This memorial website was created to honor and preserve the memory of our beloved Jacob. Jake passed peacefully on July 3rd, 2017 surrounded by his family. We will miss him and remember him forever.
Services for Jake are this Friday (July 7th) at Hartland Clubhouse (4910 Hartland Parkway in Lexington, KY). Open visitation from 12-4:30 pm with a memorial service following at 5:00 pm. Feel free to bring food to share or an instrument to jam with your friends. Jake wouldn't have wanted it any other way.
Please leave your memories of Jake. As a life-long mistchief maker, adventure taker, and jam session instigator, we know all his family and friends have many stories, pictures, and videos to share. Please leave these memories on this website so we can look back at them over the years as we hold Jake firmly in our hearts.
If you desire to make a donation to support the family in paying for final expenses, please use this Go Fund Me account: https://www.gofundme.com/JacobAWigginton.
If you feel moved to make a charitable donation in honor of Jake, please consider one of the organizations listed below.
- The Morehead Inspiration Center. MIC had an immeseriably positive impact on Jacob's life. Checks can be dropped off or mailed to Morehead Inspiration Center/Jason Jones at PO Box 92, Morehead, KY 40351.
- The Red River Gorge. Jake loved the Gorge. Donations in Jacob's honor can be made by check mailed to the Gladie Visitor's Center (3451 Sky Bridge Highway Rd. Hwy 715, Stanton, KY40380). Make checks payable to the USDA and indicate For: Red River Gorge.
Tributes
Leave a tributeJake was a master of words and no words seem fitting enough for the impact he had on our family and this world. He had a way of making each person in his life feel special and loved. I hope we can all find a way to BE that love and share that love he gave so well.
I have to share one funny story. We were at Jake's college graduation.watching the graduates file in. Nita believed she had found which one was Jake. About that time her phone rang. When she answered her voice became excited and a little loud. Jake had overslept and we were looking for him for nothing. After hurriedly getting dressed (including putting on Megan's very small pants by mistake) we finally see him slip in just to join the line of graduates proceeding to the stage to get their diplomas. Jake did graduate and left us with a great story. Jake's absence will leave an empty place at our table but his infectious smile will always be in our hearts. Let your voice sing in heaven,rest in peace.
perfect (who is?). He didn't sail through life without hardship or pain. But from his very first breath, he was much loved and a joy to be around. Even in the sadness and chaos of his death, love for him gave courage to those who loved him, and enabled them to care for him in the best possible way. CS Lewis said, "hardships often prepare ordinary people for an extraordinary destiny."
I'm thinking about Jake today and I'm thinking it was his destiny to be a candle. A candle makes everything around it brighter. His light inspired Megan and all his family to not let his candle simply go out, but pass its flame to many other families.
I'm thinking about Jake today, just like I'll do in many days to come.I think today, I'll cook a good meal for my family, and sing Wayfaring Stranger in his honor. It's a start.
For those of you that may not have known Jacob as he was growing up, Jake seemed to have two speeds: Stop and Full Blast! Apparently, he thought if he used Stop too much, he would wear it out so he did his best to stay at Full Blast.
When Jake was about five, Lyn and I were visiting Mark and Juanita at their house in Glendale. Juanita and Lyn were sitting on the sofa in the living room and I believe Mark and I were sitting on the other side of the room. Out of nowhere, Jacob runs into the room and slides to a stop in front of Lyn and Juanita. He locks in on Lyn, gets this mischievous smile, puts his left hand on his hip, pokes his crotch forward, grabs it with his right hand, gives it a little shake and pronounces: “I’m A Man!!”. This left my wife howling with laughter! Rocking back and forth, clapping her hands and just howling. In contrast Juanita sat very stoically with a small, wry, smile on her face and when Lyn finally started to calm down; Juanita looked at Lyn and said something along the lines of “Lyn, if you could show just a little self-control it would go a long way in helping me keep a handle on Jake”. Well, not only did Lyn make no promises of any increase in self-control around Jake but this request sent Lyn into another fit of laughter. To Lyn, Jake’s performances were just too funny to be ignored. As for Jake, he had made his statement and just as fast as he had entered the room he was off to find more entertainment.
To Mark, Juanita, Rachel, Sara and Megan: through the many precious memories Jacob has left you, I bet you find that Jake will have the ability to make you smile…. Long into the future!
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On Rappel
Have to admit when Jake was a very young lad I want to say 8-10 years old I was highly impressed with the little dude as he had nerves of steel.we were at Big South Fork hiking with his father and friends For some reason we bush whacked off the beaten path and found our selves in a mess to get back on track. On a bluff poundering our best and safest route to get back on trail easiest way was down about a 60 ft ledge. I had climbing gear and set up the rappell. Little Jake was eager and willing to go over the edge. Rigged him up clipped him onto the rope and with out hesitation that little cat shot off the side of that bluff like it was natural to him. I was impressed as it usualy it takes a lot of encouragement and coaching to get someone to back off the ledge for the first time they ever rappeled. He was a natural.
My brother my watcher
So I lay here awake of thinking of all the memories I have to share of Jake. He was such a huge part of my 20's and beyond. Megan worded how we met perfectly. I was a big part of Megan and Jake finally got together and puppies connected Megan and my friendship. Being new to EKU and Richmond I was nervous. I was living alone in Richmond and wasn't the best cook. From day one Jake always invited me for family dinner. It became a weekly event several times a week. This meant the world because I am not the greatest cook and cooking for 1 was always hard. He always included me and never made me feel like the third wheel. We had adventures on the road and sleepovers, amazing that 3 people could comfortably sleep in a full size bed and not fall off. After moving to Seattle I didn't get to come home as much. The phone calls came and went but when we did talk we laughed and chatted for so long. It was like time never passed. I always know that he wanted to check in and make sure I was okay. I am so glad that the last time I saw him he was able to meet my Jake and play music with him on the same stage. I always said that I had to get Jacob's approval for anyone I dated, and he did. Jake was more than a best friend but like the brother I never had. I will always here him giggle and call me Toodledirt!
Freaking Monkeys
So I’m not really sure where to begin with this reflection of my memories of my brother in arms Jake. I guess it all started off one day in class at EKU. There I was a new student in an unfamiliar town. I was just like Jake a student who played too much learning along the way about what people, life, and academia were all about in our own unique way. I’m not sure if he found me or I found him, any who it does not matter, because we were instantly united forever.
We never wanted to be tied down by schedules and demands of what society expected us to do. So as older than normal students we went through the Aquatic Biology program at EKU side by side. I could not even begin to count the nights that Megan had to listen to me and Jake dork out on one random topic or the other, while I did my laundry at their place. I’d either bury Mosita or Megan in a hot ass pile of clean clothes fresh out the dryer. That would do the trick for a bit! I have never met anyone so gifted in the art of the dichotomous key. I’m serious he just got it. After meeting his mother, I know why. All the hikes we went on chasing down and ID’ing everything in sight or grasp he had the gift. The world was ours to figure out the complexities of it interactions. So many philosophical scientific debates were had late nights and early mornings. We helped each other learn so dang much. So on and on I go.
One night while cramming for our Aquatic Wetland Plants final with Ron Jones there we were. It was about 3ish in the AM in the Moore building. Hot as hell. We have the ipod plugged into the loudest desktop speakers we could find. Moving from specimen to specimen, trying to figure out our ways to differentiate them. I mean so hot shirts off rocking out hot! Just two total freaks getting it, dancing, shucking, and jiving to our own special grove! I mean seriously, would you expect anything less? Well that’s how we learned. Now low and behold here comes Dr. Cupp the Herpetology professor strolling into the building at 3ish AM to write his final. We have no clue he is there, at the same time he had no clue we would be there. What a freak! So all he does is stick his head into the room and state, “You all got this.” No comment about the music or why we are half naked. What an interesting night.
So this brings me to the night Megan discovered Florida monkeys. So there the three of us were heading down to Langarado Music Festival in Fort Lauderdale, Florida. We are making it to South Florida in one run with three drivers, no stops, for the most part. Megan took the first leg of the journey; she made it to somewhere/nowhere Georiga. Then Jake took over. The whole time we are pounding Rock Star energy drinks like it has been banded. Then I take over somewhere in central Florida. We arrive at my parents’ house in Wellington, Florida about an hour from our final stop. I’m wired and the love birds are well rested. My parents have this full breakfast spread prepared for us, fresh fruit and all. Well-fed and all, on to Langardo we go once again! I show up exhausted and just want to sleep for a bit, after we check to the condo. Well, there is Jake so no chance of that, we got to go to the show now! So a 32oz Rockstar pounded in the parking lot of a 7/11 we are there. It turns out to be one of the best festivals I have ever been to! So we make it back to the condo in that sweet, sweet silver station wagon and sack out.
Next thing I know Megan is flipping out, “Hey guys wake up there are monkeys outside the window!” Me and Jake exchange the look of bullshit. She goes on, “no seriously, there are monkey outside the fucking window!” So I crawl over Jake and look and holy shit there are monkeys outside the window! I yell at Jake, “Seriously, there are monkeys outside the window!” Jake springs out so fast it is not even funny. Megan is instantly pissed because how fast he reacted to what I said, not her. Love her.
Turns out our condo was next to a nature preserve. During the 60’s a hurricane hit the local zoo and some monkeys survived and decided to reproduce in the preserve. So, the few lucky visitors who decided to stay at this condo have the unknowing opportunity to interact with this monkey population. Only Jake would randomly find us a place that we would be able to feed bananas to monkeys every morning of our stay! Seriously, that’s how Jake worked---he found magical places by accident. Love you forever brother.