This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Jason Rowley. We will remember him forever.
In lieu of flowers, donations can be made in Jason‘s name to the Kaufman Cancer Center at Upper Chesapeake.Contributions in Jason’s name may be made to the Upper Chesapeake Health Foundation, c/o The Kaufman Cancer Center, 520 Upper Chesapeake Drive, Suite 405, Bel Air, MD 21014.
https://www.uchfoundation.org/partnerships/chesapeake-cancer-alliance/
There is also a GoFundMe for the boys future here: https://www.gofundme.com/Rowleys
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Some things I will remember about Jason: he seemed to have something against shoes - any time I went into his office he always had his shoes off; if he found something that annoyed you, he could always be counted on to make sure he brought it up at every chance possible just to rile you up; he never saw people as roles or ranks, and he was never too busy or too important to talk; how he loved good banter; the way you were never entirely sure if he was making fun of you or not; his insistence on using the word fortnight instead of bi-monthly because it was "the correct term"; having to have entire meetings with cross-fit games or soccer matches streaming on his monitor; how he was always so calm and logical about things even when everyone else in the room was having a melt down; and how he was always willing and able to lend a hand if you needed it, no matter who you were or what it was you needed.
I am so grateful for having had the chance to know Jason. Kara and family, thank you so much for sharing you husband and father with us. He will be greatly missed.
Jason was funny, quick witted, and an absolute pleasure to be around. I was a remote employee for many years, and Jason always made me laugh over yahoo instant messenger. My day was brighter if I crossed paths with him or his yahoo avatar.
Kara and family, may Jason’s love and all of the wonderful memories you shared comfort you today and always. <3
RIP... God has his hands full w the latest arrival. Maybe, he can set the record straight.
Throughout our time working together, he inspired me to approach work differently...with less reverence, more creativity, more personality. He was the one I could always go to with the stupidest, most unsolvable problem and he could MacGyver out a solution. I use the lessons he gave me every day.
It's cruel that Jason was taken from this world too soon, leaving his sons, wife, and other loved ones behind. The only comfort I think we have is that he made such an impact on those of us who knew him best.
Jason’s sharp wit was always part of the equation. I always tried to get him outside the office to reduce to get to know him better and reduce the pressure by getting him beyond the walls of the office. One day, he finally agreed to join me for lunch. He said he had a food craving and wanted to go to the Irish Pub near the office. When we sat at our table, I asked him what I should order and he recommended the Shepherd’s Pie and gave me a pretty strong explanation on how it was a big part of his childhood etc. When the server came over, I proudly ordered the Shepherd’s Pie expecting him to do the same. He then proceeded to order the cheeseburger and fries. I sat dumbfounded while he laughed and had a sheepish grin eating the cheeseburger. The friendship aspect of our relationship began that afternoon as he relished in the look on my face and we both laughed.
I’ll never forget the dozens of meals, most often with Dan Lawrence. I will remember Jason as a dependable partner and friend, a smart and savvy businessman and also a devoted father to his sons, and husband to Kara.
I will also miss our chats about the cricket... he was always remarkably accurate in predicting England's collapses... You'll be missed Jas. x
I remembered one time that Jason visited Honduras he wanted to have the local experience which is something that not many folks a willing to take on but Jason was up for it and we went out on the town to differents Bars (No surprise there) having local food and spiritual drinks as a certified Honduran.
He is now & will be greatly missed.
This totally summed up my experience of Jason. Super smart and serious when he needed to be, but took every opportunity to joke around and make everyone at ease.
Kara, Corbin and Jack - thanks for sharing your husband and Dad with us and know that his memory will live on in the many lives he touched.
Jason and I were both working at System Source in the late 90s. We sat right next to each other in a quad cubicle. So although we each had our own space, there wasn’t much privacy or quiet. He was going through a phase where he was consumed by this one song “Torn” by Natalie Imbruglia. I remember him playing it over and over, looping on repeat. I’m not sure why he didn’t plug in his headphones and I’m sure I begged him to do so after the umpteenth time hearing that song. But for some reason he felt we should all listen to it & appreciate it for what it was worth. Every time I’ve heard that song since then, I think of Jason.
Another music related memory comes from one of our annual company parties which we had dubbed the “System Source Prom”. The party was held one year at a country club and had a large dance floor where they had set up karaoke. After some liquid courage, Jason went up with another co-worker to perform “Take On Me” by a-ha. Well this song has some parts that get very high pitched and were a little out of their vocal range. But rather than be intimidated by the high notes or awkwardly jump down an octave, they belted it out at the top of their lungs. We were thoroughly entertained and in stitches with this performance. Jason was quite a ham.
Coincidentally, when I was driving home from work on Monday, thinking of nothing else but Jason’s passing earlier that day, “Take on Me” came on the radio. I felt reassured, convinced that it was Jason’s way of telling me, “We’ve had some great times. Don’t forget them.” I won't, Jason. I won't forget.
-"Hey man. Can you do muscle ups, already?" (for those non-crossfitters, that is a very tough exercise for beginners)
-Jason, with characteristic sarcasm, responded, "Well, yes, sure. I'd call it more a struggle up really but, yeah."
He liked soccer, so automatically he connected with folks in Honduras. On the qualifying rounds for the world cup in Russia this year, whenever Honduras was playing, he would either call us or send us an email saying he was going to watch game. And he would later comment on the results too; even when our team's performance had not been so good, his comments were always encouraging. I remember he wasn't happy with the Aussies when they eliminated us and we weren't able to go to the world cup.
I met Jason via in a goto meeting session for the first time in 2011. Little did I know back then that we were going to meet in different parts of the world, work together and that then he would become my boss. Through out all those years, we had a very good relationship. I guess his pragmatic mind and his aptitude for solving problems made it really easy to work with him.
Learned a lot from him. Will try to honor his last request - keep the boat afloat.
The other story that always comes to mind during the World Cup is when Jason used red tape to create the Flag on England on the white hood of his car. When the World Cup was over, the tape had turned the paint pink. I can't recall if he was amused but I thought it was funny. Rest easy Jason.
Rest in peace Jason. You will be missed.
A memory that sticks out to me is from many moons ago when we had a strategy meeting in Minneapolis. Jason came with his goals and, among a number of serious ones, had included a goal to develop a virtual football team/league against other online schools because he thought it was high time we had a football team to cheer on. Those moments of whimsy made me smile.
As someone else mentioned, it’s so hard to think of him in the past tense. He is, and will continue to be, in our thoughts and memories. To his family, we’re grateful for your Jason and the time we had with him. You’re in my thoughts and prayers.
One moment that sticks out in my mind was years ago when I was working on Student Support. We had what we thought was a relatively simple request - update our service type tree. Well it turned out to be a long excruciating task. Jason worked with me for hours upon hours on this to make sure we got it right. This could have easily been something he "punted" back to the business but he took the time out of his very busy schedule to make sure we got the right kind of support we needed.
The story I cherish the most was when he shared his perspective of married life, family, and balancing it with career. He shared how much he admired the strength of his wife, Kara and how that drove his perspective on how he should step up for his family. It was a powerful thing to witness. To feel how much he loved his family and his partnership with his wife.
As a woman in tech, you get a lot of pushback when you wade into the technical discussions. Jason only saw "right" ideas or "wrong" ideas. He respected bright minds and nurtured that. So it provided a safe space for people to shoot for the stars and grow.
He was sometimes my boss, sometimes my colleague, always my friend. I will miss him dearly.
Jason had an old car with a heater that didn't work for like 2 years. Rather than get it fixed or buy a new car, he asked me to order him a cigarette lighter powered electric blanket for the car (this was back before everyone had Prime and he didn't want to pay shipping). He used that blanket on the way in to work for 2 winters. Stubborn, no doubt.
Jason and I were on a small team together for years and both loved to make fun of people. Our team meetings were slightly brutal (sorry, Joe Wood) and Jason kept a "Botch book" to log every time someone said something especially stupid. I bet he kept the book.
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Kara, Corbin and Jack: Your husband and Dad was a loved leader, an incredible engineer and a deeply funny and caring colleague. Once at an offsite in Santa Fe Jason filmed himself doing a dance for a team building exercise. We played it on a continuous loop because we couldn’t get enough of Jason boogying down. We all knew why Jason chose a career in tech and not on stage ;-)