This website was created in memory of our loved one, John W. Burton, 61, born on April 30, 1952 and passed away on December 27, 2013. We will remember him forever. A memorial service for John will be held on February 15th at 11 a.m. in Harkness Chapel, Connecticut College. A reception in the nearby Hood Dining Hall, Blaustein Building, will follow the service. All are welcome. Thank you so much for your lovely tributes! Please feel free to share your favorite stories of John by clicking on the "stories" tab above as well, and please don't hesitate to upload pictures and audio/video recordings by clicking on the "Gallery" tab. Thank you very much!
Tributes
Leave a tributeI am writing from Yirol South Sudan. I am from the Atuot community the people where your husband conducted his research on our cultures. Today we are conducting memorial service for him today in our church organized by our community. I am sure you will receive the photos and videos for the service. I was young when John visited my village and met with my father and my uncles in Anuol. However when i visited America for the xfirst time in 2006, i phone Dr. John Burton to introduce myself and give him greetings from our people in Yirol, South Sudan.
I would not be who I am today, if you had not rescued me from myself during my second semester of freshmen year. I remember the intro class you taught, and how it articulated all these thoughts I had running around in my head. You made it "okay" for me to want to "be" differently in the world, and you taught me how to learn about, and find, different ways of being. You always made yourself available to me, and if it were not for my love of being in the ground (literally), I be a cultural anthropologist. I am now a professional research archaeologist with a not-for-profit in Colorado, but I owe it all to you.
You helped open my mind beyond my wildest imagination.
I always thought of you and Professor Juli as my two patron saints in archaeology; you both were my guiding lights.
Thank you for everything you taught me; you were, and always will be, my favorite sitar-playing professor.
I am so sorry to hear of John’s passing, and I would like to thank you for creating this page in his memory. Reading through everyone’s stories and tributes, I see a clear theme arising: John powerfully and irreversibly changed the way we see the world. That was, and continues to be, his gift to us all. Personally, I have too many “Professor Burton” anecdotes to share here, but suffice it to say that his influence has led me to travel the world with passion, purpose, and immense curiosity.
One thing I do want to ask about, however, is his hiking. In my freshman year at Conn, John told me about his quest to summit all forty-eight of New Hampshire’s 4,000 footers and I’ve since taken up the same challenge myself. I understand that he completed all but three, and if you don’t mind my asking I’d like to know which mountains those were so that I can finish them on his behalf. I know he’d get a kick out of that.
- Alec
I am so sorry for your loss, yet grateful to hear he passed peacefully. He was a such a deeply compassionate mentor and advocate during my time at Connecticut College. Professor Burton was an advisor of mine until my graduation in 2007. He is the reason I first studied in Kenya and that formative trip is certainly the reason I am still living and working in the DRC.
I have fond memories of him playing fetch with the golden retriever on the college green and remember how overjoyed he was with the birth of Julia.
A good friend--a fellow anthropology major who is also living in East Africa--and I kept meaning to send a photo of the two of us, here, still learning, thanks to a piece of advice from Professor Burton nearly ten years ago.
He will be remembered as a wonderful professor and man by countless students.
I'll never forget dancing with him during senior week, finally getting an A(-) form him on a paper about photography as a language, and being told to call him 'John' once I graduated.
I'd visited with him a few times since graduating in 1995, he'd been so supportive of my move from anthropology to photography and especially when I'd decided to pursue teaching.
Rest in peace John and thank you for being such an incredible role model, mentor, advisor, and professor.
When it came time to write my thesis I asked John to be on my committee and he was such a wonderful asset to that process. I am just so thankful to have known him and to have had the chance to learn so much about him during my involvement with the anthropology department. One time we had a fireside chat where he told his entire life story, and that was a magical evening indeed. I will always remember John for being such an important and inspiring part of my college experience. I know that he touched so many lives in his life and he will certainly never be forgotten. All of my best wishes to Orshi, Julia and all of John's loved ones and friends.
During my first meeting with him, he was very interested to learn that I was a musician and asked with a sly smile, "soooo, what do your parents do?". He seemed a little crestfallen when I told him banker & social worker, but it all made sense a while later when I learned that I shared a name and approximate age with the son of James Taylor & Carly Simon.
Vaya con dios!
My deepest condolences to his family.
I remember, in one of the first Symbols classes in the early 90s, listening to him discuss the concept of a bagel. It blew my mind in its simplicity. Through my college years, Prof Burton challenged me and laughed kindly at the discoveries that inspired me.
I saw Prof Burton at reunion this summer. It was crowded and I did not say hello. I figured I would send him a copy of my book when it came out this fall. I wanted him to know that I was still practicing what I learned from him.
you and he are in my thoughts.
Be gentle with yourselves as you process your grief, it is strange territory, unique to each individual. But know that you are never alone during this process. I would be happy to connect with the family if that would be any support.
With Love,
Kimberley "Cricket" Rogers (nee Foster)
My deepest condolences to his family for their loss.
He helped me understand other people in a way that I will never forget and will always benefit from....
He was my college advisor and mentor from day one.
RIP
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De tudnod kell, hogy Isten betudja tölteni a szívedben tátongó űrt a gyermekeiddel egyetemben, és a sebeid meggyógyíthatja, ha arra kéred és engeded.
Volt alkalmam erre a megtapasztalásra, s minden egyéb kísérlet után engedtem, hogy végül Isten vigasztaljon és meggyógyítson.
Kérni fogom Istent, hogy vegyen körbe titeket a Szeretetével, vigasztalja meg a szívetek, és töltsön be Békességgel mindannyitokat az elkövetkező évtizedekben.
SOK-SOK Szeretettel: Arnold és Klári
Fogadd őszinte részvétünket. Sok erőt, egészséget, kitartást kívánunk a gyerekek neveléséhez. Bennük biztos annyi örömöt , boldodogságot találsz, ami segít betölteni azt az űrt, amit John hagyott.
Erős lány vagy, minden sikerülni fog. Sokat gondolunk rád, kívánunk, sok erőt egészséget hozzá. Kívánunk még sokkal boldogabb újévet Vas Ági, Vas Józsi.
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I am writing from Yirol South Sudan. I am from the Atuot community the people where your husband conducted his research on our cultures. Today we are conducting memorial service for him today in our church organized by our community. I am sure you will receive the photos and videos for the service. I was young when John visited my village and met with my father and my uncles in Anuol. However when i visited America for the xfirst time in 2006, i phone Dr. John Burton to introduce myself and give him greetings from our people in Yirol, South Sudan.