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Katie Moews (known to those of her youth as Marla "Kay" Oatman)

76 years young, with so much to live for...she loved to dance and sing (this is her singing on the site), she loved her family, and she loved and cared so much for her friends...

My sweet Mom, Marla Kay "Katie" Moews, was whisked away to heaven on January 15th, 2018, at 12:33am. There are no words to truly describe how amazing she was and just how much we loved her. We will miss her voice, her song, her warm caring hands, and eyes that could melt the hardest stone. I will miss talking to one of my best friends on the phone everyday...occasionally 5x a day... She fought an unexpected, epic battle, came back to us with her smiles, humor and love just in time for Christmas and then she was borne away on snow white wings. She remained truly beautiful inside and out to her last breath.

My mom loved and cared for so many...even those less fortunate in countries far away. She was a lioness with a loving heart. I hope she knows just how much we love her. Mom and Dad, married for 50.5 years, still held hands...their story wrote one of the truest kinds of love, their coming together--the stuff of fairy tales.

Thank you with all of our hearts for pulling so hard for her during that time and for joining hearts and hands in an incredible outpouring of prayers, love and energy. Albeit brief, and we wanted so much more, you helped give us a Christmas miracle and we were able to show her once more just how much we loved her. We thought we had her back....we are forever in disbelief....our universe was ripped apart, but she's still there with us, in everything beautiful, in every happy moment, in every unexpected surprise....and our love for each other holds us together.


"WOMEN LIKE YOU DROWN OCEANS" --(rupi kaur)--
My Sweet Mom, that quote comes to mind when I think of you and the depths behind your eyes, when I think of your spirit and beautiful soul that lingers in the light of dusk, in birds' song, that fills me up inside as the wind flows through me, and that brings me peace as I dive down into the abyssal sea. I think of you and celebrate you every single day. Thank you for always being there, my angel, my mom.

Friends and Family: There are tabs above where you can read, see, or add to Katie's life story (Life, Gallery, Stories). Please add to these. We have decided to keep this site as a tribute to Katie and for the memories and family and friends to go to, forever. Thank you, with all of our hearts....Katie's, the biggest of all.

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Celebration of "Katie's Song" (2018) --here's what took place:


For those of you who knew and loved Marla Kay "Katie" Moews, we had a beautiful celebration for her on July 7 - 8, 2018 up at our cabins, at 10,000 ft in the Colorado Rockies. She brought together over 300 family members and friends (from our distant past to new found friends from all over the country) in love, warmth, song, and memories over the course of a few days, from "tea and scones" at her brand new cabin, Ravin's Lodge (that my dad built for her), to "Katie's Song" at ye olde cabin--"home." In the words from a song that she wrote, Quiet Solitude, "There's power in these mountains, there's legends and there's gold.... In these majestic mountains, I'll live as I grow old...."

Together, we raised over $7,000 for charities in her honor...that's what she would have done--because she cared.

Thank you EVERYONE for your love and the incredible amount of assistance that SO MANY GAVE! It was heart-breaking, but a truly heart-warming gathering of amazing friends and family. I believe my mom was there with us in awe of all of the love.

Love,

The Moews Family


MAKING A DONATION TO A CHARITABLE CAUSE IN HONOR OF KATIE

Charitable Organizations that Katie carefully researched, believed in, and donated to:
1) Doctors without Borders, doctorswithoutborders.org
 Medical aid in often-dangerous, war-torn, poverty stricken countries worldwide. Only 1.4% of donations goes to administrative costs & salaries-90% of donations go directly to help the less fortunate.
2) Mercy Corps, mercycorps.org
Emergency aid: housing, clothing, food to refugees in war, famine or plague stricken areas throughout the world…
approximately 87% of donations goes directly to those in need.
3) World Vision, worldvision.org
A faith-based organization that believes in direct help to individual families or children thru the donation of funds for education, books, clothing, food, seed, goats, cattle, chickens etc. You sponsor a specific child/children in need.
4) Salvation Army, salvationarmy.org
The Salvation Army takes care of individuals in need both in the United States and abroad. It provides immediate help with food, water, clothing, medical aid & shelter to disaster stricken sites worldwide. It also helps with drug and alcohol addiction and homeless programs… It’s CEO is the lowest paid ($13,000) of any charitable organization in the world.

Katie also donated regularly to different local Child Welfare, Human Trafficking, Women’s and Drug/Alcohol abuse programs… & actively sought out individuals in our community that needed help, guidance or just someone to care.

Help Katie continue to help the less fortunate, the sick, the sad, the lonely, the downtrodden, the lost, those who need love…

January 15, 2023
January 15, 2023
I lit candles for you today, my mom....I miss you just as much today as I have everyday since God took you to his side. You are our angel now....Sing the stars, sunbeams, snowflakes, and warmth down to us to help fill our hearts.
January 15, 2023
January 15, 2023
I think of Kay each time I pass Her Mother / Father's Gravestone at Cliff Hill as you pass on Monroe Street here in Versailles, In. Kay was like my older Sister and I will love her forever ...... Jack Demaree
August 5, 2020
August 5, 2020
I think of Katie often, especially when I sing De Colores which I did recently. We learned that song from her at a campout at Rancho Corrido. She sang a verse I’ve never heard anywhere else. It had the most beautiful words and painted such a beautiful picture. She sang it with Carol Garro.
August 5, 2018
August 5, 2018
Remembering Katie on the anniversary of her birth. She was born just one month before me. She shall be remembered forever by loving hearts.
July 7, 2018
July 7, 2018
We just recently learned of Katie’s passing. Our feeling of deep sorrow was immediate. Katie was an amazing person, she was kind, caring, helpful and loving; attributes she shared so generously with others.
We met Ted and Katie shortly after buying property in San Juan Vista in the late 1980’s. They were easy to get to know and we quickly understood that they were going to be our best hope on how to survive high mountain living. We, like many on the mountain, were “wanna be” mountain folk and didn’t have much of a chance of enduring the environment without some tutoring and help which they so willingly gave. We remember times during construction when Ted and Katie would stop by to see how we were doing and Katie, standing there with her hands in her pockets, telling Ted to help with something we were struggling with. I’m sure she meant to help get it done right and before the snow starts flying! Over the years they were easy to love and we appreciated the knowledge they shared. They became one of the true joys of our family’s mountain life adventure. Our grandkids, Taylor and Logan, came to our cabin with us from the time they were two years old. They took stories home to their mom and dad about seeing Ted and Katie. They would giggle and laugh about seeing the “monkeys” on top of the totem poles.
As we reflect back it has been difficult to refer only to Katie. To us, Ted and Katie are uniquely one, the most identical pair of people we have ever known. Our hearts go out to our friend Ted and the Moews family. May God comfort you and bring you peace.
Katie, we will miss your smile, your warm heart and your kind loving spirit. You were a treasure to know, a true lady and a very special person. Your songs and spirit will live on forever in the hearts of all who knew you. God rest your soul in the comfort of His arms.
Darold and Jeanne Sloan
Cedaredge, CO
July 1, 2018
July 1, 2018
We first met Katie at a campout of three folk music groups at Rancho Corrido in Southern California. She was singing "De Colores" with Carol Garro. Such a beautiful voice!! We became friends with her and Ted over the years at the meetings of the Riverside Folk Song Society. The last time we saw her was at our home in Covina prior to our move to Cambria in 1987. She and Ted were visiting from their new home in Colorado and surprised us by showing up at the folk club meeting at our house. If Jerry had not passed away this past April we would have been attending Katie's Song. I am sending love to Ted, Megan and the entire family.
June 27, 2018
June 27, 2018
The first time I met Katie, she looked at my husband, Jeff, and said "you didn't tell us she was so pretty". That was classic Katie - always ready to make a stranger feel welcome. Over the next 20 years I grew to love Katie. She was uniquely compassionate and a fierce champion of the underdog. Jeff and I were married in Ted and Katie's back yard in Hawaii. Katie made our wedding much more meaningful and beautiful than it would have otherwise been. She and Ted hosted both my mother and daughter many times in their small Hawaiian paradise. They opened their home and hearts to people they had never met without a second thought. We ended up sleeping practically on top of each other but we were always welcomed with joy. I will miss my friend, her radiant smile and her "hello, hello" on the phone.
June 26, 2018
June 26, 2018
My husband Dave and I had nine wonderful years in San Juan Vista. Our friends Sylvia and Mike Geeslin brought us to the mountains and welcomed us as neighbors when we decided to build a place. They introduced us to Katie and Ted in the fall of 1993, and Ted helped us with our driveway, our well, a site and plans for our cabin and much more. Our friendships with the Geeslins and with Katie and Ted brought us to a greater appreciation of what we had in that beautiful location. We were good friends and had good times together. Sylvia gave me my first diary, and through the years I filled five more about our life on the mountain. Here are a few memories:

December 22, 1995
Katie and Ted loaned us a snowmobile to use while we are here this Christmas. We took a spin around the circle at dusk. I slid off the back and landed in the snow--didn't hurt! We had so much fun we drove to Norwood the next day and ordered a Bearcat 440, like Ted's.
October 28, 1996
Katie is making a buckskin, beaded, fringed skirt for Megan. If I were to receive such a gift, would I wear it or would I hang it on our wall, the work of art that it is? The moonrise was mysterious, backlighting low clouds over the ridge.
December 18, 1997
As we approached Katie and Ted's cabin this evening, it looked like a Christmas card, luminarias lighting the snow, candles on the porch, snow on the roof, smoke curling out the chimney. Dave told Ted he should draw this scene for a Christmas card. He already had. Inside was festive and ready for the holidays. Megan arrives tomorrow.
March 19, 1997
Beth and Ray and Dave and I traded numerous stories of how Katie and Ted and Pat and Chuck had bailed us out of difficult situations.
June 18, 1997
I took fruit salad to the surprise 30th anniversary party Megan arranged for her parents. We met the Knights and many others from San Juan Vista and beyond. Duane Beamer grilled brats, the food was wonderful. Marie Yates made Katie a birdhouse for their anniversary. Katie got Ted a buffalo robe, and she had pictures made of herself in Beth's wedding dress. Megan is in her fifth year at CU Boulder, working on a degree in marine archeology.
September 17, 1997
We cleaned and cooked for our party tonight. Rain came just as everyone arrived, then the sun came out giving us a huge, double rainbow, followed by a beautiful sunset and amazing cloud formations. There were eleven of us, Katie and Ted and guest Steve Peterson, Pat and Chuck, Barbara Z, Joe and Marie, and Joe's brother harpoon Harry. After dinner we looked at Jupiter and its moons. The moon rose among clouds, lighting the aspen bark in the meadow.
October 11, 1997
We had a wonderful evening at Barb's Z Lodge. We met Rusty and Keith McNeil, friends of Katie and Ted. Keith played "Amazing Grace" on his bagpipes, and we all sang "America the Beautiful" around a bonfire. Rusty, Keith, and Katie sang, then Jamie Peterson and Marie sang. Sylvia and Barb said it was a "Mountain Moment". After dinner we had a birthday cake and candles for Ted, October 19, and for me, October 17. Ted said I had a forest of candles, just like him. True.
November 28, 1997
We snowmobiled to Katie and Ted's, took our photos and talked about diving and Australia. Matt was there for Thanksgiving. He lives in Denver, works for a church, gets tuition and a salary, too. Pretty nice. Orion rose just above the ridge in the eastern sky, Venus in the southwest.
December 30, 1997
We spent the morning doing chores and preparing for our New Year's Eve party. There were twelve of us, Katie and Ted, Sylvia and Mike, Cheney and Jennifer, Jeannie and Darold, and Marie and Joe. Darold brought pork tenderloin, we had ham, scalloped potatoes, my mother's molded salad, green salad, and cookies and ice cream. A wonderful evening. After everyone left, Dave and I rode around the circle, the stars above the ghost-like aspen lit by our lights. As Dave drove through the groves, I hung on behind. We stopped by the willows at precisely midnight for a kiss under the starlit sky. Happy New Year!
June 4, 1999
Katie and Ted are headed for DIA tomorrow. Megan flies to Hawaii for the graduate program at the university.
September 18, 1999
The weather cooperated--more than that--it was a knockout day, even by San Juan Vista standards. Clouds hovered above the Sneffles Range, but no rain. We couldn't have ordered up a more beautiful day for Beth and Jay Bombardieri's wedding in their meadow. A touching ceremony, easy to see those two are destined for a long and happy life. A delicious lunch was followed by cake with raspberries and ice cream. Good friends and neighbors celebrated their happiness.
December 31, 1999
A New Year's Eve party at Sylvia and Mike's cabin, Cheney and Jennifer, Janice, Brian and Kevin Rogers, Katie and Ted, Jeannie and Darold and their two grandchildren, Joe Yates, Barbara and Gary and us. We ate a lot, toasted New Years New York time with sparkling cider and champagne. Sylvia had a burning bowl ceremony. We each wrote something down we wanted to get rid of in the New Year, gave it to her, she burned it in the wood stove, and in exchange, we received a new fortune. Dave brought the words to Auld Lang Syne, which we all sang, then he gave everyone a fortune cookie.
April 12, 2000
Ted called to say the road was being plowed today. We drove up to the A frame in the afternoon to see what everything looked like. Huge rolls of snow curled by the plow lined the road. I cooked for Dave's birthday party. We had sixteen people, counting us. Levi gave Dave a Mountain Power hat. I had a birthday cake with candles. Dave joked that I was happy he was 62 and could draw Social Security. Ted took Dave down to the parking lot to pick up Dave's sled left there by the Heinholts on their way home. Ted sank in the soft snow, right into a small pond. Dave had trouble, too. But, as usual, everyone got home in spite of the snowmelt.

Mike Geeslin passed away July 3, 2009, and now Katie is gone from us, too. She wrote a beautiful poem, "In Memory of Mike" which was read at his memorial service:
"He made the mountains ring with laughter
His stories...they were gold.....
And in his cabin on the mountain
Even greater would unfold.
Everybody loved him...and he loved us in return.
He'd give you anything he had
Or help you if he could...
Coffee was always ready - rum & coke was understood!
Sylvia was the best cook on the mountain
and they fed their friends so well....
Then we'd sit and tell our stories
And what stories we would tell!
Mike's eyes would twinkle brightly,
He'd chuckle and he'd grin, then he' laugh
and tell another and we'd go around again.
Mikie's part of this mountain!
His memory rings here still!
We ALL loved him dearly
and the mountain always will!"
          --km
If we could
We would write a poem as beautiful
as this one for Katie.
We all loved her.
We always will.
We will always miss her.
Love to all Katie and Ted's family and friends from Dianne and Dave
May 21, 2018
May 21, 2018
Thanks to long time friend Marilyn Sequoia for the beautiful poem:
"Katie’s Eyes…
Warm and so brown,
Deep and wide,
Her eyes caress you in welcome,
An invitation to the dance.
You can see
Her soul in those eyes:
She wants to know your life
And tell you hers…
Playful loyal leaf
Blown west from Indiana,
Witnessing the tall man falling in the stream--
She finishes his sentences ever more.
Mountain woman then,
Singing their songs.
Helping the helpless,
Everyone she meets.
Her soul our reflection
Held in Love."
~~~
Lovingly Dedicated to Marla Kay “Katie” Moews
August 5, 1941 - January 15, 2018
From Marilyn Smolik Sequoia (aka Leggett)
April 26, 2018
April 26, 2018
Katie's Love of God was a beautiful thing to behold. It was a deeply moving thing-living with someone who lived the kind of life that, I believe, God would wish us to live. She grew up at her Mother's side where she saw-first hand-the actions of someone who sought throughout her life to live by Christ's precepts. Neither seeking nor accepting approval or recognition of any sort for their actions, they both quietly went about God's handiwork. 

Katie spent much of her daily life alone in our remote Cabin, far away from towns & churches. She also suffered excruciating daily migraine headaches, relentlessly they shaped her life but could not hold her down. Chron's Disease would sometimes double her up in pain & render her unable to eat, (several times throughout her life she would weigh well under a hundred pounds due to the ravages of this chronic disease).. The only relief from which was often midnight dashes to the emergency room at the nearest hospital ( regardless of where we were in the world at the time). Consequently she did not have much opportunity to attend church regularly ( although when she was young-she earned her "16 year pin for never missing Sunday School!"

Katie read her Bible everyday without fail, using it as God intended as a guide and mentor for her actions. If she learned of someone locally who needed a helping hand, needed help financially, or just needed the comfort of someone's presence, Katie was there. Her reach was not just local, but her helping healing hands were extended around the world to help relieve suffering, poverty, & famine-to help with drilling wells in drought stricken lands, to providing school books to children in third world countries, to providing the tools, livestock or financial assistance necessary to give hope to the hopeless.

But don't get me wrong-Katie was no bleeding heart wimp. If there was injustice or perceived wrong, she was also fearless, confronting public officials, angry bullies, child abusers, or menacing gun-toting creeps alike-she would push ahead fearlessly-never heeding the potential danger-to help the abused, the downtrodden and the wronged. She would openly weep for those suffering from natural and man-made disasters & the unending heart-rending march of war-trying to carry the burdens of world on her back. Katie also prayed constantly, whatever she was doing if she wasn't singing aloud, she was praying for the sick, the "Lost, Lonely & Wretched".. for those whom nobody loves & those with nobody to love.

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January 15, 2023
January 15, 2023
I lit candles for you today, my mom....I miss you just as much today as I have everyday since God took you to his side. You are our angel now....Sing the stars, sunbeams, snowflakes, and warmth down to us to help fill our hearts.
January 15, 2023
January 15, 2023
I think of Kay each time I pass Her Mother / Father's Gravestone at Cliff Hill as you pass on Monroe Street here in Versailles, In. Kay was like my older Sister and I will love her forever ...... Jack Demaree
August 5, 2020
August 5, 2020
I think of Katie often, especially when I sing De Colores which I did recently. We learned that song from her at a campout at Rancho Corrido. She sang a verse I’ve never heard anywhere else. It had the most beautiful words and painted such a beautiful picture. She sang it with Carol Garro.
Her Life

Our beautiful Mom/Katie is Now with God

June 30, 2018

Our sweet little Mama/Katie, was whisked away to heaven on January 15th. There are no words to truly describe how amazing she was, how incredibly devastated we are, and just how much we will always love her. We will miss her voice, her powerful song, her warm caring hands, and the incredible sparkle in her eyes. We hope she knows just how much we love her. She fought an unexpected, yet epic battle, came back to us with her smiles, humor and love just in time for Christmas and then she was borne away on snow white wings. She remained truly beautiful inside and out to her very last breath.

As you may know, she loved and cared for so many... She was a lioness with a loving heart. Mom (Katie) and Dad (her "Teddy"), married for 50.5 years, still held hands...their story wrote one of the truest kinds of love, their coming together--the stuff of fairy tales.

Thank you with all of our hearts for pulling so hard for her and for us as we fought to save her and for joining together in an incredible outpouring of prayers, love and energy. Against all odds, we had a chance to be with her one last time. We thought we had her back....we are still in disbelief....our universe has been ripped apart....

MLK Day has taken on additional meaning (Marla Kay Day). Only mom could get away with that.....

And yes, that IS her pretty voice singing in the background....old tape recordings from the 70's. Click here for more of Katie Moews singing....there's also more in the "gallery".

Recent stories

Letter from Katie to her mom

January 15, 2023
Letter my cousin Nick found...pretty funny...

Lin's Birthday Present from Katie

January 17, 2022
When Katie was about 5 years old  and her older sister Lin's birthday came around; she went to Elvin's Service Station on the corner and bought her favorite Candy Bar (a Clark bar)as a present for Lin.  As the day wore on and she carried around that candy bar, glancing more and more longlingly at it, she finally resolved that she had to give it to Linnie.  She just could not keep it for herself-no matter how much she wanted it.  That evening after dinner she proudly gave her sister that precious Birthday Present.  When Lin unwrapped it- there it was..... a very carefully measured .....   
1/2 of a Clark Bar.

One of Katie’s Practical Jokes

August 9, 2020
Katie loved to sing...there was a home  recording from when she was a little girl where she introduces herself and says with her Indiana accent: “ Hi my name is Kay and I lack to sing”...
Back to my story:
 She was a newcomer to The Riverside Folk Song Society so not many members knew her, and the group had been invited to have their meeting  at Jerry & Bev Praver’s home.   So Katie and her new friend Carol Garro got together and decided to sing “De Colores” and “Tres Heridas”.  They came up with the idea that Carol would introduce Katie as her cousin from South America and tell everyone that Katie didn’t speak any English.  Since she was fairly fluent in Spanish there were some interesting conversations flowing about her before the program began that were often quite amusing.
When They performed their two songs everyone was enthralled with their performance, their voices blended wonderfully and their Spanish accents lent an exotic flavor to their performance.  Well at break time a small crowd of admirers  gathered around her and in broken Spanish tried to communicate with her, asking where she was from, complimenting their performance etc. She shyly replied to their attempts with the graciousness one would expect from a well educated young woman from South America.  When the group settled down for the second half of the evening, Carol and Katie were asked to perform another song... When it came time to introduce the song, Katie proceeded to explain the story behind their choice in flawless English ( with a slight Indiana twang).  As members of the group began to catch on,they realized  that they’d been had by those two.... snickers and then laughter rolled through the audience.  Carol and Katie then performed their lastsong in English to the delight of all....

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