June 29, 2019
June 29, 2019
Thinking of you often. Happy birthday! Love Patti
This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Joel Alvares, 50 years old, born on June 28, 1963, and passed away on August 17, 2013. We will remember him forever.
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August 17, 2018
August 17, 2018
Think of you often. Wishing you a happy birthday. I can just see you all celebrating now too. Much love, Patti
September 13, 2017
September 13, 2017
Thinking of you on your birthday. Never to be forgotten. Miss and love you. Patti
(don't know why this didn't post on your bday???)
(don't know why this didn't post on your bday???)
June 28, 2017
June 28, 2017
Was just thinking about you the other day. Happy birthday, Joel.
September 12, 2016
September 12, 2016
Happy belated birthday!! Thinking of you always. ❤️❤️
June 28, 2016
June 28, 2016
You have been on my mind a lot lately. Missing you, and wishing you a very happy birthday.
Hoping you are Judy are sharing some good moments.
Tina
Hoping you are Judy are sharing some good moments.
Tina
June 28, 2016
June 28, 2016
Happy birthday Joel! Would love to know what you, Jodi and Blackie are all up too but whatever it be, I'm sure the heavens are enjoying you ALL!
Missing you ❤️ Love Patti
Missing you ❤️ Love Patti
June 28, 2016
June 28, 2016
Happy birthday, Joel.
July 31, 2015
July 31, 2015
Really sorry to hear of Joel's passing. I just finally found out who was behind the amazing music of the Bygone Dogs only to see that he's gone. My friends and I fell in love with his music through the Cyber Speedway video game, but any attempt to find out more about the group was always fruitless. As a musician Joel has inspired me and will continue to do so. If anyone knows how to hear and buy more of his music please let me know.
Peace and blessings
Phil Stewart
Peace and blessings
Phil Stewart
June 28, 2015
June 28, 2015
Happy Birthday!! Miss you more than you know. RIP
Patti
Patti
June 28, 2015
June 28, 2015
Happy birthday, Joel.
September 16, 2014
September 16, 2014
I was friends with Joel many years ago when I was only 14 years old. Initially I was a fan of his music and through my interest in that I ended up meeting another young man named Colin who was helping Joel promote his band, The Bygone Dogs. Colin introduced me to Joel and we became friends for a time.
Joel was probably the most kindhearted and gentle person I had ever met. We spoke on-line and on the phone, he introduced me to his girlfriend at the time who was also a very kind soul.
At 14 years old I probably wasn't terribly interesting to talk to, but Joel was so genuine and kind; he always had time for me. He and his band mates all signed a Bygone Dogs album for me and sent me tapes of some of his old 4-track recordings with his previous band, Just Curious. In one of the tracks he sent me the song is interrupted by a furious neighbor storming into their garage and unleashing a torrent of abuse on the band. Joel had a wonderful sense of humor and never seemed to take anything too terribly seriously.
That was a difficult time for me and I believe he knew that. His kindness and generosity gave me hope when my faith in the decency of humanity was waning.
I think of Joel often, and last night I decided I would attempt to track him down, see how he was doing and let him know how much it meant to me that he offered up his time and heart without question. When I found this page my heart sank.
It's been more than 15 years now. I'm no longer a teenager; I'm in my 30's and beginning to feel my age catching up with me. To think that Joel wasn't still out there making beautiful music was unfathomable... it still is. I won't claim to know Joel as you guys did, but in the time we were friends it became obvious that he brought happiness to all those around him. Times have changed so much now, and I wonder if anyone will ever be that genuine again.
Joel and his music will be in my heart and mind until the day I die.
Joel was probably the most kindhearted and gentle person I had ever met. We spoke on-line and on the phone, he introduced me to his girlfriend at the time who was also a very kind soul.
At 14 years old I probably wasn't terribly interesting to talk to, but Joel was so genuine and kind; he always had time for me. He and his band mates all signed a Bygone Dogs album for me and sent me tapes of some of his old 4-track recordings with his previous band, Just Curious. In one of the tracks he sent me the song is interrupted by a furious neighbor storming into their garage and unleashing a torrent of abuse on the band. Joel had a wonderful sense of humor and never seemed to take anything too terribly seriously.
That was a difficult time for me and I believe he knew that. His kindness and generosity gave me hope when my faith in the decency of humanity was waning.
I think of Joel often, and last night I decided I would attempt to track him down, see how he was doing and let him know how much it meant to me that he offered up his time and heart without question. When I found this page my heart sank.
It's been more than 15 years now. I'm no longer a teenager; I'm in my 30's and beginning to feel my age catching up with me. To think that Joel wasn't still out there making beautiful music was unfathomable... it still is. I won't claim to know Joel as you guys did, but in the time we were friends it became obvious that he brought happiness to all those around him. Times have changed so much now, and I wonder if anyone will ever be that genuine again.
Joel and his music will be in my heart and mind until the day I die.
August 17, 2014
August 17, 2014
Hard to believe it's been a year since your passing. Missing your laughter and your music but knowing the heaven's are enjoying. Love and miss you in my own special way. Patti
June 29, 2014
June 29, 2014
Thinking of you on your birthday. You are truly missed!! Patti and Denny
September 10, 2013
September 10, 2013
If I had words, I would write them, but I don't. I am sad. We love you Joel. The gap will be filled by living our lives.
Love,
Margie and Mike
Love,
Margie and Mike
August 31, 2013
August 31, 2013
P.S. Im going to have my DNA checked just to make sure we are not related. Love Denny
August 31, 2013
August 31, 2013
Mom, pops, jimmey(bro)
I know we arn't related by blood, but we have known each other for so long I feel like family. But thats because of the way you treat me. I am so sorry for your loss but I know that the love you have from all your friends and family will help you through this. I love you all, and I will be there for you forever.
I know we arn't related by blood, but we have known each other for so long I feel like family. But thats because of the way you treat me. I am so sorry for your loss but I know that the love you have from all your friends and family will help you through this. I love you all, and I will be there for you forever.
August 28, 2013
August 28, 2013
I am so sorry for your loss. Joel's warm smile and gentle nature will be remembered and missed by many. I will forever hold Joel close in a special place in my heart. I pray your happy memories of Joel help you overcome the sad ones, sooner than later. Wishing you peace as you learn to live with this new reality.
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June 29, 2019
June 29, 2019
Thinking of you often. Happy birthday! Love Patti
August 17, 2018
August 17, 2018
Think of you often. Wishing you a happy birthday. I can just see you all celebrating now too. Much love, Patti
September 13, 2017
September 13, 2017
Thinking of you on your birthday. Never to be forgotten. Miss and love you. Patti
(don't know why this didn't post on your bday???)
(don't know why this didn't post on your bday???)
Gallery
Circa 1980. Most likely taken at a night game at Sequoia HS. This was a yearbook picture.
Another photo from Joel's Facebook page. A friend name Tom Green posted it.
From Joel's Facebook page. Perhaps someone knows the story.
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from your xwife
September 1, 2013
I recieved a message to day. Joel ... It is unreel. I was married to Joel. He found me in Denmark 27 years ago. We fell in love. He brought med to USA. We lived in a Little White house in Mountain View. He was a passionated and committet man. A very beautiful soul. But maybe we were to young. I will always keep him in my heart. I can clearly hear his voice, his music. I have told my mother, father, sister and brother, my girlfriends - all the people here in Denmark that knew him and the all send their deepest condolences. Dear Joel you ment so much to so many people on the other side of the ocean. You were a star. I/we also send our deepest sympathy to Della and Norm. Love Katrine.
Dear Joel. I just used all the wrong Words. We danes are not used to ekspress our feelings the way people do in the states. You know that. What I really wanted to say to you was, that a piece of me has died today. And that i am very very sad. I loved you. You ment so much to me. something is very wrong now. You are missing in this World. I will remember it all. Love to you from your x-wife
Dearest Della and Norm
Dearest Della and Norm
My mother, father, sister and brother sends all their love to you. Today and many days from now will be days in grief. All of us in Denmark loved Joel. He was a wonderful, unique human being. We will look at the stars and find him.
I am so thankful to you. All the things you did for me and for Joel. We were so young. Della and Norm I don't believe in God but I will pray for you.
Love Katrine