Dearest Mummy Hollist, how are you? Your soul must be settling down comfortably in its new heavenly abode. And I can imagine that you have already met and connected with many (young and old, rich and poor etc.) up there like you did here on earth. Their gain is our loss!
But, never mind, we are fine here on earth even though we are missing you terribly and slowly coming to terms with your passing. We know that God allowed you to pass on because it was the time for you to return to Him after completing your earthly race, living a fulfilled and independent life. God definitely did not want you to suffer and be too dependent on others due to any form of illness. So, we will try hard not to mourn but celebrate in the way that we can under the circumstances, with thanksgiving to God for the years that He blessed you with. And we will forever be grateful to Him for being amongst the privileged to have known and benefited from the love that He bestowed in your heart for mankind.
You were kind, down to earth, always ready to listen, genuinely concerned about the welfare of all around you and always rejoiced in their progress or success in life. But you also always emphasized on the need for one to remain humble and not get carried away by their achievements in life. You always advised us to be circumspect in our relations with people. And you had a loving way of instilling discipline in both young and old. These contributed to who we are today.
You loved, and were really proud of Taiwo, Kehinde, ‘Bola, Bose, Kemi, your grandchildren and the rest of us. And you always talked about how you would have loved to do more. I admired how you always ended the conversation by thanking God for blessing us all and praying for Him to continue to bless and meet each of us at our points of need.
Thank you for everything especially for being my friend, ‘healthy’ accomplice, confidant, mentor, counselor, mother, role model and praying partner over the years.
It’s so hard to accept that you are no longer a phone call, e-mail, Facebook inbox or visit away. I never imagined that your passing will hit me this hard because you talked a lot about it the last time I visited you. But then, I kept saying to you that you will live up to 80 years and above. Looking back now, I realize that you were saying your ‘ADIEU’ to me when you insisted on seeing me off and waiting at the door for me to leave. Thank you so much for insisting! I will forever cherish the memory of that night and of all the time I got to spend with you. THANK YOU AGAIN!
Ok, Mummy Hollist, this will be it for now. You can rest assured that God is with and comforting us here on earth just like we believe that you are resting in perfect peace with Him.
And your values, principles and legacy will live forever…
ADIEU!
Chioma