Joseph Chomba, (1967 - 2016) - ForeverMissed.com Online Memorials

"It is not length of life, but depth of life"

49 years old
Born on August 1, 1967 in Kenya
Passed away on December 9, 2016 in London, United Kingdom

This memorial website was created in memory of our beloved, Joseph Ngoroi Chomba.

Joe had a short period of ill health and in the early hours of Friday 9 December 2016, he passed away peacefully. Joe was laid to rest on 21 December 2016 at his parents farm in Kabare.

One of the causes that was close to his heart was the education of children in particular in his home country Kenya. One of the charities that is supported by DUCKS, the Precious Sisters which supports the education of girls in various parts of Kenya greatly appealed to Joe and Janet. If you would like to learn more about the work of the Precious Sisters or if you would consider making a donation in Joe's memory to support their work, please see the attached link : http://precioussisters.org/

We have an assurance that Joe is only absent in body, but is present in spirit. We do not moan like those without hope.

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December 14, 2016

Good bye my friend
I will never forget the great moments we shared together at work and the discussions on footy after every weekend game. We discussed like pundits
You were a great friend and an asset in the office
May God Bless you
Sincere condolences to the family

December 14, 2016

I met Joe through our children, and though I only knew him for just over a year, he had become a very special friend. We shared many a moment at the school gate or in the car park (Joe was always first to arrive and secure the best parking space). Infact I used to arrive early for school too, as I so enjoyed our time to chat and Clemmie and Chomba'a time to play hide and seek. Joe's smile always brightened my day, it sent me off to work with a positive spring in my step.

Joe was such a special man. His love of life and laughter were infectious. He was a wonderful role model and Chomba is a testament to that.

My love and prayers are with Janet and Chomba. Joe's light will always shine bright and I know he will be watching over us with a glint in his eye and a smile on his face.

Rest in peace my dear friend who was taken too soon. Xxx

December 14, 2016

Joe was our dear friend at the school gate, always welcoming and friendly and the voice of calm in our hectic lives. He was first at the gate to collect Chomba and it was a pleasure to see Chomba run into his arms at the end of each day. We were also lucky enough to spend time with Joe watching Chomba and Sam play rugby on a Saturday morning where Joe would always make us laugh no matter what the weather was like or how muddy the boys got.
Joe’s wonderful nature shines through in Chomba who really is the little light of the class, caring for all the other children and with a huge smile on his face at all times.
Joe was taken from us too soon and his loss has left a huge hole in in so many hearts. It was a privilege to know you Joe, we miss you deeply already but know that you are watching over us all and will always remain in our hearts.

December 14, 2016

I met Joe in September 2015 when our children started school together. I wasn't working at the time and my days revolved around drop off and pick up, as did Joe's. So we saw each other plenty and nods of the head in the early weeks developed into much longer and funnier conversations as we got to know each other better. He was a school 'mum', one of us. At ease with both the mums and the dads and absolutely devoted to Chomba. I got to know Joe better on a parenting course which the school ran on a Monday night where we managed to escape the day and drink free red wine and talk about the trials and tribulations of parenting 3/4 year olds.

I will always remember Joe, his black gilet, beanie hat and smile.

We'll miss you Joe xx

December 14, 2016

A polite, witty, thoughtful and very supportive friend and colleague!

Well – that is who Chomba will always be to me.

We talked a lot. Bounced many ideas off each other and even at times laughed at some funny moments in our past and even at times managed to surprisingly get introduced to each other.

Chomba has always had the gift of imparting his wisdom without imposing himself. He has always been that person one knows they can talk to about issues in confidence. I will miss our long phone calls, his ever infectious laughter and his obvious pride and solid commitment to his family and friends too.

May God bless and give his family and loved ones peace and strength as we all celebrate the gift of our mutual experiences and moments with Chomba.

December 14, 2016

I have known uncle Joe for as long as I can remember. An addition to the family that seemed like the missing link we never noticed was even missing. Always able to make you laugh even when you didn't want to! Definitely a dad that loved his son with all his heart. One of the most dedicated parents I know. But more a loving husband. The thing about Joe is I always thought he was an angel who managed to pass for a human being here on earth. It was probably true. Joe couldn't walk into your life and leave you the same. He would leave laughter, a smile but more wisdom. He always knew what to say and when. You will be missed. But more your memory will be treasured. Much love.

December 13, 2016

O my - am so sad about this news. It is really a great loss. We all grew up together and Joe you will be so missed by many friends and most of all by your family! I rest in the legacy of your kid and wife and know that God will keep them. Rest in peace Joe. Love to the whole family and many prayers - Noni Maringa and Family

December 13, 2016

Dear Lord comfort the family during this period, dry away their tears and give them peace that surpasses all understanding.
It is well..... Comfort them Lord comfort them especially mum.
Peace. Joe till we meet again.
Amen.
Violet Maningo.

December 13, 2016

Our hearts are saddened by this news and our thoughts and prayers are with the family during this time. Shalom.

December 13, 2016

Farewell my friend. You will be sorely missed by your family at Southern Cross Safaris. We treasured our time with you and the many laughs we had together and were so sad when you left for UK. Now you have left us for good and we wish you well on your onward journey. You will never be forgotten. Our thoughts and prayers are with Janet and your family at this time. Love Torben, Beth, Malachi and Jordan

December 13, 2016

Heartfelt condolences to all the family, friends and all the near and dear ones. May God gives you the strength to bear the loss.
Joe will be fondly remembered and missed.
Sapna, Dinesh Disha and Dishti (Kenya)

December 13, 2016

Rest in my peace my dear friend. I cannot believe you're no longer with us. I will always the cherish the time we spent together, the laughs we shared and the memories made. You always had a smile on your face no matter what the situation. I know the Lord has a special place for you up in heaven.

My deepest and sincere condolences to Janet and your family. May the Lord give them strength to get through this difficult and trying time.

Rest in peace my friend. Until we meet again.

Lots of Love, Hasheem and Jamila Maloo.

December 13, 2016

We shall miss Joe's wit, laughter and finesse. Most of all, his love.

December 13, 2016

I knew Joe in 1981. But we didn't call him Joe. To us he was Chomba. Chomba was my room mate in Kagumo for four years and my friend throughout secondary school. We came from totally diverse family and social backgrounds but Chomba got along with everyone and we struck a very solid friendship. We kept in touch when he worked in Mombasa and when he went to London. I never saw him sad one day in his life and I remember him for his never ending humour and laughter. We were age mates, almost born the same day, my birthday being 4th August 1967. I have lost one of my oldest friends and a true brother.

December 13, 2016

Chomba was my boss and he was a very kind and dedicated person. I will never forget him. He was always there in any kind of situations. To me he was not only my boss, but a brother! You will be greatly missed and forever stuck in our hearts. My prayers go with you always... Love Dalillah

December 13, 2016

I will wear your memory proudly. My only brother, my true friend.May my love for you reach heaven above until we meet again.

December 13, 2016

Generous Joe, always smiling, open, warm, thoughtful and considerate. I have very fond memories of our many play dates together. Joe will be sorely missed by everyone that knew him. My deepest heartfelt condolences to Janet, Chomba and family at this very difficult time.

....."forever special Joe"......

December 13, 2016

Joe's been a true friend and the little brother I never had. Your hearty laughter and love will forever live in our hearts.

December 13, 2016

It has been a sad moment to see Joe passing away. I have known him for so many years dating back to 1987 and he has always been a friend and inspiration. We all pray for him and may his soul rest in peace.

December 13, 2016

Joe and I became friends through our children. Our boys are best friends at school, and I have never seen them falling out - mostly because of Chomba’s kind and peaceful nature that always finds a clever and positive way to turn difficult situations around. While sitting and observing Chomba and Nico, Joe and I shared stories, reflected on our children’s happiness, and spoke a lot about life in general - and Joe was so full of it! It did not take long for me to realise that Chomba’s approach to play was a direct reflection of Joe’s approach to life; they were very much in tune with one another.

Joe was an incredible man and father, and I am so thankful that I had the opportunity to actually express my admiration for him in person. His departure was premature, challenging our understanding of life itself. But we remain, and the people who Joe loved the most are the ones that we need to care for right now. May his legacy of kindness and love be multiplied amongst us, and directed towards his family.

God bless you all!

December 13, 2016

No Farewell Words Were Spoken, No Time To Say Goodbye.
My Sweet, Gentle, Beautiful Brother, How Much I Miss You.
And Everyday Throughout My Life I Will Think Of You.
Your Presence Is Ever So Near Me, Till We Meet Again Dear.
God Bless You.

December 12, 2016

It is well.

December 12, 2016

Will forever miss you Uncle Joe! I will never forget all the happy and great memories we share and all the moments we spent together as a family. You always put a smile on my face! May you Rest In Peace. Love,Ines.

December 12, 2016

The most wonderful uncle anyone could ask for! Never a moment i didn't look forward to a visit, just as there was never a moment that passed without laughs and positivity when we were together. He will be greatly missed by myself and all his nieces and nephews. Grateful to have only memories that put a smile on my face. Lots of love, Tara

December 12, 2016

Condolences to family - he left too soon. Will always remember his great humor and kindness. Love Teresa,Seppo,Zakiya and Niko from Finland

December 12, 2016

We are so very saddened to hear that our dear friend from Kenya has passed and is now with the Lord. May God bless his family and friends as we mourn our loss. You will be missed, Godspeed our friend. Love Jerome, Alison and Brother Louie

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December 19, 2023

I treasure the times we spent.. Rest at Jesus feet.

December 18, 2023

Dear Joe, how we miss you and forever you will remain alive in our hearts dear. R.I.P

December 15, 2023

Joe, time flies, I can't believe 7yrs have gone by ..
Fly with the angels.

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This picture was taken on 1.11.2011. We flew in from Ghana to make a surprise visit. I will never forget your reaction. The visit brought such joy. Rest In Peace dear brother. Miss you big.

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The Rose Beyond The Wall

December 17, 2016

A rose once grew where all could see,
sheltered beside a garden wall,
And as the days passed swiftly by,
it spread its branches, straight and tall...

One day, a beam of light shone through
a crevice that had opened wide
The rose bent gently toward its warmth
then passed beyond to the other side

Now, you who deeply feel its loss,
be comforted - the rose blooms there-
its beauty even greater now, nurtured by
God's own loving care

For Janet and Chomba with love and deep understanding.x

December 13, 2016

This photo was taken when my son Nicolas broke his collar bone and Chomba popped in for a visit accompanied by Jack. A few days later, both Nicolas and Chomba got chickenpox. Joe and I kept exchanging pictures of the boys doing silly things to cheer up their days. He always had a nice word or a top tip for us... He sent me the following message during a playdate that Nicolas had at their place:

"They never stopped. I think they had missed each other. It's a solid friendship."

I love reading these words, 'it's a solid friendship'. The way adults perceive their child's relations tell a lot about the way the children themselves enact these relationships.

- Thanks, Joe, for teaching your son the real value of a friendship, rest assured that it is reciprocal from our part.

Tribute from Alice

December 13, 2016

"He Ain't Heavy, He's My Brother"

The road is long
With many a winding turn
That leads us to who knows where
Who knows when
But I'm strong
Strong enough to carry him
He ain't heavy, he's my brother

So on we go
His welfare is of my concern
No burden is he to bear
We'll get there
For I know
He would not encumber me
He ain't heavy, he's my brother

If I'm laden at all
I'm laden with sadness
That everyone's heart
Isn't filled with the gladness
Of love for one another

It's a long, long road
From which there is no return
While we're on the way to there
Why not share
And the load
Doesn't weigh me down at all
He ain't heavy, he's my brother

He's my brother
He ain't heavy, he's my brother...

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