July 30th, 2018
Happy Birthday John! We miss you.
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Dear Family and Friends,
We buried John in his hometown of Viola Illinois March 31st at St. John's Catholic Cemetery, followed by a beautiful service paying tribute to his life. Our children performed musical numbers and presented the eulogy as John had requested. His large extended family and friends travelled long distances to attend a ceremony full of John's favorites-vases and vases of red roses followed by his favorite food, lasagne and banana cream pie. We remembered his incredible life and shared our grief for his loss. John would have been proud and I am deeply grateful to all of you for your cards, emails, gifts and contributions to his scholarship.
John's legacy will live on.
Bless you all, Much love Pam
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Please feel free to view photos and add your own memories, stories or pictures of John for the family in the stories tab above.
In lieu of flowers or gifts, if you wish to remember John please consider contributing to the John Flaherty Physics Scholarship (note in memo line the scholarship name) via check to:
Yuba Community College District Foundation Office
425 Plumas Blvd
Suite 200
Yuba City, CA 95991
(530) 749-3868
foundation@yccd.edu
Donation Form: https://goo.gl/jU88v1
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John passed in peace after 17 years of bravely fighting cancer.
Raised in Viola, Illinois, John enjoyed living the majority of his life northern in California with his wife, Pamela, and his three children. John met Pam in Laramie Wyoming while working on his PhD in Physics. They fell in love, completed their degrees, and were married on January 27th, 1971.
In search for sunshine, the couple moved to northern California to raise their family. John taught physics and astronomy at Yuba Community College and even ran a motorcycle and jet ski dealership in the 80s.
He was a man of strong will, determination, and kindness. John's love for his family showed in everything he did, and he most enjoyed working hard to support those he loved.
John is survived by his wife, Pamela, his three children, Heather, John and Britt, his granddaughters, Nora and Emily, his sister Barbara and his brother James. He was preceded in death by his brother Bill, his brother Leo, and his parents Mary Josephine and William Flaherty. Services will be held in Illinois.
Tributes
Leave a tributeI drove by where John lived while I was in college and where I worked on his corvette yesterday.
I was showing my son YC after a race some of the places around town.
And then I get the notification that today was 6 years
Miss you John
Unbelievable to hear from you. I thought of you often and all those times in Laramie. Do you have a Facebook page? You can friend request me. Pam Slagle Flaherty Lincoln CA
I am sad to be finding you in this way. My sincerest condolences.
I have a letter from you from 1977. Before giving up and letting go, I decided to try one more time to find you. We were friends back in Laramie, Wyoming.
I guess my email will be included here. It has been a life time! Just want to say you made a huge difference in my life. So did John by extension. Much love.
Take care!
Doreen Douglas Curry
In fondest memory,
Lauren Syda and Steve Klein
Patti Fox and Family
Miss you
However you would be proud of your kids who- true to form- have adapted and handled their lives and those of your four grandchildren beautifully.
You are missed by many people and I still hear stories. Love Pam
Still remember flying off the back straight of thunder hill when the brakes overheated in the corvette.
Lauren Syda and Steve Klein
We all miss you.
Steve & Lauren
I had limited experiences knowing John. and they were all GOOD. I will remember his smile and his willingness to volunteer with the boys and girls tennis at Lincoln High, City of Lincoln Social Tennis, and The LHTG.
I had read almost ALL of the tributes which touched me deeply on how much he was loved and admired.
Like the wind, you can't see it, but always can feel it's presence, John will always be remembered for making a difference in so many lives.
Sending my love to Pam and all family and friends of John's
Peter
His legacy is so rich! A large part of which is the many, many students who benefited from his unique style of teaching. He will be remembered for his loving way of bringing out the best in each of them (though some didn’t recognize at the moment.) Those same inspirational skills extended to his colleagues and friends. Yuba College was positively impacted by his leadership skills and devotion. As a colleague and friend, I value the many experiences we shared. I have fond memories of the many projects he talked me into (most of which ended well), the many situations he helped me resolve, and his continuous support both professionally and personally. Like all that knew John, I am so thankful to have had the opportunity to know such a remarkable man.
John, may you rest in peace.
Your tennis family will miss you! John always had a smile on his face when we knew he was struggling with his health. Always so approachable and easy to talk to. Pam, thank you for sharing your family pictures. I really enjoyed seeing other parts of his life and his younger years. Rest in Peace.
Physics does not come in tiny bits but sizable lumps. Sometimes after a long lecture, finishing a worthwhile subject, seconds before the bell rings we say 'Well, this is a good point to stop'. So it is with our lives, after bravely fighting a battle for 17 years, you called it quits. To me you were the older brother that my parents did not provide. In my darkest days at the UWyo, when I had a hard time filling the 'Next of Kin' box of the registration form, looking into the abyss from the very edge, I had your friendship and support. We enjoyed our youth, mature and elderly years together, shared each other's joys and sorrows. Never lost contact, always visiting each other, planned for a get together even when 7000 miles apart. Old age is never easy but the physical side may be endured with stoicism. It is the departing friends and the resulting loneliness of being left behind that hurts most. I thanked you when you were alive and now I thank again for enriching my life and your friendship.
He will be sorely missed.
John was a good guy - he had a smile for everyone he knew and even those he did not know. I enjoy reading some of what folks have to say about John. I know he enjoyed coming and listening and thinking about what guys had to say at our Bible Study sessions and was blown away that people could share and listen to each other. We will miss him.
Carl and Carol Gronau
He came to visit me one summer and we had a nice talk.
My sympathy and prayers to Pam, Jon, Britt, Heather.
Almo & Mary Cordone
Our sincere condolences on the loss of your beloved. We enjoyed knowing John through Neighbors InDeed and Lincoln Hills Astronomy Group. He was wonderful, humorous, helpful, strong, kind, to say just a few nice things about our friendship. Be well and cherish those precious and loving memories he leaves. Respectfully, Al and Carol Witten
Your tennis family.
What a kind and generous man.
May your memories keep you strong and comfort you .
Go in peace John- congratulations on a life well-lived.
Leave a Tribute
I drove by where John lived while I was in college and where I worked on his corvette yesterday.
I was showing my son YC after a race some of the places around town.
And then I get the notification that today was 6 years
Miss you John
two of 4 Yuba PhD's
OMG- the only 2 instructors that I remember from my 2 years at Yuba, and this brings to mind another story from John. If I recall the story correctly, in the early days of Yuba College, there were only 4 PhD’s on campus- John, Ed, someone in chemistry, and one other. Only one of the 4 (aka ‘other’) regularly touted his title and the other 3 were apparently offended by his gift of pencils engraved with “Merry Christmas from Dr. So and So”. After grinding the pencils down to “Merry Christmas”, the 3 took to gleefully addressing each other as “Dr” in the hallways. Can’t you just picture Ed and John passing each other with a proverbial tip of the hat and a verbal exchange of “Doctor”, “Doctor”? They thoroughly enjoyed this routine until they noticed the nursing program students straining their necks to see who was at the center of such respectful adoration
I think that's the one that I broke ...
A perfect comment from a mutual friend, Lisa- "what a gracious man". While unloading boxes during one house moving (not the actual house, though you've seen pics of that one here...), I had the stupid idea to hide a box of trophies for a prank. Went very bad, as I also applied juvenile rationale for the hiding place - in a tree. Instead of finding the box in the tree, John found it on the gound. John was very quiet about it, but I think that is the least happy that I ever saw him. Lisa's description is highly accurate. Last prank I ever attempted.
What a Playmate!
John was just so, so much fun. I distinctly recall one Halloween night the doorbell ringing. Upon opening the door, there stood John cradling his helmet attired in his bike leathers and saying, "Trick or treat." There were none of the kids there. Just John and his motorcycle. It was John and Pam who hosted us at their home for our older daughter's wedding rehearsal dinner. There was also the time John and his telescope lured us out to the countryside at an insane time of night/morning to view Halley's Comet which turned out to be missing in action. Not to worry, John simply treated us to a wonderful view of Saturn and its rings. Then there was the phone call three years ago. It was John. "Bill, I know you like to travel. I have a line on a trip I've wanted to make. Want to go to Cuba?" Hmmmmmm? Sure! That was it. John and I spent a wonderful week together backdooring to Cuba through Cozumel. I delighted in our discussions each night interpretting what we had experienced that day. "The Professor," as I would call him, was attempting to administer a course final from the s-l-o-w, s-l-o-w Havana internet as I would needle him about running an off-shore scam. Oh, what fun I had with this wonderful man whom I got to call my friend.