it everyday
Its the heartache of losing you
That will never go away
September 25, 2014
September 25, 2014
Emily,
It's been one year without you by our side. We cannot begin to describe life without you this past year and we grieve for you each passing day but we take solace in the resurrection, when we shall together join the church triumphant. We greatly love and very much miss you.
September 25, 2014
September 25, 2014
Today marks exactly one year since the Lord called you home. Life has not been the same without you Mummy. Every single day, I think about you, dream about you and long to speak to you. I love you and I miss you so very much.
Sleep on my Mother, keep on rejoicing with the Angels, till I see you on ressurection day.
September 25, 2014
September 25, 2014
I hear your voice Mum saying to us:

As I sit in heaven
And watch you all everyday
I try to let you know with signs
I never went away
I hear you when you are all laughing
And watch you when you sleep
I even place my arms around you
To calm you as you weep
I see you wish the days away
Begging to have me home
So I try to send you signs
So you know you are not alone
Don't feel guilty that you have
Life that was denied to me
Heaven is truly beautiful
Just you wait and see
So live your life, laugh again
Enjoy yourself, be free
Then I know with every breath you take
You will be taking one for me.
September 25, 2014
September 25, 2014
Its been so..... so hard MUM
The road to this one year has not been easy
But I thank the Holy Spirit for the reassurance He has given
That we will meet again on resurrection day
Sleep on Dearest Mother, till we meet again to sing Hallelujah together
May your soul continue to Rest In Peace.
September 25, 2014
September 25, 2014
Is a year today Big Mummy, your memory lingers on. I remember you calling me "Funke mi" anytime we talked on phone. My solace is that you have gone to rest with our Lord Jesus Christ. Sleep on Dearest mom till we meet to part no more.
September 25, 2014
September 25, 2014
Continue to rest in peace darling mummy. I never had the chance to see you face to face, but through our phone conversation, you were indeed a great mother to your children and loving wife to your darling husband. Continue to rest in peace.
September 25, 2014
September 25, 2014
I close my eyes as I wipe a tear.
I just keep wishing you were still here.
I will hold all the memories deep in my heart.
Through these memories will never part.

I close my eyes as I wipe a tear.
I just keep wishing this pain would disappear.
I didn't get the chance to say my last good-bye.
I just didn't think you could ever die.

I close my eyes as I wipe a tear.
All of your love I will always hold near.
In my heart and my mind I will never be alone.
When my time comes......
I will meet you in heaven!
WE LOVE AND MISS YOU!

MAY YOUR SOUL FIND PERFECT REST!
September 25, 2014
September 25, 2014
You raised such strong children. I was so shocked at the news of your passing because even after visiting you in the hospital, Folake spoke with such strong conviction that you'd be fine and I believed her. They never gave up on you and even though it was a very stressful period, they carried themselves gracefully. I was in awe of how they stood during this period and it's only a testament to your own strength. You were always kind and welcoming and I wish this never happened but God knows best. We all miss you. May God continue to keep the beautiful family you left behind. Till we meet again.
September 25, 2014
September 25, 2014
Mother Hen!
I call you Mother Hen because you were like a Hen that protects her chicks from danger with her feathers. My first encounter with you should be 1992 at SPUSSA, I remember you gave me N5.00 when you came to visit Feyikemi, my darling friend on visiting day. Indefatigable you were, highly spirited and energetic. Hospitality personified! Rest on dear mum.
September 25, 2014
September 25, 2014
Today makes it a year that you left us all to the world beyond. You will forever be in our hearts, continue to rest on in the bossom of your maker. We will always luv you MUM
September 25, 2014
September 25, 2014
Aunty, your death came to me as a surprise, Its still unbelievable but I know you have entered Mount Zion, the heavenly Jerusalem, the city of the living God. You have entered his gates with singing, and everlasting joy crowns your head. Gladness and joy have overtaken you, and sorrow and sighing have fled away. May your gentle soul continue to rest in peace.
September 25, 2014
September 25, 2014
Aunty- I still find it difficult that you are gone. That you departed this sinful world a year ago, its still very difficult and unimaginable. We console our-self in the fact that we believe you have entered into the bosom of the Almighty God.

Since your watch word has always been to make Heaven.You did live an exceptional live worthy of emulation. We all call you Aunty because you were loving, caring, accommodating & always supportive.

Your memories will forever be evergreen.

We Love You but God Love you most
September 25, 2014
September 25, 2014
Big mumm, u left us, wen we least excepted, I just can't stop telling my friends abt u, cos of d wonderful life u lived, I waswaiting for d day I will call u n tell u dat am a graduate,I am one nw,but I am unable to tell u,I remember ur lovely greeting on fone" helo my dear" tho, am unable to tell u,I will still dedicate my school project work to u and to God. May ur gentle soul continue to rest in perfect peace,miss u plenty
September 25, 2014
September 25, 2014
Mummy, I am still in shock about your passing, even though it's a year but it's still very fresh to me. More like I am in denial, I wish it never happened but I know you are in a better place and that is the only thing that gives me a little relief. You were indeed a mum, always happy to have us around. Always concerned about us(the whole Esho family). I remember how happy you were when I brought my son Foluwa to Bristol, you made sure we had the best of time. You were always loving and kind and generous towards us. You are a great rare gem and I love you so much. We all miss you mum, continue rest with The Lord until we meet again at the feet of Jesus.
September 24, 2014
September 24, 2014
I met mummy for the first time when I followed sister Feyi home from Akure to Ilesha for mid term break. Mum took me in like I was her biological daughter. She accepted and loved me. She shared her delicious meals and took time to mentor me. I miss you mummy.
You remain a rare gem and you have a special place in my heart
September 24, 2014
September 24, 2014
I remember the first time we met like it was yesterday. I was a bit nervous meeting you for the first time, but within 5 minutes I already felt quite relaxed. You were a lovely person, warm and hospitable, caring and pleasant. From the other times we met, I also remember you having quite a sense of humour. We knew each other for a short time, I wish it could have been longer. Only God knows why the good die young, you'll be forever missed and loved. Continue to rest in the Lord...
September 24, 2014
September 24, 2014
Isaiah 57:1-2
Good people pass away, the godly often die before their time. But no one seems to care or wander why. No one seems to understand that God is protecting them from the evil to come.
For those who follow godly paths will rest in peace when they die.
I remember those days in phase 3 quarters OAUTHC, You were a real sister, a confidant and a good mentor. We love you sister but God loves you more. May your soul rest in perfect peace.
September 22, 2014
September 22, 2014
Aunty you left at the time you were needed most. Your mode of life is worthy of emulation. You took good care of my mother till you died. Your good works will remain a legacy for us all. May your soul find perfect rest.
September 22, 2014
September 22, 2014
I remember you taking and accepting me into your home,
I remember you treating me like one of your own
I remember the family bond we all shared at ‘111’
I remember your concerns about my welfare & future
I remember you telling me to go out and have fun when you felt I was home sick
I remember you insisted I had a proper graduation party
I remember how we all had a laugh whenever you said or did something out of the ordinary
I remember us having a laugh whenever you brought Ijesha into British words
I remember we talked about everything possible...
I remember all the football matches we watched together on TV at ‘111’
I remember you eating out of my ‘musco sauce’
I remember you became my mother for three good years
So many things to remember but still very hard to believe you are gone.
September 22, 2014
September 22, 2014
Mummy Emily Oladunni Abiodun was a disciplined, hardworking, and a devoted Christian. She was a smart, quiet and easy going woman; fondly loved by everyone who had contact with her because of her amiable character. She was a very humble, articulate and a very intelligent nurse who would carry out her duties very professionally and to detail. Mummy cherished being neat and good looking in her very best. She was gond of saying and I quote “ko se mi ki mi ni wo bata o da ati aso o da re bise, ohun lohun mowo wole”.

She was a peace-loving woman who demonstrated this attribute by mending so many homes that had challenges which would have otherwise led to a break-up; through her wealth of wisdom and experience. She was very frank, honest and straightforward. She would never hide her feelings; she would tell you the plain truth if you made a mistake without any fear or favouritism.

Mummy was a mother who loved her children, brothers and sisters. She was very fond and proud of them all as she talk about them with every sense of cordiality and love. Undoubtedly, Mummy was from a very united family that care for one another. She was also a generous woman who would gladly contribute responsibly towards any doings (such as marriages, birthdays, house-warmings, naming ceremonies etc) that colleagues and friends might be involved in. She would equally offer both moral and physical support with good and comforting advice through challenging times. Indeed she would be greatly missed.

What can I say more about you Mummy! You deserved to live longer and reap the fruits of your good works but death snatched you away from us suddenly when we did not expect. Little wonder an agade says “igi to tọ, kii pe nigbo”.
We love you but Jesus loves you most but we are glad that you knew Jesus and you feared God. Mummy, sleep well in the bossom of our Lord until we meet again in Paradise. Good night Mummy.
September 22, 2014
September 22, 2014
Adieu, Adieu, Adieu my Friend!
The bible says in Ecclesiastes 3 that there is a time to be born and time to die. But what matters is how we live our lives. You have made an indelible mark in our hearts. It grieves our heart to gather together without you; you have been a very good friend, sister and colleague for several years, a strong supporter and encourager of many.
Several moons ago when we first met, you created a formidable impact in my life as well as many others. Subsequent years, you have been established as a dependable sister and friend not only to me but to several others in different walks of life.

Adieu Emily, the wind blows us in many directions; we sprout, grow and die. However you have planted something that can never die, your love, kindness and friendliness will be our legacy that can never be taken away. I will miss you greatly. Good night.
September 22, 2014
September 22, 2014
Auntie Emily was my elder sister from another mother. My husband Demola, my mum, siblings and children are so fond of you in appreciation of your encouragement, advice, prayers, and for always being there for us. You were an embodiment of love, humility and courage. Your commitment to God, your husband, children and siblings made you my mentor.
We love you sister Ladun but God loves you more. Goodnight.
September 22, 2014
September 22, 2014
The News of your death came as a big shock; we never expected it to be. We remember the motherly/sisterly role you played in our lives as an outstanding, loving, and caring mother/sister. The Memory of the just is blessed - the Lord will prosper all the works you’ve left behind. Goodnight!!! Until we meet to part no more.
September 22, 2014
September 22, 2014
Sister ’Ladun, you have fought a good fight, you touched several lives positively, your toil is over. May your great soul find peace with your Maker. Sleep on beloved till the resurrection day when we shall meet at Jesus’ feet and part no more.
September 22, 2014
September 22, 2014
A rare gem has gone! It is unbelievable that death could take you at this time when you just started reaping the fruits of your good work and labour over your children and the younger relations.
People testified that you sang praises to God throughout your illness unto your death. Therefore I take solace knowing that you are with our Maker.
“Aunty” as she was fondly called was very pleasant, friendly and motherly, very supportive and a giver. I can re-call all foreign currencies in our possession; clothing, and several gifts were given by her. She voluntarily and singlehandedly paid for my “adaptation course” in the UK. She made me marry my wife. Always a peacemaker and a good counsellor, she was ever so grateful and kind any time assistance was offered to her.
“Aunty” how could I forget your frequent phone calls asking about everybody at home. I cannot forget our chats on facebook. The last time I spoke to you was during Aanu’s wedding introduction when you expressed your appreciation and prayed for all those that were present.

You loved everyone that came in contact with you and helped so many. The nurses at OAUTHC will never forget you.
“Aunty” how I wish you were here, Adieu O. May your gentle soul rest in perfect peace in the bosom of our Lord Jesus Christ. Good Night Ma.
September 22, 2014
September 22, 2014
The news of your death came to us as a shock. We could hardly believe it, and we can never comprehend how your death has come so soon. We cannot but shed tears when we remember your kind of person; you are one in a million, so loving, so caring, so peaceful and meek, you are always set at making peace in every situation. We wish you were still around, losing you so soon moves us to tears always, but we know that God knows best, as we believe He alone gives life and He alone can demand for a man's life.
You will forever be remembered, continue to rest on in the bosom of our Lord Jesus Christ till we meet to part no more. Adieu! Adieu!! Adieu!!! to our beloved Sister.
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September 27, 2023
September 27, 2023
10 years!
All I can remember is a shinningstar with a good heart and a great lover of all in Christ. You loved so deeply Mama❤️
Continue to rest in peace ️❤️
September 27, 2023
September 27, 2023
10 years already and the only thing I am grateful for is being fully sure I will see you again because in our tribe, death isn’t the end. If I don’t remember anything about you, I remember how you prioritized family either close or distant, you really made yourself a good example big mummy. You shared love, made sacrifices, gave your time, you gave gifts, you gave your resources and fostered unity. You really kept everyone dear to you at heart and these qualities are very rare but these qualities tells so much of who you are. The devil really lost when you left because what he didn’t know is you replicated your qualities in many lives you touched and because to be absent in the body is to be present with the lord and that’s a win. I miss you and I sometimes imagine how things would be if you were still here. Love you big mummy❤️❤️
Kayode Oyewole
September 27, 2023
September 27, 2023
From the very beginning, when I first saw Mommy, I was totally accepted. She made me feel right at home…In fact, I honestly don’t remember ever going through an awkward transition from being a stranger to being the son-in-law. She welcomed me from the very first day she saw me.

She welcomed me into the family with open arms and helped me build my own. I will forever admire your generosity and kindness. Although you are gone, I see you every day in my wife and our children I’m grateful to God that I had you as a mother-in-law. Mommy’s compassion for others was so deep!

She treated others with kindness and respect and many lives were blessed through her goodness.. But even in grief, we know we are so lucky to have had this loving mother in our lives and, now, in our hearts forever.

Thank you for being a loving and caring mother. May your soul find serenity in the afterlife.” “Though we say goodbye, your memory will forever live on. Rest peacefully Iyawo baba Abiodun.

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