July 12, 2017
July 12, 2017
Jamal always on our minds RIP
Abdul-Jamal Ottun, 17, born on 7th March 1998, passed away on 12th July 2015, whilst swimming with friends in the Shawnigan lake during a WCGS school rugby tour in the Vancouver Island in Canada.
The CTV and ITV News reports account his passing can be found in the Video Section of the Gallery .
Jamal achieved the following AS-Results in the Academic Year 2014-2015:
Government and Politics: A (2nd best in his year)
History: A
Maths: B (4 UMS marks off an A)
Economics: C
Jamal always pushed himself to do the best that he possibly could, shown in his brilliant AS-Level results.
He is survived by his loving and devoted family: parents -Dapo and Lolade, and two sisters, Zainab and Rahmat.
May his soul rest in Paradise and perfect peace, Insha'Allah.
This memorial website has been created as a place for all of Jamal's loved ones to share memories, photos, video and messages with everyone.
Jamal was a beautiful soul and an immensely loved son, brother, grandson, cousin, nephew, friend and student. Through this website we will ensure that his memory will live on forever.
Feel free to share your own thoughts and memories of him.
Tributes
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July 12, 2017
July 12, 2017
Jamal still can't believe you are gone. Hurts so bad and some days are better than others. I keep praying for you son. I miss you like crazy. Rest in peace my boy. Love you with all of my heart.
July 12, 2017
July 12, 2017
Dearest AbdulJamal. May you continue to rest in perfect peace
We love and remember you always
We love and remember you always
July 12, 2017
July 12, 2017
May Jamal's soul continue to rest In peace! I pray for your siblings, parents and loved ones for healing and may God fill the vacuum your passing away has left. You are missed every passing day
July 12, 2017
July 12, 2017
Continue to rest in peace, Jamal
July 11, 2017
July 11, 2017
With a heavy heart as always at this time of the year
Jamal, you are forever missed and will always have a special place in our hearts. Heaven has gained an Angel, continue to rest with all the Angels. We love you but God loves you more.
Dear God please continue to shine perpetual light on Jamal and watch over the family he left behind.
Sleep well and sleep tight.
Sun Re O
Jamal, you are forever missed and will always have a special place in our hearts. Heaven has gained an Angel, continue to rest with all the Angels. We love you but God loves you more.
Dear God please continue to shine perpetual light on Jamal and watch over the family he left behind.
Sleep well and sleep tight.
Sun Re O
July 5, 2017
July 5, 2017
Just thought of you now, as always. Trust u are sleeping easy.... I miss you more everyday and nope, it ain't getting any better like they said it would. Time has not healed this particular wound....
May 24, 2017
May 24, 2017
Jamal
I've lit a candle for you just now
to remember how amazing you were.
You filled our lives with joy and fun
so intuitive at 7-how?
From the earliest of days it was so clear
that you would go on and do great things.
Grab the world with both hands and off you'd go
so confident you were, no fear.
Your smile
Your mind
Your heart
Your courage...
all still live on
because we will never forget.
RIP xxxxxxxxxx
I've lit a candle for you just now
to remember how amazing you were.
You filled our lives with joy and fun
so intuitive at 7-how?
From the earliest of days it was so clear
that you would go on and do great things.
Grab the world with both hands and off you'd go
so confident you were, no fear.
Your smile
Your mind
Your heart
Your courage...
all still live on
because we will never forget.
RIP xxxxxxxxxx
April 26, 2017
April 26, 2017
Ah Jammy, I thought it would get easier but it really doesn't. Missing you more and more each day. I have so much to tell you and have been through so much where I have needed your advice. I hope I'm doing you proud and that we all are. I hope you're resting well Jamal. Missing my best friend and the jokes we used to share. Sleep in beautiful peace Angel x
March 8, 2017
March 8, 2017
Dear Jamal Happy 19th Birthday, forever remembered. Continue to rest in peace. Looking through snap videos of your life and am thrilled you indeed knew how to live life in full, it always brings smiles to my face oh what an awesome person you were. Forever missed but we would hold on to the sweet memories you left behind. Continue to rest in the bosom of Our God❤️
March 7, 2017
March 7, 2017
Hugs to you all today. Remembering lovely Jamal on his 19th birthday. xxxx
March 7, 2017
March 7, 2017
Happy birthday Jamal. You are really missed. Over the months I found many things brought you to the forefront of my mind.
Continue to rest in peace.
Continue to rest in peace.
March 7, 2017
March 7, 2017
Still in denial, continue to rest beloved
March 7, 2017
March 7, 2017
Still in denial, continue to rest beloved
March 7, 2017
March 7, 2017
A happy posthumous birthday to you. Continue to rest in the bosom of God and may he always shine perpetual light on you.
Sun re O
Sun re O
March 7, 2017
March 7, 2017
There's no passing day I don't think of you, Jamal
Continue to watch over all your loved ones, especially your mum!
Happy posthumous birthday
Continue to rest in peace
Continue to watch over all your loved ones, especially your mum!
Happy posthumous birthday
Continue to rest in peace
March 7, 2017
March 7, 2017
Jamal you are forever in our hearts.
Please continue to look over the loved ones you left behind.
I pray you continue to rest in perfect peace in the bosom of the Lord.
Please continue to look over the loved ones you left behind.
I pray you continue to rest in perfect peace in the bosom of the Lord.
March 7, 2017
March 7, 2017
Continue to rest in Peace Dearest Abdul- Jamal, remembering you today as always.
March 7, 2017
March 7, 2017
Happy birthday Jammy. I hope you continue to rest peacefully under God's eye. Still doesn't quite feel real. Promise to visit soon. Enjoy your 19th up in heaven bro, I miss you x
March 7, 2017
March 7, 2017
It's your birthday today and we remember you today as always.
Seeing the stage performances reminded us of the many joys you brought everyone. The many acts you would do and how much fun you had.
We love you, and your family really miss you, but Allah loves you more.
Jamal, We know you are at peace with your Lord.
You've only gone ahead of us all in the journey of life.
We pray for strength for your family, that they remain strong and hold in together for your beautiful memory. Amin
Seeing the stage performances reminded us of the many joys you brought everyone. The many acts you would do and how much fun you had.
We love you, and your family really miss you, but Allah loves you more.
Jamal, We know you are at peace with your Lord.
You've only gone ahead of us all in the journey of life.
We pray for strength for your family, that they remain strong and hold in together for your beautiful memory. Amin
March 6, 2017
March 6, 2017
Happy birthday dear Jamal. Continue to rest in peace.
Love always, Aunty Tokunbo
Love always, Aunty Tokunbo
December 28, 2016
December 28, 2016
Rest in Peace Jamal, even though I've visited you multiple times it still doesn't feel quite true. Memories will last forever, and you will always be in my heart. Love always to the Ottun's and I hope God continues to give you strength x
October 7, 2016
October 7, 2016
Your memories will continue to leave on in our hearts Son, Continue to rest peacefully with the Lord...
August 6, 2016
August 6, 2016
Little man, I can't believe it's been a year already. Your fire is still burning as bright as ever, and you'll never imagine how much further you've pushed me.
Much love, bro. 17 amazing years. Rest in perfect peace.
Much love, bro. 17 amazing years. Rest in perfect peace.
July 15, 2016
July 15, 2016
Jamz! Miss you always, everyday! Rest in peace dear. Love u always
July 14, 2016
July 14, 2016
Sleep in peace handsome Prince.
July 13, 2016
July 13, 2016
It's been a year since our hearts were broken , having my birthday celebration with my dear friend Lola not knowing what plight you were facing, losing you is impossible to come to terms with. But each time I look at this site, the memories, your inspirational life, your zest for living and achieving, your talents, laughter, influence with your peers, the joy you brought.It brings a smile to my face. Jamal you were an amazing person. You will be forever remembered and forever missed. Rest in peace in the bossom of Our Lord. XXXX
July 12, 2016
July 12, 2016
My Dearest Jamal , Hmmm words cannot express how I feel , can't believe it is 1 year . As they say " It is well " We miss you so so much
:-( , death is cruel and wicked . Rest in peace my Proud Son . Sun re o (sleep well) Ameen xxx
:-( , death is cruel and wicked . Rest in peace my Proud Son . Sun re o (sleep well) Ameen xxx
July 12, 2016
July 12, 2016
Who could have imagined as that morning dawned 12 months ago God was going to call you home? Hmmmm, we miss you so sorely but God is still the Unquestionable God...The days have rolled into weeks and those, into months. And now it's a year..hmmm ....etched in our minds , Jamal, you are sorely missed..Sleep well, rest in peace,
July 12, 2016
July 12, 2016
Jamal,
Words can't express how I feel. A year after and i still can't believe you are gone son. The memories we have will always remain in our heart's and keep us going. I really do miss you Jamal. I really do. Take care son and remain forever young......
Words can't express how I feel. A year after and i still can't believe you are gone son. The memories we have will always remain in our heart's and keep us going. I really do miss you Jamal. I really do. Take care son and remain forever young......
July 12, 2016
July 12, 2016
Cruel world, why, why, why, no answer from anywhere. Rest on beloved
July 12, 2016
July 12, 2016
Dearest Jamal,
Hmm how a year has gone by, still soo surreal at times! May you continue to rest In perfect peace. You will continue to live in our hearts forever
Hmm how a year has gone by, still soo surreal at times! May you continue to rest In perfect peace. You will continue to live in our hearts forever
July 12, 2016
July 12, 2016
Wassup little brother? I still keep you close and I always will. You'll stay forever loved, forever missed and forever a part of me. Ohana.
July 12, 2016
July 12, 2016
Continue to rest in peace Jamal. Never met you but your Aunt Biola was so proud of you and she spoke highly of you. I know you are smiling up there. Peace lil brother
July 12, 2016
July 12, 2016
A year has gone by, wow, my thoughts are with the Ottun family on this difficult day. We remember the life of Jamal with thankfulness but the pain of his loss can't be described... Lots of love to you all. Holding you up in thoughts and prayers xxxx
July 12, 2016
July 12, 2016
Dear Jamal, It's been a year but your memories are so fresh. We love you loads but God loves you much more, continue to rest in his bossom. You will forever be missed love! It is Well.
July 12, 2016
July 12, 2016
We thank God that you are well remembered today. The memories and legacy lives on. What great friends and beautiful memories.
Be at peace, Be at peace.
Be at peace with your Lord
Abdul Jamal Kolawole Oluwatosin Ottun
Be at peace, Be at peace.
Be at peace with your Lord
Abdul Jamal Kolawole Oluwatosin Ottun
July 12, 2016
July 12, 2016
Missing you today and always! You left such a mark on everyone! You are truly one of the nicest guys I've ever met. I thought so much of you and still hold such a place in my heart for you. I'll continue to be there for all your family as they are such special people. Keep shining down on us. I'll always think of you when I play Drake or J.Cole and think of all our funny little chats. Pray the real live forever man
July 12, 2016
July 12, 2016
Wow, can't believe it is a year already since u passed so
Suddenly.
You are very often in my thoughts Jamal, as too are your lovely family.
You are often talked about by myself and by other colleagues at Eliot Bank primary school who had the pleasure of knowing you.
Your memory lives on strong, rest in peace.
Xx
Suddenly.
You are very often in my thoughts Jamal, as too are your lovely family.
You are often talked about by myself and by other colleagues at Eliot Bank primary school who had the pleasure of knowing you.
Your memory lives on strong, rest in peace.
Xx
July 12, 2016
July 12, 2016
Wow, can't believe it is a year already since u passed so
Suddenly.
You are very often in my thoughts Jamal, as too are your lovely family.
You are often talked about by myself and by other colleagues at Eliot Bank primary school who had the pleasure of knowing you.
Your memory lives on strong, rest in peace.
Xx
Suddenly.
You are very often in my thoughts Jamal, as too are your lovely family.
You are often talked about by myself and by other colleagues at Eliot Bank primary school who had the pleasure of knowing you.
Your memory lives on strong, rest in peace.
Xx
July 12, 2016
July 12, 2016
A year ago today our hearts were broken and everyday since you are in our thoughts and prays. We haven't forgotten your wonderful smile and humour.
We will always remember you Jamal. Rest in Peace.
Love to your wonderful family. Again, you are always in my thoughts and prays. Xx
We will always remember you Jamal. Rest in Peace.
Love to your wonderful family. Again, you are always in my thoughts and prays. Xx
June 30, 2016
June 30, 2016
My dearest Jamal , according to the Isamic Calender today 25th of Ramadan, marks one year you passed. Hmmm Jamal we miss you so so much but what can we do than to be always thankful of your beautiful memories , thanik you so much for this .We love you so much and wish there is another chance to let you know this. we miss everything about you especially your jokes. Love you Loads, May your soul continue to rest in perfect peace.
Jamal you are so special guess what ! it is sports day today so we are going to support Carew house.
Miss you loads XXX
Jamal you are so special guess what ! it is sports day today so we are going to support Carew house.
Miss you loads XXX
June 30, 2016
June 30, 2016
It always takes someone special
To leave in the special month of mercy
When all the Muslims are fasting and praying a lot
So we prayed and prayed for you
We pray that you be at peace with your Lord
We pray that He accepts you into His mercy
We pray that you roam freely in Eternal Gardens
And we know you're waiting on your family
So we pray for them as well
We pray for Zainab and Rahmat
And for Mum and Dad and everyone
On this special night of Ramadhan
We pray the whole family finds peace. Ameen.
Jamal, Your light will always shine
As you're tucked away in all our hearts
Many lovely memories
We all shared will never die
Your love of life and great big laughs
Gives us hope, strength and comfort
As it lives on within our hearts.
Salaam, salaam, love and duas.
To leave in the special month of mercy
When all the Muslims are fasting and praying a lot
So we prayed and prayed for you
We pray that you be at peace with your Lord
We pray that He accepts you into His mercy
We pray that you roam freely in Eternal Gardens
And we know you're waiting on your family
So we pray for them as well
We pray for Zainab and Rahmat
And for Mum and Dad and everyone
On this special night of Ramadhan
We pray the whole family finds peace. Ameen.
Jamal, Your light will always shine
As you're tucked away in all our hearts
Many lovely memories
We all shared will never die
Your love of life and great big laughs
Gives us hope, strength and comfort
As it lives on within our hearts.
Salaam, salaam, love and duas.
June 30, 2016
June 30, 2016
"The reality is that we don't forget, move on, and have closure, but rather we honor, we remember, and incorporate our deceased children and siblings into our lives in a new way. In fact, keeping memories of your loved one alive in your mind and heart is an important part of your healing journey." ~ Harriet Schiff, author of The Bereaved Parent
“The reality is that you will grieve forever. You will not ‘get over’ the loss of a loved one; you will learn to live with it. You will heal and you will rebuild yourself around the loss you have suffered. You will be whole again but you will never be the same. Nor should you be the same nor would you want to.”
― Elisabeth Kübler-Ross
The bible teaches us that in all things we should give thanks, and that in all The Lord knows best, as tough as it is, i take solace in the saying that Those He loves He takes early so they are not tainted in this our sinful world. Remain blessed in His bosom Jamal, your sojourn with us will remain for ever in our memories not mindful of how it was cut short
“The reality is that you will grieve forever. You will not ‘get over’ the loss of a loved one; you will learn to live with it. You will heal and you will rebuild yourself around the loss you have suffered. You will be whole again but you will never be the same. Nor should you be the same nor would you want to.”
― Elisabeth Kübler-Ross
The bible teaches us that in all things we should give thanks, and that in all The Lord knows best, as tough as it is, i take solace in the saying that Those He loves He takes early so they are not tainted in this our sinful world. Remain blessed in His bosom Jamal, your sojourn with us will remain for ever in our memories not mindful of how it was cut short
June 29, 2016
June 29, 2016
It's almost been a year and I can't say I'm any less shocked than when I found out. Growing up, you'd always cheer me up and make me smile. From me not getting into my desired secondary school till up until last year when I was stressed because of my exams. The last thing you told me to do was to keep my head up and I couldn't be more grateful for those words. I miss you but as I look back on the memories you've left, I can't help but smile.
June 27, 2016
June 27, 2016
Unquestionable God, we have learned to accept and remember the happy memories Jammal left us with. Rest in peace perfect till we meet to part no more.
May 11, 2016
May 11, 2016
I read about the tragic incident that took this young brother's life almost one year ago. My heart broke and is still broken for his family. Be strong in the knowledge that you were blessed to have such a wonderful son, brother, grandson, nephew, cousin and friend in your life. May the comfort of God ease your pain.
On a personal level, never having met him or even known Jamal, I feel a strange loss each time I reflect on this tragedy. Let us all represent Jamal in the best way we can, remembering his family in our prayers. Blessings.
On a personal level, never having met him or even known Jamal, I feel a strange loss each time I reflect on this tragedy. Let us all represent Jamal in the best way we can, remembering his family in our prayers. Blessings.
May 3, 2016
May 3, 2016
'Thought about you yesterday dude. Thought about how you would have been if you were here. I imagined you'd have your usual big smile and you'd have probably made a cheeky comment to make us laugh.
We miss you Jamal.
Lots of love.
We miss you Jamal.
Lots of love.
March 8, 2016
March 8, 2016
Thinking of you always Jamal, esp today!
What an incredible person you had grown up to be, a real credit to your family!
Continue to rest in peace as your memory lives on in so many of our hearts. Xx
What an incredible person you had grown up to be, a real credit to your family!
Continue to rest in peace as your memory lives on in so many of our hearts. Xx
March 8, 2016
March 8, 2016
What can we say, words can not be enough,
Indeed our eyes are strained and our hearts are full.
But we only say what pleases our Lord.
Indeed we are from Him and we will all return to Him.
Jamal has left many strong reminders to us all.
To always be your best
To enjoy life
To be an all rounder
To make people smile and laugh around you
To be a beacon for colleagues and those coming behind
And to just, really and truly "Be Yourself".
Jamal, be at peace with your Lord
And await your parents at the gate of Paradise.
Indeed our eyes are strained and our hearts are full.
But we only say what pleases our Lord.
Indeed we are from Him and we will all return to Him.
Jamal has left many strong reminders to us all.
To always be your best
To enjoy life
To be an all rounder
To make people smile and laugh around you
To be a beacon for colleagues and those coming behind
And to just, really and truly "Be Yourself".
Jamal, be at peace with your Lord
And await your parents at the gate of Paradise.
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Recent Tributes
March 12
March 12
Sending much love to the family today and always. You remain in all of our hearts.
March 7
March 7
Dear Jamal, continue to rest in heaven. we miss you each and every day....we continue to keep you in our prayers....we love you.
Taiwo, Tope, Farida and Halima Ottun
Taiwo, Tope, Farida and Halima Ottun
March 7
March 7
26 today Jamal. Wow man. Cant believe where the time has gone. Still thinking of you. Rest easy my bro, enjoy your day up there x
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Jamal -never forgotten your photo of Abigail and yourself is hunged up in Abigail's office.
Abigail and Jake's new home - 7 years on 120722
06/03/22
06/03/22
O6/03/22
Your last Wireless at Finsbury Park 2015 ❤️
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Jamal 7 years on...... 120722
July 14, 2022
by Lolade Ottun
Hmmm indeed 7 years on Jamal what can we say than "We tenk God" Big thanks to all these lovely siblings of Jamal that help to keep his memory alive. Special thanks to Abigail Gibbs and Jake for hosting us. We do appreciate this. Wishing everyone all the best in life, longer years with good health, may we all have cause to continue to celebrate you all Ameen.
Jamal as you can see we spent the day to celebrate your memories with your siblings at Abigail and Jake's new home. It was nice to see everyone, We miss you a lot but Allah knows best . Love always XXX
Wireless at Crystal Palace
September 11, 2021
by Lolade Ottun
Hmmm Jamal guess what? Wireless is just a stone’s throw away. I remember when you went in Year 9 for the first time at Hyde park. Can’t believe it’s just here by our door step. Missing you so much, I can hear the music loud and clear from Crystal Palace Park, bet you would have gone, Drake performed yesterday. I have tried to speak to your friends that you went to Wireless with. We miss you so much Jamal. Trust you are resting well. Love you loads ❤️❤️❤️
Jamal's 23rd Birthday
March 14, 2021
by Soorya M
Since year 7 Jamal and I were obsessed with getting the 100 tie which is a tie given to students who had represented the school in various events. It was now year 10 and we had no idea how to get this tie but we knew we wanted to be the first in our year to get it. Jamal being popular and having links with the olders found out how to get this tie before me. Turned out we had to get a form from the headmaster. So without me knowing he went to the headmaster to get this form. Bear in mind, Jamal and I were kind of jokingly competing to get this tie and be the first person in our year to have it. He came back with three forms, one for him, one for me and one for our other friend. For Jamal it wasn’t enough that he stood on that stage by himself, he wanted all his friends to succeed alongside him and that we all elevate each other.