Eni, we ALL miss you! No day goes by that I don’t think about you.

Love you loads my Eni!

Eniola Oluwaseun Adenubi…it’s 5 years already!!! I mean 5 years gone like that…5 years of your absence, of your sudden exit….of your presence in our home…Among us, among family and friends!!!

We feel your absence everyday but I am consoled knowing that you are in a much better place and singing hallelujah with the Angels!
Lending your kindness and gentleness with the Heavens.

Heaven’s gain but our loss

We miss you everyday and you will live forever in the hearts of those that loved you the most!
The children and I miss you but we know you are watching over us!

Continue to rest in the bosom of the Almighty till resurrection day


Continue to rest in peace Gentle Giant mi ♥️

Just passing by… Miss you bro!

Beloved Eniola.

Your time on Earth was not wasted my angel. You touched so many people while you were with us and in a way many who have been gifted with more days than you ever achieve.

I am encouraged in the knowledge that you had a strong relationship with your Saviour and as we know He is faithful even when we do not understand all His ways.

You left behind a beautiful family who will hopefully gain strength in knowing a very different Father in Heaven. A Father that only those who experience the deepest heartbreak can know and reach.

We know we all will find eternity one day and I hope to see you in Glory with Heavenly worship and joyous fellowship.

Rest well in Him beloved Eni

Happy 48th Birthday my Gentle Giant. You are not here with us anymore, but I still choose to celebrate you. Temi, Toni and Tami miss you over here. I am sure you are dancing with the Angels. It hasn’t gotten better, it still hurts like the day you left. Thank you for memories, that’s all I have and hold on to. Thank you for loving me the way you did. You were too good to be true.                           Continue to rest in peace my darling.

Eni, so sad and miss you. Can’t believe it’s now 4 years. You were an amazing person. Grateful to have known you.

Eni, May your soul continue to rest in perfect peace. May the Lord continue to strengthen and protect your wife and children. May they always find comfort in the wonderful memories they have of you.

Dear Eni,

It has been exactly 4 years since you left us all suddenly at 4:20pm to be precise……, it still feels like a dream…… Please wake me up!!!!!That was the day my life changed and a part of me died……It has been tough and very lonely without you my Darling Gentle Giant. Life has not been the same without you for your 3 Ts. It’s a pain that I have mastered to live with and function everyday with, it just doesn’t go away no matter how I try ! I am shattered, broken, downcast……………! Time does absolutely nothing, it doesn’t heal, doesn’t make things better………..!


Thank you for loving me, spoiling me, indulging me, letting me be, your patience with me was out of this world ….hmmmm ……………….! You understood me perfectly. Thank you for giving me the best days of my life Eni. You were an amazing husband and father. Like I always say, you loved me and did not care if I loved you back, you lived your life to please me and make me happy.

Toni and Tami have been amazing, I see you through them every day, they are a constant reminder of you. Tami is in secondary school now, can you believe it? They both are all grown up now.

Eni, no day goes by without me thinking of you, I often close my eyes and imagine what life would have been with you here and also stay up at night and take a walk down memory lane, hmmmm…….!

God knows best………!

You made amazing friends while on this side and they have all been awesome. You all know yourselves. They have constantly showered our Ts and myself with love. God bless you all. Your Siblings and their Spouses too have been incredibly supportive , your entire family have been wonderful.

All my sister friends have been amazing too. You all know who you are.

They have all made this journey easy for me. God bless you all.

We all miss you Eni……

Eniola, I know you are in a better place, you are at peace with no worries of the world.

Till we meet to part no more.


Temi ( TemTem)

In tears I saw you.I watched you. My heart is broken.you fought so hard to stay.but when I know you are sleeping peacefully free from pain.I could not wish for you to be back to suffer that again.
You were my best friend the bond was never to be broken. You are a true legend who will always live among us. I miss you my darling. Life has never been the same.

Continue to rest in peace my Gentle Giant.

I’ll forever love you.

Your Tem-Tem

Happy birthday cuz.
May your soul rest in perfect peace.
God bless

It's your birthday today Eni, I miss you and wonder what could have been. God is watching over Temi, Toni and Tami. Temi is being an amazing mum with God's help.

Rest well dear cuz, you are in my heart always.

Love,

Arams

My darling Eni, Its still so surreal however we carry on knowing you at the right hand of the Lord. Happy posthumous birthday cuz!!! Continue to rest in peace.

Happy Birthday Cuz
I know you are no longer with us but I am convinced you are with the Father cheering us on. We will all finish well in Jesus mighty name. How's Aunty and Uncle doing? Do send my love to them. Missing you all so much. Still feels like a dream Eni.

Here's an update on your beautiful wife Temi. She has been great and looking beautiful as always. She is also doing a great job with the children and I am so sure you are proud of her. One thing I am sure of is that God will never leave them nor forsake them. They are secure in His arms.

Rest on Cuz for God is looking after the entire family. You are loved. Keep cheering us on. Oh I released my 1st single. Please inform uncle and aunty. They will be pleased to hear this.

God knows best. Keep resting
MBeloved

Eniola Oluwaseun Adenubi, my darling husband, My Gentle Giant, Happy Birthday in Heaven . Even though you are no longer with us, I still choose to celebrate you today. I am sure you are having a truly amazing time up in heaven. I sometimes look up and wonder if you know how much I miss you, I am lost without you my Darling Husband . I wish I had one more chance to see your happy smile (Toni smiles just like you), to laugh and celebrate with you.

Eni, we will never be apart even though you are not here with me, I’ll hold on to you forever. My heart is broken. I think of you every second.

I fight this battle every single day Eni; this heart ache just won’t go away. I miss our conversations; I miss how I could tell you everything. You left us suddenly, you didn’t even have the chance to say goodbye. I did not see this coming. A part of me is dead. Everyone says time heals, I honestly don’t know what they mean. I have just learnt to live with the hurt I feel and accept It ……….

You were a rare breed Eni!!!! Yoruba people say “ Okunrin Meta” ( meaning 3 men in one) Eni, you were far and above that, you were Okunrin Mewa ( Ten men in one) this does not still do justice to the Husband and father you were to Temi, Toni and Tami. You were an amazing father and husband. You left a legacy without blemish Eni.

All you wanted was for me to be happy Eni. You loved me unconditionally and you did not even need me to love you in the same way. People tell me to focus on the good times, there were never bad times with you, all I had with you were good times.

This day will always be special……….

Thank you for giving me the best days of my life Eni.

Happy 47th Birthday in heaven my darling Husband and continue to Rest in Peace.

Your Wife

Tem Tem

Dad I have missed you since the day you left and it still hurts the same even though I had 8 fantastic years with you. Life can never be the same without you. You are dearly missed by everyone. I have continued to be top of my class to make you happy.
My favorite memories with you was going golfing or playing video games with you. I wish you were still here. I will love you forever.
from your darling daughter Tami

Missing you Eni. Its painful living without you.No day goes by that I don't think about you.

your Tem Tem

Continue to rest Eni. 
Still can't believe you are gone.
May the good Lord continually keep and protect Temi and the kids. You are greatly missed cuz. God knows best.
We are now in 2022 and time is surely moving extremely fast. My prayer is that we all finish well

Remembering you Eni,
Feels like yesterday you were still with us , with your big smile and tender heartedness. Continue to rest in peace.

Eniola Oluwaseun Adenubi, its been 3 painful years since you left me without saying goodbye, It was one the most tragic days of my life. Eniola my darling husband, it still hurts like the day you left the kids and I, it hasn’t gotten better no matter how hard I try. I have just learnt to live with this pain that won’t go away my darling and I will always carry the pain with me. This sadness and hurt will never go away. Living without you is the hardest part for me and it breaks my heart every day.

My world is not the same without you Eni, you will always be that missing piece. I wish I could see you for just one more time, I wish I could just talk to you for a minute. I have come to accept that it is impossible. I still struggle with why you had to die Eni, I struggle with why someone as amazing as you had to die. I have so many unanswered questions……….

The hurt I felt when you left me runs deep Eni, It was so quick, I struggle with not having the opportunity to let you know how much I love you. I am in complete despair, I am shattered, heartbroken,………………………..!


Toni and Tami have been amazing, we have a teenager now, can you believe it??? 

I know there is a reason, but I am yet to know the reason…………

Eniola words can never say how much I miss you everyday. We always talk about you, we can never forget you Eni. I have never stopped loving you my darling Eni and will always love you.

Thank you for giving me the best days of my life.
Thank you for showering me with unconditional love.
Thank you for letting me be.
Thank you for overindulging and spoiling me rotten.
Thank you for loving all my imperfections.
Thank you for being Patient with me.
Thank you for being the best husband and father.
Thank you for all the wonderful memories.



Your darling wife

Temi ( Tem -Tem)

continue to rest in peace my darling husband, we all miss you over here.

I miss you today and it hasn’t gotten better Eni. I still struggle with you not being here. I will forever cherish the beautiful memories.

Thank you for giving me the best days of my life. I would choose you as a husband over and over again.

Continue to rest in peace my darling Eni.

I will always love you.

Temi

I miss you everyday Eni, the sadness and the pain just would not go away. My heart is broken.

Happy birthday Eni, RIP.

Dearest Bro!!

Woke up today and I wanted to send you a birthday message then I remembered you ain't here.

Another year and finally have the courage to come back here.... Miss your gentle ways , say me well to my sis too... Miss you both.

Happy Birthday to you My Darling Husband, Eniola the one who loved me unconditionally, the one who spoilt me rotten, the one who indulged me and the one who lived just to make me happy. I didn’t envision my future like this, I didn’t see it without you my dearest Eni, nothing prepared me for this lonely journey. Who are we to question God Almighty, we can only thank Him. Your being called home left me shaken and vulnerable. It has also shown me how extremely fragile life is. It has made it clear to me how invaluable you were to us all my dearest Gentle Giant.

There can and will never be another you my dearest Eni, people like you are not created so often (I am one lucky girl)and I am glad and thank God I had the opportunity to be your wife.
You were the best husband, father, son, brother , friend and colleague any one could wish for.

I find solace that you are in heaven having a truly amazing time.

Have a happy birthday my darling.

We all really miss you over here.

Your darling wife

Temi

Continue to rest in peace my gentle giant.

I miss you today and always my darling husband, continue to rest in peace. Toni and Tami have been amazing.

My darling husband, I miss you. Continue to rest in peace.

My friend, my brother. To say I have missed and I miss you is an understatement. Continue to rest with the Almighty till we meet again.

Eniola my darling husband, my Gentle Giant, the love of my life , my best friend. I still can’t believe that you are gone. It has been exactly 2 years since you left us without saying bye, I understand it was out of your hands. I still remember vividly the early hours of 23rd December 2018,that was when my life changed forever, I remember calling the ambulance , I remember holding your hands and calming you down, I remember holding your hands on the way to Cambridge in the ambulance and praying for you, I remember my last words to you, I was assuring you that everything was going to be ok. I stood by your side and saw you take your last breath at exactly 4:20 pm and watched you pass away. I still cannot believe it’s true, it feels like I am in a dream and I will wake up with you by my side, but it is still a nightmare. People have told me over a million times that time is a healer, but this has not been the case for me it still hurts like the day you left, it is still very raw, they can never understand. My heart is broken, I am angry because I prayed, we all prayed for you to get better, I am at a loss, no matter how I try, life has not been the same without you and it will never be. I lost my best friend and soulmate. You are no longer here with me, I feel cheated, I feel Toni and Tami were cheated and you were cheated too. It’s not fair, it was too soon and too sudden. We had plans for the future, you had more life to live and much more to give. Now I am on this journey without you, it has been very lonely.
Thank you for giving me the best 4141 days of my life Eni, I am forever grateful. Thank you for loving me unconditionally. I feel privileged, blessed and honoured to have been your wife. Life without you is very painful, I wish the pain would go away every day. You were so loving, so patient and so kind till the very end and I mean it. All I have are good memories my darling Eni and I’ll treasure them forever. You made my life complete, my darling husband. You made being your wife very easy.
We all miss you Eni. I miss your smile, I miss our gisting, I miss your warmth, I miss hearing your voice, I wish I could see your face again, I miss being your wife, I miss your calmness, I miss you caring for me, I miss your smell, I miss dropping you at the station every morning, I miss picking you up from the station every evening, I miss cooking your meals, I miss dropping your suits at the dry cleaners and picking them up, I miss making you watch my boring programmes with me, I miss you being just you.
Toni and Tami miss you, they miss you taking them to play golf, they miss you playing on the PS4 with them, by the way, PS5 has been released, they miss you watching marvel and DC movies with them, I miss how you were with them, I miss the look on your face when they were mischievous , I miss how you loved them. I see you in our Ts every day. Thank God for them.
Eniola,I miss you so much, but I try to be strong, I am shattered, broken………. on the inside. If only I could get one more day with you.
Your Tem-Tem loves you, Toniboy your favourite son loves you, Tami your favourite daughter loves you, we all love you, but God loves you more!!!!!!
Eniola, I know you are in a better place, you are at peace with no worries of the world.

Till we meet to part no more my darling husband.

Your darling wife 
Temi ( TemTem)

May your soul continue to rest in peace Eniola. May the Lord continue to comfort and protect your wife and children. May the Lord protect all your siblings, family members and friends. Amen

Eniola, my darling husband, continue to rest in peace, the kids and I miss you. I still can't believe it is almost 2 years in a few days, it feels like you left yesterday.

Happy 45th birthday dear friend . You are missed by all.

Eni-boy you are sorely missed my aburo. Rest in peace with Baba God my brother. May God be with your family and give them the wisdom to understand God's larger purpose for their lives in your absence. Amen.

Happy 45th Birthday in heaven Eniola my Husband, the love of my life, my Gentle Giant. Toni, Tami and I miss you a lot. Our lives have not been the same since you left us. It has been a lonely journey for me Eni. We all wish you were here with us. We hope your birthday in heaven is truly incredible. They say time heals the pain and it’s going to get better, It has not gotten better it still hurts like the day you left us. The afternoon you took your last breath was the day a part of me died forever.

Eni you understood me perfectly, you were my rock and you loved me unconditionally. You always managed to stay calm no matter what. I am very grateful to God to have shared your dreams, hopes, love, friendship and much more. I feel very fortunate to have had the opportunity and rare privilege of being the wife of a God fearing, wonderful, loving, caring and kind man. I really miss you Eni, it’s been 16.5 lonely months without you.

We had 4141 joyful days together,those were the best days of my life thank you for this. If someone had told me when I walked down that aisle with you on the afternoon of Thursday the 30th of August 2007, we only had 10 years and 4 months together, I still would have done it.

You will always and forever be in my heart Eniola.

Toni, Tami and I will always remember you.


Happy Birthday once again.

Your darling wife and friend

Temilola

Your TemTem

Today we remember a wonderful man - Eniola. A kind and funny chap, who will be missed forever. I pray for Temi & the kids, that God will continue to uphold and strengthen them always.
May your soul continue to rest in perfect peace Eniola.

Eni Eni, our gentle(man) giant, gone too soon. What can i say ? Thank you for the gist, laughter and good times, thanks for being there for us; we will surely miss you. You were a wonderful husband, father, brother and friend.
Till we meet again dear friend, RIP.

I find it difficult to believe that you no more,I just spoke about your family. I can't forget your lovely wife. You were a great, wonderful, loving , kind and caring man. God knows best,as it was said that we are pilgrims and we will leave in different ways and times. You are free from the pain,sorrow,worries,tribulations,ups and downs of this earth. Temi,Toni and Tami are not alone,God is their everything. Rest in perfect peace Eniola

Eniola! We are deeply saddened by this huge loss! Knowing you has been a long time thing; indeed it has been for a life time; you've always been there. A part of so many big moments, family milestones and nostalgic memories. We could never have imagined that this would cease so abruptly.  
Our last 2 conversations had a recurring theme; you expressed your desire for us to get together, so that your children and ours could get to know one another properly. It was one of those pending things. We purpose to make that happen, many times over, by God's grace. 
Thinking about your quiet, chilled- out demeanour, mannerism, integrity, humour, conversations and everything that was uniquely yours. This is a hard one to accept!
We prayed for a different outcome in those last precious days; we desired for you to remain here with your loved ones. We are however faced with a different reality. May the Lord help us all to receive His peace and grace. 
May He comfort and strengthen all the Adenubis and watch over this lovely family in the days and years to come. Amen.
Rest in peace, dear Eni. You live on forever in our hearts.

What a terrible loss and my heartfelt condolences to Eni's family and friends. He was a smart and funny guy but more importantly a kind person. Eni - I'm glad we met and worked together, thank you. You will be sorely missed.

Eni – thank-you for all the guidance, and friendship, during your time at State Street, it will never be forgotten. Working for you was a real privilege; never a crossed word, never a temper lost. A true leader, conducting yourself with dignity, intelligence and always with a smile. You are greatly missed here.

Eniola!! I’m still in shock and can’t believe you’re gone so so soon. Oh death where is thou sting? But I must take solace and be thankful for the hope of resurrection. Oh! that I will see you and other loved ones again. Rest on my funny,happy,jovial and gentle big cousin. Rest on Big Eni!

Big Eni..
Life is indeed the leveller of all men and death truly reveals the eminent.
You were a true friend. I vividly recall a whole lot of things we did together from ijanikin to ozolua to later years. You were always wise beyond your years. Very adventurous and always cheering me on in all things. I will always have these memories. The amazing thing I discovered is that you had a separate relationship with everyone you considered a friend. You touched lives during your journey in life .Truly amazing. I remember your messages on us keeping in touch and your advice on issues between brothers. Those issues all seem irrelevant now. You will be missed. Everything God does is perfect. No mistakes. May your kind and gentle soul rest in perfect peace. I pray we all take a lesson from this. Rest on my friend, rest on my Brother.

Cuz, I can’t believe you are gone!

We prayed and pleaded but God had other plans. I know you are in a better place.

I will miss you greatly cuz. Till we meet again.

Eniola, I am speechless!!! .....You were a towering introvert, an admirable husband to my sister, an affectionate father to my nephew and niece and an exemplary role model to the family.
Humility personified and calmness incarnate. Although the grief is excruciating, your demise reminds us of the harsh reality that one day we will all join the innumerable caravan which moves grudgingly to that mysterious realm where each shall take His chamber in the silent halls of death.
The music is ended but the melody lingers on.
Adieu gentle giant.

It was a quite a shock to hear about Eniolas passing away. He will always be remembered as the Gentle Giant with the big smile.
I pray that the Lord will be a source of comfort to the entire family. Eniola may have passed away but his thoughts,hopes and dreams is still alive with his wife and kids. Matt5:4 says blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted, the Lord will wrap His arms of comfort around the entire family.

When you have so much history with someone, when you see them you pick up where you left off without thinking about the time that has passed. It might be weeks, months or years. Eni, the last time I saw you, we picked up where we left off without missing a beat.
We might not be able to do this again but the good memories we had will last forever.
Rest in peace brother, you are in a better place and you will be missed.

Eniola aka The Gentle Giant, This is still so hard to fathom, I recall our last conversation at a function and it was about doing our possible best for the kids even if it means changing post codes to get the very best in regards to schools. This is a loss too much to bear, both Seke & I are still in shock and confused and find this hard to believe. May the good Lord give you eternal rest and protect your loved ones.
Rest in Perfect Peace.....

Fate crossed our paths many years ago, and since then you have remained a friend. We did not get to see often but our conversations and chats were always “rich”… continuing from where we stopped and much more. I remember our last conversation, you asked after each of my kids and wife and told me about yours - you sounded very content and fulfilled. We would wonder and ask, Why do such things happen? We would never know and it would be eternally Painful. Eniola, you will be missed by your Family that you ”Cherish” so much and your friends that all Cherish you, but heaven has gained a Giant – Rest on dear friend

Eni, 43 years of our rolling together in everything ends like this, you know and I know words fails me now Bro. We had plans for 2019 but alas, I guess we should just have gotten straight to it. Eni, your watch has ended but your light remains with us all, till we meet again brother. REST IN PERFECT PEACE.