- 91 years old
- Date of birth: Jun 2, 1925
- Place of birth:
Dortmund, Westfalen, Germany
- Date of passing: Oct 7, 2016
- Place of passing:
Bishop, California, United States
|Mom finally has her window seat in heaven|
This memorial website was created in memory of our beloved Mama/Mommy/Mum,
Helga Schmidt-Gengenbach departed this earth on October 7, 2016, with family at her side. She was born Helga Hunger in Dortmund, Germany in 1925, and after surviving World War II as a teenager, worked as a bookkeeper for a company that manufactured mining equipment. She married the love of her life, Siegfried Schmidt-Gengenbach in 1951, and together they emigrated to a new life in the United States in 1954, settling in the West Grove/Avondale, PA area. After continuing her bookkeeping work at Star Rose Nurseries and learning English on the job, she left to concentrate on raising a family. She was a devoted wife, loving mother, and tireless caregiver to family members as well as friends. As "the best Mommy in the world" she strove to raise her daughters with an appreciation of all things beautiful in the world, including lasting holiday traditions that brought endless joy. She loved plants, birds, music, singing, dancing, and above all, laughing. With a German song or saying for every occasion, Helga also provided all who knew her with endless supplies of delicious German food, especially baked goods and Christmas cookies. In 2012 she moved to Bishop, CA, to spend the rest of her days at Sterling Heights Assisted Living Community, which was very near one of her daughters.
She was preceded in death by her husband, Siegfried, and is survived by her daughter Marianne Schmidt-Gengenbach (Sue Mullins) of Crawfordville, FL, and Jutta Schmidt-Gengenbach (Jeff Holmquist) of Bishop, CA. Her departure leaves a giant hole in our hearts, and we will remember her forever.
As we celebrate Helga's long and amazing life, we invite you to make your memories of her a part of this memorial. She touched so many lives in so many different ways and in far flung places. Let this memorial be the gathering place for all those who knew and loved her.
"Helga's shining legacy resides in her daughters now. Though I didn't know Helga well, I see in Marianne a well-mothered human being. Surely Helga sowed the seeds of compassionate kindness, intelligence and humor that make Marianne the woman she is today. Jutta, I have no doubt that you have the same qualities. Sue's touching tribute speaks for itself about Helga's impact on HER life. Much love and Big Hugs Marianne, Jutta and Sue. I've no doubt Helga is resting in peace."
"Jutta, Jeff, and Family,
I love seeing all these wonderful photos of your mom and family! I never met your mom while in Bishop but sounds like one amazing lady, wife, and husband. And if Jutta learned everything about German desserts from her mom, then I know your mom is one heck of a lady with a dessert skill set that would impress all:) Lots of love and light to you all:) Jim and Elysia"
"Although we briefly visited every other year, we made great use of our short time together. We loved hearing stories about her life in PA and all she had to say about her friends back home.We always looked forward to our talks around the campfires surrounded by the stars.Our fondest memory that we to this day still chuckle about occurred during our annual walk off the Turkey day lunch.Mum was great to keep up as she was in great shape.But as she aged, she had a bit of trouble keeping up. She looked at us and said "whew, I am out of puff".. Our last visit with Mum was while she was recuperating from surgery.We went to visit her.Even there she had a great spirit.Brenda was just diagnosed with breast cancer.Mum looked at her and with a great big smile said, "it's OK, you will be fine"..We knew then that she would be OK because Mum said so. We so loved this great woman!"
"Oh lovely one Is she
A Mother she be
Close as an arrow to each of thee
Then she becomes a Mum to other
Oh how can it be
That the joy she brought may never again be
Oh, but yes, May the joy she brought continue to bring joy to all of ye
May your memories shine bright as you share the stories of she
As you wait until the day when she welcomes each of ye.
A tribute to Helga."
"We miss your sweet smile and will cherish your memory for always. Thank you for introducing us to great German cooking thru Marianne, not to mention when I was lucky enough to arrive close to the delivery of your wonderful Christmas cookies ! I can only hope to be as warm and graceful as you !"
"Mum is in her field of Edelweiss forever!
Every morning you greet me
Small and white
Clean and bright
You look happy to meet me
Blossom of snow may you bloom and grow
Bloom and grow forever
Bless my homeland forever"
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