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This site is for sharing memories of Joanne Scott Zeoli, who was always known as Jody. She was born in Denver in 1931, Ruth Joanne Scott. Her parents were Charles Herald Scott and Mildred Tomlin Scott. Her older sisters were Pauline and June. She had an older brother, Donald, and a younger brother Charles. 

From a young age, Jody was a voracious reader, a love she carried all her life. Her family moved to the east coast and eventually to Westport, Connecticut, where she graduated from Staples High School, as did her husband, three children and three grandchildren. Jody met Nick Zeoli in the early 1950s, they married and had three children, Stephen, Christopher and Nikki.

In 1964, Nick and Jody packed their children into a Rambler station wagon and spent the summer driving 10,000 miles around the United States visiting National Parks including the Badlands, Yellowstone, Crater Lake, Yosemite, the Grand Canyon, Mesa Verde, and more. In the 1980s and 1990s, the two travelled to Europe several times. 

After a visit with friends with a vacation home on a lake in Wisconsin, Nick and Jody decided to look for their own summer get away place, a quest that resulted in buying a small lot on Beebe Pond in Vermont. For the next 60-plus years, the lake would be a special place for Jody, Nick and the family. Some of Jody's best friends were neighbors on the lake. When the weather and lake water warmed enough, she and some of the women from the lake would swim across and back. They called this group The Turtles.

In addition to raising a family, Jody had a career as a legal secretary. She loved classical music and opera.
 
Jody continually tested herself, tackling the New York Times crossword every day. And she never missed an installment of Jeopardy. The fact that she dropped out of college always bothered her, so she enrolled at the University of Connecticut in the late 1980s and earned her bachelor's degree when she was 60.

She and Nick retired to a log home they built on the shores of Beebe Pond in the mid 1990s, where she continued to reside the remainder of her life.

When dad's mental state deteriorated in the last four years or so of his life, mom insisted on being his main care giver. Despite how difficult he became, she stayed resolute in her resistance to moving him to assisted living.

Jody is survived by her three children, and by her grandchildren Jenny, Charlotte and Nicholas Porzio.

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April 27
April 27
I am so sorry to hear that Jody passed on to the next life or whatever is out there. She did not really like the term passed on, she thought we should face it with the real D words. I met Jody at the Chaffee Writers group (now the Friday Writers) probably about 15 years ago at its very first meeting, and she became a stalwart of that group until Nick needed her more and more of the time. She was a wonderful writer. I hope all of her memories are collected, and her children know how valuable they are.
But knowing how wonderful her children are (Jody told us), I’m sure they do.
Godspeed, Jody!
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April 26
April 26
A quick note of thanks for everyone who has left a loving memory or contributed a photo -- Paul Thompson, your photos are great.

But even if you haven't left a note or a photo, thank you so much for stopping by to remember our mother, Jody Zeoli.
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April 26
April 26
I was so saddened when I heard the news of Jody passing in person from my brother as I happened to be visiting with them at lake Anna. Steve sent me notice but I hadn't seen it yet. I immediately thought of the time I spent with her a couple of years ago when in Vermont for the memorial for Nick Zeoli. We had some very good conversations then and I was impressed at how vibrant and sharp she was! It was reminiscent of all the great times our families had had together up at the lake. The lake was a special retreat that I always looked forward to visiting and had a large influence on my life. I even credit those years for my desire to retire on a lake which I accomplished due to their influence.

Jody was my mom's younger sister and like many siblings they had very different personalities. I always looked at Jody as the "cool" mom and could relate to her well because of the contrasts. My mom was great but it was always nice to hang out with Jody for a change of pace!

There is no question the entire Zeoli family played a huge role in my upbringing that I will cherish forever and Jody was a central figure in that of course. First Nick, now Jody's passing is so sad for me as childhood memories give way to life's realities that nothing lasts forever! I want to thank Steve profusely as this website is just perfect as a place to consolidate all the love we feel for Jody and all of our relatives that made us who we are.
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April 24
April 24
Jody and I have been summer neighbors at Beeb for 54 years. She and I were among the Turtles who swam every morning at 7:30 for at least 25 of those years.  We also had a book club, read Shakespeare, exercised and gathered for wine occasionally. In recent years I was welcomed at Zeoli picnics as part of the extended family. Such memories I'll cherish. Her passing feels like the end of an era at Beebe and I'll miss her so much!
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April 22
April 22
I have so many fond memories of time spent with the Zeoli family over the years
with vacations at the Westport house and summertime at Beebe pond.

Aunt Jody was always the kind, welcoming sister to my mother and our family and such a wonderful person to spend time with. We all loved being with her and so much enjoyed spending quality time on the lake.

I don't have many memories of one on one time with Aunt Jody as there were always others in the room. But I do remember her interest in me and giving valuable advise on marriage and life. She was the smartest person I knew.

The last time I saw Aunt Jody was in 2017, when she drove herself and Uncle Nick to Maryland to be part of my parents celebration of life. It meant so much to me to have her there and be part of it. I will miss her.  
April 19
April 19
Steve, Chris & Nikki, what a lovely tribute to your mom. So enjoyed reading about some of the things that I knew about, but then some I did not know about!
She was a lovely lady & a fun aunt and over the years I loved spending time with her both in Connecticut and also when you all visited Florida!
My love to you all…….
Your cousin, Susie (as she always called me!)
April 18
April 18
Jody's death feels like an end to an era for me and Rob, as we have such strong associations of Lake Beebe and spending time with her. Watching Jeopardy in her living room at 7:00 on weeknights. Always amazed at how she (and Steve, for that matter!) knew the answers to obscure questions. So many meals around that lovely table. (Loved her manicotti!) Drinking prosecco. Waffles at 9 on Sundays. Swimming with the Turtles. Exchanging books and having lively discussions about what we liked (or not). Politics (of course). And so much more!
We loved and admired her. May she rest in peace. And if she's with Nick up there somewhere, we hope he's letting her get a word in! 
Terri and Rob Polley
April 16
April 16
Dear Steve, Chris, and Nikki,
We are so sorry to hear this sad news. We have so many happy memories of visits to Bebe Lake, breakfasts with Jody and family in Middlebury, Norwich, and even Stratford, and much more. We're thinking of you.
Love, Muffy, Dave, Connie, and Shepard
April 16
April 16
Obviously there are a million memories of mom, but one that stands out to me is how she'd do housework on Saturday mornings (getting little help from me), while listening to classical music and the Metropolitan Opera. To this day, certain classical melodies spring those images to my mind.

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April 27
April 27
I am so sorry to hear that Jody passed on to the next life or whatever is out there. She did not really like the term passed on, she thought we should face it with the real D words. I met Jody at the Chaffee Writers group (now the Friday Writers) probably about 15 years ago at its very first meeting, and she became a stalwart of that group until Nick needed her more and more of the time. She was a wonderful writer. I hope all of her memories are collected, and her children know how valuable they are.
But knowing how wonderful her children are (Jody told us), I’m sure they do.
Godspeed, Jody!
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April 26
April 26
A quick note of thanks for everyone who has left a loving memory or contributed a photo -- Paul Thompson, your photos are great.

But even if you haven't left a note or a photo, thank you so much for stopping by to remember our mother, Jody Zeoli.
New
April 26
April 26
I was so saddened when I heard the news of Jody passing in person from my brother as I happened to be visiting with them at lake Anna. Steve sent me notice but I hadn't seen it yet. I immediately thought of the time I spent with her a couple of years ago when in Vermont for the memorial for Nick Zeoli. We had some very good conversations then and I was impressed at how vibrant and sharp she was! It was reminiscent of all the great times our families had had together up at the lake. The lake was a special retreat that I always looked forward to visiting and had a large influence on my life. I even credit those years for my desire to retire on a lake which I accomplished due to their influence.

Jody was my mom's younger sister and like many siblings they had very different personalities. I always looked at Jody as the "cool" mom and could relate to her well because of the contrasts. My mom was great but it was always nice to hang out with Jody for a change of pace!

There is no question the entire Zeoli family played a huge role in my upbringing that I will cherish forever and Jody was a central figure in that of course. First Nick, now Jody's passing is so sad for me as childhood memories give way to life's realities that nothing lasts forever! I want to thank Steve profusely as this website is just perfect as a place to consolidate all the love we feel for Jody and all of our relatives that made us who we are.
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More book talk about my mom

April 20
When I was first becoming a "reader." I noticed that mom would record the title, author and date completed of the books she read in an old-style composition notebook. This was back in the 1970s. This inspried me to begin keeping a reading log too -- I never read as fast as mom, so my notebook filled far more slowly. When I got my first computer in the early 1980s, I transcribed the notebook into a database. That digital record has stuck with me for the past 40-plus years, traveling from one computer to another. Yet one more effect on my life from mom. 

Books and Jody

April 19
Today I saw there was a new book from Doris Kearns Goodwin, an author mom enjoyed. I immediately thought, "Oh, I should get that for her." Then remembered my mother will not be reading any more books. 

Our mother loved books, kept them throughout the house as we were growing up. She instilled a love of books in me, though I am not sure if that was intentional on her part, or if I just gained that affection through osmosis. For me, it was always easy to find a gift for mom, whether at Christmas, Mother's Day or her birthday (or sometimes for no reason at all). I would see a book on the shelf at the book store and a little bell would go off, as it did with Goodwin's new book. "Mom would enjoy this."

And more often than not she would. I think my success in getting her books she enjoyed was due to two things: First, I did know her interests pretty well. But mostly I think it was a matter of mom's deep curiosity about the world and her willingness to absorb all kinds of information. She loved learning. I could probably have selected books blindfolded, and she'd still have liked them.

Mom turned me into a reader

April 17
It was from mom's influence I became a reader. I think it was during our first summer in Hubbardton that mom made a rule that we could only watch an hour of TV for every hour we read. I was 13. When she first laid down this rule I thought I'd never be able to muster enough time with a book to watch any TV show. But a strange thing happened. I picked up a book that came in a box of paperbacks mom had bought at an auction for a couple of dollars. The book was a science fiction novel by Clifford Simak titled, Time is the Simplest Thing. I was mesmerized by the concepts and swept along in the mystery of the cosmos Simak presented. I tore through that book and quickly went on to others. Before long I had so much reading time logged, I'd never use it up on TV shows (especially since we only got two channels of fuzzy reception).

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