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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, John Ghio.  We will remember him forever.

John Matthew Ghio, 83, died at home, peacefully in his sleep on April 1. 

He is preceded in death by his wife, Libby Ann Ghio. He leaves his four children, Matthew Ghio of St. Louis, MO (Laurie); Annmarie Ghio of Bartlett, TN; Jason Ghio of Olive Branch, MS (Amanda);  and Lisa O’Brien of Cincinnati, OH (Ryan). He also leaves nine grandchildren, his sister Catherine Loope of Corona, CA (Gary), and his brother-in-laws, sister-in-law, many cousins, nieces, and nephews. He also leaves his companion of twenty-three years Beth Williams of Memphis, TN, and her four children and grandchildren.

John was born and raised in Southern California, in the small suburb of Maywood, in Los Angeles County, son of Matteo and Ann Ghio. He graduated from the University of Arizona, studying business administration and chemistry.  He served in the United States Naval Reserves. He was hired by US Steel in Parsippany, New Jersey after college, and worked on the east coast for a couple of years.  He was was transferred to Memphis in 1967, where he met Libby Goldstein. They were married the following year.

During his life, John was active in the St. Ann Catholic school and church community, coaching soccer and volunteering for various organizations. After he retired from W.M. Barr, he became an avid golfer, golfing every Wednesday with his friends. Last July, he played with his son in the Member-Guest at Glen Echo Country Club in St. Louis. They won the Gary Player flight and came in 3rd place overall out of sixty teams.  He was an avid reader, and oddly, a lover of hand paintings of clowns that to this day still scare his children and grandchildren. He enjoyed traveling, exercising, cooking, playing Farkel, and spending time with his family and friends. 

In 2003, he took much of his extended family to Italy, visiting Rome, Florence, and other towns, as well as Sicily, the Mediterranean island where his mother’s family (Colletti) and mother-in-law’s family (Cianciola) emigrated from in the early 20th century. He and Beth loved their trips to visit family all over the United States.  They also traveled through Europe, where they visited Belgium, Germany, Holland, and Ireland. 

He was most famous for his spaghetti sauce, Italian spinach, and garlic bread. 

The everyday conversations about current events, family milestones, grandchildren, why his computer wasn’t working right, and frantic calls for advice about whatever issue one of his children had at the moment, will be sorely missed.

As his father-in-law, Max Goldstein, might have said:  the man was a mensch!

At this time, there will be a private funeral at St. Ann Catholic Church for immediate family only. As soon as restrictions are lifted, the family will plan a “fake funeral” to celebrate John’s life with family and friends. In case you’re wondering, “fake” events are a Ghio tradition when we all can’t be together on the actual date. 

In lieu of flowers, the family has requested that donations be made to St. Ann Catholic School in Bartlett, TN or to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, Memphis, TN. 

April 20, 2020
April 20, 2020
Twenty three years ago today this incredible man introduced himself to me at church and our lives were never the same.
His wisdom, strength and calming influence created a safe and loving presence around those who knew him. He was always teaching and those lessons have given us a roadmap to follow in his absence. I will always cherish his wisdom and willingness to help others.
We shared our love of life and truly enjoyed every minute we had together. He was my rock.
He left us with the same simplicity and dignity he lived with. Beautifully and peacefully. That was his gift from God and I know he was welcomed home with loving outstretched arms for a job well done. 
John was truly one of God’s best creations and my life was blessed beyond measure because of him.
April 17, 2020
April 17, 2020
I was shocked and saddened to hear of John’s death. Shocked, because he was in such wonderful shape and had always seemed like such a rock that I couldn’t imagine him not being there. Saddened, because he was such a fine human being and will be so sorely missed. I first met John when my husband Jose and I were just a young married couple. He was always so kind to us, especially to Jose, who was an immigrant and didn’t speak much English at the time. It just meant so much to us; we have never forgotten about it! Through all the years that followed, his whole family and circle of friends could count on his kind and steady presence in good times and bad, happiness and tragedy. I thank God for John’s life and know that he has now had the joy of hearing from his Heavenly Father—“Well done, good and faithful servant; now enter into the joy of your Master!”

Love to all John’s family during this sad time! Shannon and Jose Hernandez and Family
April 17, 2020
April 17, 2020
To Annmarie and the rest of the family. I wanted you to know that I am praying for you and hope you find comfort in the coming days.
April 9, 2020
April 9, 2020
There aren’t enough beautiful adjectives to describe my thoughts and feelings for John! I always loved hearing about his observations on daily living. If he said it, you knew you could rely on it and trust his gentle advice. He always spoke from his kind and loving heart! He was a gem and a treasure to me!.....always will be! 
April 7, 2020
April 7, 2020
From Charlie Lobianco,, our cousin

I recall so well John and Libby’s wedding at Immaculate Conception in 1968. Upon concluding the ceremony, Msgr. Merlin Kearney made a brief, humorous comment that made Libby chuckle. She was already beaming with a gorgeous smile as she looked towards John. Since then, their love has visibly overflowed in the lives of their children, grandchildren and all whose lives they touched.
April 6, 2020
April 6, 2020
Friends, we are so sorry for your loss. We may have only met John a handful of times, but we know and understand what a loving, caring, tight-knit family y'all are and that you love him unconditionally. Please know you are in our thoughts at this time (and always!!). We love you guys so much and our hearts break for you. Let's get through these crazy times so I can give you a proper hug!!

Love always,
The Fick Family
April 5, 2020
April 5, 2020
I first met John at St Louis School. My daughter Katie and Lisa were in the same grade. I remember when Libby passed away and how sad it was for St Louis School and Church. Libby was so well thought of and was an unbelievable person, mother, wife and teacher.

I got to know John and Libby when he and I coached our daughters Katie and Lisa basketball at St Louis School. He was such a great guy. laid back and always so kind. One of the nicest guys I have ever met.

Lisa was such a nice person too. I also got to got to know Matt later on when he worked at Chapter 13 Trustee in Memphis. He too was just like his dad, very kind.

I have known Uncle Mark for a good while too through our business relationship with the Chapter 13 Trustees.

I am so sorry for your loss and will keep all of John’s family in my prayers.
April 5, 2020
April 5, 2020
Mike and I can’t express how saddened we were to hear of John's passing. He was not only Lisa's dad but a cherished friend to us. We were all blessed with his humor, his kindness and and his friendship.
Matt, Annemarie, Jason, Lisa and Beth, I wish I could tell you the pain you are feeling will go away with time but, the pain will be replaced with loving memories of an honorable man and a life well lived.
Love and deep sympathy to all of you.
Jane and Mike
April 5, 2020
April 5, 2020
from Cate O’Brien (granddaughter)

“Paca John, God, and Moses!”
April 5, 2020
We loved having the Ghio's as next door neighbors growing up. Mr Ghio was always so nice to me. I loved having him as my soccer coach even though I was a horrible soccer player :) He always encouraged me! We will miss him! Heaven has another angel looking down on us!!!
April 5, 2020
April 5, 2020
Mr. Ghio was like a father to me. I live in STL, but when I was with him he jumped right into the “fatherly role.” I met
Mr. Ghio when his wife, Libby, was alive. He was a wonderful husband and father.
I remember we went to dinner one night, maybe after Matt’s graduation, anyway it was Italian cuisine, of course. He wanted me to try calamari and I just couldn’t.... yuck. He said to me, “what kind of an Italian are you anyway?” Lol I did try a tentacle and until this day no one has ever gotten me to eat seafood.... no one! I will miss him a lot! He had an amazing will to live, so I am grateful to that he passed in his sleep. It hurts nonetheless, I know my life will never be the same without his humor and a hug. I will miss you and we will have some Missouri Bakery cookies in your honor.
April 5, 2020
April 5, 2020
To Lisa and family, what a beautiful tribute to your dad. That is a great picture of all of you. You have wonderful memories of your dad that you will treasure forever. When my father died, someone told me to look out for a cardinal in your yard. It will be your dad checking in. That has always brought me comfort.
April 4, 2020
April 4, 2020
Jason, Annmarie, Lisa, Matthew, and Beth, the entire Ghio family, I had the pleasure of enjoying John’s company while practicing at Putt Putt Golf most every Wednesday night for the last few years. Our friendship grew as we found we shared a number of mutual friends, that we both grew up in California, and we also shared other common interests including a devotion to St Ann’s Church and School.  I was moved by his love for and dedication to his family . All of you were his world. Prayers for John and all of you.
April 4, 2020
April 4, 2020
John was one of the kindest men we have ever known. For more than twenty years, he blessed our family with his quiet, caring presence. We loved him dearly. We will miss so much about him, not least of which was his game playing abilities. He always brought a smile to our faces. Thank you Ghio family for sharing him with the Williams’ clan. We are so sorry for your loss and are praying for you all. God bless.
April 4, 2020
April 4, 2020
Dear Ghio Family , I am so sorry for the loss of your Dad . He was such a great friend to me . What a wonderful person and Dad he was .Such a great family man . My love and prayers go out to you .
Susan Stralka
April 4, 2020
We are so very sorry you lost your father so suddenly. He was the nicest man, and I enjoyed going to grandparents day at Holland Lia’s school with him. We will miss him.
Until we all meet again, prayers for peace.
April 4, 2020
April 4, 2020
My heart goes out to John’s family. He was a phenomenal man and mentor, I learned so much from him in the 3 years I worked for him. He was so good to let me go down a bad path and hit a wall, then another bad path, another wall...and so on. When I would ask, “Did you know this wouldn’t work?” He would quietly say, “Yes, but you didn’t know.”
He taught me how to think.
He taught me how to build a team of strength.
He taught me the value of health.
He lost Libby while I was working for him; he taught me what it looks like to be a widower in those first two years, raising 4 teenagers, and keeping the faith.
He was my role model in so many ways.
He was there for me when my husband died, his listening ear meant so much.
I always loved hearing stories about your family, how you cooked special recipes together, like Pesto and ravioli. He cherished each member of your family and he considered himself very blessed.
I take comfort that John is reunited with Libby and it is a joyous reunion!
April 3, 2020
April 3, 2020
Matthew, Jason, Annmarie, Lisa, and Beth, and all your wonderful family, Mike and I just want you to know that we love you and we are so sorry that you have lost such a wonderful man that meant so much to you all. He has left a great legacy. You are in our prayers.
April 3, 2020
April 3, 2020
To the Ghio Family - I hope and pray that all your happy family memories will help you in the sad time. Your dad was a great man and great neighbor. Until the Fake funeral. Stay Safe
April 3, 2020
April 3, 2020
Absolute BEST dad ever! Life will never be the same.

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April 20, 2020
April 20, 2020
Twenty three years ago today this incredible man introduced himself to me at church and our lives were never the same.
His wisdom, strength and calming influence created a safe and loving presence around those who knew him. He was always teaching and those lessons have given us a roadmap to follow in his absence. I will always cherish his wisdom and willingness to help others.
We shared our love of life and truly enjoyed every minute we had together. He was my rock.
He left us with the same simplicity and dignity he lived with. Beautifully and peacefully. That was his gift from God and I know he was welcomed home with loving outstretched arms for a job well done. 
John was truly one of God’s best creations and my life was blessed beyond measure because of him.
April 17, 2020
April 17, 2020
I was shocked and saddened to hear of John’s death. Shocked, because he was in such wonderful shape and had always seemed like such a rock that I couldn’t imagine him not being there. Saddened, because he was such a fine human being and will be so sorely missed. I first met John when my husband Jose and I were just a young married couple. He was always so kind to us, especially to Jose, who was an immigrant and didn’t speak much English at the time. It just meant so much to us; we have never forgotten about it! Through all the years that followed, his whole family and circle of friends could count on his kind and steady presence in good times and bad, happiness and tragedy. I thank God for John’s life and know that he has now had the joy of hearing from his Heavenly Father—“Well done, good and faithful servant; now enter into the joy of your Master!”

Love to all John’s family during this sad time! Shannon and Jose Hernandez and Family
April 17, 2020
April 17, 2020
To Annmarie and the rest of the family. I wanted you to know that I am praying for you and hope you find comfort in the coming days.
Recent stories
May 27, 2020
Anyone who has been in my kitchen has probably seen my stuffed Ewok. Well here’s the story.
My 23th birthday was the first one after my mom died, so my dad went out and bought my a gift. I opened it to find an Ewok. Ok so, I like Star Wars and all, but I couldn’t understand why he bought me a stuffed Ewok. I didn’t want to hurt his feelings, but asked “why?” anyway. 
His response, “You love Ewoks.” 
It look me a heartbeat. 
“No, dad. I love Eeyore.” 
Hey, they both begin with E. To this day, it’s one of my most treasured gift from a most treasured dad.
#bestestdadintheentireuniverse

Still working on his golf wing.

April 7, 2020
April 5, 2020
I remember when I was little playing hearts with everybody at the table, John I believe let me shoot the moon a few times! Those were good memories!

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