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Jerry Don Cook - 1958 to 2024

Our beloved Jerry Don Cook returned to his heavenly home last month. Iva and I are heartbroken, as we know many of you are as well. This website has been created to remember and honor his life. It is a place where those who knew and loved him can share their thoughts, memories, stories, photos and videos. These will be of tremendous comfort to us as we move forward in our day-to-day lives without him.

JD was born in Albuquerque, NM, and shortly after his birth, his family moved to Odessa, TX. JD and his older brother Jimmy were raised by their mother, Pauline, who was a single parent as their father, Frank, was killed in a trucking accident 10 days before JD was born. Pauline never remarried. A wide circle of grandparents, aunts, uncles and cousins contributed to the brother’s upbringing. This early life experience had a profound impact on JD that translated into a deep appreciation and love for family and friends. We know that many of you experienced that love firsthand.

JD was a proud veteran of the U.S. Air Force. His time in the military provided him with opportunities to gain important skills that he successfully transferred to jobs in various industries including oil and gas, telecommunications, abatement, construction and others. The last several years he owned and operated Silver Star Management Services. JD was always willing to share his knowledge, skills, talents, tools, time and more, which we know his customers and others will sorely miss.

JD was a life-long fan of the Dallas Cowboys and Houston Astros. He loved to golf, fish, and travel. In the last couple years of his life he indulged these interests on bucket list trips to Cabo San Lucas, MX, Orlando, FL, Niagara Falls, Canada, New Jersey/New York, Costa Rica, Albuquerque NM, Pagosa Springs CO and Odessa TX.

While many of you know that JD had been on a cancer journey the last 10 years of his life, you also know that he did not let cancer define him. He was always optimistic, and fervently prayed and believed the Lord would heal him, whether in this life or the next. Everywhere he went, he connected with people and shared his faith --at Home Depot (where he went at least 5 times a day J), the gas station, in doctor’s offices, at his treatments. He shared on Facebook and in text messages with family, friends and customers. He said “God bless you” and “I love you” all the time. You always knew he meant it sincerely.

Iva and I thank you for the many expressions of condolence, love, and support. We look forward to experiencing JD (or Jerry Don, or just plain, Jerry – however it was you knew him) through your eyes as we view your personal remembrances of him on this memorial website.

For those who are wondering, the family will be having a private farewell event at some time in the future.

Lastly, JD was under the amazing care of Hospice of the Valley in the final weeks of his journey. Donations to this worthwhile organization are encouraged:
www.hov.org

March 16
March 16
I spent the last 4 years working with JD and we would spend a couple of hours each day just driving. When you do that you talk quite a bit. Doing so I feel I really got to know the man. He was a good person who cared more about his family than anything. I truly miss my friend and wish he was still with us but I know he's in a better place.
March 3
March 3
My husband Ivan and I were shortchanged by not knowing JD longer. However, JD extended his warm friendship to us and never made us feel like anything other than life-long friends. JD is defined in our hearts by his warmth, his kindness, his generosity - and for me, by his endless patience with my endless questions about how things work. We are ever so much better for knowing JD.

There are times when you meet a new person and you know instantly from their tone of voice, the gentle twinkle in their eye, and their friendliness that this person is a keeper. JD is, was, and always will be a keeper.

Lisa and Iva, we are your companions as you venture through these new spaces.
<3 <3 <3
Susan & Ivan

March 2
March 2
JD was an important part of our family for what seemed like forever. I still remember when we first met him. While there are many memories, I've not spent as much time with him as we did in Costa Rica. Seeing him reel in a big one was awesome, but playing golf with him through the Costa Rican jungle was a memory I will never forget. Peggy and I have always been so impressed with his dedication and love for his family. We will miss him dearly, but after such a long battle with cancer, I trust he is resting peacefully.
March 2
March 2
Jerry was and will continue to be one of my most valued male relationships. I learned so much from working with Jerry and observing how he handled himself in his day to day. Jerry was free to be himself because he was a good person. He taught me that you don't always have to be nice to be kind, he had so much strength to his character that I'll never forget. I love you Jerry and thank you for all the good times.
February 29
February 29
Jerry Cook, my Hero! Jerry was an integral part of our Property Management business for 14 years. He could literally fix ANYTHING, but best of all, he was honest and loyal and our customers loved him. His battle with cancer never stripped him of his positive attitude or shook his faith in God. How many times I told him I could never fight like he did. What a warrior!  I know he is with his heavenly Father and I will see him again one day. I miss him EVERY DAY!
February 28
February 28
I got to know JD over the past 10 years since Lisa and I have been colleagues. When I reflect on the time I got to spend with JD, I realize a lot of it was through stories from his wife, Lisa. His family is so full of love - he was a very lucky man.

Like me, JD loved fishing and the outdoors and he and I would trade text messages when he was on the fishing boat with his Brothers in law and I would send him pictures of the trout I'd catch. 

I remember one time when JD was helping me with a project at my house and our dog bit him right in the butt. I know it hurt but he just laughed it off and told me that he was kind of used to getting bit by dogs as a handyman! Speaking of which, JD could fix about anything that needed fixing and when he worked on some projects at my house, he was very happy to show me what he was doing so I could learn as well. 

Throughout JD's cancer diagnosis and treatment, every conversation that I had with him, he always had a positive attitude and was ready to take it one day at a time. He was brave and strong. 

The last conversation I had with him was just a week before he passed and we talked about the place in New Mexico where I have a spring fly fishing trip planned. It will be the same waters where he learned to fly fish when he was
a young fellow near Silver City, NM. I know in a couple of months, I'll have a lot of time on the stream with JD and I have a feeling that he's going to be as excited as I'll be to haul in a nice fish. 

Iva and Lisa - JD was so lucky to have both of you and he was a great person. Thanks for sharing him with me and I am sorry for your loss.

-Jake Adams
February 23
February 23
JD & Lisa and I raised our kids together. We met at church, and became fast friends. We carpooled, camped, partied by the bonfire in their backyard and ate a lot of good food together. (Lisa is such a great cook, that I felt so bad when JD couldn't eat very well because of the meds. How many times did he tell me how excellent Lisa's chicken fried steak is.)

JD landscaped our front and back yard from clean slate to lovely! He also rebuilt an entire water-logged room in our house.

The ONE thing I'm most grateful for is the love and care he showed to our two boys when they were teenagers. He put them both to work and paid them well, worked them hard, taught them ALL kinds of marketable skills that have served them well in their careers. They learned handyman skills, life skills, and that he would leave them behind if they were even one minute late to work. He was the best mentor a kid could have, and we're so grateful for the time he invested to make them better men.

If you're still reading, I'll close with a few favorite stories.

#1 I slugged him in the shoulder so hard one time. I mean like a bare knuckle boxer so hard I thought I broke my hand. (He scared me on a trail hike. I reacted. Fight, not flight.)

#2 New Year's Eve 2014 we hung out at their place with friends and our kids, played Mexican Train, and it SNOWED! It was magical. I'll never forget how giggly Lisa and Jerry were, and how fun it was for all our teenagers.

#3 I'll have to tell you in person some day. But suffice it to say, he always called me Little Sis, and as a big brother, he kept me in check when I needed it. And Lord knows I need chaperones.

So I know he'll be on the lookout for the entire Quillin clan. In my mind's eye, JD is Jesus' new best friend, and he's the Mayor of his little patch of heaven.

Lisa - Your hubby trained 2 young men to be very handy. I know Levi is like your other kid. Even though he is literally moving on to greener pastures, Troy is ready to take over the yard work.

Iva - Thank you for being a best friend to Levi, and for sharing your dad with him. I always loved seeing your dad's smile and expressions when he would update me on each step in your path to success. I'll miss that expression on his face. You know that smile.

JD - Miss you, bro. Thank you for letting me be your fair-weather friend and keeping me in check. Please don't stop now.
February 22
February 22
Dear Jerry,
You were a trustworthy friend. Your life was a living epistle of "Do unto others as you would have others do unto you." You thought the best of everyone and judged no one. Our lives are better because you lived. Thanks for the memories, the beautiful work you did in our home, and for your adventurous life which you lived out loud.
Jerry and Mary 
February 18
February 18
I am so happy that I got to have JD in my life. I was honored to be part of the wedding between JD and Lisa. They were very loving couple true to each other through it all. JD never met a stranger. Everyone that met him thought the world of him. There will never be another Jerry Don Cook. He was a true treasure and one in a million.
February 18
February 18
JD was one of the nicest people I have ever met Always sincerely interested in what you had to say He will definitely be missed Heaven is lucky to have him and so were we

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March 16
March 16
I spent the last 4 years working with JD and we would spend a couple of hours each day just driving. When you do that you talk quite a bit. Doing so I feel I really got to know the man. He was a good person who cared more about his family than anything. I truly miss my friend and wish he was still with us but I know he's in a better place.
March 3
March 3
My husband Ivan and I were shortchanged by not knowing JD longer. However, JD extended his warm friendship to us and never made us feel like anything other than life-long friends. JD is defined in our hearts by his warmth, his kindness, his generosity - and for me, by his endless patience with my endless questions about how things work. We are ever so much better for knowing JD.

There are times when you meet a new person and you know instantly from their tone of voice, the gentle twinkle in their eye, and their friendliness that this person is a keeper. JD is, was, and always will be a keeper.

Lisa and Iva, we are your companions as you venture through these new spaces.
<3 <3 <3
Susan & Ivan

March 2
March 2
JD was an important part of our family for what seemed like forever. I still remember when we first met him. While there are many memories, I've not spent as much time with him as we did in Costa Rica. Seeing him reel in a big one was awesome, but playing golf with him through the Costa Rican jungle was a memory I will never forget. Peggy and I have always been so impressed with his dedication and love for his family. We will miss him dearly, but after such a long battle with cancer, I trust he is resting peacefully.
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Deep Sea Fishing

March 2
Where to begin...where to begin.  I guess I should start out by saying that I'm JD's brother-in-law and how grateful I am to have him in my life.  His love for my sister Lisa, his daughter Iva, and all of us was unconditional.  In particular, his love for Lisa and Iva was infinite and very much admired.  He was caring, hardworking, a man of faith and optimism, and had great devotion to us all.  His deep-fried turkeys at Thanksgiving each year were the best.  We shared a love for deep sea fishing and had our fair share of (mis)adventures.  We fished in places from California to Baja to Costa Rica with a variety of family and friends including my brothers Terry and Mickey.  We fished the wide-open seas in search of the "big one."  JD always did his fair share of "pumping and reeling."  I will cherish our times together knowing that he's smiling down on all of us from the heavens with a fishing rod in one hand, a beer in the other, and a plate of chicken fried steak for when he's done.  May he Rest in Peace.

New York, New York

March 2
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We felt so grateful that JD and Lisa were able to come to New Jersey for Trevor's graduation from Seton Hall.  We all stayed at an AirBNB and had such a wonderful time making memories.  So much laughing and so many jokes and stories came from that trip.  JD and Lisa hadn't been to New York so we took the train into the city and then took a couple of subway rides to get around.  We saw Grand Central Station and the MetLife building where Trevor had done an internship, we walked from there to Central Park and took in the sights along the way.  After Central Park we took an amazing cruise around Manhattan Island, walked through Times Square and ate an Italian dinner, family style. 

After graduation day, some of the family, including JD, headed back to New York to catch a Yankees game.  We had great seats along the third baseline.   For most of the game the Yankees were losing, but in the 9th inning, Aaron Judge hit a homerun, tying the game.  It went into overtime but we all decided to stay even though it was getting quite late and we were all leaving the next day.  We were so glad we did! The Yankees ended up winning and the whole stadium erupted in cheering, singing and swaying as Sinatra's "New York, New York" blasted through the speakers.  It was an experience that we all enjoyed sharing and one that we will never forget. (See Gallery page for more photos from this story).

What a wonderful friendship!

February 27
O my gosh everyone, where to begin. I want to say that I met Jerry sometime around 1990 at a job we both happened to be selected to work on and there were many. We were working for BCP construction at the time an asbestos abatement company and we're assigned the task of removing the hazardous asbestos materials from High Schools in the Phoenix UNION HS district. They included; Central, Camelback, South mountain, Carl Hayden High schools. JD was choosing the guys he wanted to be on his crew like you would choose your baseball team in a sand lot game. I could tell he was a good man and obviously he could tell that I was too. Little did I know that working together was the start of a relationship that would last some 34 years I would say, give or take. Because of our work ethic we were a great team. So many years of hard work in different States. We were those guys that everyone wanted to work with. Damn we did so much work together those few years. Soon we went out separate ways and honed our skills. BCP construction eventually splintered into three company's and because of our skills we both ended up at different companies. We both became superintendents. I was with Bob Copeland at Mountain States and JD stayed With Bob Close at Lahina. Traveling, Starting families and raising children was in our future. JD was the man you could call for some help on a job at home or a side gig one of us had going. He was always there to help me with his knowledge and creativity as,we worked even harder on side jobs when there was good money to be made. Many years have come and gone. Our families got together now and then. More joy was to be shared as life rolled on. Getting to Meet Lisa and Iva was the bonus for myself and my wife Cheryl and our two boys Justin and Jeremy. We could spend hours talking about so many great memories that I will cherish for the rest of my days on this earth. For now I will say goodnight as it is close to my bedtime, however I will return to you all soon to continue with our story as close friends and confidants through the years.  We have to remember that although Jerry Cook has left the building, his memories will live on in each and every one of us in different ways, for the rest of our days. Hey that rhymes. Much love and many blessings to you Lisa and Iva. May God bless us and keep us untill we meet again soon

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