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This memorial website was created in the memory of Graham Neale who died age 84 following a long hard battle with motor neurone disease. Graham touched the lives of everyone he met and we will never forget him. Please take a moment to add a message below or click on the "Stories" tab to leave a longer message / memory (it doesn't have to be a story!). Thank you. xx

October 16, 2013
October 16, 2013
Thank you Graham for being such a kind support during my first year as a PDS tutor - & here I am some 8 years later!
October 16, 2013
October 16, 2013
I am very sad to hear about Grahams death, my thoughts are with his family and friends. Graham will be missed by the department and his contribution to education and healthcare on both personal and professional levels are a tribute to him.
October 16, 2013
October 16, 2013
Graham had a very big impact upon how I practise medicine and his advice proved invaluable in finding a specialty and Consultant post which have proved exceptionally rewarding and fulfilling for almost thirty years. You are in our thoughts at this sad time.
October 16, 2013
October 16, 2013
I am very sorry to hear of Graham's death and my condolences go to all the family. Graham was a great support to me on the PRISM study which ran from 2009 to 2011. I will always remember him as a wonderfully wise man who remained very approachable and down to earth and was always willing to help.
October 16, 2013
October 16, 2013
Dear Graham, You were an extremely knowledgeable and incisive medico-legal expert. Your astute clinical judgment was matched by real kindness towards claimants (who frequently need this) - a rare combination. I will miss not only the academic rigour you brought to our discussions, but your sense of humour. Thank you. Joachim
October 16, 2013
October 16, 2013
Dr Neale was my tutor in 2009-2010. He always had fantastic stories to tell our group and helped us to really understand how to help patients by paying attention to details. He wrote an excellent reference for my application for my BSc course. I am so grateful for all his help. My thoughts are with his family at this time. He was a wonderful man.
October 16, 2013
October 16, 2013
I got to know Graham quite well over the last 10 years, meeting him first when I worked at the NPSA. He was a fine man with a real commitment to his patients, his students and the NHS. I've no doubt he has inspired many young professionals over the years who will remember his wise counsel well.
October 16, 2013
October 16, 2013
Graham was a great friend since 1963; a superb & dedicated clinician; an excellent teacher, researcher & writer; a devoted husband, father & grandfather; & a courageous, inspiring patient with a drawn-out, progressive disease. He will be sorely missed and will always be an inspiration as to how a life should be lived & how to face the end with courage and equanimity. Farewell, dear friend!
October 16, 2013
October 16, 2013
I didn't know Graham very well but was always struck by his incredible intelligence, sharpness but also his humility when talking to others. He was a great man and who made a huge contribution in many ways.
October 16, 2013
October 16, 2013
I only knew Graham through email starting 1 1/2 ago. But, he seriously rocked! The work he did around the response of the law to clinical error, his endeavours to encourage a different approach (and his input into developing the NHS Redress Act), and his indefatigable energy - proved and continue to prove, inspirational to me. He was a great intellect and kind and generous with his time.
October 16, 2013
October 16, 2013
Graham was an inspirational figure for those of us who were just beginning to face the problems with patient safety. He was a leading member of our patient safety research unit and a pioneering researcher in this field. He will be fondly remembered by us all for his dedication in improving the safety of patients. He was ahead of his time in openly admitting to the errors in patient care.
October 16, 2013
October 16, 2013
I only met Graham when he came to the SITraN Open Day. His joie de vivre, and enthusiasm for life and his courage and stoicism when facing the devastating effects of MND were readily apparent. Fiona gave him tremendous love and support throughout his illness and must I am sure have been a great comfort to him. Please accept my sincere condolences following your sad loss.
October 15, 2013
October 15, 2013
Graham, we will miss you. You were a great brother-in- law and friend. You were there for all our family in times of medical emergencies and always so interested in our family activities. You will always be remembered fondly.
'The world is a poorer place for your passing' Vera, Shaun & Family
October 15, 2013
October 15, 2013
Graham was a truly wonderful colleague and I will miss him greatly. Even once he stopped working, he would come and visit. I used to look forward to his visits and listen intently to his wisdom. He stood out in his compassion for students and colleagues and always had more to give. I will always remember him with respect and admiration.
October 14, 2013
October 14, 2013
Graham was an inspiration. He was a great story teller and would use these stories as a reminder of the importance of proper care for patients. To the very end he was making helpful suggestions via email to help me with my research project. He will be hugely missed at Imperial. I send my deepest condolences to his family and thank you Fiona for your email.
October 14, 2013
October 14, 2013
Graham was such a lovely man, who was kind and generous to his colleagues and his students. He was kind and wise, and very giving. I was terribly sad to hear of his passing, and send my heartfelt condolences to his family.
October 14, 2013
October 14, 2013
Grahams dedication to improving patient safety was inspiring and I feel very lucky that I had the opportunity to work with him. He was a kind, caring and generous man and always went out of his way to help me with both work and non-work related matters. Graham touched the lives of so many people and his presence at the CPSSQ will be sorely missed and always remembered.
October 13, 2013
October 13, 2013
Great memories of a wonderful friend and brother-in-law. He will be sadly missed by all who had the privilege of knowing him. Rest In Peace. Tony, Mary Anthony & Heather
October 12, 2013
October 12, 2013
Graham broke the mould (& my tooth when teaching me to swim under water!). He was broad minded, very understanding, slightly left-field, and, all round, a genuine caring person. No pretence. Just a straight forward dedicator to medical science. A clever, clever man who enjoyed football. In respect, I salute Graham for all he achieved and his legacy will live on (& on). x Dorset Neales
October 12, 2013
October 12, 2013
On behalf of Caroline and Jill Sims:-
Graham will always be remembered as a caring man who helped so many people. He contributed so much to his profession, his research and to the well-being of his patients. Never to be forgotten.
October 12, 2013
October 12, 2013
'Caring','compassionate', 'supportive' Graham was all of these things. His determination to succeed was evident from an early age and throughout his life he strove to do his very best in all he undertook. A keen Arsenal supporter and much loved and respected family member he will be fondly remembered by all those whose lives he touched - friends, family and patients aike.
October 11, 2013
October 11, 2013
From a patient perspective, Graham was in a class of his own. He did not tick boxes. Instead, he was a medical super sleuth, giving individual attention to each patient, regardless of his time and personal effort, often into the night, until the correct diagnosis was achieved. His passing is a sad and a devastating loss to medicine.
October 9, 2013
October 9, 2013
I remember Graham so well over many years. At Hammersmith Hospital in 1963, I succeded him as HP to Chris Booth and I was so impressed by his wonderful reputation with his patients. I have kept in contact over the years and recently I was so impressed to observe his courage inthe face of such a terrible illness. He was a wonderful man
October 9, 2013
October 9, 2013
I was very sad to hear of Graham's passing. It was a privilege to work with him at UCL and he was a wonderful colleague and mentor. He will be greatly missed.
October 9, 2013
October 9, 2013
Thank you for your support of my own work and that of the Clinical Human Factors Group. I'm deeply aware of the passion with which you supported the "patient safety" movement as it grew, and especially your support of those of us harmed.
October 9, 2013
October 9, 2013
Dear Graham,
You were an enormous supporter and adviser to us at Chaucer Clinic and Gainsborough Foundation and so generous in sharing your wisdom and knowledge. We miss you already. Nick Charles & Team
October 9, 2013
October 9, 2013
Our very dear and special friend Graham we will miss you terribly as a family we are very honoured to have known you and eternally grateful for the dedication and constant support you gave us after losing Dad 'Brian'. It is because of you we could rebuild our lives but also gain a wonderful friendship with you, Fiona and Sophia. Our thoughts love and support are with all your family. xxx
October 8, 2013
October 8, 2013
May I express my sadness in hearing about Graham's passing. I was a speech therapist that worked with him in Watford and fondly remember our discussions about technology and mobile "apps" and increasing his knowledge of everything techny. Certainly, his love of teaching and wanting to share his experiences with students was something I will always remember - Nick
October 8, 2013
October 8, 2013
When I wrote theBBC play that began AVMA Graham was the very first doctor I met who stood up against negligence. I was pretty naive. I could not believe so many doctors would hide behind a wall of silence. Bless you Graham - there was no lip service - you really did put the patient first. From Peter and Cynthia.
October 8, 2013
October 8, 2013
Graham was both a superb physician, and the most inspiring teacher I ever had the pleasure of meeting and knowing. His enthusiasm for everything he undertook was exemplary. It was simply a priviledge to have known him both as a friend and head of Medicine. While he was with us in Dublin he was an enormous help in the evolution of our Medical School.
October 8, 2013
October 8, 2013
I am so pleased to have known Graham - he was a fantastic doctor, researcher and communicator, who always made time to show genuine concern and interest in others. A fantastic role model. I feel honoured to have known him.
October 8, 2013
October 8, 2013
I had the pleasure of working with Graham in 2009/10. His pleasure of teaching students was clear to all. He generously shared his experiences and work on patient safety and moved us all so much closer to recognising harm in the way we need to if we are to make the progress we all wish for. Healthcare is richer for him and I am thankful and privileged to have known him.
October 8, 2013
October 8, 2013
Graham's modesty and caring, his ability to forge ahead in the face of adversity, his enthusiasm to learn and teach, will live on in many of his ex-students and patients and in his daughter Fiona who has exchanged with him so much caring. Long may we remember him and cultivate his humanitarian qualities
October 8, 2013
October 8, 2013
Graham was a hugely impressive teacher and doctor and I really enjoyed working with him . He struck me as being exceptionally kind to everyone with whom he came into contact.He was particularly modest and considerate and seemed to go out of his way to find information , resources and ideas to help his colleagues, students and patients.
October 8, 2013
October 8, 2013
One of the first things that struck me about Graham was his incredible mix of charisma and caring. I have always felt that he was such a great person and I feel lucky to be one of the people who got to work with him and benefit from his knowledge and insight. Rest in Peace Graham, you won't be forgotten. Cath x
October 8, 2013
October 8, 2013
Graham was a true gentleman, exceptional teacher and pioneering gastroenterologist who has inspired a generation of doctors. His pearls of clinical wisdom, always delivered with humility and a twinkle in his eye, will be recounted to the next generation by those fortunate enough to have been influenced by him. We will all miss him. Peace and quiet at last. With fond memories, Max Pitcher
October 7, 2013
October 7, 2013
It was a pleasure to work with Graham. He was a conscientious, thoughtful and caring doctor who cared about patients. I will miss him.
October 7, 2013
October 7, 2013
Graham's humanity, humility and integrity made him the ultimate role model for students and colleagues alike - our lives are all the richer for having been touched by his (fondly remembered by a fellow UCL tutor)
October 7, 2013
October 7, 2013
Graham was a very kind and thoughtful uncle. He was always very interested in the whole family and wrote lovely letters especially at Christmas. We will all miss him.
October 7, 2013
October 7, 2013
Though our lives touched only briefly, Graham's warmth, kindness, and also his depth of expertise, shone into our hearts and minds and will not be forgotten. With love from Karenna and David
October 7, 2013
October 7, 2013
Dear Prof
It was such a privilege to get to know you during my stay in England. There are so few real gentlemen left in this world and you were one of them. You were so calm and gentle and I enjoyed some lovely conversations with you. I can only imagine the void you have left in Fi's life. Fondest wishes. Dina (South Africa)
October 7, 2013
October 7, 2013
Graham was a wonderful, caring man and has helped countless people through is passion for good patient care and patient safety, as a doctor, a researcher, a trustee and volunteer with the charity Action against Medical Accidents (AvMA). Will always be remembered by his friends at AvMA.
October 7, 2013
October 7, 2013
Dr Graham,
You were one of those amazing teachers and mentors that we as your students were only lucky to have. Your life stories were an incredible inspiration to me and I am so grateful that you were my teacher.
-Estelle
October 6, 2013
October 6, 2013
Dad, no words can express how much I love and miss you. You were an amazing teacher and role model. You gave me a reason to fight through the toughest of times and inspired me to make the most of every day. You will always be my hero and my everything. I will always love you and treasure our time together. I could not have asked for a better Dad or Grandad. Thankyou for everything. Love Fi
October 6, 2013
October 6, 2013
You always have those few teachers in your life, who you can never ever forget and Dr Graham is certainty somebody who I will always remember for the rest of my life. He was a fantastic teacher; his enthusiasm in teaching medicine to his students was just so awe-inspiring; he would always have so many medical stories to tell us &I would always look forward to them and feel really inspired.
October 6, 2013
October 6, 2013
Graham has always been one of my heroes, introducing me to my first patient as a medical student in Dublin (1979). His wonderful combination of achievement, humility, integrity, humour and a clear moral compass led to an all too brief encounter with the fog and ambiguity of medical practice in Dublin. His legacy is extraordinary, and our sympathies are with his family at their great loss.
October 6, 2013
October 6, 2013
Dear Graham,
You were a great doctor, teacher,Dad and family man ,but you were what is rarely seen these days , a true humanitarian.Your selfless interest in helping others was outstanding . It was a real joy and privilege to have known you .They broke the mould when they made you!God Bless.Gillian and Michael
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October 5, 2020
October 5, 2020
Thinking of you Graham at this time of year. Leaving us on your step-grandson Mark’s birthday means the date is etched in our minds.one a sad memory and one a shoot one. We were so glad that you could stay with us for the last 10days or so of your life. 
August 21, 2020
August 21, 2020
We continue to remember Dr Neale for his fatherly and concerned approach to students, junior doctors and patients alike , always willing to guide them through difficult times
sincerely
Edgar Pullicino
August 12, 2019
August 12, 2019
Let us renew our memories of Graham, whose enthusiasm for teaching, mentorship, and sharing of clinical experience continues to bear fruit in the patients of the many doctors that Graham trained, God Bless, Edgar Pullicino
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February 22, 2015

I met Graham when I was working on ward B2 as a Staff Nurse in the early 60s. He was Christopher Booth's houseman. 

I don't know what made me look him up. Part of me wishes I hadn't. I am devastated that he is no longer loping along corridors or swooping through the ward.

Probably the nicest man I have ever met, and I shall always remember what wise councel  he gave, and what support to a not very confident nurse.

Nor will I forget that on the day after I married, (supposed to be a secret) he organised the entire Booth team to come in on that Saturday morning to greet me.Yes even Christopher!

I feel I am missing a dear friend even though I have not been in touch in the intervening years.

I am sad that his last years were not entirely healthy. My best wishes to his family,

Sheila Somerville, nee Henry.




Graham at Imperial College - memorial service eulogy

December 12, 2013

Graham Neale: memorial service eulogy

Susan Burnett

I must begin with an apology – an apology to Graham – he wasn’t one for public praise – and I can hear him now telling me to sit down and not embarrass him. Over the last few years we shared the office in the medical school building at Imperial where we had many good conversations about how to improve patient safety, we also talked football (more of which later) and right up until the end we shared some good humour. I know Graham liked a social gathering and to see ‘his girls’ as he called us, looking good, so I made a particular effort with my outfit today – and I’m wearing a skirt!

Graham was a very special doctor who touched the lives of a great many people, many that he worked with and helped directly and others around the world whose care was influenced by Graham’s work in patient safety.

Let me begin in 1997when Charles Vincent was running the Clinical Risk Unit at UCL. He met Graham through the Board of AvMA. Charles was trying to raise money for a study into adverse events in British hospitals and finding it incredibly difficult. Graham offered to help and through both their efforts they raised money for the first study. Graham was the clinical lead of the study, uncovering the figure of 10% of patients being harmed by their health care in our hospitals.

Without Graham the study that has been so influential in terms of the development of patient safety in the UK, wouldn’t have happened. Working with Maria Woloshynowych, Graham reviewed over a 1000 sets of notes, and the early findings were influential, being used by, the UK’s Chief Medical Officer, Sir Liam Donaldson, in the report ‘An Organisation with a Memory’ which led to the setting up of the National Patient Safety Agency – and that is where I was working when I first met Graham – I was leading the roll-out the national reporting system for adverse events and setting up the network of patient safety managers.

Despite the 12 years that have passed since the paper - written by Charles, Graham and Maria - was published on harm in British hospitals, it still stands out as a landmark piece of research.

This study brought together Graham’s clinical knowledge with his medico-legal work, and his outrage about poor clinical practice and about the lack of care that some people experienced when they had been harmed by their healthcare.  

Graham’s medico-legal work was not just about helping patients and families get legal redress for harm caused by healthcare, he went further – he would try to find a good clinician to help them in the aftermath. I had many conversations with him about the best way to help someone he was in touch with – he would ask about how to report things to senior hospital managers; about how to get a patient some extra care at a different trust, how to report that he had found poor care in a system, without blaming the people involved.

In 2002 Graham came to join Charles Vincent in the Clinical Safety Research Unit in the Dept of Surgery at Imperial College where he was a mentor, friend and inspiration to all of us. Charles said that his abiding memory is of Graham bounding in to his office, probably on a weekly basis, with a new research proposal, a newly published paper and enough ideas for ten years of research and a team of 50!. He used to talk to us in the office about ideas for new studies, particularly his interest in finding ways to reduce diagnostic errors.

Charles has told me that Graham was different from other doctors that he knew, first because Graham was brave enough to criticise when patients had received poor care – whoever was involved – and second because he was brave enough to work with a psychologist – he must have enjoyed this though because he ended up working with lots of them!

Soon after he joined our team he began supervising the PhD research of Dr Sisse Olsen, getting doctors involved in reviewing their own records. This work led to the World Health Organisations toolkit to assess patient safety in poor and developing countries and it is here where Grahams work has permeated the lives of thousands around the world for the better. This work led to many publications and to a letter in the BMJ about the need for greater medical leadership in patient safety.

Sisse told me that about a month after she started her PhD she became pregnant – she was really worried about what Graham would say, but she had nothing to worry about, he was delighted and when it came to her writing up, Graham would call round to discuss the research and Sisse would hand him the baby and start writing!

His work on record review was influential with the NHS Institute for Improvement. Nicola Davey and colleagues at the Institute who were developing the Global Trigger Tool for use in UK hospitals have said how the publication of papers on the topic of record review inspired them and gave them the confidence to develop the trigger tools – a form of record review but looking for specific triggers that may indicate harm. These trigger tools are now used in most NHS hospitals in some form or another to uncover harm.

Graham also loved teaching medical students and kept this up for as long as possible, mainly at UCLH. He liked to ‘get them early’ as he would say – teaching them about patient safety before they were on the wards. Maria Ahmed joined our research unit as a junior doctor and describes Graham as an absolute legend. She recalls how Graham took her under his wing to supervise the first of her PhD studies to examine junior doctors' reflections on patient safety. She said he inspired a zest for research and encouraged her to 'always remain an academic' – seeking to understand and find solutions.

He often spoke about the students he taught with real pride and it is great to see how many of them have put messages on the memorial page on the internet. He also supported DAPS – doctors advancing patient safety – in fact whenever there was a meeting or event or group that he could advise or help or just learn more about patient safety, he was there.

Graham was known to many members of Clinical Human Factors Group too. He attended and actively contributed to one of their early Standing Group meetings at Imperial College and was really keen to see the group progress. In March of this year Graham wrote to the CHFG thanking them for drawing his attention to the Horizon Programme on the BBC called ‘How to avoid mistakes in surgery’. He shared some of his own personal experiences and continued to encourage the group to work to create an environment where the clinician could truly take an holistic and personal approach to ‘their patients’. The Clinical Human Factors Group leader, Martin Bromiley has written a lovely obituary on the group’s web site for Graham.

Graham was remarkable for his intellect, his extraordinary memory and range of interests but mostly his utter lack of self importance. No matter how eminent or how junior, whether a senior clinician or a patient, everyone received his absolute attention and where needed, his unfailing help. Even at the end of his life he was emailing to help our researchers – Anam Parand said received a list of the different carers that were visiting him to help her in her research about patient safety in people’s homes.

He was great around the office too. His desk was always piled high with medical records but he still had time to talk – many along our corridor at work have said how much they enjoyed his company over lunch in our small kitchen. He often spoke about his children – so we got to hear what you were all up to! Rachel Davis described how he used to come in to see the researchers in the morning asking ‘how are my girls’ – determined for Rachel to find herself someone wonderful to settle down with to stop her being so wild as he described her!

 

He loved clinical challenges and through this was a great teacher, always encouraging opinion and thought in others. Susy Long, a fellow physician, has fond memories of him testing her with the latest case he was grappling with - "so what would you have done girl?” he would ask - always testing, thinking and teaching.

If Graham had one failing though, it was that he was an Arsenal fan - I speak as a supporter of Taunton Town! When one of the German members of our research team, Anna Renz was trying to think of names for her new baby, Graham went through the list of German’s who had played for Arsenal  - I think he wanted the baby called Jens Lehman! We teased him when Arsenal weren’t doing too well. Even towards the end when he lost the power of speech he was communicating to us – in particular to Renata Samulnik our Centre Manager on the next desk – he would write things down and with a few words on the paper accompanied by his big grin, he could make us laugh!

Today we are celebrating Graham’s life – and there is much for us to celebrate. Graham’s early work in patient safety - at a time when it was not the ‘done thing’ to criticise fellow doctors – how he  helped to open up the profession, open up everyone’s eyes to the harm that was happening in our healthcare system, how he helped to get us talking and doing something about patient safety. Through his work with Sisse doctors around the world now have validated tools to review practice. Through his tutoring and teaching of medical students and fellow clinicians many more doctors are now engaged in work to improve patient safety. And through his medico-legal work many patients who have been harmed by their healthcare have not only received redress, but have been helped to have good care in the aftermath.

Much to celebrate - and to do Graham justice we must continue the work to improve patient safety – and to help patients whenever we can.

Thank you

 

November 17, 2013

Graham and I met in January 1964, in the main corridor of Hammersmith Hospital when I started working for Sir Christopher Booth. I have the greatest respect for Graham who was a hard working and dedicated physician with enormous human compassion – in short a wonderful ‘doctor’s doctor’.

There are many anecdotes, which come to mind as I recall the start of our friendship. For example, as part of my initiation rites, Graham introduced me to the dramatis personae around the hospital. In B block, we bumped into Hugh McMichael who, Graham explained, was Chris’ houseman at the time. "No relation to Sir John McMichael?” I asked. "Oh yes, that's his son", Graham replied with a deadpan non-committal expression. We then walked into the Lower Medical Corridor where we met Chris' senior registrar of the day, Michael Brain, which again provoked my inevitable question, "Is there any connection to Lord Brain, the neurologist?" With just the suggestion of a mischievous smile, Graham again confirmed the filial link. As you might imagine, this only served to convince me that, contrary to its reputation as a free-thinking, meritocratic, liberal institution, the Hammersmith was clearly a den of nepotism. But of course the truth was very different since both these individuals richly deserved their appointments, which clearly had been made on merit alone.

Our first few professional years together were challenging, stimulating, interesting, career-changing, exciting, rewarding and mostly fun despite the hard work, with some bouts of stress, anxiety, self-doubt and even, occasionally, mild depression. At that time, the gastroenterology team consisted of an unlikely cocktail of different personalities, which nonetheless worked well together under Chris' leadership. It is impressive to see how so many of the friendships forged at that time, remain strong today.

The “gastro lab” in the Lower Medical Corridor was far from luxurious but the team working there was an effective and productive one, and above all, a happy one. Gilbert used to affectionately tease Graham, referring to him as ‘The Lurcher’ a name based on his inimitable loping gait as he strode down the corridor, often bearing large volumes of urine samples for his research. I also recall Graham’s work with Gil attempting to unravel the mysteries of rickets and osteomalacia in post-gastrectomy patients, and in those with small bowel bacterial overgrowth.

Graham’s greatest strength though, was perhaps the pursuit of clinical science at the bedside, and his enormous patience and persistence, in successfully unraveling complex clinical problems which had defeated other lesser mortals.

Others in the department included Mike Brain who was pursuing his dual haematological and gastroenterological interests, Jimmy Stewart who was TK Stubbins research fellow and was carrying out innumerable Crosby capsule biopsies in patients suspected of having coeliac disease or tropical sprue, and Gilbert Thomson who was continuing his research on vitamin D absorption. Gil’s work also involved collaborating with Graham on the bio-assay of circulating vitamin D, using rachitic rats. We all enjoyed the help of Janet Heath who was remarkably tolerant and hard-working with such diverse tasks as homogenising faecal samples, preparing the everted sacs for studies of intestinal transport, as well as quantitative laboratory assays. All this seems a million miles away from the genomics, proteomics, cell and molecular biological techniques, of today. However, our clinical research and relatively simple laboratory-based investigations were, in their own modest way, ground-breaking at that time.

A few months after I arrived at Hammersmith, Evelyn and I decided to get married. We were searching for suitable accommodation. At the same time, Graham was also trying to rent a flat and the Postgraduate School office had given him the address of accommodation at Fife Road in East Sheen. This proved to be exceptionally good accommodation. However, in an extraordinary act of generosity Graham kindly agreed to relinquish his option on this house so that, as newlyweds, Evelyn and I might benefit from it. In the end, it was not a question deciding whether or not we would inherit his option, but rather whether we would ‘pass muster’ during an exhaustive interview/cross-examination by the landlady, to see if we were suitable tenants. We shared the house with the lady in question, Miss Catherine Judson, who subsequently became a good friend. In fact, I suspect that in some ways we became her surrogate children while for us, she became a parent substitute. Either way, Evelyn and I will always be grateful to Graham for his role in launching us on our married life in this elegant house. In fact, Catherine was a Telegraph-reading, true blue Tory who was at the opposite end of the political spectrum from Graham’s own left-wing principles. Indeed, having forsaken his option on this desirable accommodation, he often rationalised this subsequently by suggesting that his, and Catherine's, political views would never have been compatible.

Gilbert and I landed up in Boston during the summer of 1966 and whilst we were away, Chris Booth became the Director of the Department of Medicine at Hammersmith. By the time I returned from the States after my two-year stint there, Chris had managed to engineer consultant appointments for Graham, Gilbert and, subsequently, me. At the same time, gastroenterology had gone from strength to strength and the unit had been joined by Soad, Tim Peters, Adrian Douglas and shortly thereafter by others including Bill Doe, Gershey Hepner, Vint Chadwick, Elwyn Elias and a long list of other bright registrars and research fellows. Conducting a teaching ward round and struggling to keep some semblance of order with this lot was a baptism of fire for a novice consultant!

But again we have a more personal reason to recall our return from Boston. At that time, Graham was living in a flat in Acton and, for the second time, he rescued us by kindly letting us use his flat there for about a week, until we found some alternative accommodation. This was a godsend and, 41 years later, we are still grateful to him for it. In fact, all was well until the first morning when Evelyn had gone out shopping and I was dashing out the door, perhaps late for an outpatient clinic (as usual!). Unfortunately, we did not realise that the door was self-closing and when it slammed shut behind us, we were left outside with the only Yale key available on the inside - we survived!

As young new consultants, there was a fast learning curve but, as always, Graham had a wonderful "networking" talent and a great capacity to develop collaborative links with other departments, including biochemistry and the invaluable resource of detailed balance studies in the metabolic unit. We were all particularly impressed by a very bright young Irish nursing sister, Rosemary Geoghegan, who was in charge of the unit but none more so than Graham…and the rest is history.

Even though our professional paths diverged in the 1970’s, when Graham was appointed to the Chair of Medicine at Trinity College Dublin, and I moved to Guy's in January 1974 (exactly 10 years after I first arrived in London), this did not diminish our friendship and I have happy memories of visiting Graham in Dublin on a couple of occasions. On one such occasion the magnetic fame of a distinguished speaker from London resulted in an audience of at least three - Graham, one of his colleagues and the determined speaker with a punctured ego (me). I squirm to think about the insensitivity of insisting on giving my talk to such a small and probably totally bored audience - perhaps concerned that if I didn't, I could not legitimately claim my admittedly modest travel and hotel expenses.

On another occasion, Graham and Rosemary kindly entertained us at their home in Dublin and we also dined in the elegant College of Surgeons building in the presence of the then Taoiseach. By that time Graham had already become remarkably ‘street-wise’ about the machinations of Irish politics.

Perhaps one of the criteria for a personal, as well as a professional friendship, is the social activities away from work. Evelyn and I both have warm memories of a wonderful summer weekend with Graham, and his family near Cambridge; with delightful walks through the East Anglian countryside and beside the River Cam.

Evelyn and I both greatly admired Graham and his principles and the many things he has achieved in his professional life.

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