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Jamal, below is a tribute I posted on your Mum’s Facebook wall on 25 July, 2015. It says everything I think most people feel about you. Sleep well, Great One.
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Lolade and Dapo,
You are the mother and father of a great man, a wise head on a young shoulder, an avatar sent to the world on a mission by Almighty God, a messenger He chose and purposed to put under your care as your son. When his work was done, God called him home and now leaves us asking questions. Yet, whatever question we ask, we cannot question His will. Lolade, you have particularly been an inspiration. You are a mother and a wife in a million. The way you and your daughters carry yourselves in this period is a testament to the uncommon strength you guys have. You said yesterday you cannot forget Jamal forever, but this is even beyond you. Jamal has touched so many lives, young and old, that today even though you have lost him, you and Dapo have gained many children – children who looked up to Jamal as their leader and inspiration. Jamal has come and planted; it is for you and the rest of us to make what he planted grow. There can be no better and more befitting legacy than to do something that will keep his mission alive. Dapo, you wondered how you are going to wake up every morning to repeatedly accept that Jamal is not coming back. But he has not gone anywhere. He is still here with you and the family in spirit and you know. All that has happened is that you have gained another angel interceding on your behalf with God. You said you are like in a trap and you don’t know how to get out of it. Yes, it is true that you will remain in this cycle of grief for sometime, but you will have to step out sometime to acknowledge the greatness of Jamal and do something about entrenching his legacy. You will do that happily, because he is a blessed child and an uncommon young man who has with his passing taken the family to another consciousness plane. Lolade and Dapo, be rest assured that whatever you choose to do by way of entrenching Jamal’s legacy, we your friends would be happy to be part of it. Jamal is not only an inspiration to his young friends; he is an inspiration to us too. May the Lord continue to grant you and the rest of the family the fortitude to bear this loss. May Jamal’s mighty soul rest in perfect peace. Amin.
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