That big smile. That warm chuckle. That intensity. That big heart at Joan Franciso's funeral where you got me to play guitar with you. A Life That Was Loved Was Not Wasted.

Kayode, one of the most unique and special people I ever met, continue to rest in perfect peace. Funlola

A remarkable life, remarkable friend, remarkable mentor.. Music, Martial arts, Motivation. You're fondly remembered everytime I play Lágrima on nylon string guitar, the way you taught.... Every note, a tear drop. Your legacy lives on dear Kayode my friend. RIP

Dear Ky,

I only heard about the news of your passing today, through Yunus, and am, like him, in shock. I had only just messaged you on Facebook to wish you a happy birthday.

We spent the formative years of our lives together at St Marylebone Grammar School, and learnt much from each other. I remember going to some martial arts shop in Soho with you during a summer holiday. I remember your fondness for the movie The Warriors and how your toughness melded so serenely with your humour and your philosophical take on life. After school, we didn't see each other for years until we serendipitously bumped into each other on the Jubilee line in our 40s! And, apart from a little less hair, we picked up exactly where we had left off. You were an extraordinary man with grace and elegance and ridiculously large muscles. And you were so compassionate and so much fun to be with. I am glad we were able to share some of our life's journeys in each other's company.

Your friend,

Ab

Always on my heart on 13 January ❤️❤️

A decent and compassionate human being if there ever was one. Continue to rest in perfect peace, Kayode. Much love, Segun

Thinking about you old friend and lighting a candle to commemorate.
Anis

We remember you today, Kayode, on your Birthday. As a great servant. Rest well. Thank you for reminding us what is possible when you believe. Your greatest gift, was kindness. Your life continues to be celebrated.

Birthday wishes, Ky. The world is an emptier place without you. Peace & love, Yunus

Still lost for words.
Happy Birthday, My First Love. x

Always loved...
Never forgotten...
Forever missed.

Happy Birthday Dad <3
Xx

Dear Ky,
Wow what a horrible shock, only found out now and am dumbfounded. You were in my bro’s class 4 years below at St. Marylebone Grammar School all those years ago but I always loved your company and enthusiasm for life. I always tell anyone that wants to hear how you strengthened your arms in hot sand so when you injured it once the A&E doctors broke the suture needle because your skin was so tough.
You gave me advice often and you’re an inspiration to many people I’m sure even to this day.
Love you bro. x

Dear Ky,
I am completely shocked to discover just now of your passing and more shocked to find out you passed away over 2 year ago. I feel so guilty for not picking up the phone more frequently. We first met at St. Marylebone Grammar School in 1975 and remained thick as thieves ever since not withstanding our Marvel vs. DC Comics and Man United vs. Chelsea rivalries. I just told my daughter who is also shocked - she remembers playing PlayStation 2 with you here in Switzerland nearly 15 years ago and seeing you last at my 50th birthday bash in London. My condolences go out to your daughter, your sister, your brothers who I all know well and the rest of your family and friends.
Rest easy, brother x
Yunus

My dear friend Ky
I am in shock having only just heard of your passing in June 2018.
We were at school together at St Marylebone Grammar School and whilst we only caught up a few times since leaving school, I always enjoyed our get-togethers and remember your kindness and humour. Yunus’ 50th birthday celebrations immediately spring to mind.
Always looking for the positives in life and saying ‘everything is beautiful’.
My heartfelt condolences to your family.
I miss you my good friend.
Alex

Dear Kayode....
I miss your warm smile...
I miss the twinkling in your eyes when you smile..
I miss our long conversations ....
I miss you Kayode ...i miss my friend...
Continue to rest in peace ........

Dear Kayode, Still missed. Deepest respect bro. Nice to tributes roll in 2 years later. You will always be remembered. Maybe one day I will get to meet you family.. Andrew

Ky, two years have rolled by and I miss you. I especially remember you in prayer. I can only pray that when we do meet, it shall be in Paradise bro so I pray for Aljannah Firdaos for you always. Amen

It's been 2 years Cuz. We all miss you. But glory to God we are moving on in his might. 

D1...Big shoes to fill, but I’ll keep doing my best by the Grace of God
You are truly missed...

Continue to rest in perfect peace, Kayode. GOD bless you.

2 years... To say I miss you is a gross understatement. Rip dear Kayode

Continue to rest in peace, my First Love.

2 years today and way too soon. I love you, daddy. I can’t wait to become everything you said I would be, everything you prepared me for. I promise to make you proud.

Xx

My heart skipped a beat when I got to hear of your demise. This is a sharp reminder to always keep in touch with friends as the jaws of death can deprive you from having an opportunity to say goodbye. Our few interactions left a lasting impression and I am proud to say you are among the few who came, saw and conquered. Rest in peace Sir.

Happy birthday my First love x

Happy 2nd PH birthday Kayode! You are missed greatly

Still on my mind... miss you a great deal Cuz. Its been progress since you left painfully without those little hello calls for updates ... but am hanging in there, we would have gathered for your 55th but.. I am grateful for the years we had together... Rest on Egbon Mi

55. Happy Birthday Daddy, I love you always. Xx

Kayode and I sat on the same panel at the 2016 WIMBIZ conference in Lagos.
We met a couple of days before to agree on how the specifics along with Maymunah Kadiri. The topic of our discussion was Finding Your Happy.
Kayode was big, strong, bubbly, positive, energetic. He left a very strong and lasting impression on me.
I was shocked to see a post by Maymunah today on FB that included RIPP Kayode and I went online to search.
When our hospital was moving to a new location end 2017/early 2018, I called Kayode to see if he would be interested in providing some wellness therapy to some of my patients and he said he would think about it and get back to me.
I never heard from him again. Little did I know he had passed on.
He’s reunited with his Mum who meant so much to him. In our brief interactions, he communicated that clearly to me.
RIP dear Kayode

I just learned about the passing of Steve "Kayode" Fahm from a mutual friend of ours in Stockholm, Sweden. I was heartbroken to hear the news. We used to work out together in our London days on Fleet Street in the early 1990s and had the pleasure of working out with him in the gym. What an amazing soul, friend and person. The world lost a great person. The power of his kindness was enormous, his presence will be missed. He made everyone a better person. My belated condolences to all who knew him and to his family. Andrew, Bermuda

It is surreal that you are gone. You really had a way of making one feel special, and I miss that and many more beautiful memories about you. You taught me how to be quite within, and made me think twice if not three time about any and every decision I made. My fondest of memories was when we watched one of your favorite movies...’Vick, Christina Barcelona’, so very interesting how you found some of your music inspirations, and your ability to share with those you cared for. Tolu I just want you to know How truly blessed you are to have had this graceful men as your Dad.  Also with all the conversations I’ve had with Yiur Dad, at some point in those conversations, your name would always come up and your granny’s memories would also filler through all our conversation, that’s how I know he loved you so much.  You are and always be his baby girl. He was so proud of you and supported every dream you had and all he wanted was to make sure you grow up to be the beautiful, independent women your are today. I feel like I know you personally, that is how much he spoke about you. Stay focused, he left you many gifts, with time they will be revealed. I pray to God to guide you, and always remember that he is still here with us in spirit, only the body is resting, and may his perfect soul Rest In Peace. Kayode, you will always be remembered, and we thank God for your time with us on this earth.

Ky,
All we have left are the memories bro. All we can do now is continue to pray for you, which I do. i miss you my brother.

Sad and Sudden was the call. One Year ago, you were called to rest. Today recalls the memory of those who knew you, loved you and were blessed to have connected with you on this side of eternity. The flowers laid upon the grave may wither, the tributes and music now silent, but nothing can ever take away the memories, these linger each day, your kindly words for everyone, your smile and pleasant manner lighting up the world wherever you went.
Kayode, as you continue to sleep peacefully, your memories we shall always keep with us. Rest well my brother.

K, l am still in shock. God knows best. l recall some of the projects we worked on together : Arrows of God orphanage, Pan Atlantic University.The Motivational Reality Videos. They were fun and very fulfilling. You were truly a very dependable friend/ brother and l miss you dearly. Continue to rest in perfect peace. May God give Nana and Tolu the strength to carry on ln Jesus name Amen.

Dear Kayode, can't believe its already a year since you passed away. Fondly remembered. Glad we met. Your friend turns 70 in a few weeks by God's Grace...no doubt you would have been in attendance... but we know you will be smiling down on that day...enjoying the musical performances lol!. Continue to rest in peace.

365 days ago heaven gained a new star. I am still inspired by your kindness and warmth to everyone you encountered.
Paths cannot be taught only taken...find your gift, then give it away...those words a very comforting as I continue to push ahead in life... This world misses you greatly but we are comforted by your legacy.
Continue to rest in power our egbon Kayode Fahm.

Hey Kayode. Your journey on earth remains a reference point for significant, purposeful lives. GOD bless you, my friend, and GOD bless and uphold your loved ones. Continue to rest in perfect peace. Amen.

Dear Kayode,
Leyla (Tolulope) is making you proud. We pray that God will continue to comfort and heal her heart, because we know you’ll want her to be happy. We trust that you are reigning in peace

Surreal is what this is! Saturday 23 June 2018 feels just like yesterday, except it is a full year back, when I checked in with you as I normally did and you mentioned not feeling too well & was going to rest. And take your eternal rest you did buddy...you are now resting with the angels and we, your loved ones, are still coming to terms with the cruel hand of death. You slipped away peacefully, just as you lived, and on reflection I think just how beautiful that passing was! I thank God for you...for the person you were...the great dad, son, uncle, friend, mentor and colleague to so many of us. Your physical presence is missed all over the world yet we know you still live in our hearts - forever in our hearts and never to be forgotten! What a beautiful friend you were to me and I today I celebrate our friendship. Rest in eternal peace my friend❤️

Dear Cousin,its already a year !just like yesterday. Thankfully I remember you with utmost fondness and grateful for the times past. I miss you greatly 'egbon mi' keep resting in peace.

The head of our family, my friend & my partner. There are just no words, but that you are truly missed. Rest in peace my First love x.

23/06/18 14:42pm. I didn’t know those 24 minutes on the phone would be the last time I heard your voice. There’s not much to say except that I miss you and I will always miss you. You are one in a million, a spirit irreplaceable and all I want to do now is make you proud. Rest in Peace, Daddy. X

I had the honour of knowing this man. He was inspirational, warm, and lived life to the full. He touched many lives, and we are lucky that we can see on the internet just how passionate he was about music , his family, and enjoying the gifts we are given in this life. Rest in Peace dear friend, you are very loved and remembered.

Hmm Dear Cuz.......really lost for words.... the new year is here, your birthday passed without hearing that voice. Al I can say is that it is well! Miss you so much...

Happy Birthday my First Love. x

Happy Birthday Daddy. There are no words, but that I miss you every day. xx

May your soul continue to rest in peace Kayode. Happy birthday to you today, as I remember you in a happy way.

I am very heartbroken to hear of the death of my friend ky.
For almost a decade whilst he was working in london we became very close friends. He came into my gym in london back in '89...I'm a competitive bodybuilder...and quietly watched me training intensly until one day he approached me and asked if he could join in. Normally i NEVER train with anyone, but there was something about his aura, so i welcomed him. That was the beginning of our years of friendship. In fact i went to his wedding, where i was supposed to have sang. I also sing...and i remember encouraging him to pursue his guitar training! I also shared the news of his new born daughter with him...& met his beloved mother! The other interest we both shared were comics. He was into the kung fu chronologies...i was into conan. In fact i introduced him to my comic book shop in tottenham, london. It would honour me to have contact with his family...especially his daughter... as i have some pics of us together when he accompanied me to one of my contests.
But once again my very most heartfelt condolences to his family.
-Paul Simpson

OMG, am still in shock I never knew that will be the end.
we spoke on the 22nd and he was full of life. Tolulope may Almighty God comfort you and your Mum. May his gentle soul rest in peace

Kay, hai toccato il mio cuore in un modo speciale. Fa male che te ne sei andato. Possa tu riposare in pace nel Bossom del Signore