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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Joanne ridler (nee Bryan), 31 years old, born on January 21, 1981, and passed away on December 27, 2012. We will remember her forever.
January 21
January 21
Today is your Birthday Jo , you would have been 43 today. It’s thanks to you that made me the mum I am today . But since we lost you Jo a light went out and no matter what we do that light just won’t shine as bright . But I will always let the memory of you shine bright until my eyes close forever . Miss you Jo ….. Always & Forever . xx xx xx xx xx x
January 3
January 3
So sorry it’s late Jo, had trouble logging in . Another Christmas , another year without you . It’s just not the same, never will be , Iv tried to move on Jo , I put on a smile , do all the routine things , try and keep my thoughts on the job I’m doing , but I’m struggling , really struggling, I’m not happy, it’ll be your Birthday soon Jo, and I wish so much that I could share it with you , 11 years have passed since you closed your beautiful eyes , and it feels like yesterday . I miss you Jo , and I want you back .
Love always Mum. X
January 21, 2023
January 21, 2023
Another year and another Birthday without you Jo . We don’t need a reason to celebrate you Jo, we remember you every single day. Happy 43 years old Jo , but you remain 31 years old same age that you passed away . Love always Jo. Mum, Daniel and little Benny. 21/01/2023.
December 27, 2022
December 27, 2022
Today marks 10 years since you passed away our dearest Jo. As always we made a memory today and me and Richard had a drink in memory of you. I posted about your 10th Anniversary on Fb, it was heartwarming ( as it always is) to read the tributes from them. Your friends always remember you jo, every year for the last 10 years and on your birthday too. It’s a shame some of my family members have forgotten what today is , I’m very upset and disappointed in them, How dare they forget you. We , who love you Jo will never forget you, they know who they are and I won’t forget what they’ve done. Another year is almost over, and 2023 will soon be here, and January brings around your Birthday , another sad time of reflection and realisation that you are not here to celebrate it with me. Till the next tribute comes around, Fly High in the universe above Jo, send me a sign next time you’re flying near and decide to visit!! xxxxxx
December 23, 2022
December 23, 2022
Another year approaching to that awful day you left us, how is this 10 years ago Jo ?? Still feels so raw. Your friends at Larcomes  keep in touch with me Jo, and you’ll be happy to know they still talk about you and think of you often , Vanessa tells me. I keep in touch with Dan, like you asked us to Jo, sometimes just letting him know , especially this time of year, that we are thinking of him, that’s all he needs sometimes , to know he’s not been forgotten. And he never will jo , you and Dan came as a pair , and will always remain together even though you are apart. Missing you always dear jo and forever held dearly in my heart , love always my darling Daughter. xxxxx December 23rd 2022
January 21, 2022
January 21, 2022
Happy Birthday to you Jo, you’d have been 41 today!! Oh what I’d give to see you, hear your voice again. I’m hoping you are feeling free and happy now we’ve scattered your ashes, what did you think to that eh !!?? It’s not what you expected was it, I hope you enjoyed your journey to Space , it looked amazing to us , I have a USB recording of your flight, attention to detail was the main object , we only got one shot of launching you into space so it had to be 100% perfect , 100% spot on, with the people who loved you dearly that came to wave you off on your epic plight to space where your ashes were released and scattered . Free for eternity now Jo. Lots of Love Always , Mum xxxxx
January 21, 2021
January 21, 2021
Happy, heavenly 40th birthday Jo - our angel. I think of you often and I think of how life would have been if you were still with us. I know Ben and Grace would have loved you - you would have been the best Auntie... baking cakes and taking Grace for woodland walks. You are missed by so many every day. You will forever be a part of our family. We all cherish our memories of you. You were wonderful - a true inspiration and the strongest woman I have ever known. Love you Jo
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January 21, 2021
January 21, 2021
My darling Jo, today is your 40th Birthday, I gave birth to you 40 years ago today. Doesn’t seem that long ago, neither does the day you passed away . It’s still raw , still hurts. What I’d give to see how your life is now is priceless. Think you’d be a mum yourself now , and loving every minute of it. You’d have made a great mum. We know that by the way you cared and looked after your baby brother Daniel. Always by his side , both of you with an unbreakable bond that lasted right up till the day you passed away, yet even in death , Daniel takes over the reigns of being the one that’s by your side now. We will always remember you Jo, we love and miss you so very much. I’ll keep your memory alive on here until I'm no longer able to. I’ll be with you then , and you’ll be back in my arms again, till then rest easy till we are reunited. Lots of love mum. 21/01/2021 xxxxx
December 28, 2020
December 28, 2020
Well here we are Jo , 8 years without you . Not sure what you’d make of this year ( 2020) with coronovirus and everyone staying home . Christmas hasn’t been the same since you left us, and this Christmas was incredibly hard because we couldn’t see our families , well not properly. I spent Christmas Day with Daniel , Amy and Benny.  We raised a glass to you at dinner, even little Benny said “ cheers”!! We did the same yesterday 27th December at 4pm. Always missed Jo , whether it’s Christmas, or just another day. 2020 is nearly over and 2021 will be ringing in soon. Not sure what that’ll have in store for us, but I hope we can celebrate your 40th Birthday on 21st January together with Daniel and your dad , and family. All my love Jo. Mum. 28th December 2020. xxxx
December 27, 2019
December 27, 2019
It’s our 7th Christmas without you Jo. I’m still here, nothing has changed, still miss you so much. It’s not my fault that the tears fall silently from my eyes, my eyes miss seeing you, I miss talking to you , hearing your voice, your laugh, I miss your whole being. Lots of your friends have remembered you today, which is very comforting, you’ve no idea just how much you are missed and very much loved by all . I’ll continue to keep your memory alive on this site for as long as I’m here to do so. You will be Forevermissed.... always. Lots of love Mum. xxxx.
January 21, 2019
January 21, 2019
Today is your Birthday Jo, you would have been 38, I often wonder what your life would now be like, I believe you would be a mum yourself, with a young son or daughter , and that you would still be a very successful solicitor , and that I would have moved to Portsmouth and taken care of my grandchild while you and dan carried on with your careers, Dans being at Groom Barbers. But none of that was to be. Instead you continue to have your Birthdays in heaven, while at the same time not growing any older in years, and I continue to remember you , along with all your friends on this your 38th Birthday. Happy Birthday Jo. Lots of love from Mum. xxx
November 23, 2018
November 23, 2018
What a shame that we did not have the pleasure of knowing you Jo. After reading some of the lovely tributes on this memorial site you were an amazing lady who is missed and loved by all your family and friends every day. Sleep tight xxx
November 23, 2018
November 23, 2018
I’m continuing your life story Jo, you may not be here in person but I feel you all around me , your always in my thoughts , and forever held dearly in my heart. I will always miss you my beautiful daughter.
January 21, 2018
January 21, 2018
Today is your 37th Birthday Jo, you entered our world at 5.27pm, so I’ll drink a toast in memory of you, Not a day passes that we don’t speak your name, you’ll always be missed terribly by all of us. You’ve got good company up in heaven Jo, so, Rest with these Angels , until my time has come, and we will be together , back in the arms of your mum. Happy Birthday Darling. For Ever Missed. xxxx
February 21, 2017
February 21, 2017
5 years have passed Jo since you closed your eyes for ever. Not a day goes by when I don't remember you.You now have nan to keep you company,as well as Uncle Malcolm.I miss you all so very much,but knowing your all together ,somehow makes it easier to bear. Miss you my darling Jo, All my love ,mum. xxxxx
December 27, 2016
December 27, 2016
Hey Jo, miss you and think of you often and how you would love it here in Devon... I always think when crap gets me down how you would deal with it, and that's chin up and a big smile and say get on with it girl, don't let the crap get you down as there is so much in life to enjoy... your always in my thought.. love you Jojo..
July 31, 2015
July 31, 2015
Thinking of you Jo on what would have been your 10th wedding
Anniversary. In memory of you and your special day, 10 candles were lit, I watched your wedding DVD , as the ending song sings... Oh what a perfect day" Missyou every day our darling Jo,forever missed, forever
In our hearts. Lots of love, mum. xxxx
January 21, 2015
January 21, 2015
Happy Birthday Jo... I can remember when it was your 30th Birthday and I arranged for you to go to Shock'n'Awe MMA show, as we all knew how much you loved to watch half naked men fight, and on top of that I found out Tom Kong Watson was there in the crowd, so I arranged for you to meet him .... Got some awesome photos, which one of them I had framed for you... What a night hu!.... Good times, think of you often sweetie and your always in my thoughts, all my love Michelle xxxx
December 27, 2014
December 27, 2014
2 years today Jo, I light this candle for you Jo tonight and every night,
Miss you so very much Jo. xx
December 27, 2014
December 27, 2014
Thinking of you Helen at this sad time. We will always be there for you. Love Meg and Derek xx
October 14, 2014
October 14, 2014
Always missed Jo, and in our hearts forever.xxx
October 14, 2014
October 14, 2014
dear jo lived near you for a long timex hope you are at peace keep looking down on your mum and danxxx and help them be strongx
October 13, 2014
October 13, 2014
Jo was such an amazing young lady who brought reason and balance to life, she was always so understanding, but most of all had a passion for life and she certainly lived it to the last, I just hope I can be as strong as Jo was throughout her illness, an inspiration to all, love you Jojo xxx

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January 21
January 21
Today is your Birthday Jo , you would have been 43 today. It’s thanks to you that made me the mum I am today . But since we lost you Jo a light went out and no matter what we do that light just won’t shine as bright . But I will always let the memory of you shine bright until my eyes close forever . Miss you Jo ….. Always & Forever . xx xx xx xx xx x
January 3
January 3
So sorry it’s late Jo, had trouble logging in . Another Christmas , another year without you . It’s just not the same, never will be , Iv tried to move on Jo , I put on a smile , do all the routine things , try and keep my thoughts on the job I’m doing , but I’m struggling , really struggling, I’m not happy, it’ll be your Birthday soon Jo, and I wish so much that I could share it with you , 11 years have passed since you closed your beautiful eyes , and it feels like yesterday . I miss you Jo , and I want you back .
Love always Mum. X
January 21, 2023
January 21, 2023
Another year and another Birthday without you Jo . We don’t need a reason to celebrate you Jo, we remember you every single day. Happy 43 years old Jo , but you remain 31 years old same age that you passed away . Love always Jo. Mum, Daniel and little Benny. 21/01/2023.
Her Life

Jo’s working life in Portsmouth

November 23, 2018

Jo got a job at Holland & Barratt in Portsmouth, She worked hard there and in no time through her dedication to her work , was promoted to Manager!! It was around this time that her and Dan realised they loved each other and set up home together in Portsmouth. Life settled down and they began their lives , both working , and making their little house their home. 

After a while, jo left Holland and Barratt and decided to put her degree to good use, and become a Cartographer, making maps for people , including the Duchy Of Cornwall.!! Jo really enjoyed this,and gave it her all.

Jo’s University Years...

November 23, 2018

Job excelled in her subjects of Geological Hazards, and cared a lot about the decline of our coastal heritage. She enjoyed visiting sites of historical interest and went on to become the youngest female to embark on studying Geological Hazards. Jo made lots of friends at Uni, most of whom I am still in contact with. I can’t remember much of what Jo got up to during those years of studying, ( but mostly Partying!!) But we do know during those early years , she was incredibly home sick, she missed her family terribly, she said one weekend “ if I come home at the weekend , I know I won’t go back, we said we’d come to her but again she said No please don’t, I’ll be ok, I’ll get through this. And she did! That shows the amazing amount of strength and determination that Jo had , little did we know at that time, just how much she would put those two words into practice again. Jo finished at University after 3 years of studying with a degree in Geography/ Science/ and Geological Hazards, and her future lay ahead of her. She decided Portsmouth was going to be her home,  it’s where she was happiest. After growing up in a small village in Codicote, the hussle and bustle of Portsmouth won hands down. I cried so much on the way home, my little girl had grown up to be an independent, strong and determined woman. 


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This is for Jo....

October 15, 2014

I never knew you Jo, but having met your Mum a few times I know she is a loving and caring person whose heart has melted at your passing. She carries on knowing you are up there supporting and helping her through this.

Her choice of this particular Michael Jackson song and the words within it are such a wonderful tribute to you, and also to her. Life goes on, but you will always be wrapped around your Mum's heart and forever in her thoughts.

Respectfully and lovingly yours,

Derek and Meg xx     


  

December 27th 2018

December 29, 2018

It’s the 6th year anniversary of you Jo, the day you grew your Angel Wings. We gathered together as a family today, Daniel booked us a table at the Chequers in Bragbury End, This year we had another little guest at the table, your gorgeous Nephew Benny!! Daniel’s son! You’d love him Jo, he’s the image of Daniel , but also we can see you in him. At 4pm when you took your last breath in 2012, we raised a toast to you. We miss you so much Jo, and when Benny is older I will tell him all about his wonderful Aunty Jo. Love you loads Jo, and miss you every day. xxx

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