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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Gary Murphy, 44 years old, born on January 31, 1968, and passed away on August 5, 2012. We will remember him forever.
January 31, 2023
January 31, 2023
Happy Heavenly Birthday, Gary. You're thought of daily. We all miss you terribly.
August 5, 2022
August 5, 2022
Miss you every day. It's hard to believe it's been 10 years. You're missed by all who had the pleasure of being in your presence. Say hi to Nana and Grampy for us. 
Your Cuz
Chris
January 31, 2022
January 31, 2022
Happy Heavenly Birthday, Gary... We miss you everyday and especially around your birthday! Today we celebrate your life, and truly feel that we were blessed to have you in our lives, as our brother, uncle, son, cousin and friend. As time goes quickly by, the pain of losing you eases a little and the hope grows that we will see you again with our Father in Heaven. Love you, brother!
January 31, 2022
January 31, 2022
Time moving too quickly, but pausing to post you a happy birthday cousin. May God Bless. Miss you every day.
August 5, 2021
August 5, 2021
It is so hard to believe it's been 9 years since you left us. You are missed and thought of every day. 

Your Cuz, Chris
January 31, 2019
January 31, 2019
Still missing you terribly Gary, especially on your birthday. God Bless and Happy Birthday.
January 31, 2018
January 31, 2018
Gary,
Happy Birthday! I imagine Grampy invented scratch tickets up there in heaven and will have some fun with those with you. The one thing I hold onto is that you are with family that love you and that you love. That makes me happy. Miss you Gary.
January 31, 2018
January 31, 2018
Hey Gary, not a day goes by that I don't think of you and pray to God with you in my prayers. Missing you. Happy Birthday today in heaven.

Your cousin..
January 31, 2017
January 31, 2017
Missing you big time here Gary, on your birthday. Thinking of you often especially today. Love, Chris.
January 31, 2017
January 31, 2017
We've missed you here on earth Gary
but feel you are with Nana & Grampy. 
That brings us peace for them and for you.

Happy Birthday Gary!  Remember how excited Grammy used to get at all of our birthdays?  He took control of the icecream, chocolate syrup and whipped cream.......oh how he loved those.  Miss you Gary
August 4, 2015
August 4, 2015
Gary; We are nearing the 3rd yr since you passed. We all miss you so much. I miss talking to you about all the important or nonimprotant things. I have questions to ask; like how do I fix my mailbox? and how do I recover my chairs? You did those things for me, whenever I asked and/or needed help. Its hard that you are not here to ask anymore. I was at the beach this past weekend and thought of you and how you loved to play in the water! I could go on but today my heart breaks from missing you. Love you brother!
June 7, 2015
June 7, 2015
Hey Gary! We are missing you lately...... Kerry graduated college, Joshua graduated high school... all events you would have enjoyed attending! Think of you often especially your laughter and joy. Miss you brother!
January 31, 2015
January 31, 2015
Sure do miss you Gary. Still hard to wrap my head around your passing. You made quite a mark on all of us. RIP
January 31, 2015
January 31, 2015
Miss you like crazy Gary, especially today. Thinking of you!
January 31, 2015
January 31, 2015
Today is your birthday and I still miss you daily. I miss your laughter, your sense of humor, your sayings: 'my eye', 'good times' and your voice. I know you are in a better place as this world was tough on your dreams and aspirations. Sending my love!
August 6, 2014
August 6, 2014
Thinking of you today Gary on this second year of your passing. My hopes are that you are enveloped in love from all the relatives who have passed before you. I have a request dear cousin, could you in your own way help ease the pain and undeserved guilt of your loved ones here on earth. We sure miss you Gary<3
August 5, 2014
August 5, 2014
two years.. and i still don't know what to write.. i know what i feel, but i can't find the words.. forgive me, i guess i'm not good at this.. you were always fun to be around, more than fun really.. you just made every time a special time.. there aren't many people on the planet like that.. the spectrum of people who'se lives you made more enjoyable - even for a little while - is both broad and long.. i look at the thank you letter you sent me - even in your difficult position you were thinking of others - every time i set at my desk.. it saddens me, but also reminds me of how very special you were.. i wish i had done more with you.. i wish i had done more for you.. clearly there were ways i could have been of value.. i didn't even help my own brother.. please forgive me.. make sure you save a big table up there Gar, we'll be coming soon enough.. and you know we won't be quiet, as usual.. to the happy times, my friend, my brother.. or, as so aptly fits" "good times, good times".
August 5, 2014
August 5, 2014
It's hard to believe its been two years. Gary, we miss you. May God forgive your sins (and ours) and take you into His eternal kingdom where we hope to meet with you again.
Love, your brother, Scott
August 5, 2014
August 5, 2014
I have been blessed over the years with many wonderful people in my life. On this 2nd anniversary of your passing, you are truly missed each and every day Gary. 
Bless you.
January 31, 2014
January 31, 2014
Gary: Thinking of you today, your birthday. As Colleen said, the day you were introduced to us all. I remember looking at the window at salem hospital while mom pointed to the incubator, you were in, after a difficult birth. That joy lasted your whole life. I always enjoyed the times we had from long car rides traveling to you coming to visit and fixing things around the house. I think of you daily and the many things I wish I could say to you! Here's to you, my wonderful brother, may you rest in God's Peace.
January 31, 2014
January 31, 2014
Thinking of you today Gary. Your birthday is the day that marks your entrance into this world. I would like to think that you are in the company of Nana & Grampy and celebrating this special day. Miss you Gary.
January 31, 2014
January 31, 2014
Thinking of you today and everyday Gary. You are truly missed. God Bless.
January 31, 2014
January 31, 2014
Gary's birthday is today. Brother we miss you and offer our prayers to God for your soul. May God cleanse you of your sins and bring you to eternal life,, where we hope to join you once again.
Scott
August 5, 2013
August 5, 2013
Today I woke up and my first thought was about you Gary. My second thought was about your family. My heart hurts for your parents and siblings. I feel that you are okay Gary and in the hands of God and all our family members who have passed before you. The depth of loss all of us are left with will take work and prayer to live with. Together we can be successful with memories of you.
August 5, 2013
August 5, 2013
Dear Gary, it's been a year since you left us but not a day has gone by that I didn't think of you and the lives you touched while here. God Bless.
April 22, 2013
April 22, 2013
Gary: Thinking about you this weekend no particular reason why, I just miss you. I still think about you daily and know that my life was blessed by knowing you were in it. I miss talking to you and seeing you on our vacations. Love you, Gary.
February 1, 2013
February 1, 2013
I thought about you alot yesterday and didn't have any words. I think of you every day and miss you. I know you're watching down from Heaven and at peace. Knowing this makes me feel better.
February 1, 2013
February 1, 2013
Happy Birthday Uncle Gary. I miss you so much today and everyday but when the sun was shining through the clouds, I knew it was you looking down on us. I am lucky everyday to have known such an amazing, happy person and even luckier to have an angel like you watching over me. You are the best uncle a girl could ask for. I love you!
January 31, 2013
January 31, 2013
Today was his birthday. I miss him everyday and today especially. Its aa beautiful starry night in Maryland and I pray he is up in heaven, free from suffering. save a space for me Gary! Love you brother.
January 31, 2013
January 31, 2013
Woke up thinking about you today Gary. Today is the day you were all introduced to us as a positve and loving presence in our lives. My wish for you today is that you are free from suffering and sadness and are in the presence of our Lord and all the beautiful loved ones lost in years past. Rest in peace my cousin, Love Colleen
January 31, 2013
January 31, 2013
Please say a prayer for Gary's soul in remembrance of his life.Ask God to forgive his sins and to have Mercy on us all.
December 18, 2012
December 18, 2012
I think of Gary always with a smile. His joy to me is an inspiration to create, to love and respect friends and family.  A conversation with Gary from his early years to his adult years was filled with joy!
September 28, 2012
September 28, 2012
I miss Gary tremendously but am very grateful to God for the time we had together. We grew closer over the last 6-7 months while he was in the hospital and we would talk almost daily. He still had the ability to make me laugh as I was trying to comfort him. I pray for his soul and am thankful for the wonderful, happy times we shared.
September 26, 2012
September 26, 2012
Gary I am not sure what to say. We were the same age. I remember so many wonderful things about you. I remember that I looked up to you. I still do. I think what you did in your life is amazing. You were my comforter when I moved to Topsfield...you took me to the mall and we played video games. Before then I felt so alone but you made me feel loved, that was your gift. I love you Gary.
September 26, 2012
September 26, 2012
I always considered Gary, Chris and Marc as the three muskateers. It was great to watch the three of them in the Murphy pool wrestling. Gary, what I do know about you is your kindness was always present; no matter what mood. You often reminded me of Grampy because you always made the best of things and put a positive spin on most everything. You will always be in my heart and prayers.
September 26, 2012
September 26, 2012
Dear Cousin Gary:

I will remember your adventurous spirit. Your inventive ideas on how to make the world a bit better-ie: seat belts for school busses!!
You left a wonderful imprint on this earth for the short time that you were with us. I love you, Cuz. Kim +
September 26, 2012
September 26, 2012
Gary, I miss you every day. We were all blessed to have had you in our lives. You are now with Gampy & Nana and watching over us all along with them.
Love,
Your Cousin - Chris
September 23, 2012
September 23, 2012
My dear brother, you made us laugh, love and just plain enjoy life when you were with us. It makes us sad you are no longer here, but eternally grateful we got to share so much of your life. Your smile and infectious wit will keep us happy for many years to come. You are truly missed. Love you, Gary!

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Gary remembered

January 31, 2014

As many of you know, Gary was a handy man. When he would visit he would make a list of little things that had to be fixed; door knobs loose, trim needing paint, chairs reapholstered etc. One visit he decided he would help finish our basement, or create a TV watching space for the girls to play in. He put up walls, painted them with primer and basically set up a nice little area. he also had the idea to paiint one half of a wall with chalkboard paint. It was a great idea for a kid's space. He chose a deep tan color and we have a great place for messages now. One thing he didn't tell us about was he found some glow in the dark paint. So now when you go inour basement, at the foot of the stairs is a big 'happy face' of glow in the dark paint with "uncle gary" written under it. I like the surprise I get when I go down there in the dark! It still glows!  He always had some hidden trick like that, and it makes me happy to think it, cause he got a kick out of that kind of stuff! Such a pleasant surprise and joyful person.
 

Crime Spree (well not really)

September 26, 2012

Don't let the title scare you. 

When Gary, Marc and I were little and visiting Hampton Beach NH we had a minor lapse in judgement.  We were walking on the boardwalk and observed a person drop a $20 bill.  As kids, we didn't really think it through and did not run up and return the money.  We spent it!   We got into trouble of course and learned our lesson. This is just a snippit memory from our childhood that comes to mind.

I did enjoy that time of my life spending time with my pal Gary.  I miss you Gary.

Auntie Gary

September 23, 2012

As you know Gary was a loving and devoted uncle. I am not sure how it started but when the girls were little, my sister Terry and Gary used to tease each other and soon the girls joined in. Teasing Gary, him teasing them ( that part never changed, he loved to tease the nieces) Somehow one of them called him  "Auntie Gary" and of course my sister was there and it just stuck. It was with fondness and joviality that he was called that, and he just enjoyed the joke!

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