JD & Lisa and I raised our kids together. We met at church, and became fast friends. We carpooled, camped, partied by the bonfire in their backyard and ate a lot of good food together. (Lisa is such a great cook, that I felt so bad when JD couldn't eat very well because of the meds. How many times did he tell me how excellent Lisa's chicken fried steak is.)
JD landscaped our front and back yard from clean slate to lovely! He also rebuilt an entire water-logged room in our house.
The ONE thing I'm most grateful for is the love and care he showed to our two boys when they were teenagers. He put them both to work and paid them well, worked them hard, taught them ALL kinds of marketable skills that have served them well in their careers. They learned handyman skills, life skills, and that he would leave them behind if they were even one minute late to work. He was the best mentor a kid could have, and we're so grateful for the time he invested to make them better men.
If you're still reading, I'll close with a few favorite stories.
#1 I slugged him in the shoulder so hard one time. I mean like a bare knuckle boxer so hard I thought I broke my hand. (He scared me on a trail hike. I reacted. Fight, not flight.)
#2 New Year's Eve 2014 we hung out at their place with friends and our kids, played Mexican Train, and it SNOWED! It was magical. I'll never forget how giggly Lisa and Jerry were, and how fun it was for all our teenagers.
#3 I'll have to tell you in person some day. But suffice it to say, he always called me Little Sis, and as a big brother, he kept me in check when I needed it. And Lord knows I need chaperones.
So I know he'll be on the lookout for the entire Quillin clan. In my mind's eye, JD is Jesus' new best friend, and he's the Mayor of his little patch of heaven.
Lisa - Your hubby trained 2 young men to be very handy. I know Levi is like your other kid. Even though he is literally moving on to greener pastures, Troy is ready to take over the yard work.
Iva - Thank you for being a best friend to Levi, and for sharing your dad with him. I always loved seeing your dad's smile and expressions when he would update me on each step in your path to success. I'll miss that expression on his face. You know that smile.
JD - Miss you, bro. Thank you for letting me be your fair-weather friend and keeping me in check. Please don't stop now.