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This memorial website was created in the memory of our loved one, Gerald J. Hacker Sr. "Opps", who passed away on October 2, 2012. "Opps" was an amazing husband, father, grandfather, uncle and friend.  We will love him and remember him forever as he touched all of us in many ways. 

Gerald J. Hacker Sr. “Opps” Age 72. U.S. Navy veteran. Beloved husband of Andrea “Bunny” (nee Oliva). Devoted father of Jerry Jr. (Alison) and Mark (Mindy). Loving grandfather of Olivia, Sam, Madison and Cristian. Dear brother of Joanne Anastasia. Also survived by many loving relatives and friends. 42 years of service with Westinghouse/Schindler Elevator Co.


 

October 2, 2016
October 2, 2016
The boys and their families all went to Mass, breakfast and cemetery today with me on your four year anniversary. You raised great sons and they married great girls and you have wonderful grandkids. (Wish Olivia could have been with Madison, Sam and Cristian but she called from college this morning to say she was thinking of you and me too.) Thanks for giving me the kids and all that I am grateful for. Sold the townhouse yesterday...I know you are looking out for me! I know it is a new beginning for me but all my memories are coming with me. Love you always!
October 2, 2016
October 2, 2016
Four years is a long time missing you, Bro. We often think of you and recall fond memories. You would be very proud of your family. Your sons and daughters-in-law are very attentive to Bunny and your grandchildren are loving and respectful. We have to believe that you see and know all this and that they bring you immense joy and pride. Love Eileen & Jimmy xoxo
August 8, 2016
August 8, 2016
Happy 76th Birthday honey! You are always in my heart and thoughts. Love you.
August 8, 2016
August 8, 2016
We often reminisce about the good times and laughs we shared. We love and miss you very much. Happy Birthday, Bro. Love Eileen & Jimmy xoxo
August 8, 2016
August 8, 2016
Always thinking about Unc. Especially when I see a barn that needs burning down, something he always joke that he wanted to do.
October 2, 2015
October 2, 2015
Today you are gone three years honey. Sometimes it seems like yesterday and sometimes it seems like forever. Miss and love you always. You would be so proud of your family and our extended family.
You will always be remembered and loved.
August 8, 2015
August 8, 2015
Happy 75th Birthday honey!!! I wish we could be throwing you another big surprise party but I know you are being celebrated today. I miss you more every day. Fifty-nine years of memories not forgotten! Love you.
August 8, 2015
August 8, 2015
Happy 75th, Bro. Bet you still don't have any gray hairs! You're forever young while we continue to age and turn gray :-). We love and miss you very much, Say hello to the family. Love, Eileen & Jimmy xo
August 8, 2015
August 8, 2015
Happy Birthday Dad. I know you are with us every day. I love you and miss you. Go Cubs!
June 21, 2015
June 21, 2015
Happy Father's Day Dad! I think of you every day and miss you and love you! Wish you were here!!
June 21, 2015
June 21, 2015
Happy Father's Day honey! Really miss you! You would be so proud of your sons...loving, fathers, husbands and sons...but I know you knew that before you had to leave us. Three of our grandkids graduated this summer and we felt your presence. All of us love you! You definitely left your mark in this life!
June 21, 2015
June 21, 2015
HAPPY FATHER'S DAY, JERRY. You would be very proud of your family and the fact that your legacy lives on. We love & miss you very much, Bro. Eileen & Jimmy xoxo
October 4, 2014
October 4, 2014
Hi Unc.....I think of you often and for some reason you show up in my dreams.....its really like you are there and its so weird. I have never had that experience. I am glad you are still with me and even if you leave my dreams you will always be with me. I hope you can see the kids....Justin is doing really well and you would be proud of them all. I wish you could have been there for Thomas's wedding.......You would have loved the food!!  Today when I made Justin a sandwich....he was sick so he let me make it.....I made that sound you use to make when you give someone food and it was going to be the best food they ever ate. I am a foodie....and if you know the skinny gods up there maybe you can send me some help! LOL.  Sam is doing amazing and I know you would be proud of her too....all of them. Watch over them and keep them safe. Thanks...love you. P.S. Aunt still misses you tons but your boys are taking care of her amazingly.
October 3, 2014
October 3, 2014
How could 2 years have passed? Sometimes it seems like we lost you yesterday! The boys and their families have taken such good care of me. You taught them well!  You would be so very proud of your sons, daughter-in-laws (daughters), and grandchildren! I know your eyes would be misty with happy tears if you saw how the children have grown up in such a short time. They are wonderful! Your presence is felt every day in our lives.
On a lighter note...I know pizza night with our family was always your favorite night of the week! All of us somehow come up with a story about you each time we gather…and laugh. It just isn't the same for my sisters, brother-in-laws and Eva without you! Our nieces and nephews have returned your love and help through the years by always being there to help me too. You were and are loved by all of them too.
I will never stop missing or loving you. We know you are watching over us. Thank you for leaving us such great memories!
October 2, 2014
October 2, 2014
Two years have passed and it hasn't gotten any easier not having you here with us. We wish you could be here celebrating with us on our recent marriage. I'm certain the news made you very happy. You now have a legitimate brother-in-law after 32 years! Jimmy misses you too and frequently talks about you. You got him in the habit of using a "K-Cup" twice, and he reminds me that you did the same thing.  I guess you're rubbing off on him; I'll have to find out from Bunny how I should deal with that :-)! We love and miss you, Bro.
August 8, 2014
August 8, 2014
Happy Birthday honey! Heard from both our sons early this morning. We all celebrate, love and miss you on your birthday and every day! None of us will ever forget the love and life you gave us.  I hope you are very proud of your boys and their families. They are amazing. Love you always hon!!!
August 8, 2014
August 8, 2014
Missing Unc. I have to say that the pictures are a hoot. He is missed every day.
August 8, 2014
August 8, 2014
There's hardly a day that goes by that I don't think of you and miss you. I wish you were here to show me the ropes on this "retirement" phase of my life. I have a feeling we would be frequenting your favorite restaurants (and casinos), and I'd be packing on the pounds just so you could enjoy watching me eat! Oh, the things I'd do for you! Happy Birthday, Bro.
October 6, 2013
October 6, 2013
I like the pictures when we all look skinny. Just saying.
October 3, 2013
October 3, 2013
How blessed I was to have Unc in our lives......He was so close to me and the kids. I think of him often and how he impacted our lives in so many ways. He was special to so many of us...especially my Justin. I know he is looking down on him today and is so proud of what he and Thomas and Sam are accomplishing. Sending prayers to you Aunt...love you
October 2, 2013
October 2, 2013
It's so hard to believe that it has been a year since your passing. On one hand it seems like yesterday, but on the other hand it seems like its been years of missing you.  Our only consolation is knowing that you are in a better place free of all pain. We love you and miss you a lot, Bro. Eileen & Jimmy xo
October 2, 2013
October 2, 2013
Missing our Brother-in-law, Jerry, everyday and thinking about all the happy times and fun experiences. I need things in my home, I know if he was here today, they would be done!!..and it would be perfect!
Jerry, look down on your wife and keep her safe and sound!
Always in our thoughts, Love, Gloria Jean & Tom
October 2, 2013
October 2, 2013
This morning, on the first anniversary of my honey passing, I had a Mass said for Jerry. Today is the Feast Day of the Guardian Angel. The priest said that God gives us a guardian angel to accompany us through life and when the journey is over..our angel brings us back home to God. On this meaningful feast day, a year ago, Jerry's guardian angel brought him home to God. I love you.
August 11, 2013
August 11, 2013
I got to go with Unc to several elevator jobs back in the 60's and got to look over the city from some of the big buildings downtown. That was very cool. He was always like a big kid and he was the first person we would call when something around the house would break down, which was always happening. Love him and miss him as we all do.
August 8, 2013
August 8, 2013
Today would have been Dad's 73rd birthday. Toast in his honor today. Happy Birthday Dad! We miss you every day.
August 8, 2013
August 8, 2013
We spent 56 birthdays together...since we were 16! Today is your 73rd birthday and I miss you very much. I know you are in a much happier place with God on this birthday. You are thought about, missed and continue to be loved by all of us each and every day. Happy birthday, Honey!
August 8, 2013
August 8, 2013
You have to be smiling down on us knowing how much we love and miss you. We're sure you are there in spirit on Friday nights and it's comforting to know you're watching over us. P.S. We aren't getting any better at figuring out the tip :-). Happy Birthday,Bro,hope you're having a big party with our dearly departed family and friends.
October 28, 2012
October 28, 2012
“Death is not extinguishing the light; it is only putting out the lamp because the dawn has come.” ― Rabindranath Tagore
Jerry had a great sense of humor & a laugh that was contagious. He knew that family was the most important thing, and honored & accepted many people by including us in that circle. He was loving, supportive, interested, protective & I can't remember one negative thing that he
October 28, 2012
October 28, 2012
Anyway, as I was saying...before I was cut off (eeek!):
Jerry was loving, supportive, interested, protective & I can't remember one negative thing that he said! He will be sorely missed but he's at peace, stuffing himself with sweets & smiling down on us.
October 13, 2012
October 13, 2012
Chicago Tribune Post:October 13, 2012
Dear Bunny and Family, we are so saddened with your loss and ours. I enjoyed working with Gerry at the Gateway Buildings in the 1960's when I was across the river. I used to kid him about his never ending questions about elevators. I will miss him. Ron & Rosalie Schloss
~ Ron Schloss, Columbia, New Jerse
October 12, 2012
October 12, 2012
Tributes from the Chicago Tribune:

October 07, 2012
Dear Bunny and family, sending deepest sympathy, I will keep you in you in my prayers, may you find peace. Sincerely, Mary Tucci
October 07, 2012
Dear Bunny,and cousin Jerry Jr.,
We are so sorry of the loss of your wonderful husband and devoted father.
what a fun loving man. May his memory be a blessing. Love,
Laurel and Barry Abramowicz and fa
October 12, 2012
October 12, 2012
From Chicago Tribune:
October 07, 2012
Dear Bunny:

Maggie and I were so saddened to hear of Gerry's passing. He was a great guy and I really loved working with him in those fun days in Chicago. I know you miss him and the only thing I can tell you is it will get easier over time. It's just really hard right now.
Our best to you and your family.
Bob and Maggie Duncan
October 12, 2012
October 12, 2012
From Chicago Tribune:

October 04, 2012
Bunny and family:
Sorry for your lose , Had the pleasure of working for him he will be missed.
~ Thoms Fang and family, Arlington Hts, Illinois
October 12, 2012
October 12, 2012
From Chicago Tribune:
October 04, 2012
I had the opportunity to work with Gerry in Chicago. He was a great guy and I am sure he will be missed Donald and Betty Lee
October 12, 2012
October 12, 2012
From Chicago Tribune:

October 04, 2012
Mark and Family
So sorry for your loss - my sympathies to you and the family during this difficult time.
~ Dru Deering, Motorola Solutions, Schaumburg, Illin
October 12, 2012
October 12, 2012
From Chicago Tribune:
October 04, 2012
Dearest Bunny, Jerry Jr, Mark & Family,

May God bless you during this difficult time. Cousin Jerry will be truly missed. Espcially by my parents, who were so very fond of Jerry. Our thoughts and prayers are with you always.
Love, Dale,Denise,Kyle,Kelly,& Lyric Sauter
October 12, 2012
October 12, 2012
From the Chicago Tribune:
October 04, 2012
To The Hacker Family-
I had the honor of working and knowing Gerald through my working years and we share the sorrow of your loss.

God Speed.

Lee Ann and Ken Livingston
~ Ken Livinston, pompano Beach, Florid
October 12, 2012
October 12, 2012
From Chicago Tribune:

October 04, 2012
Deepest sympathies are offered on your dear loss. During this difficult time "Draw close to God and He will draw close to you,". James 4:8
~ Daniels Family
October 12, 2012
October 12, 2012
Chicago Tribune:

October 04, 2012
Bunny and Family
So sorry for your loss. Jerry was not only a good boss, but a good friend as well. God's blessings to you at this time.
~ Ted Shank, Elmhurst, Illinois
October 12, 2012
October 12, 2012
Chicago Tribune:

October 04, 2012
One is not gone as long as there is one to remember.
~ Randall Denning, Chicago, Illinois
October 12, 2012
October 12, 2012
Chicago Tribune:

October 03, 2012
Bunny and family- Surprised, shocked and saddened to hear this news.
We are so sorry for your loss.
~ Rich and Pam Roth, Coatesville, Indi
October 6, 2012
October 6, 2012
Salt & Pepper Diner $25
3rd Row Behind Home Plate $318 per Seat
Frozen Malt $5
An Afternoon Game at Wrigley with Jerry......PRICELESS!!!
October 5, 2012
October 5, 2012
Whenever we would go to Mark's house, Mr. Hacker always had a story or witticism that left us laughing. Many of those witticisms I admit to still using today. You will be missed, Mr. Hacker, but you leave behind 2 wonderful sons who will carry on your legacy! Your soul will forever be in my prayers!
October 5, 2012
October 5, 2012
Dear Hacker Family;
While I never had the opportunity to Meet Mr. Hacker Father, through Jerry I shared some of his big love for his father as well all the pain he had for last past few Years.
I would like to join all of you, take some of your pain, pray for his soul. Knowing his empty will never be filled, for sure he will stay unforgettable in the deep of your heart. Good blesse his soul an
October 5, 2012
October 5, 2012
I'm Blessed to have 5 Amazing Beautiful Aunts who have given me 5 Amazing Strong Unlces. "Unc" you ALWAYS took the time to chat with me with words of encouragement and Strength. You always took care of us all however you could. You are now Missed here sadly but at Home now with Jesus. I Love You and Miss you and Thank U for being My Uncle, my children Love you and Miss you the same! xoxoxo
October 5, 2012
October 5, 2012
Opps was the best grandpa anyone could've had. He was always there to love, support, and help anyone that needed it. Every time I was with him I was smiling. Whether we were eating sweets or he was teaching me to drive, we always had a great time together. I love you so much Opps & I know you are in a better place with God. Thanks for being an amazing Opps. I will miss you forever. ~Pud
October 4, 2012
October 4, 2012
Unc, as he was called by many of us, I had the priveledge of working for and with you. I may have thanked you a hundred times, but it's the one last time I will miss. You gave me the opportunity to work in such a premier trade and give myself and my daughter a much better way of life. I carry my union card with pride and dignity because of you. Forever in my heart Unc.
October 4, 2012
October 4, 2012
My Godfather "Bino" was a great & loving man. He was a wonderful influence on me and supported me and guided me all my life. Bino tried his best to give me security in my future. He was always the first to offer me help during some very stressful times in my life & I knew I could count on him for anything. I could not ask for two better Godparents in the whole world. My love forever, Eva
October 4, 2012
October 4, 2012
We all fall on hard times now & then, and I was truly blessed knowing that my "Bro" was there for me at a moments notice, never letting me down. I will miss him chauffeuring us around; introducing us to the best restaurants; seeing the enjoyment on his face when he's about to eat one of his favorite meals or walk into a casino. He loved me like a sister, and he'll forever be in my heart.
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October 2, 2023
October 2, 2023
Your family has been thriving.  I’m sure you are so proud of each and everyone of them including Bunny with a brand new hip. I recently dreamt about you! You and Bunny were sitting on a couch and you had your arm around her. You guys were kissing, hugging and laughing. As you always loved to say, “It was a good day”!  You’re forever in our thoughts and prayers, and we miss you like crazy. Please remember to keep us in your prayers. Love Eileen & Jimmy xoxo
October 2, 2023
October 2, 2023
We were at the cemetery yesterday to visit you. As always, it was a time to reminisce about the many humorous moments we had together. You are missed so much. I have to believe that you are watching your grandkids thrive and grow in every way. We are proud grandparents for sure!!! Eleven years is a long time for you to be gone...sad day for the kids and me. As long as you know we all love you so much and you are never forgotten, then all will be okay. You have always been my OAO...One and Only!
August 8, 2023
August 8, 2023
Happy birthday, Bro. One would think that it gets easier as time goes by to adjust to life without loved ones but that’s just a myth. We still miss you very much and that will never change until we’re reunited. As you know, Buns is finally going for her much needed surgery. We’re confident that you and the family will use your petitions for her speedy recovery. We love you Bro. Tell the family we love and miss them too. Eileen & Jimmy XOXO
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Thursday time day

October 2, 2018

Jerry and I would go to my cousins for lunch every Thursday  big fight pizza I liked mushrooms never won funny thing every so often with I am somebody  telling first time jerry and I where on job shut down kid I need matches  I don’t smoke  we are going to fix elevator  we did  after that tool box always had  matches I tell that story a lot 

Friday Pizza Night at Phillies

October 5, 2013
We, the sisters (Gloria Jean, Bunny, Maureen and me - Eileen) and significant others would go to various pizza places for dinner on Friday nights. Phillies is one of our favorite places. We usually sit in the back room because we're sometimes a big group (when other family members & friends join us) and lets face it - we're loud. No one ever wanted to figure out the bill, tip and how much each one owed. Jerry was always amazing at it (a numbers savant), figuring it out in a couple of minutes. He did make a mistake or two along the way and when we overpaid, Bunny made sure that he paid us back the next week with interest (maybe a beer or a glass of wine). Not too long after he passed away, we went to Phillies and sat in the back room. It never seems the same without Jerry there with us. But on this night, we were all being simpletons trying to figure out the bill and saying that we wished Jerry was there to help us out. Next thing we know there is a loud knocking on the door. The thing is, as many times as we were in that back room, none of us ever knew there was an emergency exit door. We all turned around to see where the knocking was coming from and then we all turned back and faced each other with shock on our faces. A few of us at the same time said "It's Jerry, lets let him in". We thought maybe he was inpatient with us trying to figure out the bill and wanted to be let in to help us. We sure do miss you Bro.

Jerry is still with me!

October 2, 2013
I have to share this story. It's a year today that you are gone Jer and you are in my every thought throughout this year. Today I knew it would be even more difficult so I made up my mind that I would stay very busy. I decided to take the covers off the kitchen chairs and freshen them up a bit. This required removing some unusual screws. I was so happy because I found a weird screwdriver in the garage and removed the first cover from the chair. When I tried to get the other covers off the screwdriver was not working on those screws. I went to Ace Hardware and they told me I needed an Allan key. Knowing Jerry had some someplace at home, I decided not to buy the one I needed. Well, after an hour of searching through every tool box and drawer in the garage, basement, and closet, I found three that were too big. I was totally frustrated and upset. I was in no mood to go back to Ace because I was looking at the clock and it was 2:40 and I was reliving the events that led to his passing at 3:00 last year. I gave up and I went into the garage to put the tools away in his tool drawer. As I opened the drawer, I pushed a plastic packet that Jerry kept small emery boards in and the packet fell on the ground....and there it was...the perfect size Allan key!!! I knew Jerry was there with me at that very moment...and that is what got me through the day!!

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