Gloria Jean Hay, (1942 - 2014) - ForeverMissed.com Online Memorials

Let the memory of Gloria be with us forever

72 years old
Born on March 14, 1942
Passed away on December 30, 2014

This memorial was created in memory of our beloved mother, Gloria Jean Hay, 72, born on March 14, 1942 and passed away on December 30, 2014. We will cherish her memory forever.

Our mother was a loyal and devoted relative and friend to an infinite number of family and friends.  You could always count on Mom to provide you with her immeasurable wisdom and advice and on numerous occasions, the shirt off of her back. The term "lived life to the fullest" is especially apropos when you describe Mom. There wasn't an ache, pain, or illness that would deter our highly revered mother from doing whatever she wanted to do. If there was a significant and or important life event for a loved one, Mom moved mountains to be there. Mom did not ask "how can I help?"; She did help. Despite her many illnesses, she prepared meals, accompanied a friend on an errand, visited the sick and disabled, and again gave you the shirt off of her back.....Mom was always the one person you could count on.

Mom spent the last days of her life adored, pampered, overindulged, regaled and most importantly, amused by her younger grandchildren. Nana could always count on Kennedy's benevolence, Cavanaugh's witty banter, and Bella's daily dutiful ministrations. Her grandchildren catered to her every whim. Nana was spoiled rotten. Christmas and New Year's was her favorite time of the year. If you knew Mom, you would have known that she had a fan base not only in Los Angeles, but in Atlanta, Georgia and was singularly cherished.  In the hospital, there was not a moment that she was left alone. At one time, she had so many visitors that we had to resort to rotating visitors. Our mother was loved and will be missed by many.

Many of you are probably wondering how this song was chosen.  This song is beffitting of the woman who always did things "HER WAY".

We love you, Mom!

Visitation will be held on Thursday, January 8, 2015 from 4-8 pm at:
Inglewood Park Cemetery Mortuary
3801 W.Manchester Blvd.
Inglewood,California 90305
(310) 412-6811

Funeral Services will be held on Friday, January 9, 2015 at 11:00 am at:
Tabernacle of Faith Baptist Church
11328 So. Central Avenue
Los Angeles, California 90059

Internment:
Inglewood Park Cemetery
3801 W. Manchester Blvd.
Inglewood, California

Repast: Immediately following burial est. 3-8p.m.
Family & Friends
Chester L. Washington Golf Course Clubhouse
1930 West 120th Street
Los Angeles, California 90047

Our beloved mother will be adorned in her favorite color red. We encourage family and friends to wear red and /or purple to her memorial service as we honor her life. Red ribbons will be shared to memorialize her vibrant life and in recognition of the heart.

Any phone calls or expressions of sympathy can be forwarded to our parent's home at 1237 West 65th Place Los Angeles, California 90044 or (323) 753-2979.

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January 6, 2015

What a beautiful tribute Jackie :0) With Love in my heart, Prayers on my lips and ongoing thoughts of you and your family on my mind... I hate that I can't be there with you but if and when you need me, I'll always be a phone call or text away. I'm Blessed and Honored to have your friendship, My Sincere Condolences & I love you dearly. K

January 6, 2015

"Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted." Matthew 5:4. Gloria Hay you are a beautiful soul. Your secret talks and advice to me about work, love, children and play have a special place in my heart. Your display of grace, beauty and truth lives on, not only in your children and grands but also in those you touched. It for this and so much more I am so profoundly grateful that I was on this journey with you even if just for a few moments. Jackie thanks for sharing your mom with your friends we all got so much love and advice from her.

January 5, 2015

Jackie and family, I am so sorry for your loss. I did not have the honor of meeting Ms. Gloria but just as you are, I know she was a beautiful spirit. That beautiful spirit will live eternally through you and through all the lives she touched. God bless.

January 5, 2015

My Dear Gloria Jean
It is very difficult to say goodbye to a most cherished, loved and loyal
friend. Our childhood friendship created a bond that was continuous
for more than 65 years.
I will truly miss you and our daily conversations.
Rest In Peace My Dear Friend

January 4, 2015

Dear Lady Gloria Hay you will truly be missed but I know the Heavenly Father loved you best. Rest In Peace my dear Red Hat Sister (Sophisticated Ladies Red Hat Chapter). Lady Dianne Hall, Vice Queen

January 4, 2015

I'm going to miss my Gloria Hay, our side bar conversations about recent developments in our lives, funny quotes she shared from her grands, her around the way style of asking about von to make sure he was treating her girl fairly and most of all our complicated relationsship around my choice of hairdo's. Mrs. Hay you will be missed. As one of Jackie's oldest friends, I will work to comfort her in your absence. Soar with the Angels and thoughts of you will sustain us.

January 4, 2015

Gloria was a true living example of what every young woman should strive to become. She was an inspiration to all who she touched, and a second mother to many of us who were blessed to have her in our lives as children. Gloria was family, she and Jay were the "village" where everyone gathered for love, support, and happiness. God has recalled his Saint, leaving us to continue by following her example. May God rest her soul, giving us strength, peace, and comfort as we celebrate her life.

January 4, 2015

To Jackie and family, May the peace of God be with you as you celebrate the life of your beloved Mrs. Gloria. I have only a few memories of Mrs. Gloria during our college days, but I remember a woman full of life, full of zest, and who could get down and groove with the best of ‘em! May your days be filled with precious memories of your Mom, a woman you loved, adored and cherished. And on those days that get a little heavy and unbearable, may you find comfort in the arms of the Creator.

Much Love,

Leander

January 4, 2015

Mrs. Hay,

You definitely left an indelible mark on God's great earth and for that I am thankful and grateful to have been in the presence of you and Mr. Hay for so many years.

You lived a life filled with love, family, friends, countless celebrations, vacations, and a house with a revolving door that opened to one of the most welcoming homes one could imagine. I always felt at home in your home. There were no strangers once they crossed the threshold of your doorstep.

You doled out advice like my mother would, you brought tears to my eyes from laughter from your insightful observations of the world, and you put the SOUL in soul food.

I am saddened by the fact that you are no longer here in the physical but I know your spirit of giving, thoughtfulness, and caring, lives in each and every person you ever came across.

I am certain that you were greeted by your beloved husband, James Hay when you entered God's house and you can dance forever in a place more beautiful than one's mind can only imagine.

Thank you for everything!

You did do it your way! You can rest now.

Love,

Shawna Wiggins

January 3, 2015

Gloria was the best indication of who and what the word FRIEND mean.She lived her life to the fullest without regreats or excuses. She was a genuine, sincere, loyal, reliable, honest, caring, kind-hearted,virtuous woman. Although I don't want to say good-bye, GOD has spoken and now she is one of GOD'S beautiful, smiling angels. Rest in peace my friend.

January 3, 2015

Dear Hay Family...Earth has no sorrow that heaven cannot heal. I can only imagine what you are feeling now at this time...weeping may endure for a night but joy comes in the morning! I can only say you are in my thoughts and prayers. Jackie, though we may be far apart in distance, you will always be close to my heart for so many reasons. You are a friend for life! Be strong my sister and when you feel like you just can't make it, remember God will carry you through!

January 3, 2015

So sorry for your loss, praying for the family, praying for strength during these hard times, she will be truly missed...I met Gloria through Ollie, always made you laugh and smile...

January 2, 2015

I am so glad I was able to spend some time with your mother only two days before her transition to be with our Heavenly father. I will treasure always her words of wisdom and advice that she has given to me on so many occasions. Rest in Peace. May GOD also grant the family his precious peace and comfort during this time.

January 2, 2015

My dear sweet Gloria! What a blessing it is to have known you! You were one of the sweetest, giving, caring and brutally honest women I have ever met. You taught me so much about cooking, dating, being a woman and life in general. I am going to miss calling you just because, stopping by just to see that beautiful smile and indulging in your delicious desserts. I attribute so much of the woman I am to you. As difficult as it is to say 'goodbye', I find consolation in knowing that you were proud of me and my choices in life. Thank you for everything, most importantly thank you for being you. I aspire to be half the woman you were. Rest in eternal peace!

January 2, 2015

Jackie and family I am so sorry for your loss but, what a tremendous life she lived. Jackie, as you know your mother raised me and help guide me on my path today. I was blessed to be able to see your mom at my dads funeral and she was still the feisty mother I always knew. She was there to support and love my family through a tough time and I want you to know we are here for you as well. Anything you need please do not hesitate. We have always loved everyone in your family and that's never gonna change. There are so many special memories that I will always keep deep in my heart of your mom. Will miss you for life Momma, love you Sis. Stay strong. Always here for you.

January 2, 2015

Your mother Ms. Hays was always kind, and a joy to be around. I pray that your family has peace during this difficult time knowing that she is now in Heaven smiling down from above. "In the presence of The Lord is fullness of joy forevermore", and Ms. Hays is with our Heavenly Father and Lord Jesus. Please know that we are here for you in any regard needed. From our hearts to yours, we love you Primus/Hay Family

January 2, 2015

Gloria Hay. From the first day I met you, my life was forever changed. I was hired by Drew University to be your supervisor, from that first day I realized who was really in charge! Your knowledge and wisdom was freely shared (whether I wanted it or not ☺️) and always with honesty, love and concern. Once I made you so mad you said, "I'm through with you!" I quickly replied, "Oh no you're not, I'm not going to let you stay mad at me because I need you too much!." We laughed about that for years! I can't believe that was 30 years ago! You have blessed me and my family for many years with your wonderful cooking, great stories and incredible sense of humor. I still get rave reviews on the Peach Cobbler and Macaroni and Cheese you taught me to make. I know you're in heaven lovin on Jay and letting everybody know he's yours! ☺️. May God wrap you in his loving arms. You will forever be remembered and missed!

January 2, 2015

Where can I begin. Gloria knew me before I came into existence. She and my mom grew up in Louisiana and the Andersons and the Hay family have been related forever prime example that blood is not the only way you can be family. So many memories childhood to the time she left for Atlanta life will be different without her helping hand, positive influence and laughter and love God earned an angel that will definitely mean that heaven will be taken to another level I love you auntie and I will miss you and our phone conversations but I know that your health was a challenge here on earth but now you are free until we meet again rest in heavenly peace

January 2, 2015

Dear Friend,

I will cherish our bond forever and always. Your kindheartedness was most infectious, your insight was beneficial, and your love will infinitely reign supreme! This I know.

I will miss our late night and early morning chats, a few that were highly debatable; such as “Michelle Obama’s short sleeves, your lifetime fascination with Victor Newman and the Lakers and last but not least your “everlasting feat” and “sincere determination” in finding me a husband.” Keep hope alive my dear…

Girl your cooking lessons were a blast. I can clearly hear you taunting me about being “too cute” in the kitchen because I was so adamant about keeping things in order as I prepared things. Often giving me a look of sheer annoyance nevertheless we made it through. To date everyone raves about my Thanksgiving dinner (especially the dressing!) Thanks to you!

I will never forget the rides to wherever, it was time well spent. And though the dialogue dwindled a little over the years, the idol chitchat will always hold a special place in my heart.

My visit with you on Mother’s Day was very special. Indicative to past visits, I followed your directives as I assisted you in packing for your trip to Georgia; we caught up on things, dished a little and watched some television. Thank you for the Memories. I will truly miss you Mrs. Hay!

Lot's of Love,

Felisa

January 2, 2015

My prayes are with you and your family in this time of the loss of your Love One, Your Mother.....Pastor Verna Anderson

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auntie 9 years no way it still seems like yesterday I miss you so very much our conversation our hugs just our relationship periodyou were indeed one of a kind you are gone but never forgotten we love you much and continue to be thankful for the memories

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Man, we miss you so much. You were the best to ever do it. I learned so much from you that I still apply to my daily life. Jackie and I are still the best Godsisters to each other. Your boyfriend and I are still together. We reminisce about you often. Happy Heavenly Birthday. Continue to rest peacefully. Please hug Jay for me.

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December 31, 2022

Missing and remembering my dearest friend, Gloria Jeanne. She touched our lives in so many wonderful and joyful ways.Our group of friends traveled to so many Hawkins Family reunions and on a few cruises. I posted a picture of the 4th Hawkins reunion held in Tampa Florida. We laughed, shared secrets and had just a wonderful time enjoying each other. Pictured is Gloria in the center from (left to right) Joyce Stephens, Jeannie Mims, Carolyn Turner Hall, Eugenia Jackson and me, Jackolyn KingGloria, you are dearly missed

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January 4, 2020

My thoughts and memories reflect on my friend and sister, Gloria Jean Hay. I often think of and miss my dear friend. I miss our friendship. I miss our long conversations and sharing of memories. I miss our daily conversations, even when she was out of town. I miss her giving me advise that I did not follow and when something did not work out the way I planned, she would say, “Jackolyn, didn’t I tell you so.” And we would laugh.I miss her dressing at Thanksgiving time and the cakes that she always said she had a trick in making them.

I met Gloria in the early 1980’s, she instantly became my friend and was loved so much by my mother. Theolis Jackson, that momma adopted her as a daughter. My husband’s family, the Hawkins adopted her as a cousin. Gloria was invited to all the family events, holidays, the family meetings, and she attended every family reunion (even two in Florida that I did not attend).

Happy Birthday, MOM

March 14, 2018

He broke the mold when he made you, Mom. Your strength was always misunderstood by those who were blind and misled, but cherished by those who truly knew your heart. Your compassion was immeasurable and though you were not particularly vocal about your spirituality, you exemplified the compassion and spirit of Christ Our Lord! I am confident that God delivered you into heaven. Happy Birthday! Rest in paradise, Old Lady!

I love you,

Jackie

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